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[BlackScorpio91]

Strong hyper agressive game from spadelexus. and kudos on that woman admitting looks run the game


So I went to a house party with some of my very good black bros (context will be needed). We ended up at an all Blackhouse party deal. Everyone was college-educated, no hood/really street or etc kinda people (once again for context here). The sheer lack of eye contact or convo from women was absurd. Super short responses, not interested in any convo at all. I've said it before but I get the most resistance / shielded responses / standoffishness from Black women. This **** will never make sense to me. EVENTUALLY I think I cracked the shield of one and she finally started acting friendly, but at that point your boy was too lit. **** is so weird. Non Black misers are always talking about how "ultra foward" Black women are , but man I can't say I've every experienced. That said a Chad bro was with us and commented on the odd vibes.

They don't like the way you look. Also you have a certain look that doesn't do it with most American women (hit and miss face).

Plus the whole vibe you're giving.

[HoustonMiscer]

imagine if we did a meetup consisting of the people in this thread lol. i feel like it would be a hilarious night

[DanielleGreen]

imagine if we did a meetup consisting of the people in this thread lol. i feel like it would be a hilarious night

I would hope you don't wear that 'Stros hat...

[rikugunchusa]

otaku, on a random crackpot theory, do you wear glasses?

[otakutrevan]

They don't like the way you look. Also you have a certain look that doesn't do it with most American women (hit and miss face).

Plus the whole vibe you're giving.

whewwww ladddddddddd. Even Chad and Chad Lite noticed **** was weird, but then again they could be labeled (and there is no PC way to say this) "white washed"/suburban/alternative black dudes. Who knowsssssss

imagine if we did a meetup consisting of the people in this thread lol. i feel like it would be a hilarious night

Bro that foolishness would be golden.

otaku, on a random crackpot theory, do you wear glasses?

Just started wearing glasses last year. However I generally only have them on driving, watching a movie, or at the range.

[Luc1fer]

This is the secret sauce. Inb4 dyel

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8+ - tall, lean and slender.

[otakutrevan]

8+ - tall, lean and slender.

8 feet tall ? WOT !?

[rikugunchusa]

I think he means he's around an 8 or higher on a scale of 10?

[otakutrevan]

I think he means he's around an 8 or higher on a scale of 10?

Ah i see

[RightKindaGuy]

8+ - tall, lean and slender.

he looks like he has terrible frame as his shoulders are narrow af and his beard is nasty looking

id be curious to know his height too

[pondus_levo]

he looks like he has terrible frame as his shoulders are narrow af and his beard is nasty looking

id be curious to know his height too

Reds gonna red.

[Luc1fer]

he looks like he has terrible frame as his shoulders are narrow af and his beard is nasty looking

id be curious to know his height too

He's 6'4. lol at nitpicking at his narrow shoulders... classic misc response. He has a physique that attracts many women.

[RightKindaGuy]

Reds gonna red.

being concerned about colored bars on the internet.

straight soy

[RightKindaGuy]

He has a physique that attracts many women.

his height saves him.

manlet and narrow frame is a death sentence

[pondus_levo]

being concerned about colored bars on the internet.

straight soy

Been here since 2012 and you don't know that it means your statement is wrong/useless/etc...

Stick to the misc.

[BlackScorpio91]

RightKindaGuy should change his username to RightKindaGay....to be so concerned about another man's physique......smh

[stevesteve12]

Not gonna work on these women.



These are all serious relationship minded professional early thirties types. "How does splitting a bottle of red while I seduce you sound?" is my standard bumble screening pitch.

Just so phuckin bummed I'm back on this s**t. Starting from scratch. Again. Its so time consuming. Keep looking at my phone thinking the camwhores gonna txt me. But she's not. Phuck.



Did you smile when you approached/talked to them?

Could be they were taken/or interested in other guys there. White girls do the same chit. But yeah sounds like there was a weird vibe.

you put you real age on bumble?

[microsuede]

you put you real age on bumble?

no way he does. my response rate with my real age vs a profile i tried a while ago when i took off 5 years has been night and day. honestly since doing that i feel like i've put too much pressure on myself when i get do get a match from any halfway decent woman resulting in no success from old lately from me. Oh yea, thanks to my recent birthday another year has been added lowering my appeal even further.

[DustinTheHuss]

you put you real age on bumble?

I think he said he puts age 28 or something on Tinder.

