Reply
Results 1 to 18 of 18
  1. #1
    Registered User whattfamidoing's Avatar
    Join Date: Nov 2019
    Age: 49
    Posts: 20
    Rep Power: 0
    whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100)
    whattfamidoing is offline

    Should I tell my girlfriend I lost my virginity to her?

    So here’s how my story goes.

    Near the end of senior year of high school, I made an instagram account and one of the girls I was following I dm’d. I ended up getting her Snapchat and number and we started talking for about a month. She told me straight up that she had sex with 4 guys before me one being her ex ( the others I’ll get to later). She told me because she also wanted to know how many girls I have slept with which at the time was 0...(I’m 18 at the time but I’ve had a bj before when I was 16 from a college girl). I freaked out and ended up telling her my count was 15 because 1. I didn’t wanna sound like a loser 2. I didn’t want her thinking I was a virgin ( experiences) 3. The number 15 because she told me she slept with several guys and (specified her count was 4 later) so I wanted to double her number for me. Her count didn’t bother me so much in the beginning because I was just trying to smash and move on basically but here’s the story continued.

    The second time we hung out I smashed (it was bad) but whatever still got pussy (now I **** the **** out of her and make her cum almost every time). The next time we hung out we smashed again and I asked her to be my girlfriend because why not we’re having sex anyway. So as we’re dating I start to find out more about her past. She lost her virginity to her ex and they only had sex 3 times for dating about a year. They had problems but got back together and she cheated on him with some other guy (they had sex) because she liked him. So eventually they ended up having more problems because he wanted his freedom or whatever blah blah blah... but she had to break up for them. During the break up she was a mess. She was crying almost everyday for awhile idk how long. And she was in pain because they were serious during the relationship I guess. She wanted the pain to go away and she said she needed a “distraction”. So the guy she cheated on her ex with has a younger brother who’s In my grade. She ended up asking him to “hangout” because she trusted him(this guy cheats on girls and apparently gets with many girls). During the last days of junior year for me and him (she’s a year younger than meand I didn’t know her til Almost a year later) they ended up going to his house and they had sex. She did the same thing with one other guy (who’s a year younger than her) which ended up being her 4th guy. After that she told me she didn’t wanna do that stuff anymore. (Btw her having sex didn’t stop the pain) Anyway, almost a year passes and I start dating her. She told me how it went eventually. She said they weren’t good and she couldn’t feel anything. I believe her because I know who she is as a person she doesn’t lie like that just trust me she’s real even though she’s stupid for that :/. Anyway we’ve been dating for almost 8 months and it really bugs me guys. I’ve gotten to know her as a person and she’s sweet, hot asf, weird, goofy, funny, and extremely loyal to me trust me I know. She’s not very social but she’s at least an 8/10. She doesn’t have many guy friends. Even girl friends. She basically only hangouts with me and her family. So she sometimes seems like fcking wife material to me because she’s a good friend and the sex is good now( raw and I cum inside her every time) We have raw sex, have high sex drives, she does anal now because of me, and I’ve came inside her like 70 times by now no lie. The thing that bothers me is that she had sex regardless of whether it was good or not with other dudes. The hookup sex messes with my head not her ex. (That’s normal) So she doesn’t know I lost my virginity to her. She thinks I’ve had sex with 15 other girls and she thinks the same way I do about it. It messes with her head because I got some pussy(I didn’t). Which also hurts me because if only she knew what I was going through. I could’ve had sex earlier, but I didn’t because all the girls that wanted to do it made me feel uncomfortable asf. I wasn’t gay but I guess I’d rather smash a cool hot girl than some gross slut. (Also I’m picky with girls). I guess I was waiting for the right girl to have sex with in a way. Idk just the way I am I guess :/. I’m still young(19) and I wanna experience other girls which I could because I’m pretty attractive and know how to attract girls with my “talk” pretty well. I think I wouldn’t mind her being my only one if I was the same for her but that’s not the way life went for me damnit :/. I have 4 choices and I don’t wanna **** things up in my life.
    1. Tell her the truth and stay with her
    2. Tell her the truth and then break up with her
    3. Don’t tell her the truth and stay with her
    4. Don’t tell her the truth and break up with her
    This is the recap.
    1) She hooked up with other guys and had sex
    2) She cheated before (wouldn’t cheat on me I just know bich wants to marry me)
    3) She doesn’t know I lied
    4) I feel like telling her because I just really feel like she needs to know at some point.
    5) Sometimes I don’t wanna tell her because once I do there’s no going back :/.
    6) I wanna experience other girls before I get too old and take things serious(marriage)
    7) I don’t wanna lose something special (I think it’s special but I’m not sure) she ****ing loyal and hot like cmon.
    8) Raw sex with her
    9) Anal with her
    10) She’s very submissive she calls me daddy does pretty much whatever I want
    11) Her past messes with my head
    12) I’m confused yet I feel like I know what to do
    13) I should’ve had more sex in high school
    14) I hate knowing she has more body’s than I do
    15) Since she had sex with other guys why can’t I with other girls?
    Bottom line. Some ways I feel lucky with the sex and loyalty thing. But I also feel ****ed up sometimes man. And honestly sometimes I don’t know what to do like it’s crazy to think this is how life went for me:/ hate it a little man. What should I do? Another option is cheat behind her back until we’re even which I’m down with because again she’s cheated before. I wanna do the right thing I guess Idek why. I guess I care about her and that’s why :/ but still I gotta focus on myself first and I think getting other pussy is the outcome regardless of whether I stay with her or not. There’s no way I can’t experience other girls before I get older. I have to get other pussy regardless of what I do because I don’t wanna look back regretting that I didn’t experience other biches. So what should I do?
    Reply With Quote

