So a few months back I matched with a girl on hinge we texted a bit over the course of a couple of months and then she either unmatched me or deleted hinge and ghosted me. She just liked me again on hinge and i'm wondering how to reopen her. We never met up in real life.
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09-23-2020, 08:32 AM #8671
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09-23-2020, 08:36 AM #8672
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09-23-2020, 09:00 AM #8673
Sometimes its not the right timing or she was into someone else at the time.
I've matched with a few months later on different apps and we hit off, met up and ended up smashing later.
Even if we did match again, I'd only consider them for fwb.
I have gotten good responses with- " Hey there, I could have sworn we matched before and lost touch. We should get together soon."
May sound stupid but I have had it work 3 times recently.
Acknowledge and be direct.
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09-23-2020, 09:03 AM #8674-SS is jealous of me crew-
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09-23-2020, 09:04 AM #8675-SS is jealous of me crew-
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09-23-2020, 09:28 AM #8676
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09-23-2020, 09:53 AM #8677
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09-23-2020, 11:18 AM #8678
I personally use this one;
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01A6D2JVI..._8a5AFbSRY08FS
yeah, fish eye lens are common as hell, but they have others lol-SS is jealous of me crew-
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09-23-2020, 12:15 PM #8679
Have yet to take the plunge myself, but I assumed the strat was going with a semi-professional or an up-and-coming photographer. Figure if the photos are too obviously professional, that'd be a turnoff, plus, it'll be way cheaper.
The one guy from high school I know who did photography was posting about $50-60 tinder photoshoots a couple years ago (when he would have been a year or two out of college). He still posted good pics then, but he's moved on to bigger/pricier stuff now I think.
Had no idea this was a thing. Very interesting. Kinda want to get it just for taking pics on trips or whatever, forget tinder.
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09-23-2020, 12:15 PM #8680
Once i had girl messaged me 1st, we had casual banter and then she just left me on read FOR MONTH.
Guess what, month passed and she messaged me like nothing happend at all. We had 2 dates, i invited her to my home on a third and then she ghosted me again.
Online dating as an average man is pathetic
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09-23-2020, 12:51 PM #8681
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09-23-2020, 12:52 PM #8682
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09-23-2020, 01:26 PM #8683
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09-23-2020, 02:20 PM #8684
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09-23-2020, 03:04 PM #8685
That looks pretty cool but I’m a light traveller, if I’m ever going somewhere that’s a cool place to take photos of things I enjoy such as gigs/sporting events etc I typically only have my phone keys and wallet with me. I only ever take a rucksack with me if I’m going for a hike or something and even then I’m reluctant to take a rucksack. That lens is really cool And I would like to use it for pictures of cool chit and not just tinder pics but just not practical for me realistically. I’d like to see how much they improve photos of picturesque locations etc compared to a standard iPhone photo though.
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09-23-2020, 03:05 PM #8686
There’s been at least 4-5 people that have dropped by in this thread mentioning they are thinking of getting professional tinder pics but nobody has done it yet lol. I’m tight on money at the moment with car troubles but as soon as a get a little spare I will find an amateur photographer fresh out of uni. As said I think it’s good to have anyway for linkedin and such.
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09-23-2020, 04:04 PM #8687
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09-23-2020, 06:07 PM #8688
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09-23-2020, 08:14 PM #8689
What type of phone do you have? A lot of lens creators have it where it’s like a pop socket on a case.
Example of a 6n1 kit for iPhone XS ;
https://www.amazon.com/Ztylus-Design.../dp/B07BK9L6LX-SS is jealous of me crew-
-SS is my hater crew-
CremeFraicheBro is my love <3
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Join the Boyos Discord;
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09-23-2020, 08:38 PM #8690
Oh yeah that's true. I never have more than two max.
If all your pics are professional then they're just gonna think you're a fake profile or too good to be true if you're really good looking.
In my experience you gotta mix your profile with a combination of professional and regular but still good pics.
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09-23-2020, 08:40 PM #8691
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09-23-2020, 10:21 PM #8692
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09-23-2020, 10:29 PM #8693
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09-24-2020, 03:09 AM #8694
I am tempted to put a few random basic selfies on a dating site and just see how I get on.
LAY DOWN AND ROT CREW
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09-24-2020, 07:22 AM #8695
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09-24-2020, 10:21 AM #8696
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09-24-2020, 10:52 AM #8697
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09-24-2020, 10:53 AM #8698-SS is jealous of me crew-
-SS is my hater crew-
CremeFraicheBro is my love <3
⋆100+ lbs down⋆ ✦5’10”✦
〜(^∇^〜)HW 360lbs - CW 172lbs(〜^∇^)〜
Join the Boyos Discord;
https://discord.gg/P5jAXWfN4h
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09-24-2020, 10:57 AM #8699
Something direct and straight to the point to weed out any attention whores or women that are not down with my program.
By my own anecdotal experience, I tend to get a 60-80% response rate depending on the app and maybe even the time or location I'm in.
Granted it really doesn't matter what opener you use if your pictures are ****ty and/or you're not attractive.
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09-24-2020, 11:16 AM #8700
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