There is something that makes working out different. EVERYONE ignores the elephant in the room.
The largest factor which will determine your success or failure is not your program, and not your diet.....it is simply genetics. There is absolutely nothing you can do about it either.
People compare to results driven activities. Results in working out often can not be taken at face value. A guy with huge arms does is not necessarily the guy to ask how to train arms as an example
I mostly resist the 'snowflake' notion. I dont believe we all respond all that differently to different types or training. I do hower believe the degree of responce and adaptation is different depending on genes.
People give me a hard time because I simply say the goal should be to be able to move heavier and heavier weight in the 3-12 rep range and eat over time. Then guys come in and say....well that does not work for me. Well.....maybe you have sh!tty genes.
Sorry I dont buy all the 'bring up' muscle groups, selective volume, fatigue based....blah blah blah..... I think that is like the 3% (there is something to it but very small). Those are sprinkles on the sundae....not the main part.
It was funny....there was a thread on barbell rows and all kinds of people came in and gave the op advice like 'too much leg'....moving too much. Posted links to Pendalay and youtube experts all talking about how to get a big back. Most were aspousing muscle isolation bull sh!t.
I of course came in and said....pick up something heavier than you did the day before or move it more That is why I would never make money off this stuff.
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02-11-2019, 09:15 AM #31RAW lifts
635 Dead http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mATRBZ0gwdg
585x7 Dead reps http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6yf2ZkdNNNQ
420 Bench (paused) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MJ2_Q-TLIB8
535 Squat https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kdgVaiTi4-8&feature=youtu.be
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02-11-2019, 11:21 AM #32
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02-11-2019, 12:09 PM #33
The website is not what it used to be in 2005 and you are picking up on it in the numerous sub forums. It is really no ones fault because the last time i looked it said 16 million members. I am just happy that i talked to a few pros here, got sound advice, and still enjoy this after all this time. As for the overall quality of the forums now, 2 stars out of five.
Members 17,147,045There is an unspoken thing, we are iron brothers and sisters, we are to support each other and...It is our duty to support our brothers and sisters in the iron game!
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02-11-2019, 06:39 PM #35
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Yeah, that's kind of the way it is with other stuff too.
Like, I do guns. It's really exactly the same. Going to a public gun range and watching how people handle the firearms, their technique, their practical accuracy, etc, is not much different than going to a random commercial gym and observing form, bench press safety, squat depth, etc.
And just like we have the broscience crap here, you have completely stupid &$*% there too, I'll spare the specifics to avoid a sidetrack.
My theory is most people are clueless broscience morons or the equivalent about most things, and only when they get a keen interest in something nad start taking it seriously do they figure it out. So, most of the time, most of us are the idiots and don't know it lol
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02-11-2019, 06:43 PM #36
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02-14-2019, 06:08 AM #41
Running forums are just as bad as this forum. Honestly all forums suck. The best advice is doing your own research, observing people at the gym, asking questions, human to human connection. I started lifting at 20, back in 1990, forums didn't exist, thank god, got all my knowledge from people at the gym. This was an old school gym, nothing like commercial gyms today, no cell phones, selfies, etc. Yes the good ol' days.
I would say there is about a 10% chance you get good advice on forums. I wish I never joined a forum because you do get sucked into them.
On a positive "the over 35" is a cool forum. All the rest is crap.Last edited by adamgentile; 02-14-2019 at 06:47 AM.
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02-14-2019, 07:14 AM #42
While I agree with your main sentiment and your reminder of the basics (increasing the weight etc) I'm just uncomfortable with what I've quoted. Maybe I'm picking at words here... What do you mean by "success"?
I've been blessed with the physique genetics that would embarrass a computer programmer or comic conference attendees, I'm never going to have a trophy cabinet with powerlifting medals, Highland games trophies etc.
For me anyway "success" is personal improvement. I won't get Olympic gold, but I can improve on today if I train hard enough. Sure this is a lot of the old compete against yourself cliché. Often this slightly tired argument is abused by people who want to justify being mediocre snowflakes. But when used honestly, there is truth in it.
I can't change my genetics but I can train harder and get better and in some sense of the word isn't that "success"? (if it's the goal of my training)
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02-14-2019, 09:08 AM #43
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Wish I could say the same. I have a couple of friends in miserably unhappy marriages that they will never leave, a couple of others who have been burned (and I suspect in some cases they did the burning) who have implacably hostile and inaccurate views towards dating and relationships. One of those is constantly threatening to steal my wife— as long as she’s safely unavailable to him he can be attracted to her.
When I was single and in the Navy the myths and fears and fictions about women were far more pervasive than the reality.“Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities.”
-Voltaire
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02-14-2019, 05:08 PM #44
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02-15-2019, 11:13 AM #46
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Few do. It depends on the forum and its local tribal culture, how well it is moderated, and whether it's even CAPABLE of being a good resource. Some forums simply aren't. Others, it takes some experience on that particular forum to figure it out.
