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    feeling depressed as **** (srs)

    My gf was my best friend. She wasn't perfect but she was so fun to hang out with and do **** with.

    Now i work 9 to 5 in an office of 10 people.

    After work i go to the gym. On Monday nights i play in a 5 a side outdoor soccer team with friends all the way back ffrom high school which is good. On Sundays i play indoor soccer wih some random guys i joined their team.

    I use tinde and online dating sites but most girls i meet are really trashy.

    I sometimes go to bars bymyself but i'm short and not the best looking guy.

    I get so depressed. Friday night i just spent the night watchin soccerr then saturday i just si tin my room and browse the misc, facebook , fap to porn and miss my ex.

    Someimes i'll go to the shops just to walk around.

    Some days i feel fine but othe times i get real depessed.

    what cana i do? eveything feels so lonely and purposless
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    She ain't special brah. You'll find another one like her or better. Get over it and stfu.
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    Originally Posted by spadelexus View Post
    How old are you?
    i'm 25 but she was my first girlfriend.

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    She ain't special brah. You'll find another one like her or better. Get over it and stfu.
    That's what i'd like to believe but i don't think i'll find a better girl. I think that's just something that's said to make people feel better?

    My looks are deteriorating (receding hair etc) and my options aren't great (Only have tinder/online dating apps) . This girl was fun, into gym like me and super sexy. I haven't found anyone better?
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    just spent an hour at the park we used to hang out with her at now i feel like cryin
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    Originally Posted by PrepaidExpress View Post
    i'm 25 but she was my first girlfriend.



    That's what i'd like to believe but i don't think i'll find a better girl. I think that's just something that's said to make people feel better?

    My looks are deteriorating (receding hair etc) and my options aren't great (Only have tinder/online dating apps) . This girl was fun, into gym like me and super sexy. I haven't found anyone better?
    So at 25 you have had one girlfriend yet won’t ever find a better girl? I feel your pain but that’s a pretty silly statement. You’ve got like 12-15 solid years of dating ahead of you if that’s what you want. My absolute best years dating were from 30-35.

    If you can seriously go to clubs alone that’s awesome. It’s hard to pick up chicks cold unless you’re a Brad Cooper type. Your life actually seems pretty normal.
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    Originally Posted by PrepaidExpress View Post
    i'm 25 but she was my first girlfriend.



    That's what i'd like to believe but i don't think i'll find a better girl. I think that's just something that's said to make people feel better?

    My looks are deteriorating (receding hair etc) and my options aren't great (Only have tinder/online dating apps) . This girl was fun, into gym like me and super sexy. I haven't found anyone better?
    You're being insecure; if you take good care of yourself, you'll be able to find another chick,
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    You’ll settle into being by yourself and it won’t be so bad. Take from me op, my ex left me 1.8 year ago. I still think about her, but I’m not lonely. I’ve dated plenty of girls, and I find myself just wanting to hang out home by myself or just go out with my guy friends. I guess for me if I really wanted a girl to hang out with I can make it happen cause I have a few girls I talk to, but I’m currently in the process of dropping them.
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    Originally Posted by dolvioblue View Post
    So at 25 you have had one girlfriend yet won’t ever find a better girl? I feel your pain but that’s a pretty silly statement. You’ve got like 12-15 solid years of dating ahead of you if that’s what you want. My absolute best years dating were from 30-35.

    If you can seriously go to clubs alone that’s awesome. It’s hard to pick up chicks cold unless you’re a Brad Cooper type. Your life actually seems pretty normal.
    Really though? I mean i'm nott the best lookin guy by the time i'm 30 i'll just be some bald manlet.

    Originally Posted by BlackScorpio91 View Post
    You're being insecure; if you take good care of yourself, you'll be able to find another chick,
    maybe so man. I just spend thte day with my friend now i feel bette.