[spadelexus]

1. DYEL ?
2. Height my guy ?
3. "Carlton Vibes" ? I'd say no personally, but to other people....Maybe. People seem to think I grew up mostly around white people with zero evidence other than talking to me, or they assume that I would only date white women (heard this even in my own family household). So perhaps these women are making up assumptions (some have admitted this), and writing me off before a word is even said, but that's kinda rude imo. But my Black bros noticed the same thing, and after I talked about it for a moment they admitted they often notice this same thing (Chad and Chad-Lite for context purposes)



wot.

If I saw a white girl talk/dress like she grew up in Bedstuy Id be turned off a little. It is a little shallow, and nowadays the subculture lines are blurred. When I grew up I was one of the first white kids in my school to listen to rap. Run-Dmc and the Beastie Boys. Used to get picked on, bad. I was young, and didn't understand it. I just didn't like Def Leopard and Megadeth. What was the big deal? Long story short I was outcasted by white kids in the suburban neighborhood I grew up in, and became friends with the black and puerto Rican kids that lived in the bad part of town. From that point the white girls basically stopped talking to me. Fast forward to high school, now the kids I was friendly with supplied the white kids from my neighborhood weed. And by that time everybody listened to tupac and wu tang clan so I got back in the white click junior/senior year. Experienced high school love with a couple girls.That was more than 20 years ago. Good times.

Tl:dr don't give a phuck about what other people think of you. The only voice that matters in your head is your own.

he looks like he has terrible frame as his shoulders are narrow af and his beard is nasty looking

id be curious to know his height too

Guarantee youd look down on the ground and you'd get out of my way if I walked past you.

you put you real age on bumble?

35 on bumble cuz you can't hide the age. Could probably put even lower but I don't really gaf. Bumble girls will ask me "why I lie" and I tell them the truth. I say 40yo women on average aren't that attractive imo, and 20/30 yo women are attracted to me but wouldn't see me if they set 35/40 as the age filter. They appreciate me being real about it. Its not as bad as heavily filtered/angled pics girls use imo. Cuz when they show up they look different. I look exactly the same irl.

[SniXSniPe]

I've been sleeping with this one chick as a fwb type thing (and yes, we talked about it and she knows I just wanted that with her), but I'm starting to think I should cut her off. She seemed off tonight, and then when leaving a few minutes ago looked a little sad. Nothing wrong with her, she's a pretty girl and seems very sweet, just... not the girl I see myself settling down for.

Y'all think I should wait for her to say something, or be a decent dude and just tell her to look for someone else (although I'm sure she's keeping her options open, lol).

**** I hate dating. Still trying to find that wifey chick but you got 6'4" monsters like spade stealing all the girls.

I think it counts more than you realize. I changed my height temporarily to 6'2 on Bumble and the results were drastically different.

https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showt...post1576441841

How tall are you, dude? You got a sick body. I'm honestly surprised you don't pull these chicks easily, regardless of you not being 6'2".

[Luc1fer]

How tall are you, dude? You got a sick body. I'm honestly surprised you don't pull these chicks easily, regardless of you not being 6'2".

5’6, well below the 5’10 online cutoff

[spadelexus]

5’6, well below the 5’10 online cutoff

Do you wear lifts? In the sloth threads guys with height disadvantages talked about wearing shoes that added an inch or two (I think?) so in your case you would “appear” to be 5’7/5”8 when going on a 1st date. Then they’d put 5’8”/5’9” on their profile because girls 5’4” and shorter aren’t gonna tell the difference.

[BlackScorpio91]

Who considers the shortest girls to be the most annoying compared to tall girls? Lile girls below 5'3''???

[Nacured]

Who considers the shortest girls to be the most annoying compared to tall girls? Lile girls below 5'3''???

I personally prefer women that are 5'5ish/5'6ish to 6ft. I get what you mean, some short girls think that acting loud means people will notice them more...no you're still only 5'1....grow taller! Being loud in volume does not mean you're gonna attract attention. A lot of short women act normal therefore they'll get noticed/attraction from guys, but if you put on 5 inch heels hot pink shoes and swear like a sailor then no one will want to talk to because you are annoying.

[SniXSniPe]

5’6, well below the 5’10 online cutoff

Girl's wear high heels and cake themselves with make-up. I would say **** it dude, get some inserts.

I would:

a) not even bother to put your height in your profile (especially if it's Tinder which doesn't ask)
b) Get some .5" inserts or something

If they're sub 5'6, they won't even be able to tell the difference anyways.

If they're wholesome, they won't even care most of the time. I'm 5'9" and I somehow managed to score with two girls (different times) who were 6'0 - 6'1" ish. And they were from online (although I would say only one was the wholesome wifey kind of girl).

