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05-07-2019, 08:52 AM #31
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05-07-2019, 09:01 AM #32
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05-07-2019, 09:15 AM #33
This is what happened to James. Never forget you are the prize.
Also, still baffles me that you have a hard time attracting chicks with a body like that. It's 100% a self esteem issue with you, so don't let it get the best of you and **** it up.
People don't realize how powerful suggestion is to the human psyche, If you believe it strongly enough, other people will to. It's the legit reason why Trump gets away with so many lies. Because he and his administration lie with such conviction. Also shows how absent minded most of America is. It takes 10X as much effort to disprove the lie.
Fake it till you make it.Last edited by pondus_levo; 05-07-2019 at 09:21 AM.
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05-07-2019, 09:21 AM #34
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05-07-2019, 12:39 PM #35
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05-07-2019, 01:00 PM #36
7 dates in 3 weeks? I see why you’re scared that’s a lot. I get this feeling everybody in the misc are doing this “get what you can get”. B/c you’ve been complaining. I would say just be on the look out. Going that fast a lil too much for my taste. But wouldn’t leave just yet. See where it goes but just be aware
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05-07-2019, 01:06 PM #37
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05-07-2019, 10:03 PM #44
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05-08-2019, 07:01 AM #45
IKR. Time moves so fast, I myself can't believe I landed such a cool dude.
Can I bring my husband? Fair warning, he eats a lot so bring all your credit cards.
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Psychoblob, so when are you guys getting married and can I come for free cake? O_oThus let me live, unseen, unknown;
Thus unlamented let me die;
Steal from the world, and not a stone
Tell where I lie.
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05-08-2019, 08:13 AM #46
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05-08-2019, 09:35 AM #49
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05-08-2019, 09:43 AM #50
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05-08-2019, 06:41 PM #51
Nah I wont miss them, I genuinely enjoy seeing people succeed especially when it comes to relationships. Even getting one to last is a challenge all by itself and western society generally does not push for people to actually be committed but to 'live for yourself'. So it's actually nice to see someone giving some effort to push for something more serious than just a fling.
But back to the point, keep moving forward no matter what happens and just accept the fact that you can do everything right and a relationship can still fail because one person decides to stop trying. Some people have this idea that there is a specific 'time frame' where certain moves should be made and certain things should be said, and there is no true answer to this because everyone is different.
A relationship is a risk and whether you wait 3 weeks, 3 months or 3 years, you are always going to find some sort of 'red flag' or issue that raises concern, you have to be able to judge if the person you are seeking a relationship with understands your boundaries and you understand theirs and what both your expectations are. Once those things are in place, you get in a relationship with them and see where it goes, and if either one of you violates those boundaries, then you both need to decide if the relationship can be salvaged or not. A relationship has to be built on commitment, it can't be built on material things or temporary things otherwise it is almost guaranteed to fail, I agree mystery and the 'journey' can be fun at times and there is nothing wrong with that per say, but remember, eventually all of that is going to come to a close and you will be both left with the difficult reality(s) on the table.Last edited by Konrai; 05-09-2019 at 07:07 AM.
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05-09-2019, 07:49 AM #52
Love the fact that I actually have a mutual connection with someone whom I am both mentally and physically attracted too.
At the same time, I'm slighly terrified because I'm a rational person and feel like I've been struggling to find someone like this for a decade, most likely becuase I'm objectively not at the same "level" as these people per the "rules" of the dating marketplace (lets be honest here, you are shooting above your league if you want a relationship, pursue women, and can't manage to find mutual attraction over a long period of time, not trying to downplay myslef, just trying to face some blatantly obvious things).
dood, I'm rolling with it and enjoying the experience.-Max Squat drops from 415 to 200 after going 1 degree past 90 degree knee bend crew.
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05-09-2019, 07:59 AM #53
Stop that mindset right now! Remember, your problem always has been not your looks, but this mindset.
You deserve this relationship and you're going to reap the joy that comes along with this relationship. You're also going to give back as much as you receive. Keep telling yourself these things and put that negative chit above behind you. It's a new you!Thus let me live, unseen, unknown;
Thus unlamented let me die;
Steal from the world, and not a stone
Tell where I lie.
2/17/15 - Dunk Tank Results: 15% bf (Omron said 18.6%) - 123.4 lbs LBM
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05-09-2019, 08:03 AM #54
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05-09-2019, 08:05 AM #55
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My current bf wanted to go exclusive after like 2 weeks but I liked him and I don't multidate anyway.. so I just went along with it even tho it seemed soon. Glad I did he's a stone cold gem.
Although it took quite long for him to say he loved me and chitretired from powerlifting, retired from the misc
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05-09-2019, 08:08 AM #56
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