    Originally Posted by Coolman468 View Post
    You’ll settle into being by yourself and it won’t be so bad. Take from me op, my ex left me 1.8 year ago. I still think about her, but I’m not lonely. I’ve dated plenty of girls, and I find myself just wanting to hang out home by myself or just go out with my guy friends. I guess for me if I really wanted a girl to hang out with I can make it happen cause I have a few girls I talk to, but I’m currently in the process of dropping them.
    you just said you'e tall and aeshethic in anoher friend
    i'm not i don't have so many options
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    How tall are you? Post a picture of your hairline please.

    Get back to us.
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    Originally Posted by dolvioblue View Post
    How tall are you? Post a picture of your hairline please.

    Get back to us.
    i'm 5'6

    i can't find a pic of my hairline right now but it's gettin worse. ill upload i when i my phone charges

    It's hard to get over. She had an incredible body and she was a sexual freak. I wsih i never met her o dated her for that long i wish i just pumpoed and dumped like every other dude. No girl compares. I highly doubt ill get a girll like her again



    Also i have a problem i obesseivly check her instagram. I went weeks without checking but now it's become a daily ritual.
    I made fake accounts to watch her stories and stuff but i think she figured it out. She messaged me today



    Now WTF do i do?

    **** me.
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    Originally Posted by PrepaidExpress View Post
    Also i have a problem i obesseivly check her instagram. I went weeks without checking but now it's become a daily ritual.
    I made fake accounts to watch her stories and stuff but i think she figured it out. She messaged me today

    Now WTF do i do?

    **** me.
    Message her back "no this is Cleatus, I dont know who John is, sorry."

    Then she will know it wasnt you.
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    Originally Posted by PrepaidExpress View Post
    i'm 5'6

    i can't find a pic of my hairline right now but it's gettin worse. ill upload i when i my phone charges

    It's hard to get over. She had an incredible body and she was a sexual freak. I wsih i never met her o dated her for that long i wish i just pumpoed and dumped like every other dude. No girl compares. I highly doubt ill get a girll like her again



    Also i have a problem i obesseivly check her instagram. I went weeks without checking but now it's become a daily ritual.
    I made fake accounts to watch her stories and stuff but i think she figured it out. She messaged me today



    Now WTF do i do?

    **** me.
    Okay, I think you need talk to a therapist. Im not joking here or anything because it’s greatly beneficial.

    Don’t seek and stalk someone that doesn’t want to be with you. You won’t get her back and one girl cannot make your entire life.

    Go to the doctor and talk about propecia (finasteride/proscar) if your hair is worrying you. It works very well.

    At 25, focus on personal growth. Building a career is an excellent thing to focus on while playing soccer with your friends, etc.

    Why did your relationship end?
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    Originally Posted by elterrible987 View Post
    Message her back "no this is Cleatus, I dont know who John is, sorry."

    Then she will know it wasnt you.
    Exactly!!!

    Also in on this trollllll thread!
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    Originally Posted by dolvioblue View Post
    Okay, I think you need talk to a therapist. Im not joking here or anything because it’s greatly beneficial.

    Don’t seek and stalk someone that doesn’t want to be with you. You won’t get her back and one girl cannot make your entire life.

    Go to the doctor and talk about propecia (finasteride/proscar) if your hair is worrying you. It works very well.

    At 25, focus on personal growth. Building a career is an excellent thing to focus on while playing soccer with your friends, etc.

    Why did your relationship end?

    This isn't a troll thread

    - I have mental probems (anxiety, body dismorphia, obsessive thinking/ocd)
    - I'm very lonely
    - She was my first girlfriend



    I've spoken to a psychologsit a week ago and it's helped but my mind keeps returning to her.

    Why does she even care if i stalk her profile or not? She doesn't care about me anyway lol. Weird as.

    Anyway

    I can't understand why i keep thnkin of her even though she is a HUGE hoe.

