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    Texts from ex after months of NC

    Long story short, dated 3 years and the relationship ended badly. Went NC, she was dating someone else for about 6 months, when they broke up we started talking again/going out again and working on a "fresh start" in her words. After 7 months of telling me we have a future together, she has feelings for me, etc. I finally tell her it's time to get back together or end things. She says she wants to be single, then that she has 0 feelings for me, so I tell her adios and go NC.

    7 months goes by and I get the "hey, how are you?" text. I responded a couple of times very briefly then stopped responding. 4 weeks goes by and she texts again, same stuff. I've replied a few times, she always has alot to say and texts back instantly, even though I don't text back for days at a time.

    It's just general convo, other than the "what's new? how's life? what's going on with you?" texts from her. If she has 0 feelings and all that, why does she keep reaching out? Confusing.
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    The question should be why tf you are replying to her texts, cuck.
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    She wants validation, to know that you'll always be there waiting, so if things get really bad for her she could just go back to you easily. You replying probably comforts her.
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    So I seen this sloot for a few years, ended things and went NC.

    So we started texting again and seeing each other for a few months then went NC.

    So we started randomly texting again for a few weeks but I went NC.

    So now we're texting again...

    In other words, when she's bored and not getting railed by Chad, she's hitting you up knowing she can get your cawk anytime.
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    Lmao @ texting her back. You're still desperate for her.
    I think it's funny how people on here think no contact simply means to reply as soon as an ex reaches out to you.
    Dumb as hell.

    Originally Posted by ctk2014 View Post
    It's just general convo, other than the "what's new? how's life? what's going on with you?" texts from her. If she has 0 feelings and all that, why does she keep reaching out? Confusing.
    To see if you've moved on. If you're dating someone better. To have you stroke her ego by showing her you still want her. To use you as a back up plan/emotional tampon that can support her when she gets dumped herself, until she finds a new dink to hop on and then ignores you again.
    She's playing you like a fiddle and you keep replying to her as soon as she texts you.
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    No contact means no contact you massive phaggit so delete and block her number
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    I don't think you understand the concept of no contact. I'd tell you to just smash but you are probably the type of guy who can't get his dik wet without catching feelings.
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    I was under the impression the whole point of NC, was to get the girl to the point where she no longer feels like she can have you any time, which in turn prompts her to chase and initiate contact. Not to ignore them forever as many of the posters here seem to be endorsing.

    Seems to have worked a charm. She’s probably been in other relationships and realised the grass isn’t greener, she’s be looking back with rose tinted glasses and will be remembering the good and forgetting the bad.

    If she texts, I would just invite her over. If she comes, smash her in, if she doesn’t, get off the phone/txt and back into NC until the next time. No real reason to pass on free sex if she’s chasing you.
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    Originally Posted by NoFeels View Post
    I was under the impression the whole point of NC, was to get the girl to the point where she no longer feels like she can have you any time, which in turn prompts her to chase and initiate contact. Not to ignore them forever as many of the posters here seem to be endorsing.
    No. NC is meant for you to get over your ex. Simply ignoring an ex, who dumped you, will not make her want you back.
    She's off exploring new dinks, which is the exact reason why she dumped you in the first place if you never did anything wrong.
    Why would she come back just because you're acting hard to get when she doesn't even want you anymore to begin with?

    The only time an ex comes back is if she's been on the dink carousel, gets her heart broken herself by a chad and temporarily wants to get back for emotional support until she leaves you again once she feels better and meets someone else.
    Or if you win the lottery, somehow became famous, got a great job/got in shape etc and are now the best guy she can get her hands on.
    Or if she's 35 years old, got fat with a kid from a missing baby daddy and comes back hoping you'll take care of her and being her safety net backup plan.

