dating for shy guys

[imbored21]

27 and no social life outside of work and prostitutes. Only match with fat girls online. What are my options? Please help, I'm desparate. Do any girls want to date?

[skinnyfat88]

Please help, I'm desparate. Do any girls want to date?

If you are desperate, no, the girls you desire will not want to date you.

Your problem is you are desperate, not that you are shy.

[littlemissy]

Have you kissed any of these prostitutes yet?

[ghostdivision88]

Nothing sends a girl running faster than desperation.

even if you think you love her and you think youre meant to be together or whatever...do not, under any circumstances act desperate. it can do no good. a lot depends on the situation but NEVER show desperation, all that does is it demonstrates lack of self control and lack of maturity.

women want a man not a man-child.

even the best looking man in the world can chase a girl away by acting desperate, and some ugly mother ****ers can land gorgeous women simply with the right attitude

most of my lays have come from the woman initiating things because i am just so bad at talking to them (MOST of the time).

its way more important to not say the wrong things than it is to say the right things

[imbored21]

Nothing sends a girl running faster than desperation.

even if you think you love her and you think youre meant to be together or whatever...do not, under any circumstances act desperate. it can do no good. a lot depends on the situation but NEVER show desperation, all that does is it demonstrates lack of self control and lack of maturity.

women want a man not a man-child.

even the best looking man in the world can chase a girl away by acting desperate, and some ugly mother ****ers can land gorgeous women simply with the right attitude

most of my lays have come from the woman initiating things because i am just so bad at talking to them (MOST of the time).

its way more important to not say the wrong things than it is to say the right things

i dont say anything and havent gotten action in 27 years :/

[JohnnyHotSauce]

Go to Thailand buy a girlfriend for the week.

[iloveus]

[Ninshark]

27 and no social life outside of work and prostitutes.

I don't see why you can't change that. Plus it doesn't need to be a social setting. You can literally find women anywhere almost anytime just running errands, like shopping for example. You can join social events too, look for events in your area, even a farmer's market, take random pottery or art classes, attend church. Can't tell if they're single? They're all single. If a girl is with her other girl friends, she is (and they are) single. Live your life, but create opportunities. If you don't do that, you're forever going to use your business in life as an excuse not to meet women. Also, gtfo those apps. Clearly they're not working for you, and matching with whales only lowers your self-esteem and confidence, which you need if you want to meet sexy women. I never get matches, but I also only swipe right on hot girls; I mean, what would I even do if I matched with someone I wasn't attracted to? chat her up? fk no, I wouldn't even know what to say, and I wouldn't want to meet her, NOPE! get out there brah, accidentally bump into a girl and maybe you'll get lucky.