Dating in 2019 is a waste of time

[DGen94]

no matter how good looking or fun a date is she will always have 5 other dudes shes more interested in

lol this is a joke..im tired of hookups but you have better chances being a fukboi

its not like before where a woman would accept your flaws and best features...they see one flaw and jump to a new guy

[alltrapbrah]

You need to come to terms with the fact that you are utter dog chit, and that there's really no point in pursuing women until you elevate yourself above the level of canine excrement.

[EBarbz]

you need to either bring something to the table, that others cant.
Or lower your standards.

And lose the negative mindset while your at it

[eod8989]

Hit the nail on the head. They all have so many options of upper tier men. You have to audition while she is seeing other men.

[redliner9]

Maybe so man, the most notable thing i came across was how entitled ugly/fat girls are now.

Really sucks when you weed out via dating, find the best one and then you get screwed over and over.

[InstantLoser]

you need to bring something to the table that others cant.

What would that be?

[DGen94]

you need to either bring something to the table, that others cant.
Or lower your standards.

And lose the negative mindset while your at it

thanks..man im not lowering my standards lol im a good looking guy no brag but i always liked going on dates. its like you cant be yourself these days cause someone better will always be a click away

[stealthlife49]

You're 24, just let it ride. Most people in general aren't great, male or female. Eventually you'll find one worthwhile.

[wave_length]

Still there seem to be happy couples around everywhere, and not all of them include a 10/10 male. Something between the misc and reality doesn‘t seem to match up.

[Immichaelski]

I think so too. There are 20 guys hitting on them at all times and play the game. Even when you think you found a loyal person there is always something better and it makes it difficult. I’m starting to think there is no point of even being a good person anymore.

[tunafish01]

Still there seem to be happy couples around everywhere, and not all of them include a 10/10 male. Something between the misc and reality doesn‘t seem to match up.

Location: Austria

Thats why

[wave_length]

Location: Austria
Thats why

So there‘s no couples like that in the US?

[mkTheGoods]

That's life son. What's the other option - lay down and rot?

[Silencespeaks]

That's life son. What's the other option - lay down and rot?

This

Dating is hard, but you have to keep trying if you want a relationship.

[lift4life2020]

I agree with OP but we have no choice to play the game and do our best . I can tell you that I have friends that make well over 500k a year and live in huge homes with fancy sports cars and even they complain about women and gettjng dates . They get a lot of gold digger types that only want what the guy can do for them . They also find many younger cute girls wanting a sugar daddy

[skinnyfat88]

I know it's tough but as a guy, you'll have better luck dating "to have fun," without the relationship goal in mind.

When you're relaxed it becomes easier to sort through the ones that are worth your time and effort and will reciprocate prioritizing getting to know you vs the ones that aren't for you/aren't worth getting serious with.

It's a difficult mindset to attain though and goes hand in hand with being confident in yourself to attract the types of girls you want.

[BigTimePlayer]

I pretty much gave up on the whole dating stuff. All it does is bring negative feelings when knowing the women I like would never be interested anyway. I just wish I dated before the whole dating apps thing got popular now I don’t have any chance due to always having to compete with dozens of other guys where automatically probably more than half of them will be taller or better looking or whatever else.

[DGen94]

I know it's tough but as a guy, you'll have better luck dating "to have fun," without the relationship goal in mind.

When you're relaxed it becomes easier to sort through the ones that are worth your time and effort and will reciprocate prioritizing getting to know you vs the ones that aren't for you/aren't worth getting serious with.

It's a difficult mindset to attain though and goes hand in hand with being confident in yourself to attract the types of girls you want.

i agree man..thats the problem..most women are only dating for “fun”...social media fuked things up since they cant get over their ex or they have more options..

[DGen94]

I think so too. There are 20 guys hitting on them at all times and play the game. Even when you think you found a loyal person there is always something better and it makes it difficult. I’m starting to think there is no point of even being a good person anymore.

keep being a good person..im still hopeful ill find a nice girl someday

[NitrogenWidget]

This

Dating is hard, but you have to keep trying if you want a relationship.

dating is easy.
you put as little effort into it as possible until you find a woman who does make the effort.
the women who like you do in fact make an effort.

Hell, the last time I did online the women did most of the work after I got the digits.

[BigTimePlayer]

dating is easy.
you put as little effort into it as possible until you find a woman who does make the effort.
the women who like you do in fact make an effort.

Hell, the last time I did online the women did most of the work after I got the digits.

In what way did they do most of the work?

[superman704]

It's time to throw the towel

[DGen94]

dating is easy.
you put as little effort into it as possible until you find a woman who does make the effort.
the women who like you do in fact make an effort.

Hell, the last time I did online the women did most of the work after I got the digits.

wise words

[nolonefall]

Women have a lot of options, just the way things are.

It's so ridiculous that I went on a date last week with a whale (didn't know before meeting her that she was that big) - and she told me that she was interviewing guys to know which one will be her FWB. I laughed and then ended the date short.

Like NitrogenWidget said, put yourself out there (or else you'll experience a dry spell) but put as little effort as possible; make the girls do a lot of work, too.

[BigTimePlayer]

Women have a lot of options, just the way things are.

It's so ridiculous that I went on a date last week with a whale (didn't know before meeting her that she was that big) - and she told me that she was interviewing guys to know which one will be her FWB. I laughed and then ended the date short.

Like NitrogenWidget said, put yourself out there (or else you'll experience a dry spell) but put as little effort as possible; make the girls do a lot of work, too.

If you put in little to no effort than nothing happens though. And making the girls do a lot of the work just makes them move on since they have so many other options.

[nolonefall]

If you put in little to no effort than nothing happens though. And making the girls do a lot of the work just makes them move on since they have so many other options.

It's better to put little effort than put too much effort. You're right, there is a sweet spot to how to approach girls and to date but most men put too much effort with one girl.

[BigTimePlayer]

It's better to put little effort than put too much effort. You're right, there is a sweet spot to how to approach girls and to date but most men put too much effort with one girl.

Yeah, true I can agree with that. When you put too much effort in & it still doesn’t work out it just leaves a depressing feeling.

[Silencespeaks]

dating is easy.
you put as little effort into it as possible until you find a woman who does make the effort.
the women who like you do in fact make an effort.

Hell, the last time I did online the women did most of the work after I got the digits.

Don’t you always post about the trashy/bad personality women you are dating? Or maybe that was someone else not sure.

[nolonefall]

Yeah, true I can agree with that. When you put too much effort in & it still doesn’t work out it just leaves a depressing feeling.

Been there done that TOO MANY times.

[DGen94]

Yeah, true I can agree with that. When you put too much effort in & it still doesn’t work out it just leaves a depressing feeling.

great post guys..will rep both when im off spread..i think that was my problem in the past