  2. #2
    ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) AdikinBawls's Avatar
    Join Date: Jan 2018
    Age: 28
    Posts: 749
    Rep Power: 3789
    AdikinBawls is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) AdikinBawls is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) AdikinBawls is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) AdikinBawls is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) AdikinBawls is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) AdikinBawls is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) AdikinBawls is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) AdikinBawls is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) AdikinBawls is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) AdikinBawls is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) AdikinBawls is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500)
    AdikinBawls is offline
    Lmao didn't read.
    *Natural Calves Crew*

    Short, stubby limbs, chest gap, narrow shoulders, wide hips, balding, but all that and I've still got those Natural Calves Crew ^^
    Reply With Quote

  3. #3
    Registered User AutistTrigger's Avatar
    Join Date: Jul 2017
    Posts: 1,657
    Rep Power: 2105
    AutistTrigger is just really nice. (+1000) AutistTrigger is just really nice. (+1000) AutistTrigger is just really nice. (+1000) AutistTrigger is just really nice. (+1000) AutistTrigger is just really nice. (+1000) AutistTrigger is just really nice. (+1000) AutistTrigger is just really nice. (+1000) AutistTrigger is just really nice. (+1000) AutistTrigger is just really nice. (+1000) AutistTrigger is just really nice. (+1000) AutistTrigger is just really nice. (+1000)
    AutistTrigger is offline
    TLDR; Needs Cliffs
    Reply With Quote

  4. #4
    Registered User playerofwar's Avatar
    Join Date: Feb 2017
    Age: 24
    Posts: 317
    Rep Power: 1227
    playerofwar is just really nice. (+1000) playerofwar is just really nice. (+1000) playerofwar is just really nice. (+1000) playerofwar is just really nice. (+1000) playerofwar is just really nice. (+1000) playerofwar is just really nice. (+1000) playerofwar is just really nice. (+1000) playerofwar is just really nice. (+1000) playerofwar is just really nice. (+1000) playerofwar is just really nice. (+1000) playerofwar is just really nice. (+1000)
    playerofwar is offline
    Don't tell. If you feel like this is real love, then stay with her.
    If you just want to experience other things, yet you love her, don't bother messing around. It's so much different with someone you love that all the rest is not worth it.
    Reply With Quote

  5. #5
    Power and the money. BlackScorpio91's Avatar
    Join Date: Dec 2014
    Posts: 10,984
    Rep Power: 26510
    BlackScorpio91 has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) BlackScorpio91 has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) BlackScorpio91 has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) BlackScorpio91 has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) BlackScorpio91 has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) BlackScorpio91 has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) BlackScorpio91 has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) BlackScorpio91 has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) BlackScorpio91 has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) BlackScorpio91 has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) BlackScorpio91 has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000)
    BlackScorpio91 is offline
    Come on man I ain't reading all of that.
    Mode One For Life

