Matches have pretty much died ²

[MediocreGains]

Apparently I have that DILF thing going for me, my exes friends were saying that. I don't think I look much older than 30 though.

Probably has more to do with the vibe you give off.

That and mid-30s seems pretty old when you're 22.

[BlackScorpio91]

I've been called Daddy and Papi before but never a DILF.

I would consider that kind of a back handed compliment as they're implying you're old af imo.

[Luc1fer]

Sounds like they're brainstorming anything that you might possibly take as an insult

No, this was months ago and it was said in a positive way (she showed me some messages).

Probably has more to do with the vibe you give off.

That and mid-30s seems pretty old when you're 22.

Right. I was "old af" compared to them. But I still look ~30.

[NitrogenWidget]

I've been called Daddy and Papi before but never a DILF.

I would consider that kind of a back handed compliment as they're implying you're old af imo.

Daddy and Papa.
but it was during sex.

does that count?

and yes, those chicks turned out to be unstable.

had some trailer trash 20yr old hit me up okcupid once.
was probably a dude.
I ignored the first few messages until "she" said I was a total DILF and she loves older men.
that she lives in my city and really wants to meet.
assumed it was a dude trolling for dink pics.

told "her" to send a spoon pick and link me her FB profile.

didn't hear from "her" again. LOL!

[BlackScorpio91]

Daddy and Papa.
but it was during sex.

does that count?

and yes, those chicks turned out to be unstable.

had some trailer trash 20yr old hit me up okcupid once.
was probably a dude.
I ignored the first few messages until "she" said I was a total DILF and she loves older men.
that she lives in my city and really wants to meet.
assumed it was a dude trolling for dink pics.

told "her" to send a spoon pick and link me her FB profile.

didn't hear from "her" again. LOL!

Yeah probably a gay dude.

[DustinTheHuss]

Probably has more to do with the vibe you give off.

That and mid-30s seems pretty old when you're 22.

Not for Spade. He gets 19 year old girls at 42.

I wonder what is happening with the latest one who is in her 30s.

[Luc1fer]

Not for Spade. He gets 19 year old girls at 42.

I wonder what is happening with the latest one who is in her 30s.

Hmmm ye but he’s still viewed as a sugar daddy. And he plays the part too from what he described.

I didn’t with mine, but it’s difficult to escape the evident age gap and sometimes I felt that dynamic. It’s probably fine once they hit late 20s.

[TheIronAsylum]

it so hilarious how these schit apps ban you for no reason once and you can never get on again sucha joke hinge and tinder since hinge is now owned by tinder

[brightbrah]

Hmmm ye but he’s still viewed as a sugar daddy. And he plays the part too from what he described.

I didn’t with mine, but it’s difficult to escape the evident age gap and sometimes I felt that dynamic. It’s probably fine once they hit late 20s.

Has the reaper paid you a visit yet or have you been fortunate in that regard?

[MediocreGains]

Not for Spade. He gets 19 year old girls at 42.

I wonder what is happening with the latest one who is in her 30s.

For some of them the age gap is part of the appeal.

[Luc1fer]

Has the reaper paid you a visit yet or have you been fortunate in that regard?

I'm good, only have a few gray hairs even.

[Legz422]

Not for Spade. He gets 19 year old girls at 42.

I wonder what is happening with the latest one who is in her 30s.

He hasn't been around. Wonder if him and rich girl eloped. lol

[Luc1fer]

He hasn't been around. Wonder if him and rich girl eloped. lol

I honestly think they suit one another. Both seem highly narcissistic.

She's "down to earth" lmao

[Luc1fer]

Where's my girl Silence?

[spazzin]

spade is 42 and pullin dimes worth millions

mirin hard, he must be in the top 0.1%

[Legz422]

I honestly think they suit one another. Both seem highly narcissistic.

She's "down to earth" lmao

Yeah, I had to laugh at that too.

Where's my girl Silence?

There was a big thread where a bunch of miscers were saying they'd seen her pics and she hasn't posted since.

[NitrogenWidget]

Yeah, I had to laugh at that too.



There was a big thread where a bunch of miscers were saying they'd seen her pics and she hasn't posted since.

you mean He hasn't posted since.

[BlackScorpio91]

you mean He hasn't posted since.

I honestly forgot all about SilenceSpeaks.....if he/she is gone, oh well.

Anyway very few dudes in their 40s can pull younger men judging by how beta and out of shape they are so I give Spade his props for doing that.

[Legz422]

So saw grocery guy this morning. He texted me this morning for the first time all week. Then I was off work and doing errands so decided to hit up the grocery store today instead of tomorrow. We talked for like 15-20 min and he was very very complimentary. Then when we were texting after, again very complimentary. Still no mention of seeing each other. lol

Met Tinder guy tonight. We met at a starbucks and just talked for about an hour or so. He's cute and nice and we had a good conversation but I just don't know. He's not FWB. I'm so sad now. I wish I could eat my cookies tonight. :/

[Luc1fer]

So saw grocery guy this morning. He texted me this morning for the first time all week. Then I was off work and doing errands so decided to hit up the grocery store today instead of tomorrow. We talked for like 15-20 min and he was very very complimentary. Then when we were texting after, again very complimentary. Still no mention of seeing each other. lol

Met Tinder guy tonight. We met at a starbucks and just talked for about an hour or so. He's cute and nice and we had a good conversation but I just don't know. He's not FWB. I'm so sad now. I wish I could eat my cookies tonight. :/

Does grocery store guy seem generally low confidence and clueless about women/dating?

