I think this is what the real problem with girls and dating is in 2020

[RavingRicky]

red pill , mgtow, 80/20 rule, hypergammy, tinder, social media yada yada yada yada

But i think i know what the real problem is.

It's entitlement.

Women are just constantly, bombarded their entire life with positive validation. Social media likes, 1000+ tinder matches, Sex with 9/10 "Chads", told they are beautiful, bold, brave no matter what they do. Pretty much told you are always right, always perfect, alwlays beautiful and evidence of that by random good looking men wanting sex with you.

I strongly believe that the average female has a completely delusonal, exaggerrated sense of self worth and self value.

This creates a problem with women however as they esentially lose over time. I'm not some bitter MGTOW dude "hurr durr WOMEN HIT THE WALL AT 30!"

But the proof is women enjoy riding the cock carasoul, told how amazing they are, with the intention they'll settle and be able to find some great guy when they are older only to eventually realise they can't as they are well past their prime.

"'I can't believe how many men my age are only interested in younger women,'' wails Gail, a 34-year-old advertising executive as she describes her first search through men's profiles on the RSVP internet dating site. She is shocked to find many mid-30s men have set up their profiles to refuse mail from women their own age.

Talking to many women like her, it's intriguing how many look back on past relationships where they let good men get away because they weren't ready. American journalist Kate Bolick wrote recently in The Atlantic about breaking off her three-year relationship with a man she described as ''intelligent, good-looking, loyal and kind''. She acknowledged ''there was no good reason to end things'', yet, at the time, she was convinced something was missing in the relationship. That was 11 years ago. She's is now 39 and facing grim choices."

[LogOutBrah]

[RavingRicky]

lold

[CherryPopinski]

“Weren’t ready” is code for rejecting all the guys who where genuinely putting themselves out there for her but she’d rather been a sloot instead.

[RavingRicky]

“Weren’t ready” is code for rejecting all the guys who where genuinely putting themselves out there for her but she’d rather been a sloot instead.

I agree, but it leads to a delusiona line of thinking amongst women

[phaginator]

AKA princess syndrome

Good luck to everyone marrying a western sloot anno 2020

[MuzzieChik786]

Women are just constantly, bombarded their entire life with positive validation.

No we're not. Lol.

And every smart woman (and yes, you should want a smart woman for spending your life with) knows social media is a facade.

[yewotm8]

Women are like this naturally, you don't need environmental factors to make them self-centered and "entitled".

We've lost the social technology used to shape them into well-behaved women and now we're fooked and we're blaming the women themselves like incels.

[meanstringbean]

women do hit the wall at 30 tho

[RavingRicky]

No we're not. Lol.

And every smart woman (and yes, you should want a smart woman for spending your life with) knows social media is a facade.

So no one has ever told you how beautiful you are?

Women are like this naturally, you don't need environmental factors to make them self-centered and "entitled".

We've lost the social technology used to shape them into well-behaved women and now we're fooked and we're blaming the women themselves like incels.

what do you mean?

[badbl00d]

It starts at home. I blame the parents of these sl00ts who have taught them that no man was ever truly good enough for them, and they could do no wrong. Spoiling them and conditioning them to believe this is how they should be treated. That no matter how average and basic they are, that they only deserve the best. That includes all material things, experiences and of course men. They don't believe they have to settle for their level and would rather die alone than to be with someone matched to them. Why? Mommy and Daddy told them never to settle.

Take a look at the best girl you've ever dated or been with...Now look at her family. Chances are a woman is more grounded when her parents didn't treat her like some special little snowflake.

[MuzzieChik786]

So no one has ever told you how beautiful you are?

I'm an average 5 at best. Yes, but it's mostly other women or a few "hollering" dudes.

But your OP makes it sound like we're bombarded with messages upon waking and every minute of the day telling us how pretty/wanted we are. That simply isn't realistic. Most people have problems giving random people compliments, especially in today's world. Most compliments given to women are by other women.

People looking at you or checking you out is a different story, but I don't count that as "validation."

Chances are a woman is more grounded when her parents didn't treat her like some special little snowflake.