    HTC

    Picked my Username When I Was Younger And Dumber Crew

    Direct Game is Superior to Indirect Game (Come At Me)
    Reply With Quote

  6. #6
    Registered User Rabbitjb's Avatar
    Join Date: Apr 2016
    Posts: 21,727
    Rep Power: 258121
    Rabbitjb has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) Rabbitjb has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) Rabbitjb has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) Rabbitjb has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) Rabbitjb has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) Rabbitjb has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) Rabbitjb has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) Rabbitjb has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) Rabbitjb has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) Rabbitjb has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) Rabbitjb has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000)
    Rabbitjb is offline
    nobody is reading all that

    but in answer to title

    no

    in relation to any info you could have put in that novel of an OP

    also no

    HTH
    Reply With Quote

  7. #7
    Registered User whattfamidoing's Avatar
    Join Date: Nov 2019
    Age: 49
    Posts: 20
    Rep Power: 0
    whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100)
    whattfamidoing is offline
    Originally Posted by AdikinBawls View Post
    Lmao didn't read.
    Suggest you do it’s interesting as ****
    Reply With Quote

  8. #8
    Football Prophet drvillain's Avatar
    Join Date: Jan 2010
    Posts: 32,608
    Rep Power: 131120
    drvillain has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) drvillain has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) drvillain has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) drvillain has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) drvillain has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) drvillain has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) drvillain has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) drvillain has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) drvillain has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) drvillain has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) drvillain has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000)
    drvillain is online now
    Didn’t read. Keep it to yourself
    Ohio State buckeyes & Atlanta Falcons
    Reply With Quote

  9. #9
    Operating at 5.2 GHz DualBandWiFi's Avatar
    Join Date: Mar 2013
    Posts: 1,922
    Rep Power: 17542
    DualBandWiFi is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) DualBandWiFi is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) DualBandWiFi is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) DualBandWiFi is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) DualBandWiFi is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) DualBandWiFi is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) DualBandWiFi is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) DualBandWiFi is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) DualBandWiFi is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) DualBandWiFi is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) DualBandWiFi is a splendid one to behold. (+10000)
    DualBandWiFi is offline
    Originally Posted by playerofwar View Post
    Don't tell. If you feel like this is real love, then stay with her.
    If you just want to experience other things, yet you love her, don't bother messing around. It's so much different with someone you love that all the rest is not worth it.
    This OP. Being a man whore is no different than being a sloot, even if biology gives more permission for men to do so.

    Who cares if you missed out on hookups when you are with someone you love and happens to fit the bill.
    Agar.io Crew - Cell Tech Poverty Gains Liberal Agenda
    Repped by RICHSTRONG TWICE crew
    Reply With Quote

  10. #10
    Fuk off, Lahey! LargePeter's Avatar
    Join Date: Aug 2011
    Location: Kuntstralia, Australia
    Posts: 25,421
    Rep Power: 52870
    LargePeter has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) LargePeter has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) LargePeter has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) LargePeter has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) LargePeter has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) LargePeter has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) LargePeter has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) LargePeter has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) LargePeter has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) LargePeter has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) LargePeter has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000)
    LargePeter is offline
    Originally Posted by AdikinBawls View Post
    Lmao didn't read.
    This
    RAW DOG CREW
    ZHENGTERRY CREW
    ALWAYS PICK 4 CREW
    PRESIDENT DONALD J. TRUMP CREW
    LIEUTENANTGAINS IS A PHAGGOT CREW
    CHEAT ON YOUR GIRLFRIEND, NOT YOUR DIET OR TRAINING CREW
    Reply With Quote

  11. #11
    Registered User InPhase's Avatar
    Join Date: Sep 2008
    Location: Australia
    Age: 39
    Posts: 619
    Rep Power: 3532
    InPhase is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) InPhase is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) InPhase is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) InPhase is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) InPhase is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) InPhase is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) InPhase is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) InPhase is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) InPhase is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) InPhase is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) InPhase is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500)
    InPhase is offline
    Ain't no one got time to read all dat.
    Reply With Quote

  12. #12
    Registered User sqal's Avatar
    Join Date: Jul 2018
    Posts: 497
    Rep Power: 6604
    sqal is a name known to all. (+5000) sqal is a name known to all. (+5000) sqal is a name known to all. (+5000) sqal is a name known to all. (+5000) sqal is a name known to all. (+5000) sqal is a name known to all. (+5000) sqal is a name known to all. (+5000) sqal is a name known to all. (+5000) sqal is a name known to all. (+5000) sqal is a name known to all. (+5000) sqal is a name known to all. (+5000)
    sqal is offline
    She already knows.

