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    I neglected my gf and she left me for another guy

    been together for 5 years. I got bored, and took her for granted. I started med school trying to be a doc, and started neglecting her even more lol.

    She gave me warnings like telling me she is talking to other guys online, wanting me to propose etc. I just laughed and kept ignoring.

    Now she left me, moved in with another guy and been together with him for 6 months. FARK feels very bad mane, full of regret. She was a good girl, should have treated her better.
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    Learn from your mistake and don’t do it with the next one. Best to forget her.
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    Originally Posted by wapacmane View Post
    Now she left me, moved in with another guy and been together with him for 6 months. FARK feels very bad mane, full of regret. She was a slooty girl, should have treated her better.
    Fixed.
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    Originally Posted by Reliance012 View Post
    Learn from your mistake and don’t do it with the next one. Best to forget her.
    i'm trying to forget her, it's been 2 months of NC and I still get that sinking feeling everyday reminding me how much I ****ed up

    Originally Posted by Krackerjacked View Post
    Fixed.
    that makes me feel better lol
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    If she was talking to other guys before breaking up with you, then that already shows what type of girl she is.
    Just lol @ threatening someone to propose. You're better off without her. But do learn from this and don't take your next gf for granted.
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    Originally Posted by backinthegymbro View Post
    If she was talking to other guys before breaking up with you, then that already shows what type of girl she is.
    Just lol @ threatening someone to propose. You're better off without her. But do learn from this and don't take your next gf for granted.
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    Ask yourself what she did for you, write some of the stuff out here and think about it, did you really lose anything or is it just your temporary emotions talking?

    I've done the exact same thing you talked about before. Trust me, there is a reason you were neglecting her. It's because she wasn't that interesting to be around in the first place or didn't put in the effort herself.

    Even if you got back together, it's only the IDEA that was good. If you really like someone and they really like you back, they will do things that help you grow your feelings for them instead of trying to manipulate or force you into doing it through threats.
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    Originally Posted by Krackerjacked View Post
    Fixed.
    No not fixed. She frackin' waited for him for 5 years. She told him what she wanted, you can't call her a sloot for moving on since he couldn't commit.

    Lay the blame where it belongs which in this case lays strictly on him.
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    Originally Posted by MuzzieChik786 View Post
    No not fixed. She frackin' waited for him for 5 years. She told him what she wanted, you can't call her a sloot for moving on since he couldn't commit.

    Lay the blame where it belongs which in this case lays strictly on him.
    yup this is the truth. I ****ed up, and I regret it every day.

    In all honesty though, I was ready to wife that girl up, I just needed a few more months to finish my medical school exams. We started having communication issues and she just couldn't wait any longer and gave up on me.

    ...Is there anything i can do to get her back?
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    Nah bro NC, time heals. Like the other brahs said, if she was a main proponent to your life you’d of compromised. But your brains telling you that joooocy medical cert is more important. You’ve kinda like self sabotaged for the greater good. If this girl cared anything about how you are or what your currently going through she’d of stuck around.

    Threatening proposals like that is a sure fire way to red flag yourself.

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    Originally Posted by wapacmane View Post
    yup this is the truth. I ****ed up, and I regret it every day.

    In all honesty though, I was ready to wife that girl up, I just needed a few more months to finish my medical school exams. We started having communication issues and she just couldn't wait any longer and gave up on me.

    ...Is there anything i can do to get her back?
    It's done man.. just forget about her.. and stop blaming yourself you sound like a b!tch no offense. But you do. There are way too many fish in the sea to think about the one that got away.. live your life.

    In 10 years she will be ugly as fuark and you will look back at how you are acting right now and utterly cringe.
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    Originally Posted by wapacmane View Post
    yup this is the truth. I ****ed up, and I regret it every day.

    In all honesty though, I was ready to wife that girl up, I just needed a few more months to finish my medical school exams. We started having communication issues and she just couldn't wait any longer and gave up on me.

    ...Is there anything i can do to get her back?
    Neh fuk that man. She was talking to other guys when you were together. You're gonna be a doctor mate, enjoy your single days, plow some nurses and have fun. No such thing as "the one", you'll find a another one.
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    Originally Posted by wapacmane View Post

    ...Is there anything i can do to get her back?
    Trust me, you won't want her back. She's already getting plowed by other multiple guys (hence why she was talking to others already which is known as monkey branching)
    And if you got with her anyways, the relationship would never return to normal.
    You need to focus on yourself and meet someone else when you're ready. Preferably when your exams are over so you have a clear mind for that.

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    Lay the blame where it belongs which in this case lays strictly on him.
    If she was talking to other guys while still in a relationship, then she wasn't innocent and was acting like a sloot.
    Monkey branching is disrespectful and never ok.
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    Originally Posted by MuzzieChik786 View Post
    No not fixed. She frackin' waited for him for 5 years. She told him what she wanted, you can't call her a sloot for moving on since he couldn't commit.

    Lay the blame where it belongs which in this case lays strictly on him.
    There's still things you do and don't do. Happy or not I'm not telling my chick that I'm hitting up other women/etc. When it's over it's over, call it and move on.