You're a snowflake.

Also, marry someone who's not an only child and/or has brothers.

[pla1njane]

Can confirm am average female

No but actually if you’re that jaded about it go for insecure chicks lol. They’ll stay because they think you’re the best they can get. Just like guys are allowed to have preferences and not like fat chicks, girls can have preferences too

[mvitz]

Everything is going exactly as planned. Disintegration of relationships between men and women = failed families. Which is what they want.

[badbl00d]

I'm an average 5 at best. Yes, but it's mostly other women or a few "hollering" dudes.

But your OP makes it sound like we're bombarded with messages upon waking and every minute of the day telling us how pretty/wanted we are. That simply isn't realistic. Most people have problems giving random people compliments, especially in today's world. Most compliments given to women are by other women.

People looking at you or checking you out is a different story, but I don't count that as "validation."



You're a snowflake.

Also, marry someone who's not an only child and/or has brothers.

I know cause I'm one of a kind.

[THATSfunnyOP]

Im 29. And I pass on women older than 25... the quality just plummets. They go from glow to hag fairly quickly.

[MuzzieChik786]

Everything is going exactly as planned. Disintegration of relationships between men and women = failed families. Which is what they want.

Who's they? Aliens? O_o

I know cause I'm one of a kind.

I'm sure your mom also tells you you're not a fat wildebeest. But we all know that's not true either.

Im 29. And I pass on women older than 25... the quality just plummets. They go from glow to hag fairly quickly.

Settle down there Leonardo. Your avi puts you at, at least, 45.

[badbl00d]

I'm sure your mom also tells you you're not a fat wildebeest. But we all know that's not true either.

My mom tells me that I'm the man she always hoped I would be. Sorry your parents don't love you.

[MuzzieChik786]

My mom tells me that I'm the man she always hoped I would be. Sorry your parents don't love you.

How old do we think opie is by his post? I put him at 19. What you think?

[xvicknumber7x]

who cares dudes get some hobbies and hang with the boys and just smash and dash, fight fire with fire if you're upset with things, really not that difficult

[badbl00d]

How old do we think opie is by his post? I put him at 19. What you think?

says he's 50

[FinBra]

World has started to progress towards this:



For the unawares, everyone in the book has multiple partners, family unit is looked down upon, drugs keep everyone stoic.

Caveat, in our world, betas (bottom 80%) are getting 0 sex, in the book betas get beta sex, lulz.

[Fred87nc]

its a stage the young ones go through, they get all this validation and easy smashes, but then they get pumped and dumped, start seeing how its easy to smash but not easy to get a srs relationship with a chad.

[aleeboy]

Can confirm am average female

No but actually if you’re that jaded about it go for insecure chicks lol. They’ll stay because they think you’re the best they can get. Just like guys are allowed to have preferences and not like fat chicks, girls can have preferences too

Do you Dogs&Dildos 4 lyfe?

[immune18]

No we're not. Lol.

And every smart woman (and yes, you should want a smart woman for spending your life with) knows social media is a facade.

Exactly this, there are smart wife material girls around. It’s just extremely hard to find them and you gotta work on yourself and look hard to find them, as usually they’re already in a relationship.

[4everalone]

Redpill: If ur struggling in 2020 you would have struggled in any other era.

If you truly were a desired male girls would start cleaning & cooking for you & act like they always had those values just to please you

[MilkforBrains]

No we're not. Lol.

And every smart woman (and yes, you should want a smart woman for spending your life with) knows social media is a facade.

I think they are it's just that it is so excessive that it has lost all value. Matches from guys that are just horny and don't really give a single fck about them can lower self-esteem as well.

[pla1njane]

Do you Dogs&Dildos 4 lyfe?

Lol no. I mean I’m still young, so I have options. Most people my age just want to hook up though, and that’s not really my thing

[mk2kh]

Yea cuz men are not entitled at all...🙄

[eod8989]

women do hit the wall at 30 tho

Its before that

Its more like 27 or 28 when they start to develop more masculine features and put on extra weight

Don't let the makeup in 2020 fool you