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[DustinTheHuss]

^^^ Good you are getting professional help.

[pondus_levo]

The screens aren’t to impress. This is the misc where you have to post pics or it didn’t happen.

This isn't the misc and you ARE just bragging. You have major ego problems.

A therapist is not good enough. You need a psychologist.

[rikugunchusa]

had a good saturday, Girl A ask to hang out and be my +1 to a party...while she was on the way matched with another girl on bumble who wanted me to come over. First girl was more attractive, and I wanted to see her more since she curved me before tbh, while 2nd was obviously looking for a new dick to cycle onto just from how se was messaging me, and was pretty much a guaranteed smash

so obviously since girl a is on the way I told the other girl I was busy and if we can reschedule, (which she doesnt want to). Girl A showed up and we had a fun time, she had to leave early for something in the AM so I didn't get as far as I liked but im thinking i'll probably hear back from her.

I headed out to party me and the first girl were supposed to go to and texted the second girl, who told me she was going to bed now. I tell her goodnight, get to the party and post a video of it on my story that she instantly views, and then unfriends me (lol) thus destroying my hopes of building a new rotation to keep my desperation in check

[Nacured]

The best way to get girls to buy you drinks at a bar is to tell them it's your birthday! It was my birthday 3 times in November, need to get a couple more birthdays in before Christmas.

[BlackScorpio91]

I agree with you on this one. I made a video touching on the points I agree with. Plus I added a few extra talking points.



* I agree with you bars and clubs are a terrible place to meet women
* Women have a high defence at bars and clubs as they expect to be approached by weirdos
* You are showing low value as a high quality man would already be taken or married and therefore wouldn't be approaching in the club to begin with
* Loud music at the club means she wont be able to hear you well. This will hinder your verbal game
* Just because she is at the club doesn't mean she isn't taken already; and if you want to game a taken girl, you don't need to go to the club specifically!
*The club is designed to get men to spend money on women. The only people that win are the women because they get free entry and drinks and the club owner as they get rich!

Point 2 women sometimes get approached by normal guys (like me). The difference is I approach once and a while, not every chick in there and honestly I rather just be chilling and talking to some people around me than approaching chicks all the time.

I wouldn't necessary agree with point 3 since sometimes there's this bad chick you just have to talk to cause she makes your dick hard. But mass approaching at a bar/club is not really that effective and is most of the time a waste of time.

The rest of the points I agree with. This is also true with Hooters with a vast majority of the women being cockteasers and Timewasters and attention whores. Sure I've met some genuine women that worked there but it was few and far between as they're being paid to be nice and look sexy with their cleavage out (stuffing toilet paper in their bra) and to cocktease men to get them to come back and it's actually a good business practice so can't fault them for that.

[HoustonMiscer]

The thing between the chick (who i went to hs with and reconnected with) and I is officially over and it's cause of a dumb reason too lmao. I told her christmas is a depressing season and then we got into some retarded argument. Long story short, I told her she could never understand why I said what I said, and then she told me I need to let people in. Had sex again (still don't know how I did it, she is way out of my league). Then I told her this can never work, we are just 2 different people and she got super pissed off and told me she likes white guys better anyway (lol). Did this count as a relationship

[FemaleWarriorxo]

The thing between the chick (who i went to hs with and reconnected with) and I is officially over and it's cause of a dumb reason too lmao. I told her christmas is a depressing season and then we got into some retarded argument. Long story short, I told her she could never understand why I said what I said, and then she told me I need to let people in. Had sex again (still don't know how I did it, she is way out of my league). Then I told her this can never work, we are just 2 different people and she got super pissed off and told me she likes white guys better anyway (lol). Did this count as a relationship

Lmao. She got butt hurt and brought up race.

