GF of 3 and a half years broke up with me (MISC WAS RIGHT)

[mrsloppyfist]

4 pages and no pics

ok then

[Appoloin]

MISC is always right

Sl00ts gonna sl00t.

[olympianspirit]

I never expected this from her, and she said our lives may come back together and she still loves me.

My ex said the same alongwith 'theres no one else' 'you will always be special to me', while she already hooked up with a new guy behind my back.
In cases like these, believe the opposite of what she tells you

its not you its me = its something about you
no, i am not seeing anyone now = she definitely is
you will always mean a great deal to me = you aint **** to her now, maybe you were but not anymore
maybe we can be together in the future = .....yea you dont need translation for this cuz **** that sheet

[Ratfish]

I don’t deny it. Asked straight up and she said why is that the only thing I care about and am focusing on. I asked and she said she went to drinks with her male friend who just got married and met new people there but there isn’t another guy. Clearly she wants to upgrade me and after 3 years I’m shocked but that’s life. Just annoying still saying I love you and she doesn’t want to pretend I don’t exist anymore... Gave her my all and she took a dump on it.

most people in general make relationships their main focus in life. not me. i just treat gals as a hobby these days and i have literally never been happier.

[ralphlaurenbrah]

Go NC immediately. Seriously Plz listen to this advice.

[olympianspirit]

Meaning?

I had the exact same experience, 1.5yrs relationship, full on oneitis, we planned to get married just lol

Anyway, i go away for an internship she cheats, when i get back, calls to say lets breakup ---all the bul**** your ex said my ex said it to me as well

[olympianspirit]

I don’t deny it. Asked straight up and she said why is that the only thing I care about and am focusing on.

holy fukking sheet my ex said the same when i very pointedly kept asking her about the SUDDEN breakup---few weeks later i found out through mutuals that she WAS already seeing someone, confront with evidence, she breaks down and confesses to cheating

Bro go NC right now, never ever let her have power over you ever again!

[olympianspirit]

This.


She already found the guy she wants to date now.

This.
Listen to the bros

[KyleAaron]

Old guy checking in with old guy advice - Take it or leave it. People talk about NC and people just think its an internet thing and not valid for real life. Its actually very solid advice and you should listen to it...

Correct. Losing a long relationship is like an amputation, but not a nice neat surgical one, it's a limb being torn off in machinery. It's bloody and messy and takes a long time to recover from. You won't reattach that limb, you tourniquet and get medical treatment (talk to friends, psychologist, priest, whatever) and rest and recover and then move on.

It's common to go back for one last fck, and to try to turn that into a rekindling. It never works. I've done it. Multiple times. It never works.

And now I am happily married to a good woman and we have two kids. Life does go on after a loss, and there are good women out there.

Oh, and get an STD check. Sorry but it's a possibility if there was some overlap. Lots of people don't leave their current job until they have a new job. It's the same thing for some people.

[AWillis]

99% of women will leave if you don't lead them in the relationship. maybe you are inexperienced but in her mind you didn't give her any reason to stay. they'll get bored and when someone else makes them feel something - they're gone. it is why it is important to have a purpose in life that they can support you with (so you can build a future together), then it gives them purpose also. and i don't mean having kids.

accept it is over, don't try to get her back. work on yourself. install grindr and you'll be ok

[anonkunbrah]

time to relapse OP

[MarkyMark127]

She found someone else. Did u take her virginity?

No been with 20 before me

[MarkyMark127]

holy fukking sheet my ex said the same when i very pointedly kept asking her about the sudden breakup---few weeks later i found out through mutuals that she was already seeing someone, confront with evidence, she breaks down and confesses to cheating

bro go nc right now, never ever let her have power over you ever again!

srs?

[suprabum]

monkey branching 101

[Noahbro]

blame society, we live in a time where young girls don't care about long term family goals. Truly the end of times.

[Zuggie]

No been with 20 before me

You had a winner fo sho

[NukYavlen]

That sucks OP but rules are rules, negged.

[Zurkio]

most people in general make relationships their main focus in life. not me. i just treat gals as a hobby these days and i have literally never been happier.

haha this so much

back when i started dating, it would start off great then after 3-4 months it would just go downhill and stress me tf out, then I would be feeling down when it never worked out. People who rely on other people for happiness are weak individuals imo. True happiness comes from within, and enjoying your own company. As soon as some girl starts pissing you off, puts stress on your life, replace them instantly, and treat every girl as just a bit of fun, something quite literally to do when you're bored.

do and focus on your own thing brah. keep relations casual. Women are dream killers.

NC, move on, forget she ever existed.

[niospecv]

wants to see other people

I got bad news for you boyo. That weird taste you've been noticing from her mouth and her being extra wet and warm...yeah that was the other dude or possibly dudes she's been banging behind your back.

[Cammy91]

I got bad news for you boyo. That weird taste you've been noticing from her mouth and her being extra wet and warm...yeah that was the other dude or possibly dudes she's been banging behind your back.

This.

Truth hurts, get over it, bang some fatties if your an ugly ****er - get yourself on tinder, POF or even grindr (no homo, just dont look him in the eyes mid-action and your still a-ok - thats where the boundries for super gay is set) whatever tickles your pickle O.P

[Mulloway69]

Misc is full of so many cucks nowdays

Golden rule: pics

Relationship H&A------------> if you want to talk about your ex boyfriend like a bunch of girls and twinks in a cafe

Spoiler!

[Vampirelol]

Oblivious for a year. “Never gonna find someone as good as me”. Lmao k

[Noobyy]

**** happened to me to. Gf of 3 years left me to bang one of her friends. Went full Nc, didn't know about it until she comes crawling back, told her she made a stupid mistake and was tired of her constant need for approval and it was done. Then found out she'd been ****ing someone I knew. Took everything my flatmates had to stop me beating them both into the ground,

The most truthful thing you can ever hear boys, if you're reading this and you're like "nah that **** won't happen to me, she loves me" we all felt that way, doesn't stop them pulling those knickers down and spreading them legs for a smashing.

You never really recover from that, I have a good time with the girls I date now, but even if they would never do it, I know they're all capable, you can't let that **** happen to you twice.

[faxanadu]

"Every woman is a whore except for my mother." - some old guy

[umop3pisdn]

"Every woman is a whore except for my mother." - some old guy

Nah he calls his own mother a slut aswell lol

[wickedman]

She'll hit you up when one of her new gents gives her the boot and she wants some attention - don't respond.

[JeremyCH]

My ex who was with me 1.5 years dumped me in July. In November she hits me up with a happy birthday wish, and we end up smashing that night and the next morning. Next night we're alone and I ask if she's been with anyone since we split. Obviously the answer is yes, I tell her we can't get back together and she goes ballistic. Tells me she hates me, I'm evil, I'm a bastard, etc. Bish you're the one who thought the grass was greener and assumed you could get some strange, then come back to who treated you right (me) after you get pumped and dumped. Now I've gone fully NC, I'm playing the field and have been on dates with 5 girls in the last month. One of them is looking like relationship material so we'll see where it goes.

The point is that NC is the correct answer and don't take her back when she crawls to you on her knees.

[Prose]

You must feel relieved in all this?

[andrewwkdude]

do not, i repeat do not have sex with her when you go and pick up your stuff. save yourself the heartache. get in, get out. minimal talking..

[b1gsm0ke]

head up buddy, a better girl is waiting for you

this, dat feel when shes the only one and only better **** comes your way