BB.com definitely is full of useful information, but it's got it's share of BS purveyors as well.“Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities.”
-Voltaire
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02-15-2019, 11:28 AM #47
The main problem is too many uneducated, inexperienced people come to get advice...and after getting a bit, they think they are ready to start giving it. Everyone wants to add thier 2 cents...even if they are just repeating something someone else said or something they have read, without testing it themself for years in the trench.
Good and bad advice on this forum is pretty obvious IMHO...as are things that are purely opinion, and nobody is “right” or “wrong”.
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02-17-2019, 11:56 PM #48
Stupidity is timeless - but nowadays it is far easier to educate yourself as long as you have a bit of discipline. When I was growing up a big deal was if your parents bought an encyclopedia set (we had one) and honestly I'd hear something at school and go and look it up at home later. You can do this today too but some people use the most ridiculous websites / bloggers / whatever as their source for information and that doesn't mean that technology can't help you educate yourself. It can - if you know how to use it.
As ElrondHubbard said you may eventually get to know plenty of people who are fairly jaded about relationships, dating, marriage etc. Especially if that person has gone through a failed marriage. Or a bad breakup in a relationship. That's what I meant earlier about PTED.
I would not try to compare the numbers here though, I mean - I start working out and people in my office are almost universally not supportive (and rather antagonistic) except for the other people who lift. The rest try to incessantly mock diet choices, encourage bad behavior (come on...have a donut with us) and so on. It is what it is - lifting is one of the best ways to see 'quick' external changes in your body, and it is natural that certain personality types are disturbed by others making positive changes in their lives.
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02-18-2019, 09:11 AM #49
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02-18-2019, 05:02 PM #51
Maybe, although...
I would not try to compare the numbers here though, I mean - I start working out and people in my office are almost universally not supportive (and rather antagonistic) except for the other people who lift. The rest try to incessantly mock diet choices, encourage bad behavior (come on...have a donut with us) and so on. It is what it is - lifting is one of the best ways to see 'quick' external changes in your body, and it is natural that certain personality types are disturbed by others making positive changes in their lives.
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02-18-2019, 05:52 PM #52
The truth is some people have it and some people don't. Nothing is going to change what your mom and dad passed on to you. You're not going to look like Arnold no matter what. I think the biggest thing people do not understand is that it literally takes a lifetime to build a body. It's not going to happen in 5 months and not 5 years. Unless you have Arnold's mom and dad and/or the benefit of "cheating" all that shelf BS being sold will get you nothing. Just get to the gym and lift hard and eat properly, get some rest for recovery, the rest will take care of itself or it won't.
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02-19-2019, 06:12 AM #53Fact: My first-generation uncle was a boxer who fought Sugar Ray Robinson! He also fought in the war, sacrificing the career he deeply loved, so people could have the right to freedom.
Let's show RESPECT for the POLICE and ALL FIRST RESPONDERS by helping to keep THEM SAFE AND SOUND, and thereby able to PROTECT US!
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02-19-2019, 06:24 AM #54
^^this is true...in fact, with proper execution and dedication, most people are close to thier natural genetic potential in 3-5 years. Not everyone can be Arnold, but EVERYONE can be the best version of themselves. I’m 5’7” and put on a grand total of 25 pounds of muscle for all my years of hard work. I can either cry about the fact that other guys, with better genetics, naturally put on 35 or 50 pounds in the same amount of time...or I can be proud of my personal accomplishments.
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02-19-2019, 08:04 AM #55
I know some people will disagree with me, but for the reasons you stated above, I believe it can be tougher for men in the fitness industry. There's that "pressure" to pack on as much mass as possible, not just by training, but with many other interlocking factors to consistently monitor......only to have to cut back on (sometimes significant) calories, while still grinding, to allow definition to showcase the hard work....and then maintain it. I've always said fitness is "easier" when there's not much weight to lose or gain in order to achieve individually desired strength, hypertrophy and fitness gains.
Fact: My first-generation uncle was a boxer who fought Sugar Ray Robinson! He also fought in the war, sacrificing the career he deeply loved, so people could have the right to freedom.
Let's show RESPECT for the POLICE and ALL FIRST RESPONDERS by helping to keep THEM SAFE AND SOUND, and thereby able to PROTECT US!
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02-19-2019, 09:32 AM #56
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02-24-2019, 04:28 PM #60
Well, that's because it's the "ideal" feminine standard of physical beauty. Women, in mainstream media, are not expected to have "muscle mass and definition." And even that can be highly "subjective." But men's bodies, in mainstream media, are supposed to resemble jacked "superhero" images. That's my perspective on the industry as a whole, and you're right...it's not a new phenomenon.
Fact: My first-generation uncle was a boxer who fought Sugar Ray Robinson! He also fought in the war, sacrificing the career he deeply loved, so people could have the right to freedom.
Let's show RESPECT for the POLICE and ALL FIRST RESPONDERS by helping to keep THEM SAFE AND SOUND, and thereby able to PROTECT US!
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