    Our break up was terrible (it was my fault for being beta)

    - she lost feelings for me
    - then changed her mind and wanted to get back with me (obviously the guy she liked rejeted her)
    - so we started haning out/sex again
    - then she starts postin instagram stories at someones house
    - I do some detective work and confirm that she is getting pounded by some other dude
    - i call her ou ton what i found out
    - i threaten her call her a sloot etc
    - it really hurt because we were still hanging out and she was sayin things like she wants to do X and Y with me next monht etc
    - we go no contact
    - felt real guilty so wrote her a letter apologising for how i acted and what i said to her
    - this backfired as she texted me saying her dad saw the letter and not to write to her again
    - regret this so much apologising to a huge whore what she did to me
    - continue no contact
    - accidentally stalk her on my insta profile she blocks me
    - continue salk he on ohe pofiles and can't get ove rhe
    - realise she is a big hoe but she was the best. I bang ohe girls from tinder but i's not the same. I'm even seein some girl ight now but it's not the same
    - Girl was unique - personality and body wise
    - hair is recedin and i'm not as aesthetic won't get a girl like her again
    - think about this daily
    - look at her insta daiy and the guy she is seeing daily
    - obsessively think about it
    - can' stop
    - talk to psychoogist he says need to distract myself be in the present
    - i dont follow advice as bein with her was the best i ever felt so always think about it (have no friends, hate my caeer etc etc)
    - life shambles
    - fap to her pictures daily always think about her.
    - sometimes go to places we used to hang out and cry/feel lonely.
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    Originally Posted by PrepaidExpress View Post
    This isn't a troll thread

    - I have mental probems (anxiety, body dismorphia, obsessive thinking/ocd)
    - I'm very lonely
    - She was my first girlfriend



    I've spoken to a psychologsit a week ago and it's helped but my mind keeps returning to her.

    Why does she even care if i stalk her profile or not? She doesn't care about me anyway lol. Weird as.

    Anyway

    I can't understand why i keep thnkin of her even though she is a HUGE hoe.

    Our break up was terrible (it was my fault for being beta)

    - she lost feelings for me
    - then changed her mind and wanted to get back with me (obviously the guy she liked rejeted her)
    - so we started haning out/sex again
    - then she starts postin instagram stories at someones house
    - I do some detective work and confirm that she is getting pounded by some other dude
    - i call her ou ton what i found out
    - i threaten her call her a sloot etc
    - it really hurt because we were still hanging out and she was sayin things like she wants to do X and Y with me next monht etc
    - we go no contact
    - felt real guilty so wrote her a letter apologising for how i acted and what i said to her
    - this backfired as she texted me saying her dad saw the letter and not to write to her again
    - regret this so much apologising to a huge whore what she did to me
    - continue no contact
    - accidentally stalk her on my insta profile she blocks me
    - continue salk he on ohe pofiles and can't get ove rhe
    - realise she is a big hoe but she was the best. I bang ohe girls from tinder but i's not the same. I'm even seein some girl ight now but it's not the same
    - Girl was unique - personality and body wise
    - hair is recedin and i'm not as aesthetic won't get a girl like her again
    - think about this daily
    - look at her insta daiy and the guy she is seeing daily
    - obsessively think about it
    - can' stop
    - talk to psychoogist he says need to distract myself be in the present
    - i dont follow advice as bein with her was the best i ever felt so always think about it (have no friends, hate my caeer etc etc)
    - life shambles
    - fap to her pictures daily always think about her.
    - sometimes go to places we used to hang out and cry/feel lonely.
    Okay, Your issues are far beyond what this forum can help you with... continue seeing a therapist and go see your doctor about the anxiety and depression. You might need to get on some medication for awhile to help your mind get back to balance. It takes strength to get through life and sometimes we need a little help.
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    Why do you even bother posting here? You ignore any advice given anyway.