[BlackScorpio91]

I personally prefer women that are 5'5ish/5'6ish to 6ft. I get what you mean, some short girls think that acting loud means people will notice them more...no you're still only 5'1....grow taller! Being loud in volume does not mean you're gonna attract attention. A lot of short women act normal therefore they'll get noticed/attraction from guys, but if you put on 5 inch heels hot pink shoes and swear like a sailor then no one will want to talk to because you are annoying.

Exactly, they have an Napoleon complex and try to act either loud and snarky or are just really domineering and weird. Granted not all short girls are like this (met some pretty cool ones) but a lot of them I've met are. News flash: No guy likes a woman who's snarky/sassy and there's a difference between witty and snarky/sassy. They also try to chit test you more often particularly if you're above average height and it's pretty annoying tbh. It's like equivalent to a Chihuahua constantly barking at you to intimidate you; it's hilarious.

I prefer women who are like 5'3'' to 6'0''.

[pondus_levo]

Exactly, they have an Napoleon complex and try to act either loud and snarky or are just really domineering and weird. Granted not all short girls are like this (met some pretty cool ones) but a lot of them I've met are. News flash: No guy likes a woman who's snarky/sassy and there's a difference between witty and snarky/sassy. They also try to chit test you more often particularly if you're above average height and it's pretty annoying tbh. It's like equivalent to a Chihuahua constantly barking at you to intimidate you; it's hilarious.

I prefer women who are like 5'3'' to 6'0''.

Some short women are definitely more insecure, but I've never had an issue getting dates with them. I don't put my height on Tinder, but I do on every other app and still get more matches than I can handle and I only swipe on 6/10+ women.

Current woman I am dating is 5'2 and probably weighs 105lbs.

[Luc1fer]

If they're wholesome, they won't even care most of the time. I'm 5'9" and I somehow managed to score with two girls (different times) who were 6'0 - 6'1" ish. And they were from online (although I would say only one was the wholesome wifey kind of girl).

Obviously the girls I end up dating don't care as much (selection bias), but in general the filters and preferences kill the pool. Being 5'9 (avg height) and dating 6'0 is pretty different, because in that case she's the outlier. If you're short, you're the outlier.

That said, even the girls I date (<5'4) will run some chit tests regarding my height - but I just play along or laugh it off. It's kinda funny actually how a girl will chit test about that, and in the next breath will slip how she's insecure about her looks vs. mine.

[otakutrevan]

no way he does. my response rate with my real age vs a profile i tried a while ago when i took off 5 years has been night and day. honestly since doing that i feel like i've put too much pressure on myself when i get do get a match from any halfway decent woman resulting in no success from old lately from me. Oh yea, thanks to my recent birthday another year has been added lowering my appeal even further.

My guy how tall are you?
Where do you live?
What does your face look like?
What archtype/subculture/persona area you fit into
You look like an anime character lmao.

If I saw a white girl talk/dress like she grew up in Bedstuy Id be turned off a little. It is a little shallow, and nowadays the subculture lines are blurred. When I grew up I was one of the first white kids in my school to listen to rap. Run-Dmc and the Beastie Boys. Used to get picked on, bad. I was young, and didn't understand it. I just didn't like Def Leopard and Megadeth. What was the big deal? Long story short I was outcasted by white kids in the suburban neighborhood I grew up in, and became friends with the black and puerto Rican kids that lived in the bad part of town. From that point the white girls basically stopped talking to me. Fast forward to high school, now the kids I was friendly with supplied the white kids from my neighborhood weed. And by that time everybody listened to tupac and wu tang clan so I got back in the white click junior/senior year. Experienced high school love with a couple girls.That was more than 20 years ago. Good times.

The feels. I grew up legitimately in all public housing (aka "the hood) from birth to like....4th grade. The ostracization started super early just from my accent/dialect and hobbies (was hardcore into anime / RPGs before I even understood it was all japanese stuff). Girls are super big into appearances in concern to men. Definitely remember white guys, that I grew up with catching crap from white people just because they were who they were. And alot of them ended up with Black girls.

however this race to culture subscription ratio, even with blurred cultural lines as you mentioned know from hip hop culture and social media kinda meshing everything together, I still think Black dudes lose out hard due to the population and amount of black that may subscribe to their beliefs (6.5% of women in this country are black) . When Black people realize I'm not a democrat or progressive they look at me like I just sacrificed a lamb or some **** lmao. So being a not so good looking facially, minority, that doesnt even fit into his "in group" culturally at all. Its a wild ass rideeeeeee.