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    When did you have the realisation that you're wasting your life?

    With social media, alcohol, bull**** habits, bull**** friends, porn addiction, all that **** that is distracting you from achieving what you really want?
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    You can't waste your life because there is nothing to gain in the 1st place. Doesn't matter if you are a homeless junky or jeff bezos, everyone will end up eaten by worms 6ft under.
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    None of my life has been wasted as of yet.

    But around 3-5 years ago I was at my absolute worst mentally and financially.

    In many ways, I have started late. But I didn't start because I wasn't ready--I wasn't able to fully commit to growing and getting better.

    I needed to learn all the lessons I learned the hard way. Life is never wasted if you've gained knowledge.

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    I burnt porridge one morning and had a nervous breakdown. Dead end job and not making any progress towards my life goals. Was the final straw on the camels back.

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    When did you have the realisation that you're wasting your life? ?
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    Originally Posted by TonedJordan View Post
    I burnt porridge one morning and had a nervous breakdown. Dead end job and not making any progress towards my life goals. Was the final straw on the camels back.

    Made a massive life change a few months after. 5 years later and haven’t looked back. Didn’t realize burnt porridge would be the catalyst for a total lifestyle change.
    Ha I like this , 'burn the porridge' would be a good name for a book. Its amazing how something small can make you take a look at the bigger picture.

    For me it came randomly one day when I had the thought ''I'm asleep'' when I was in the gym. Asleep as in not consciously aware of what I am doing and why and where its taking me.

    Many of the actions I take I do in a sleepy , half aware state. It common in society , doing a repetitive action such as driving, cooking a meal, sending a text , even talking to a friend to be not consciously aware of why and how you are doing it. Understanding you have the freedom to choose in each moment makes you aware and hence less likely to do wasteful things.

    But being aware is hard work, its easier to do things in a sleepy state and that's where all wasteful actions come from. Keep it in mind that many people want and choose to be asleep, TV,internet(like what I'm doing now!) alcohol, junk food, reading a book can all be done in a wasteful manner, it is of course possible to do them with full awareness but you are less likely to when you realize they provide no real growth for you as a person.

    The same is true for wasteful emotions like anger and lust, or feeling rage about how you were treated in the past, yet we all live like this to a certain degree. Very aware and non wasteful people are few and far between. I have the thought ''I'm alseep '' everyday now. I ask myself ''am I asleep in this moment, what am I doing right now?''

    OP, the reason people do wasteful things is because they do not want to face pain or reality. If you feel you are wasting your life thats a great thing as it will point towards thing which are worth your time.

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    I am 31 and still have no clue what my goal in life is.

    So I am pretty much wasting my life.
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    I am 31 and still have no clue what my goal in life is.
    So I am pretty much wasting my life.
    If you have no clue what your goal in life is, you must be happy about every aspect of your life. Is that so?
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    How did your life change when you made a cut?
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    If you have no clue what your goal in life is, you must be happy about every aspect of your life. Is that so?
    Meh, not really. I have nothing to strive for mentally which gets me into a rut mentally.
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    Meh, not really. I have nothing to strive for mentally which gets me into a rut mentally.
    But there must be things you‘re not so happy about that you would like to change.
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    Originally Posted by LOFTY87 View Post
    Ha I like this , 'burn the porridge' would be a good name for a book. Its amazing how something small can make you take a look at the bigger picture.

    For me it came randomly one day when I had the thought ''I'm asleep'' when I was in the gym. Asleep as in not consciously aware of what I am doing and why and where its taking me.

    Many of the actions I take I do in a sleepy , half aware state. It common in society , doing a repetitive action such as driving, cooking a meal, sending a text , even talking to a friend to be not consciously aware of why and how you are doing it. Understanding you have the freedom to choose in each moment makes you aware and hence less likely to do wasteful things.

    But being aware is hard work, its easier to do things in a sleepy state and that's where all wasteful actions come from. Keep it in mind that many people want and choose to be asleep, TV,internet(like what I'm doing now!) alcohol, junk food, reading a book can all be done in a wasteful manner, it is of course possible to do them with full awareness but you are less likely to when you realize they provide no real growth for you as a person.

    The same is true for wasteful emotions like anger and lust, or feeling rage about how you were treated in the past, yet we all live like this to a certain degree. Very aware and non wasteful people are few and far between. I have the thought ''I'm alseep '' everyday now. I ask myself ''am I asleep in this moment, what am I doing right now?''

    OP, the reason people do wasteful things is because they do not want to face pain or reality. If you feel you are wasting your life thats a great thing as it will point towards thing which are worth your time.

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    I've never had friends, no one's ever really liked me, and I've got several inheritable disorders I would never wish upon a child, so having my own children is out of the picture for me. It's going to be FA'ing and STEM for as far ahead as I can see. Only way I could ever see having a family is getting together with a single mom which for an FA brah is like nothxJeff.
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    But there must be things you‘re not so happy about that you would like to change.
    Yeah several things. Mostly lack of goals and purpose in life. Also living in an area I had to relocate to about a year and half ago that I don't exactly want to live long term.
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    Yeah several things. Mostly lack of goals and purpose in life. Also living in an area I had to relocate to about a year and half ago that I don't exactly want to live long term.
    Sounds like a goal to me.
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