    Just keep stalking her chit and fist yourself. Srs.
    You choose to feel this depressed by stalking her chit and not moving on.
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    Really though? I mean i'm nott the best lookin guy by the time i'm 30 i'll just be some bald manlet.


    maybe so man. I just spend thte day with my friend now i feel bette.



    you just said you'e tall and aeshethic in anoher friend
    i'm not i don't have so many options
    My little brother is 5’7 and he does well for himself. So just get out there man.
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    Originally Posted by PrepaidExpress View Post
    i'm 25 but she was my first girlfriend.



    That's what i'd like to believe but i don't think i'll find a better girl. I think that's just something that's said to make people feel better?

    My looks are deteriorating (receding hair etc) and my options aren't great (Only have tinder/online dating apps) . This girl was fun, into gym like me and super sexy. I haven't found anyone better?
    Ok. Here's what I want you to do:

    1. Stop stalking her. Immediately. It's unhealthy and her picture in your mind is making it hard for you to move on.

    2. Stop putting her on a pedestal. She's a 6/10 sloot. There's literally millions of them out there brah that are better for you.

    3. Get on finasteride/minox today. Don't wait. You'll regret it if you do.

    4. Get a hobby. Something to do instead of miscing/porn. Like learn an instrument or something.

    5. Write 3 checks to yourself and put them in your wallet.

    One for 2x's what you make annually today. Date that one 1/1/2020.

    One for 10x's what you make annually today.
    Date that one 1/1/2025

    One for 100x's what you make annually today. Date that one 1/1/2030.

    You have another 3 lifetimes ahead of you. There will be PLENTY of prettier, sexier, sweeter, etc...women for you to experience. You just have to trust me on that.

    Get your chit together, and start focusing on creating value. Building your career. And hustle. The only way you are going to be able to cash those checks is if you bust your ass like there's no tomorrow. So log off misc and get to work.
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    Originally Posted by spadelexus View Post
    Ok. Here's what I want you to do:
    He's just an attention seeker. I gave him advice months ago (as well as everyone else), and he ignores all of it and continues to be a little bitch stalking his ex.
    You're wasting your time trying to help him.
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    Originally Posted by PrepaidExpress View Post
    This isn't a troll thread

    - I have mental probems (anxiety, body dismorphia, obsessive thinking/ocd)
    - I'm very lonely
    - She was my first girlfriend



    I've spoken to a psychologsit a week ago and it's helped but my mind keeps returning to her.

    Why does she even care if i stalk her profile or not? She doesn't care about me anyway lol. Weird as.

    Anyway

    I can't understand why i keep thnkin of her even though she is a HUGE hoe.

    Our break up was terrible (it was my fault for being beta)

    - she lost feelings for me
    - then changed her mind and wanted to get back with me (obviously the guy she liked rejeted her)
    - so we started haning out/sex again
    - then she starts postin instagram stories at someones house
    - I do some detective work and confirm that she is getting pounded by some other dude
    - i call her ou ton what i found out
    - i threaten her call her a sloot etc
    - it really hurt because we were still hanging out and she was sayin things like she wants to do X and Y with me next monht etc
    - we go no contact
    - felt real guilty so wrote her a letter apologising for how i acted and what i said to her
    - this backfired as she texted me saying her dad saw the letter and not to write to her again
    - regret this so much apologising to a huge whore what she did to me
    - continue no contact
    - accidentally stalk her on my insta profile she blocks me
    - continue salk he on ohe pofiles and can't get ove rhe
    - realise she is a big hoe but she was the best. I bang ohe girls from tinder but i's not the same. I'm even seein some girl ight now but it's not the same
    - Girl was unique - personality and body wise
    - hair is recedin and i'm not as aesthetic won't get a girl like her again
    - think about this daily
    - look at her insta daiy and the guy she is seeing daily
    - obsessively think about it
    - can' stop
    - talk to psychoogist he says need to distract myself be in the present
    - i dont follow advice as bein with her was the best i ever felt so always think about it (have no friends, hate my caeer etc etc)
    - life shambles
    - fap to her pictures daily always think about her.
    - sometimes go to places we used to hang out and cry/feel lonely.
    You're not doing yourself any favors by insta stalking her/obsessing over her. I've been there, oneitis in my early 20's that put me in a black hole for almost a year when it ended. If she was hoeing around, why would you want her back? Sometimes it helps to make a list of a person's not so great qualities, to lose the obsession. Cognitive behavioral therapy and medication can also be very beneficial.