    Did not read
    Reply With Quote

  13. #13
    Here's beer Mr Beer's Avatar
    Join Date: Nov 2004
    Location: In the bar
    Posts: 32,271
    Rep Power: 80889
    Mr Beer has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000) Mr Beer has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000) Mr Beer has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000) Mr Beer has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000) Mr Beer has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000) Mr Beer has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000) Mr Beer has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000) Mr Beer has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000) Mr Beer has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000) Mr Beer has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000) Mr Beer has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000)
    Mr Beer is offline
    Did not read but I guess your boyfriend already knows he was the one to break you in, so don't sweat it.
    I will read and review 100 books this year: https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=176675491

    “Many religions now come before us with ingratiating smirks and outspread hands, like an unctuous merchant in a bazaar. They offer consolation and solidarity and uplift, competing as they do in a marketplace. But we have a right to remember how barbarically they behaved when they were strong and were making an offer that people could not refuse.”
    Reply With Quote

  14. #14
    Registered User skinnyfat88's Avatar
    Join Date: Apr 2014
    Location: Canada
    Age: 31
    Posts: 2,499
    Rep Power: 9078
    skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000) skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000) skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000) skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000) skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000) skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000) skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000) skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000) skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000) skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000) skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000)
    skinnyfat88 is offline
    15 at age 18? You were really reaching with that lie OP lol.

    I understand how her past would all mess with your head at your age. I think telling her the truth about losing your V-card to her will have little longterm effect on your relationship. It will probably make her feel special for a few weeks and that's it.

    I'd try to focus on your immediate happiness and trust your gut/inner circle as far as if she's LTR material. At the end of the day though, you are both very young and men mature a lot later than women so you'll go back and forth many times on whether or not to stay with her (for many reasons) and it's probable you'll break up at some point.
    Reply With Quote

  15. #15
    Registered User whattfamidoing's Avatar
    Join Date: Nov 2019
    Age: 49
    Posts: 20
    Rep Power: 0
    whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100)
    whattfamidoing is offline
    Originally Posted by skinnyfat88 View Post
    15 at age 18? You were really reaching with that lie OP lol.

    I understand how her past would all mess with your head at your age. I think telling her the truth about losing your V-card to her will have little longterm effect on your relationship. It will probably make her feel special for a few weeks and that's it.

    I'd try to focus on your immediate happiness and trust your gut/inner circle as far as if she's LTR material. At the end of the day though, you are both very young and men mature a lot later than women so you'll go back and forth many times on whether or not to stay with her (for many reasons) and it's probable you'll break up at some point.
    I was 18 and she was 17 at the time. Also thank you your answer was helpful man. Also, I don’t know why my profile says I’m 49. I didn’t put my birthday date on this website. I’m so confused.
    Reply With Quote

  16. #16
    Registered User skinnyfat88's Avatar
    Join Date: Apr 2014
    Location: Canada
    Age: 31
    Posts: 2,499
    Rep Power: 9078
    skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000) skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000) skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000) skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000) skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000) skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000) skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000) skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000) skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000) skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000) skinnyfat88 is a name known to all. (+5000)
    skinnyfat88 is offline
    I meant to tell her you had slept with 15 girls already at age 18 was a stretch.

    Like 1% of dudes hit double digits while still in highschool.
    Reply With Quote

  17. #17
    Registered User whattfamidoing's Avatar
    Join Date: Nov 2019
    Age: 49
    Posts: 20
    Rep Power: 0
    whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100) whattfamidoing is not very well liked. (-100)
    whattfamidoing is offline
    Originally Posted by skinnyfat88 View Post
    I meant to tell her you had slept with 15 girls already at age 18 was a stretch.

    Like 1% of dudes hit double digits while still in highschool.
    Yea I mean I just didn’t know what to say when she told me she’s “done it with several guys already”. :/ hindsight’s 20/20. Have you ever had a similar experience? And what’d you do if u did.
    Reply With Quote

  18. #18
    Registered User RunoC's Avatar
    Join Date: Jun 2013
    Location: Germany
    Posts: 556
    Rep Power: 11242
    RunoC is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) RunoC is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) RunoC is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) RunoC is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) RunoC is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) RunoC is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) RunoC is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) RunoC is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) RunoC is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) RunoC is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) RunoC is a splendid one to behold. (+10000)
    RunoC is offline
    why do you get serious with a girl who already cheated on boyfriends before?
    Reply With Quote

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts