Vick's Dating Log and Advice Thread v. 3.0 (that escalated quickly!)

[xvicknumber7x]

going to a hinge girl's house for her to make me dinner in a few hours. should be cool. i'll probably bang her. then want to be hanging with the lads by 8. have a good weekend yall.

[BlackScorpio91]

going to a hinge girl's house for her to make me dinner in a few hours. should be cool. i'll probably bang her. then want to be hanging with the lads by 8. have a good weekend yall.

You started my Tinder experiment yet?

[xvicknumber7x]

You started my Tinder experiment yet?

nope, no time, but over the next few days ill figure it out.

also, havent heard from brittany since thursday. interesting. might just let her chill for a few more days to see what she does.

[xvicknumber7x]

so she made me a big dinner, we drank, and then fuucked twice. now i'm smoking a cigar with the boys. things are good. she is definitely a clinger though, so i told her to chill tf out.

[BlackScorpio91]

so she made me a big dinner, we drank, and then fuucked twice. now i'm smoking a cigar with the boys. things are good. she is definitely a clinger though, so i told her to chill tf out.

Probably has attachment issues from past relationships with dudes leaving her ass after fuking her a few times.

Or maybe a sign of BPD.

[Luc1fer]

Probably has attachment issues from past relationships with dudes leaving her ass after fuking her a few times.

Just lol at women that fuk guys quickly and then wonder why they disappear. I told this to a younger girl recently and I swear her mind was blown, put up the typical 'how come guys can do it' defense, and made my argument about differences between the sexes which she had clearly never, ever considered before.

[xvicknumber7x]

shes pretty insecure, i believe. but i made her feel good and she came twice and i do intend on seeing her again. she worked hard to make me happy which was cool, and shes actually really cool to be around. still am gunna bang other girls though.

[BlackScorpio91]

Just lol at women that fuk guys quickly and then wonder why they disappear. I told this to a younger girl recently and I swear her mind was blown, put up the typical 'how come guys can do it' defense, and made my argument about differences between the sexes which she had clearly never, ever considered before.

Fuking a dude quickly has nothing to do with a woman being attached brah.

And the guys who fuk them quickly are sexually duplicitous hypocrites.

[Luc1fer]

Fuking a dude quickly has nothing to do with a woman being attached brah.

And the guys who fuk them quickly are sexually duplicitous hypocrites.

****ing a dude quickly is a fast-track to be classified a slut, or at minimum irresponsible.

[BlackScorpio91]

****ing a dude quickly is a fast-track to be classified a slut, or at minimum irresponsible.

....so anyway how's your Saturday night going man?

[Luc1fer]

....so anyway how's your Saturday night going man?

Good man, heading out for birthday drinks (not mine) in a bit.

[BlackScorpio91]

Good man, heading out for birthday drinks (not mine) in a bit.

Gonna go watch the new Terminator movie to see if it's as bad as people really say it is.

[Luc1fer]

Gonna go watch the new Terminator movie to see if it's as bad as people really say it is.

I would expect nothing except some entertaining action. The people that are saying it's bad probably go in with some high expectations.

[Rebel012]

****ing a dude quickly is a fast-track to be classified a slut, or at minimum irresponsible.

Depends entirely on the guy to be honest. Irrespective of differences between the sexes, which are obviously real, the guy who tries to initiate sex quickly with a woman he likes has lost the moral right to judge at that point imo, because he could have drawn out the courtship dance if it was important to him.

Curious though, how would you define "too quickly?" Do you base it on a set number of dates, or is it more about a firm commitment for you?

[BlackScorpio91]

I would expect nothing except some entertaining action. The people that are saying it's bad probably go in with some high expectations.

Yes and it was entertaining action. All the females were badass in their own way and so was Arnold. The fight scenes had me at the edge of my seat literally and the Rev-9 is one cold blooded killer, the first fight with him especially gave me chills because of how fast and efficient he was.

I'll say it's a 6.5/10, not the best but I'll definitely watch it again and better than the 4th and 5th ones imo

[DustinTheHuss]

You describe her as a “sweet girl”, and she cammed? Lmao, not the adjective I’d use to best depict the type of girl that would cam.

I would think a girl who cams is more the hardened, drug user type.

[otakutrevan]

So I was just chilling and joe roegan vibing yah feel me ? And out of no where this Central American chick that shared some of my memes was like "wyd". More towards my HWP. We got some drinks, and parted ways. Then later she hit me up, but I was already knocked the **** out. Super random. May hang again. Random Chad-Lite moment for sure.

Obligatory Early Morning Slap

[rikugunchusa]

Had a date lined up yesterday, chick flakes 3 hours beforehand but wants to reschedule for today. I say sure, and try to confirm the time...radio silence. Whatever, went out with some friends.

Hits me up 12 hours later saying she can't make today either and if we can reschedule..

I get **** happens but 12 hours for a response?? wtf?? We've been out once, and it was great, but when we're not face to face? dear lord is she a terrible communicator.

My gut is telling me that I am wasting my time, and I really, really want to just ghost her.. but maybe she's legit. IDK, i'm gonna just leave her on read for now and think about it.

[BlackScorpio91]

Had a date lined up yesterday, chick flakes 3 hours beforehand but wants to reschedule for today. I say sure, and try to confirm the time...radio silence. Whatever, went out with some friends.

Hits me up 12 hours later saying she can't make today either and if we can reschedule..

I get **** happens but 12 hours for a response?? wtf?? We've been out once, and it was great, but when we're not face to face? dear lord is she a terrible communicator.

My gut is telling me that I am wasting my time, and I really, really want to just ghost her.. but maybe she's legit. IDK, i'm gonna just leave her on read for now and think about it.

Don't respond. You are retarded if you do but seeing as how you're always posting about women wasting your time, I might actually be right.