    Except in very limited circumstances, put yourself first ALWAYS, and be fine with yourself whether in a relationship or not. Continue to improve and the rest will fall into place.
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    Originally Posted by backinthegymbro View Post
    Why do you even bother posting here? You ignore any advice given anyway.

    Just keep stalking her chit and fist yourself. Srs.
    You choose to feel this depressed by stalking her chit and not moving on.
    I tried following the advice but it hasn't worked/ I need more help (srs)

    Originally Posted by dolvioblue View Post
    Okay, Your issues are far beyond what this forum can help you with... continue seeing a therapist and go see your doctor about the anxiety and depression. You might need to get on some medication for awhile to help your mind get back to balance. It takes strength to get through life and sometimes we need a little help.
    Thanks, i might look into medication.

    Originally Posted by spadelexus View Post
    Ok. Here's what I want you to do:

    1. Stop stalking her. Immediately. It's unhealthy and her picture in your mind is making it hard for you to move on.

    2. Stop putting her on a pedestal. She's a 6/10 sloot. There's literally millions of them out there brah that are better for you.

    3. Get on finasteride/minox today. Don't wait. You'll regret it if you do.

    4. Get a hobby. Something to do instead of miscing/porn. Like learn an instrument or something.

    5. Write 3 checks to yourself and put them in your wallet.

    One for 2x's what you make annually today. Date that one 1/1/2020.

    One for 10x's what you make annually today.
    Date that one 1/1/2025

    One for 100x's what you make annually today. Date that one 1/1/2030.

    You have another 3 lifetimes ahead of you. There will be PLENTY of prettier, sexier, sweeter, etc...women for you to experience. You just have to trust me on that.

    Get your chit together, and start focusing on creating value. Building your career. And hustle. The only way you are going to be able to cash those checks is if you bust your ass like there's no tomorrow. So log off misc and get to work.
    Thanks brother!
    I just need to get out of my head that i won't find a girl like her again due to my hair receding/loninless etc.
    I've dated other girls from tinder and it just isn't the same.
    But i need to stop. I''ve been fapping HEAPS lately it seems the only way for me to not want her but it's very unhealthy. I fap 5-6x a day lately. It makes me not want her at all.

    I just always think of her. Even i have sex with other women i think it's not the same.

    But yea day 1 . No stalking. I'll update this thread.

    She was the best though 5'2, super thicc ass small waist, great smile. Freak in bed etc. I need to get this fantasy out of my head. She can't have been that good. She wasn't that good.

    Originally Posted by bfdehewdbyywhn View Post
    buy a hooker.

    the rest of the people in this thread will lie to you. dating these days is not going to be easy for 90% of men. you gotta pay to play
    Done that but it hasn't made me feel much better.



    Originally Posted by slootermcgavin View Post
    You're not doing yourself any favors by insta stalking her/obsessing over her. I've been there, oneitis in my early 20's that put me in a black hole for almost a year when it ended. If she was hoeing around, why would you want her back? Sometimes it helps to make a list of a person's not so great qualities, to lose the obsession. Cognitive behavioral therapy and medication can also be very beneficial.

    Except in very limited circumstances, put yourself first ALWAYS, and be fine with yourself whether in a relationship or not. Continue to improve and the rest will fall into place.
    Thanks man, i know
    The logic in my mind says that she is a hoe and hoes around but my heart/emotions say otherwise
    - she was the best
    - had the best body
    - fetl the best with her etc

    was like a drug.
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    Originally Posted by PrepaidExpress View Post
    I tried following the advice but it hasn't worked/ I need more help (srs)
    So the advice of not stalking your ex's social media isn't helping you? Gee i wonder why...
    Maybe cuz you still stalk her chit every day like a phaggot.

