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    Am I the a$$hole or is my girlfriend the a$$hole?

    So a few years back she drove me to my house, and on the way back she drove too fast and got fined by a traffic cam. Back then she said "couldn't you have told me that there were traffic cams in that area?". I literally snapped and told her "why would you blame me for something I have nothing to do with?". She said she didn't mean it that way, and that's just "something people say". She didn't say it to shift the blame to me, apparently, but still believes "it's something people say to one another".

    So yesterday we drove through that area again and she mentioned what happened a few years back, again saying "that I could've told her". In her defense, she didn't say it in an agressive way or anything, just "jokingly". But sincere because she believes she can say something like that. It ruffled my feathers again and we had a fight. She doesn't realize that by saying that, it appears as though she wanted to shift the blame to me for her own actions. Who's in fault here, me for being oversensitive or her for saying that crap...
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    Im assuming you're a lesbian because you are both acting like women
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    "I mean I would have told you, but you needed to learn not to break the law. You're a better person now sweetie and that's why you deserve me."

    Really if this is the most unsettling thing she said to you in the last few years, you're doing great.
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    Why do you care so much?

    About what, whether or not she blames you on a traffic ticket? I would’ve said “well Ive never gotten a ticket there so I didn’t even know about it”

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    lmao

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    Originally Posted by safcpaul View Post
    Im assuming you're a lesbian because you are both acting like women
    Fukkin ded
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    Originally Posted by darkeminence View Post
    Who's in fault here, me for being oversensitive or her for saying that crap...
    Short answer: You

    Longer answer: If she made a reasonably harmless comment in a joking manner, and it triggered you, then you’re deeply insecure about something. Suggest you do some introspection and figure it out. Why are you so uptight over allocation of blame? Keeping score is a losing mentality you should be wary of
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    Are you really 31 or that's a typo?
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    Wtf and you created a thread about this?
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    As someone who is sensitive I think you're being too sensitive. lol When said in person and you could see she was joking, I don't think you should have started an argument over it.
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    Sounds like she was clearly joking and you were to sensitive. Its time for you to put on the big boy pants and apologize for your childish behavior.
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    lmao, just drop it
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