    Also hooking up with an ex is a terrible idea if you're not 100% over her. The last thing you need is to get even more emotionally attached and experience that heart break all over again.
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    Originally Posted by NoFeels View Post
    I was under the impression the whole point of NC, was to get the girl to the point where she no longer feels like she can have you any time, which in turn prompts her to chase and initiate contact. Not to ignore them forever as many of the posters here seem to be endorsing.

    Seems to have worked a charm. She’s probably been in other relationships and realised the grass isn’t greener, she’s be looking back with rose tinted glasses and will be remembering the good and forgetting the bad.

    If she texts, I would just invite her over. If she comes, smash her in, if she doesn’t, get off the phone/txt and back into NC until the next time. No real reason to pass on free sex if she’s chasing you.
    That really only applies to if you were seeing a girl and whatever reason it fell off. No contact after a relationship that ended poorly is for you to move on and not have any contact with your ex. If it ended cordial I can see it, but most relationships don’t split like that and if it was really destructive it’s never a good idea to rekindle things because most people don’t change.
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    Originally Posted by ryankoch View Post
    She wants validation, to know that you'll always be there waiting, so if things get really bad for her she could just go back to you easily. You replying probably comforts her.
    This.
    Even if her are intentions are to "be friendly and check up to make sure you're doing okay," or w/e she still gets validation by feeling like a "good person" by doing so.
    She doesn't get to have that after leading you on multiple times.

    Tell her you wish her the best but it's best you not be friends and just move on.
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    Originally Posted by NoFeels View Post
    I was under the impression the whole point of NC, was to get the girl to the point where she no longer feels like she can have you any time, which in turn prompts her to chase and initiate contact.
    100% incorrect.
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    Here's a thought...

    Stop. Responding. To. Her.

    You're doing NC all wrong. lol.
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    She’s already played you. Do you really want to go back for more?
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    Originally Posted by ctk2014 View Post
    After 7 months of telling me we have a future together, she has feelings for me, etc. I finally tell her it's time to get back together or end things. She says she wants to be single, then that she has 0 feelings for me, so I tell her adios and go NC.
    LMAO I just went through the same thing. Bitch even blocked me on Instagram. The funny thing is that I bumped into her and she was all nice and flirty and friendly and gave me a hug etc.

    She's not who you think she is OK? You got bamboozled. It happens.
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    She’s already played you. Do you really want to go back for more?
    Yes, yes I think he does.

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    You are the rebound every time she gets pumped 'n' dumped. But instead of banging you she just texts you.

    If you aren't gonna catch feels and wanna smash, offer a meet up when she reaches out. "What, you miss me that much? Come over." If you don't wanna smash anymore since she's been a bit of a hooooooer, then simply stop responding altogether.
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    This is what I would have done, the first time she got back with me, after dumping me.

    I would have invited her over... Railed her good.. Then got her involved in a threesome..

    Invited my freind over to rail her... Then stop taking her calls and replying to text messages.

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    Originally Posted by ctk2014 View Post
    Long story short, dated 3 years and the relationship ended badly. Went NC, she was dating someone else for about 6 months, when they broke up we started talking again/going out again and working on a "fresh start" in her words. After 7 months of telling me we have a future together, she has feelings for me, etc. I finally tell her it's time to get back together or end things. She says she wants to be single, then that she has 0 feelings for me, so I tell her adios and go NC.

    7 months goes by and I get the "hey, how are you?" text. I responded a couple of times very briefly then stopped responding. 4 weeks goes by and she texts again, same stuff. I've replied a few times, she always has alot to say and texts back instantly, even though I don't text back for days at a time.

    It's just general convo, other than the "what's new? how's life? what's going on with you?" texts from her. If she has 0 feelings and all that, why does she keep reaching out? Confusing.
    Perhaps she needs to know you're still interested and any response, regardless of whether it takes days or not, shows her you still care enough to respond. That said, you've tried a couple of times now and it's not worked out well. It may be time to block her?
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    It's not confusing. She wants to see if you are still around as a backup plan. Just stop responding.
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