[BlackScorpio91]

The thing between the chick (who i went to hs with and reconnected with) and I is officially over and it's cause of a dumb reason too lmao. I told her christmas is a depressing season and then we got into some retarded argument. Long story short, I told her she could never understand why I said what I said, and then she told me I need to let people in. Had sex again (still don't know how I did it, she is way out of my league). Then I told her this can never work, we are just 2 different people and she got super pissed off and told me she likes white guys better anyway (lol). Did this count as a relationship

1. Why is Christmas a depressing time?
2. That chick is not your therapist and you shouldn't be telling someone you barely know personal chit.
3. Oooo she mad. Salty. Asshurt. Pissed off.

[HoustonMiscer]

1. Why is Christmas a depressing time?
2. That chick is not your therapist and you shouldn't be telling someone you barely know personal chit.
3. Oooo she mad. Salty. Asshurt. Pissed off.

been knowing her for a good 6 to 7 months. i slipped up and got personal with her, won't be making that mistake again

[Luc1fer]

been knowing her for a good 6 to 7 months. i slipped up and got personal with her, won't be making that mistake again

Eh no that's not the reason.... sounds like you just acted like stubborn retard. I would also advise her to end it since you can't communicate openly.

[HoustonMiscer]

Eh no that's not the reason.... sounds like you just acted like stubborn retard. I would also advise her to end it since you can't communicate openly.

yes i am stubborn and there's a good reason for it. wasn't meant to be

[pondus_levo]

The thing between the chick (who i went to hs with and reconnected with) and I is officially over and it's cause of a dumb reason too lmao. I told her christmas is a depressing season and then we got into some retarded argument. Long story short, I told her she could never understand why I said what I said, and then she told me I need to let people in. Had sex again (still don't know how I did it, she is way out of my league). Then I told her this can never work, we are just 2 different people and she got super pissed off and told me she likes white guys better anyway (lol). Did this count as a relationship

I thought she was married...

[MediocreGains]

The thing between the chick (who i went to hs with and reconnected with) and I is officially over and it's cause of a dumb reason too lmao. I told her christmas is a depressing season and then we got into some retarded argument. Long story short, I told her she could never understand why I said what I said, and then she told me I need to let people in. Had sex again (still don't know how I did it, she is way out of my league). Then I told her this can never work, we are just 2 different people and she got super pissed off and told me she likes white guys better anyway (lol). Did this count as a relationship

Went straight to the race card. Classy.

[HoustonMiscer]

I thought she was married...

no that's a different girl LOL

[DanielleGreen]

The thing between the chick (who i went to hs with and reconnected with) and I is officially over and it's cause of a dumb reason too lmao. I told her christmas is a depressing season and then we got into some retarded argument. Long story short, I told her she could never understand why I said what I said, and then she told me I need to let people in. Had sex again (still don't know how I did it, she is way out of my league). Then I told her this can never work, we are just 2 different people and she got super pissed off and told me she likes white guys better anyway (lol). Did this count as a relationship

That girl is low quality... Also hugs Chad...

[spadelexus]

This isn't the misc and you ARE just bragging. You have major ego problems.

A therapist is not good enough. You need a psychologist.

They must have moved it this use to be a subforum of the misc. Im seeing a therapist and a shrink. I posted those screens to show how I have been chasing the dragon with women. I can see how youd think that was just a brag post but it wasn't my intent. I have better stories to share than how I phucked up an orgy with 3 women if I just wanted to brag.

And Im posting itt to receive and hopefully give back advice in return. Brahs who remember me from the sloth threads repped my posts itt saying I gave them helpful advice when I was active in the sloth threads. I lurked that thread for a while just reading before I started to contribute. Not sure if this thread is the 'online dating LTR' equivalent to the sloth thread, but it seemed to be.

And as I mentioned, Im turning a new page in my life. So am new to pursuing quality ltr minded women online. I've met a bunch during my hookup travels but nothing transpired into any kind of "real" relationship minus 1 or 2.

Thoughts on commenting on a girls pic in hinge with "when I saw this picture, I wanted to kiss my phone" and right swiping?

