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    Has anyone never had to cold approach

    Just learning this is a thing.

    could someone elaborate more? don't understand why anyone would need it??
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    cold approach is cringeworthy. Just meet through school/work/family/friends etc... Even online dating over cold approach. But don't do that either.
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    Originally Posted by imbored21 View Post
    cold approach is cringeworthy. Just meet through school/work/family/friends etc... Even online dating over cold approach. But don't do that either.
    Only someone without any confidence/good looks would say this. I’ve gotten dates by cold approaching
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    Being a high-test alpha male means that if you see a hot woman who happens to not be in your social circle, and you want to make her cheeks clap while she's screaming your name, you cold approach her.

    Being beta means you wait around until she appears in your social circle, and you take what you're given.
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    Originally Posted by imbored21 View Post
    cold approach is cringeworthy. Just meet through school/work/family/friends etc... Even online dating over cold approach. But don't do that either.
    Let’s see I graduated college already, I work with only dudes, I live away from family, friends are all married or losers, no success with online dating despite swiping on thousands....
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    oh...

    i didnt realize that just approaching you find a woman attractive and getting her interest had a term. thought it was pretty normal??
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    Younger men would do well to remove “cold approach” from their vernacular. It’s weird. It’s always been weird and only benefits the businesses that develop “cold approach strategies”

    Talking to random people while out is not a rare or unique thing. It’s been happening before the PUA movement. The more you do it the better you get at keeping a conversation going and picking up on social cues. It’s just like anything else you learn. Just don’t be weird about it
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    I've never "cold approached". I just talk to people?
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    Originally Posted by Anachron View Post
    I've never "cold approached". I just talk to people?
    these mofokers think women are a different breed or some chit

    honestly, it's only awkward if your only goal is to bang. the psychology of fear is too much for some people.

    if your goal is to just socialize and sex happens along the way then it's easier to not be afraid
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    Originally Posted by SazabiBrah View Post
    Only someone without any confidence/good looks would say this. I’ve gotten dates by cold approaching
    don't need confidence if your dick game is on point (mine)
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    Originally Posted by Evlve View Post
    Younger men would do well to remove “cold approach” from their vernacular. It’s weird. It’s always been weird and only benefits the businesses that develop “cold approach strategies”

    Talking to random people while out is not a rare or unique thing. It’s been happening before the PUA movement. The more you do it the better you get at keeping a conversation going and picking up on social cues. It’s just like anything else you learn. Just don’t be weird about it
    Originally Posted by Anachron View Post
    I've never "cold approached". I just talk to people?
    Arguing semantics here.


    And no cold approaching =/= "talking to people"


    I thing many people don't really understand cold approaching because they've never done it. Cold approaching in my eyes is walking straight up to a girl, in a very direct confident manner, and telling her you want to **** her brains out, without actually saying the words. I know you guys are unfamiliar, cuz you've never had it work for you.
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    Originally Posted by stardewvalley View Post
    these mofokers think women are a different breed or some chit

    honestly, it's only awkward if your only goal is to bang. the psychology of fear is too much for some people.

    if your goal is to just socialize and sex happens along the way then it's easier to not be afraid
    This. I don't know how these guys don't get it.
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    Never had to "cold approach" and I'm maybe a 7/10, generally have more pussy available than time to hit it. By cold approach, I mean walk up to a total stranger, say a cringey line, and have no idea if she's interested or not. Nowadays cold approach is seen as hostile/desperate by most girls, and some even consider it harrassment. In 2019 there are so many legit ways to get women without literally hitting up strangers for #s. See this chit at supermarkets and gyms a lot and legit have never seen it work out well. Usually the dude is a 5 or 6 and if he had any self-awareness he'd know he was walking into failure and going to make another person feel awkward. Chads don't need to cold approach nowadays, they have piles of options they can't get through already. If you are doing it on the regular and failing like 9/10 times, u legit need to go to a therapist and stop harassing people.
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    Originally Posted by Anachron View Post
    I've never "cold approached". I just talk to people?
    Fooking troll...

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