[FemaleWarriorxo]

So saw grocery guy this morning. He texted me this morning for the first time all week. Then I was off work and doing errands so decided to hit up the grocery store today instead of tomorrow. We talked for like 15-20 min and he was very very complimentary. Then when we were texting after, again very complimentary. Still no mention of seeing each other. lol

Met Tinder guy tonight. We met at a starbucks and just talked for about an hour or so. He's cute and nice and we had a good conversation but I just don't know. He's not FWB. I'm so sad now. I wish I could eat my cookies tonight. :/

I wouldn’t even respond to grocery guy mama legz.. he only contacts you when he wants (imo). It honestly seems like you just need to take time off and heal from your FWB <3



Sushi guy agreed to let me organize his apartment after our restaurant date tomorrow. Basically the definition of a bachelor pad...

[legbroke]

So saw grocery guy this morning. He texted me this morning for the first time all week. Then I was off work and doing errands so decided to hit up the grocery store today instead of tomorrow. We talked for like 15-20 min and he was very very complimentary. Then when we were texting after, again very complimentary. Still no mention of seeing each other. lol

Met Tinder guy tonight. We met at a starbucks and just talked for about an hour or so. He's cute and nice and we had a good conversation but I just don't know. He's not FWB. I'm so sad now. I wish I could eat my cookies tonight. :/

Mama legz, **** grocery store guy. He sounds like he's old enough to know he's being difficult, regardless of how socially incompetent he could be.

I'm sorry. I hope something works out for you.

[Legz422]

Does grocery store guy seem generally low confidence and clueless about women/dating?

He really comes off as clueless but I don't know. He could just be really good at that game, you know? I've decided I'm going to say something today. So he can either chit or get off the pot.

I wouldn’t even respond to grocery guy mama legz.. he only contacts you when he wants (imo). It honestly seems like you just need to take time off and heal from your FWB <3



Sushi guy agreed to let me organize his apartment after our restaurant date tomorrow. Basically the definition of a bachelor pad...

I just want to stop thinking about fwb. I don't think anyone is going to measure up, that's just something that I think I need to get used to. I think maybe it will be good to never feel that kind of chemistry again, that way it won't be so devastating to lose it.

Mama legz, **** grocery store guy. He sounds like he's old enough to know he's being difficult, regardless of how socially incompetent he could be.

I'm sorry. I hope something works out for you.

Thank you.

[brightbrah]

He really comes off as clueless but I don't know. He could just be really good at that game, you know? I've decided I'm going to say something today.

Maybe he's a miscer

[Legz422]

Maybe he's a miscer

lol Doubtful but you never know.

ETA: The other good thing about meeting Tinder guy. I haven't met anyone new in years and was curious if I've still got it. Going by his reaction and the stuff he's saying, I definitely do.

[InsanePain11]

Anyone tried okcupid, and do you have any tips? Is it worth buying 1 month premium? Just made my profile and I’m just wondering how to maximize my use of this app. Apologies in advance if it’s already been discussed.

[Luc1fer]

Anyone tried okcupid, and do you have any tips? Is it worth buying 1 month premium? Just made my profile and I’m just wondering how to maximize my use of this app. Apologies in advance if it’s already been discussed.

I deleted mine, was trashy in my area.

[BlackScorpio91]

Anyone tried okcupid, and do you have any tips? Is it worth buying 1 month premium? Just made my profile and I’m just wondering how to maximize my use of this app. Apologies in advance if it’s already been discussed.

I have the app but never tried it, I'm usually on ******** Dating, Tinder, Bumble and Hinge.

[MediocreGains]

Anyone tried okcupid, and do you have any tips? Is it worth buying 1 month premium? Just made my profile and I’m just wondering how to maximize my use of this app. Apologies in advance if it’s already been discussed.

I remember it being total chit even eight years ago. It can only be worse now with all the competition.

[InsanePain11]

I deleted mine, was trashy in my area.

For sure brah. My expectations are pretty low for this but I figured I'd take a quick look.

I have the app but never tried it, I'm usually on ******** Dating, Tinder, Bumble and Hinge.

Nice brah. Which one is your favorite? I know you prefer IRL approaches, but if you had to pick one that works best, which would it be?

I remember it being total chit even eight years ago. It can only be worse now with all the competition.

That's a good guestimate I'd say.

It's funny how these apps all try to suck you in to get you to buy premium. I have like 23 likes already in a couple hours, but I'm pretty positive they will be mostly unattractive, as judgemental as that may sound (they don't let you see who likes you without premium). With that said I'm STILL tempted to pay lol. I just want to see how they are. I'll probably fold and pay eventually and then I'll see them and be sadface.jpg haha.