To me the cool thing about hinge is you can open before you match. So it's like a little extra ammunition to peak a girls interest.

I matched a few girls last night with that comment. Just not sure if its setting the right tone. It's very mild compared to my normal openers/routines which is why I'm asking.

[pondus_levo]

They must have moved it this use to be a subforum of the misc. Im seeing a therapist and a shrink. I posted those screens to show how I have been chasing the dragon with women. I can see how youd think that was just a brag post but it wasn't my intent. I have better stories to share than how I phucked up an orgy with 3 women if I just wanted to brag.

And Im posting itt to receive and hopefully give back advice in return. Brahs who remember me from the sloth threads repped my posts itt saying I gave them helpful advice when I was active in the sloth threads. I lurked that thread for a while just reading before I started to contribute. Not sure if this thread is the 'online dating LTR' equivalent to the sloth thread, but it seemed to be.

And as I mentioned, Im turning a new page in my life. So am new to pursuing quality ltr minded women online. I've met a bunch during my hookup travels but nothing transpired into any kind of "real" relationship minus 1 or 2.

Thoughts on commenting on a girls pic in hinge with "when I saw this picture, I wanted to kiss my phone" and right swiping?

To me the cool thing about hinge is you can open before you match. So it's like a little extra ammunition to peak a girls interest.

I matched a few girls last night with that comment. Just not sure if its setting the right tone. It's very mild compared to my normal openers/routines which is why I'm asking.

The more you post, the more you sound like DLB. It's freakin weird, bro.

[DustinTheHuss]

Thoughts on commenting on a girls pic in hinge with "when I saw this picture, I wanted to kiss my phone" and right swiping?

To me the cool thing about hinge is you can open before you match. So it's like a little extra ammunition to peak a girls interest.

I matched a few girls last night with that comment. Just not sure if its setting the right tone. It's very mild compared to my normal openers/routines which is why I'm asking.

You need take a break from online dating. It won't save your problem. Ask your therapist what he/she thinks about online dating for you now.

[DustinTheHuss]

Hopefully spade didn't relapse.

[Luc1fer]

Hopefully spade didn't relapse.

I know where my money is.

[Mr Beer]

#1

Guys I fell in love with a 17 year old hooker, wut do? She is a FREAK in bed and loves my D but there are some red flags, like being a hooker and having a tattooed butthole and smoking crack. I just had a foursome with her and a couple of really hot Brazilian twins just turned 19. Anyway what do you think?

[Legz422]

Guys I fell in love with a 17 year old hooker, wut do? She is a FREAK in bed and loves my D but there are some red flags, like being a hooker and having a tattooed butthole and smoking crack. I just had a foursome with her and a couple of really hot Brazilian twins just turned 19. Anyway what do you think?

lol'd

[jackflag]

Interested in advice especially from the girls. Matched with a chick, pretty consistent message rate from her of right away or within reasonable time once I got the #. We went out, great date, bounced venues, made out all night, etc. Waited couple days and texted her an inside joke, that looking back came off way more corny and needy than I realized at the time.

She replied much later that night, saying she'd been caught up planning xmas party for her office. No biggie. I texted back later, and she replied the next morning. I waited til that night to text and got straight to the point just seeing if she wanted to hang again the next week. She didnt reply until the next day, apologizing and saying her brother and sis-in-law were in town and she's been running around playing hostess. Then she said she probably couldn't hang out again until after the holidays.

So basically, two excuses for late replies in a row (one is normal, two is red flag) and a blow off until an indeterminate time. Liked her a lot obviously, but i'm taking this as a soft ghosting (possibly in reply to the unwittingly corny/needy text), and just inviting suggestions on what to do next, if anything at all.

[Luc1fer]

Interested in advice especially from the girls. Matched with a chick, pretty consistent message rate from her of right away or within reasonable time once I got the #. We went out, great date, bounced venues, made out all night, etc. Waited couple days and texted her an inside joke, that looking back came off way more corny and needy than I realized at the time.