[otakutrevan]

100% wasting your time and she doesnt ****ing respect you lmao. TIME TO CUT CONTACT

[Luc1fer]

Hits me up 12 hours later saying she can't make today either and if we can reschedule..

I get **** happens but 12 hours for a response?? wtf??

She was waiting to see if something better would come up, and it did.

You were a fallback and she disrespected your time. Personally, I'd call her out for poor behavior and exit/block, but most guys here will just say to exit and say nothing.

[sloppyjoe1]

She was waiting to see if something better would come up, and it did.

You were a fallback and she disrespected your time. Personally, I'd call her out for poor behavior and exit/block, but most guys here will just say to exit and say nothing.

Say if you did call out girls for this type of behavior, what do you think it accomplishes?

[Luc1fer]

Say if you did call out girls for this type of behavior, what do you think it accomplishes?

It signals socially unacceptable behavior, and if enough people in a society set appropriate boundaries it incentivizes generally better behavior.

Unfortunately, flaking and other behaviors like this are becoming normalized. To make it worse, by saying nothing you are feeding that normalization.

[BlackScorpio91]

It signals socially unacceptable behavior, and if enough people in a society set appropriate boundaries it incentivizes generally better behavior.

Unfortunately, flaking and other behaviors like this are becoming normalized. To make it worse, by saying nothing you are feeding that normalization.

I rather just ignore them tbh cause that let's them know that you ain't thinking of them because women like that expect you to blow up their phone looking for answers. To me there's no point in trying to explain.

Me I'll just let karma bite since they're gonna hit the wall at some point and then they ain't gonna get no more attention from men and then they'll be wishing they didn't flake on all these dudes while I'll be still going strong and going after women in their 20s and 30s.

[sloppyjoe1]

It signals socially unacceptable behavior, and if enough people in a society set appropriate boundaries it incentivizes generally better behavior.

Unfortunately, flaking and other behaviors like this are becoming normalized. To make it worse, by saying nothing you are feeding that normalization.

I rather just ignore them tbh cause that let's them know that you ain't thinking of them because women like that expect you to blow up their phone looking for answers. To me there's no point in trying to explain.

Me I'll just let karma bite since they're gonna hit the wall at some point and then they ain't gonna get no more attention from men and then they'll be wishing they didn't flake on all these dudes while I'll be still going strong and going after women in their 20s and 30s.

I think if I were to say something it would be very brief and to the point. But then if she comes crawling back trying to make it up to me, it still doesn't change the fact that it's apart of her normal behavior and you will probably experience more of it in the future.

[Luc1fer]

Me I'll just let karma bite since they're gonna hit the wall at some point and then they ain't gonna get no more attention from men and then they'll be wishing they didn't flake on all these dudes while I'll be still going strong and going after women in their 20s and 30s.

I'm not convinced karma will ever bite these women because guys will continue to tolerate crap from them. The amount of beta males out there is unbelievable.

I'm not saying you are, because you wouldn't tolerate it in a relationship. But I still think not briefly calling them out is passively enabling poor behavior.

[BlackScorpio91]

I'm not convinced karma will ever bite these women because guys will continue to tolerate crap from them. The amount of beta males out there is unbelievable.

I'm not saying you are, because you wouldn't tolerate it in a relationship. But I still think not briefly calling them out is passively enabling poor behavior.

Once a woman gets to a certain age (like 45-50) exceptions aside (as there are some hot and sexy 45-50 year olds) and hits the wall, they're not gonna get the same luxury as a 25 year old or even a 35 year old. Most if not all guys will dismiss an old woman that hit the wall and not tolerate bullchit. It's really all due to looks; the better looking and younger the woman is, the more beta males will tolerate disrespect. There ain't no man I know of that putting up with an angry 60 year old woman who can't get no dick.

But I do get your point; calling them out might not do much but it does put it in the back of their head.

[xvicknumber7x]

Had a date lined up yesterday, chick flakes 3 hours beforehand but wants to reschedule for today. I say sure, and try to confirm the time...radio silence. Whatever, went out with some friends.

Hits me up 12 hours later saying she can't make today either and if we can reschedule..

I get **** happens but 12 hours for a response?? wtf?? We've been out once, and it was great, but when we're not face to face? dear lord is she a terrible communicator.

My gut is telling me that I am wasting my time, and I really, really want to just ghost her.. but maybe she's legit. IDK, i'm gonna just leave her on read for now and think about it.

bro do not respond, wtf.

update:

school is kicking my ass. spent all day yesterday doing homework. got a lot done, though. anyway, this morning i asked out gym crush. i think i got rejected. we talked a bit, she pushed the sled with me after i asked her to join, and then as she was leaving she came over to say goodbye. i asked her if she wanted to get together sometime, and she said "let's see. will you be here tomorrow?" and I said yeah. it was a strange response. i have gotten a lot of positive signs from her over the past few days of us talking, so not sure what to think. i guess we will see. how weird. humbling.

[BlackScorpio91]

bro do not respond, wtf.

update:

school is kicking my ass. spent all day yesterday doing homework. got a lot done, though. anyway, this morning i asked out gym crush. i think i got rejected. we talked a bit, she pushed the sled with me after i asked her to join, and then as she was leaving she came over to say goodbye. i asked her if she wanted to get together sometime, and she said "let's see. will you be here tomorrow?" and I said yeah. it was a strange response. i have gotten a lot of positive signs from her over the past few days of us talking, so not sure what to think. i guess we will see. how weird. humbling.

Scarcity mentality is a real thing.

Every man should have an abundance mentality.

[xvicknumber7x]

i'm not sure how to interpret your response to that post. that is the mentality I have because I usually get whoever I decide to go after. but getting that response from someone who I believe is a bit less attractive than I am is strangely humbling.