50 year old co-worker dating a 21 year old. Creepy? (sorry no pics)

[etet1919]

How about some free cable.

Or some Yankee beans.

Yankee bean, Yankee bean, I like my Yaaan-keee beeeaan......Uh, I have to talk. I'm just not really sure that we have enough in common.

[poorguy2019]

They can ,21 yrs is old enough to be ****ed

[crupiea]

Seems like it would be great while it lasted!!

[gipper53]

What if it were the other way around? Would it be creepier or does it depend on the two individual people involved?

It's truly a win-win in either scenario. Usually ends badly, but while it lasts:

Older Guy / Young Woman: He can brag he's dating a good looking young girl, she can sponge from a sugar daddy for a while. They both win.

Older Woman / Young guy: He can brag he's dating a cougar, she can brag she still has what it takes to date a guy half her age. They both win again!

Yes that's being shallow, but let's be honest!

[etet1919]

I'm always honest and it's not always "shallow." It's more like a temporary escape....nothing more, nothing less.

There would have to be enough chemistry-otherwise then, I would consider it "shallow."

[ElrondHubbard]

Be careful it's not so shallow that you scrape your bottom on the coral reef.

[OldFartTom]

Maybe the guy's into bottom scraping? don't be judgemental on their private business, who knows what some people do..

[HYMENATOR]

i'm 40 and won't even look at women my age. Luckily wife is 34 and super petite and looks more like early-mid 20s. Seriously I'm always looking at 20 year old girls and trying to train myself not to look at jail bait in that way lmao.

[etet1919]

i'm 40 and won't even look at women my age. Luckily wife is 34 and super petite and looks more like early-mid 20s. Seriously I'm always looking at 20 year old girls and trying to train myself not to look at jail bait in that way lmao.

You mean to tell me that if Beyoncé, Halle Berry, Christie Brinkley, Carmen Electra, Pamela Anderson, Cindy Crawford, Naomi Campbell, Mariah Carey, JLo, Brooke Burke, Britney Spears (she's not quite forty....but looks better than many 20 year olds), Angelina Jolie, Jennifer Aniston, Heidi Klume.....walked by you individually, you wouldn't give any of these women a second glance...just because of the their age? I could have gone on with that list, it's just that it's really too long to fit in this small box. Sorry gorgeous ladies I had to leave out.

sorry, I left out Salma Hayek, Jessica Biel (she's close to 40), KK (ditto), Kourtney Kardashion, Rachel Welch, Sophia Loren (sick genetics too), Jada Pinkett Smith, Mel b, Nicole Kidman.....I'm forgetting names simply because there are so many examples of 40+ beauty....

Sofia Vergara, Gabrielle Union, Kelly Hu, Sharon Stone, Padma Lakshmi, Eva Longoria, Gong Li, Catherine Zeta-Jones, Julianne Moore, Tyra Banks, Charlize Theron, Iman......I apologize for any misspelled names.....

[bodyhard]

You mean to tell me that if Beyoncé, Halle Berry, Christie Brinkley, Carmen Electra, Pamela Anderson, Cindy Crawford, Naomi Campbell, Mariah Carey, JLo, Brooke Burke, Britney Spears (she's not quite forty....but looks better than many 20 year olds), Angelina Jolie, Jennifer Aniston, Heidi Klume.....walked by you individually, you wouldn't give any of these women a second glance...just because of the their age? I could have gone on with that list, it's just that it's really too long to fit in this small box. Sorry gorgeous ladies I had to leave out.

Those women are not your typical over 40 women though. Same goes for your typical over 40 year old men.

[Fishman15]

i'm 40 and won't even look at women my age. Luckily wife is 34 and super petite and looks more like early-mid 20s. Seriously I'm always looking at 20 year old girls and trying to train myself not to look at jail bait in that way lmao.

So what happens in a few years when your wife turns 40? Time to take her out to the curb with the rest of the trash?

[Brackneyc]

So what happens in a few years when your wife turns 40? Time to take her out to the curb with the rest of the trash?

He likes them super petite.

[etet1919]

Those women are not your typical over 40 women though. Same goes for your typical over 40 year old men.

BH!!! Where have you been?? It's been boring without you....lol...JK.

I know these are not the "average" women over 40, BUT cosmetic surgery of all kinds are affordable to many "typical" people now.

[ElrondHubbard]

Those women are not your typical over 40 women though. Same goes for your typical over 40 year old men.

True, I don't even look at men my age.

[Fishman15]

He likes them super petite.

Does that mean she won't have to crouch too much to fit in the trash bin?

[HYMENATOR]

So what happens in a few years when your wife turns 40? Time to take her out to the curb with the rest of the trash?

When she's 40 I'll be in my late 40s. Plus she looks younger than she is. Fortunately for her she a) is totally my type and b) already has the role so unless her performance wanes there's little chance of her losing it to another lmao.

[TrinnieBuu]

Some people just click. I dated someone 18 years older a few years ago. Didn’t work out but we had the best conversations. Still talk to him now and then. Not every “odd” relationship is transactional.

[Bando]

You mean to tell me that if ...Kourtney Kardashion... walked by you individually, you wouldn't give ---- a second glance

Wouldn't give a 1st in this case lol

[OrganicMusclr]

I’m dating my 37 year old manager... 100% serious lol. Obviously not a long term thing. Plus, she looks like she’s 29-30 and is fine as hell. But, she’s never been married and no kids.

[ElrondHubbard]

Wouldn't give a 1st in this case lol

I doubt if I'd recognize her.

[Karl_Hungus]

I doubt if I'd recognize her.

Same here....my only real exposure to any of the Kardashians was from watching the O.J. trial (Robert Kardashian).

[etet1919]

Wouldn't give a 1st in this case lol

Maybe Nannerman and her would hit it off?

[ChazWood]

When she's 40 I'll be in my late 40s. Plus she looks younger than she is. Fortunately for her she a) is totally my type and b) already has the role so unless her performance wanes there's little chance of her losing it to another lmao.

She's a very lucky woman.

Same here....my only real exposure to any of the Kardashians was from watching the O.J. trial (Robert Kardashian).

Not me. I can't get enough of the Kardashians. I try to read everything written about them. They are so fascinating. I only wish there were more hours in the day to spend thinking about them.

[ElrondHubbard]

Same here....my only real exposure to any of the Kardashians was from watching the O.J. trial (Robert Kardashian).

You apparently aren't keeping up with them!

[MrCarrot]

What would be more weird is if they actually got married and stayed together long term. Because then when she's 50 she'll be spoon feeding him and helping him to wipe his butt

[bodyhard]

True, I don't even look at men my age.

Come on EL I was just starting to like you

[IronCharles]

Thread is close to three weeks old, and still no pics?

[latverian41]

Good for him.

This

[IronCharles]

You don’t have any pics of 50 year old men round here?

I don't keep any, no.


OP apologized for not having pics, I figured he would have come up with them by now. Curious to see what sort of 50 year old dude and 21 year old woman are attracted to each other.

[melDorado]

It is possible to have a deep connection with and fall in love with someone of a far different age, I know I've been there and experienced it
Me and my ex still love each other we just want different things in life rn... ie I'm done with having kids and he wants a family