She replied much later that night, saying she'd been caught up planning xmas party for her office. No biggie. I texted back later, and she replied the next morning. I waited til that night to text and got straight to the point just seeing if she wanted to hang again the next week. She didnt reply until the next day, apologizing and saying her brother and sis-in-law were in town and she's been running around playing hostess. Then she said she probably couldn't hang out again until after the holidays.

So basically, two excuses for late replies in a row (one is normal, two is red flag) and a blow off until an indeterminate time. Liked her a lot obviously, but i'm taking this as a soft ghosting (possibly in reply to the unwittingly corny/needy text), and just inviting suggestions on what to do next, if anything at all.

Nothing man, she’s letting you down in the typical avoidant way (which also allows her to maintain you as a backup).

Don’t take it personally, could be a million reasons.

[GixxerSixxer]

Dear diary: starting to think I should have rode the Instagram wave and built a following for social proof. Never posted a pic and just follow meme pages, but always seeing hot local chicks on the explore page that I've never seen around out and about. Definitely would be sliding in the DMs

[Legz422]

Interested in advice especially from the girls. Matched with a chick, pretty consistent message rate from her of right away or within reasonable time once I got the #. We went out, great date, bounced venues, made out all night, etc. Waited couple days and texted her an inside joke, that looking back came off way more corny and needy than I realized at the time.

She replied much later that night, saying she'd been caught up planning xmas party for her office. No biggie. I texted back later, and she replied the next morning. I waited til that night to text and got straight to the point just seeing if she wanted to hang again the next week. She didnt reply until the next day, apologizing and saying her brother and sis-in-law were in town and she's been running around playing hostess. Then she said she probably couldn't hang out again until after the holidays.

So basically, two excuses for late replies in a row (one is normal, two is red flag) and a blow off until an indeterminate time. Liked her a lot obviously, but i'm taking this as a soft ghosting (possibly in reply to the unwittingly corny/needy text), and just inviting suggestions on what to do next, if anything at all.

Honestly don't know. She could very well be very busy what with it being the holidays and all. Or she could be blowing you off. I prob wouldn't completely write her off. Maybe say hi in a couple days, and def wish her a merry christmas and then after the holidays ask her to do something. Make sure you have a date and stuff ready to throw out there and see how she responds. If she blows it off and doesn't offer up an alternative day, then you know she's not interested.

[jackflag]

Nothing man, she’s letting you down in the typical avoidant way (which also allows her to maintain you as a backup).

Don’t take it personally, could be a million reasons.

Yeah, could be anything. The text, the wind blowing, something else, who knows. Only thing i've learned is it never matters what it is. It just is. Its too bad.

[jackflag]

Honestly don't know. She could very well be very busy what with it being the holidays and all. Or she could be blowing you off. I prob wouldn't completely write her off. Maybe say hi in a couple days, and def wish her a merry christmas and then after the holidays ask her to do something. Make sure you have a date and stuff ready to throw out there and see how she responds. If she blows it off and doesn't offer up an alternative day, then you know she's not interested.

I do get that its the holiday season. And i'm sure she is actually busy. But you can't do anything the whole week leading up to the actual holidays? C'mon. If you really wanted to, you'd find some time, right? That, plus the late texts and (even valid) excuses...

Btw, her last texts were on Saturday. Technically she hasn't done anything wrong, so even though I kind of want to just never reply, I'm thinking about texting on Tuesday to just say hey and dont worry about it. And then leave it at that. I'm not reaching out again.

[dusky99]

Y'all are stuck in the past like it's 2014 and you can meet up with Tinder slots just by shooting them a "hey". You need to get with the times. If you want to succeed online these days you've got to get a big social media following and become an e-boy.

[HoustonMiscer]

just got stood up at a date