    I see your point though. Also got dude to laugh and that's never a bad thing, right?
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    If she has to talk to other guys whilst still in a relationship then she isn't loyal. She could of left you and then started speaking to other guys instead of cheating..
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    Originally Posted by MuzzieChik786 View Post
    No not fixed. She frackin' waited for him for 5 years. She told him what she wanted, you can't call her a sloot for moving on since he couldn't commit.

    Lay the blame where it belongs which in this case lays strictly on him.

    Just lol.

    If she hit up other men online in your homeland she would be stoned to death but you defend her on here. just lol
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    You were together for 5 years and you were in medical school so she got bored and started talking to other guys? I know you don't feel it right now but she did you a favour.

    You have years of med school to get through then residency. She would have to learn to cope with filling her hours with work, life, friends and working out. Sounds like you dodged a bullet because all that stuff wasn't enough and she needed to attention from another man.

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    You'll get over it.

    I've been through this same situation more than once (but then eventually realized its for the best), but be honest - if you were "bored and taking her for granted" then there's a reason for that. You just have rose tinted glasses on and regret now that its over. If you got back together eventually you would just get bored of her again eventually, and have to deal with her nagging you to engaged and whatever else.

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    If your really on your way to high value status as a doctor she'll regret not waiting one day. I don't blame her for jumping ship, girls have low patience for a man during his struggle years.

    What's crazy is if you hit the jackpot as a Dr. You could pull a you younger woman. There may not be anything different about a new young girl vs your ex execept that the new girl reaps all the benefits of your hard work and she didn't have to suffer with you during the struggle.

    Just keep everything in your name as you age. Always have an exit plan for any relationship. Don't let them leach off you if they or you move on.
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    Originally Posted by MuzzieChik786 View Post
    No not fixed. She frackin' waited for him for 5 years. She told him what she wanted, you can't call her a sloot for moving on since he couldn't commit.

    Lay the blame where it belongs which in this case lays strictly on him.
    Wtf is wrong with some of you women? I get she was unhappy, and OP admitted it that it is his fault. No one here is disputing that.

    She started talking to other guys before she ended it. She cheated emotionally. She was getting ready to monkey branch. And lots of women are notorious for this.

    OP--focus on your medical school. You'll have women lined up. Forget this one--she showed her true colors.
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    she couldn't have been that good of a girl if she was openly talking to other guys just to spite you for neglecting her for your career.

    don't get lost in those rose-colored glasses OP
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    I don’t know what you were expecting OP, neglecting someone for a long time is like saying I’m not interested in you anymore.
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    This is pathetic, she went and found someone else, stop making excuses for her, it's done.
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    Originally Posted by wapacmane View Post
    yup this is the truth. I ****ed up, and I regret it every day.

    In all honesty though, I was ready to wife that girl up, I just needed a few more months to finish my medical school exams. We started having communication issues and she just couldn't wait any longer and gave up on me.

    ...Is there anything i can do to get her back?
    No there isn't. She's moved on and so should you. There's someone better out there for you.

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    If she was talking to other guys while still in a relationship, then she wasn't innocent and was acting like a sloot.
    Monkey branching is disrespectful and never ok.
    How is that monkey branching? FIVE years is a long time to keep telling someone you want to move forth in the relationship for them to just ignore you. Opie made a few mistakes in the relationship and I'll outline them here:

    1) he didn't take her seriously when she kept telling him she wanted progression in their relationship.
    2) he laughed off her talking to people online. He should have asked her to cut that chit out immediately or the relationship is over. HE should have broken up with HER given that she was already looking at other options.

    I reckon what really happened is Opie made it difficult for her to break up with him. So she just started looking behind his back - well not really behind his back, she TOLD him she was looking. That wasn't enough of a wake up call for Opie? I mean how blind can you be? lol.

    Sure, she should have broken off the relationship before starting to look. But it's not like she was doing it secretly, she told him she was talking to other guys. She was being straight forward with him - he just didn't care enough to do the same with her.

    Originally Posted by Krackerjacked View Post
    There's still things you do and don't do. Happy or not I'm not telling my chick that I'm hitting up other women/etc. When it's over it's over, call it and move on.

    I see your point though. Also got dude to laugh and that's never a bad thing, right?
    Can't fix it so gotta pickup and keep rolling.
    See above. He's completely at fault for what happened, sorry. He should have communicated that he was intending to move forward AFTER he was done with school. Given his nonchalant attitude about everything, I reckon he didn't do that.

    Question for you dudes, would you stay with a girl who refused to commit to you? After 5 years?

    Originally Posted by Prim3 View Post
    Wtf is wrong with some of you women? I get she was unhappy, and OP admitted it that it is his fault. No one here is disputing that.

    She started talking to other guys before she ended it. She cheated emotionally. She was getting ready to monkey branch. And lots of women are notorious for this.

    OP--focus on your medical school. You'll have women lined up. Forget this one--she showed her true colors.
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    Originally Posted by LordBroski View Post
    Women can't wait for years for you to make up your mind. Her best years to find someone and have kids before she's 40 are coming due and you're sitting there with all the time in the world delaying any commitment to her. If you aren't serious, don't waste her time. Can't blame her
    This exactly. The biological clock isn't working the same way for women as for men. Ain't nobody got time fo' dat.
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    you knew deep down it was time to move on and you just wouldn't let go....all in all good for you both
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