Totally wrong. And all you've done is oversimply complex human relationships to fit some wacko red-pill model.It’s just the natural progression of things. Relationships end. It’s life, the way that it was actually designed to be.
Everyone needs to repeat after me. Stand in front of a mirror and say this to yourself about 10 times, and you will feel better about your future relations with women.
HUMANS. ARE. NOT. MONOGAMOUS.
We were never designed to be. There are very few animals in the world that mate for life. Humans decided to do it to try to stabilize society, and it worked for a really long time. However, biology always gets its due, and before you know it we are back to caveman hindbrain behavior.
Look around you. Look at the rate of failed relationships, failed marriages, cheating, all of that. It’s because we aren’t wired to be attracted to just one person for the rest of our lives, not even for 5 years or more. I’ve done most of the breaking up in realtionships, and I’ve also been broken up with. Eventually you just get sick of someone else. It’s the same old day in day out routine and you start to crave that variety.
Now add in the modern woman. Today they have more variety than they have ever had at any point in history. Snapchat, instagram, ********, Twitter. Twerking their ass on the internet for all the world, and all the men they want to sleep with, to see. Men are in a tight spot here if they are hoping for the fantasy “happy wife, happy life” picket fence happily ever after story because less than one percent of modern relationships are going to be capable of that. Women don’t need no man, they’ve got daddy, daddy corporate, and daddy government to take care of their every need and provide them with whatever they want. Take 2 and subtract 2, and you have zero. When she needs more she goes and uses some random dude for his cash, and he happily obliges for a chance to get up in it. It’s completely out of control. Ask any guy about marriage, that is either successful in it or has been divorced. It’s red pill on hard mode. Basically another full time job just to keep some average, aging woman happy for a few extra years until she divorces you anyway. Na, I’m good.
Just enjoy it for what it is. You have a girl for a while, it’s over, then you go find another one. There’s really no other option at this point and it’s not going to improve.
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09-11-2019, 10:33 AM #121
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09-11-2019, 11:35 AM #122
meet at the location in case it goes poorly or gets emotional. it gives both of you the opportunity to get space and separate at the end if things arent congruent.
and yep, 2.5 years for me.
i tend to disagree with anything that says "men are in a tough spot." but i mean this makes sense to a lot of people, and i can see why it does. i just don't think it applies everywhere.
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09-11-2019, 02:11 PM #123
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09-11-2019, 03:31 PM #124
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09-11-2019, 03:35 PM #125
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09-11-2019, 03:37 PM #126
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09-11-2019, 03:59 PM #127
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09-11-2019, 04:02 PM #128
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09-11-2019, 06:05 PM #129
you are nuts if you don't think the beard makes you look better.
no homo.
and fuk.
nicest night in weeks and it's starting to rain.
this is why i'm putting a metal roof over the deck next spring.
edit: lasted as long as I could. going inside to watch Ballers on hbo go and use the giant concrete ashtray my kid made yrs ago in school with his handprint as a fathers day gift.Last edited by NitrogenWidget; 09-11-2019 at 06:15 PM.
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09-11-2019, 06:09 PM #130
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09-11-2019, 06:12 PM #131
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09-11-2019, 06:19 PM #132
did you get noodes do'h?
she's has claimed to be "verified" by people who don't even post here anymore.
at least one woman has said "she sent me body pics to estimate BF%" but no face pics and honestly if I was twisted enough I can find a log of some fit chick's body pics and pretend to be a woman also.
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09-11-2019, 06:52 PM #133
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09-11-2019, 06:54 PM #134
i mean she was very opinionated which was nice but it was like, too much like business and not like an actual date. i'll post the pic now since idc.
https://imgur.com/a/eIlXFrF
"backed by science" made me laugh.
id have a beard if i could. i just cant grow one. and yeah i just walked home in the rain. no bueno. needed to end the night with a nice cigar to get ready for tomorrow.
yeah tinder has been nice for that tbh. it's nice to be chased a bit, ngl.
agree.
she sent me body pics to estimate bf as well. iirc she tried to get some from me maybe? i dont remember. it was 2012, i remember that much. long ass time ago. i dont really do progress pics since idc. i just workout to workout. idk why yall pay anyone on the forums any mind if you aint with the sorta stuff they do or say.
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09-11-2019, 07:06 PM #135
I never said the beard doesn't make me look better. It actually does.
And me getting LASIK surgery + beard = Looks went up at least 2 points. There was a time from 20-26 where I was completely baby faced with glasses and I still got some attention but not as much as now.
Nah I'm good. Maybe after like year 4-5 I'll trim my beard down to something like this:
Or maybe not, it's my choice dude.
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09-11-2019, 07:11 PM #136
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09-11-2019, 07:18 PM #137
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09-11-2019, 07:45 PM #138
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09-11-2019, 08:57 PM #139
I hope my patches are gone before it all turns white.
I am literally the only male in my family who has patches, a space in the middle of the stash and nothing between under my lip and the chin.
if I grow it long enough you can't tell except I have one connector that isn't in.
but again if I grow it long enough it gets covered.
Like a beard comb over.
but i don't see myself ever going back to dragging a razor over my face again.
just a quick buzz on the neck once a week and i'm done.
chicks seem to dig it though.
even the one's who said they hated it changed their mind when I went to stubble over the summer.
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09-11-2019, 09:37 PM #140
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09-11-2019, 09:42 PM #141
Well this 9/11 wasn't as melodramatic as I thought it would be. I didn't see any news about any anniversary mourning the dead. In fact today was a good fuking day.
I honestly don't remember too much back when it happened (I was 9 going on 10 and I think I might have been in school during that time).
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