    Don't ask for advice if you don't plan on following it.
    All you do is waste people's time.
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    Originally Posted by backinthegymbro View Post
    So the advice of not stalking your ex's social media isn't helping you? Gee i wonder why...
    Maybe cuz you still stalk her chit every day like a phaggot.

    Don't ask for advice if you don't plan on following it.
    All you do is waste people's time.
    i'm sorry brah (serious)

    just ****
    it's hard i don't know

    day 1 no stalk.

    I guess everyday i'll just have to live knowing i won't ever have better
    i'm also SUPER compuslive i gamble a lot etc
    so it's hard for me to stay discipline
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    ANOHTHER problem i have is i'm getting anxiety problems in bed with other girls


    with my ex, she was always super dry and never wet and she had trouble reaching an orgasm. I always blamed myself. I remember after sex she would just get up and get changed like nothing happaned and it would make me feel really **** and the fact tha she was banging some random guy two weeks after breaking up makes me feel like ****ing ****. Was i really that bad in bed?
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    fukin hell son

    ur letting a women destroy your life

    become happy with being on your own before you date again otherwise you will always be at the mercy of a female
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    Originally Posted by savageoldman View Post
    fukin hell son

    ur letting a women destroy your life

    become happy with being on your own before you date again otherwise you will always be at the mercy of a female
    Man i wish you were my uncle or dad in real life not joking


    ****UPDATE****

    Been a day without stalking her. Already feel a tonne better. I cant believe how much i let it affect me. I started stalking her again then it became a ritual and by the end of the week i started getting so sad and depressed and yesterday i nearly cried. How pathetic. We only went out for 7 months and we broke up 6 months ago

    Right now there are 3 things thoughts i need to try move on from

    1) I'll never find a girl like her again

    :Thoughts: This girl had an incredible unique body. My hair is receding. I don't think i'll get a girl like her again. Not a hot fitness girl like her with a great booty

    Logic: Why have so many men pumped and dumped her? How come my friends thought she was average at best? How come she only gets 30 likes on her facebook photos? How come she hasn't found another boyfriend? iF SHE was that good why was she on tinder? She is also 25 years old and will be 26 next year...

    Maybe she wasn't THAT GOOD?

    2) My actions when I was with her


    i deeply regret how i acted when i was with her. I had personal **** going on and was super anxious all the time. When i was with her i was always second guessing myself and acting real beta. I regret acting so weak and being a huge pussy . i also probably texted her too much and seemed to available and she lost attraction. Also how beta i acted when we broke up.

    Logic; yea i wasn't my best but maybe i'm being a bit harsh on myself. It's not like i bowed down and kissed her feet or brought her flowers. I;'ll learn from it and move on. Don't worry about it. She is a pathetic sloot with no life direction or goals who spends her time on social media. I'm an educated man with a career and potential

    3) I couldn't satisfy her in bed

    Thoughts: i'm a loser. I could never make her cum. She was always dry. every time after sex she would get up and leave made me feel like ****. Maybe i'm terrible in bed

    Logic: This girl is ****ed in the head. She has sletp with 40+ dudes. She goes to sexpos. She owns dildos. Watches porn. Listens to 50 shades of grey music. It's not your fault. No man could satisfy her unless the dude probably chained her up , whipped her and done some real degrading ****. Don't worry about it. You've never had this problem before. You wear large condoms, you satisfy other women. You're a boss. don't worry





    sorry guys bit of a diary post but really feels good typing it out.

    edit: but yea i guess i just need to try move on from it. Logically i can say all these things but when i think about it i really liked her and liked spending time with her and just regret how beta i acted oh well.
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    just sucks that she came at the wrong time'


    she came when i was depressed/amxious in between jobs etc


    i wasn't myself. If only i could go back and be my proper self.
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