I don't feel unattractive but attract nobody, maybe I am?

**AlamedaBoy** · 12-09-2018, 10:44 AM

https://imgur.com/a/Q9hsdUj

Literally don't attract anybody. I don't feel that bad, but I have a bad feeling I'm decently photogenic(look better than I do in reality) I added a video but it's so hard to know. I suppose if you ain't attracting anybody you are by definition, unattractive.

**henrycox629** · 12-09-2018, 10:46 AM

Literally don't attract anybody. I don't feel that bad, but I have a bad feeling I'm decently photogenic(look better than I do in reality) I added a video but it's so hard to know. I suppose if you ain't attracting anybody you are by definition, unattractive.[/QUOTE]

Just keep looking and don't think you are unattractive just because girls aren't interested right now

**AlamedaBoy** · 12-09-2018, 10:52 AM

Yeah mate, for sure, but the whole fun and joy of a relationship/meeting girls has kinda gone. I'm at the age now where most people are marrying and I've never been on a date. I never thought I'd end up approaching 30 and in this situation.

**henrycox629** · 12-09-2018, 10:53 AM

Originally Posted by AlamedaBoy

Yeah mate, for sure, but the whole fun and joy of a relationship/meeting girls has kinda gone. I'm at the age now where most people are marrying and I've never been on a date. I never thought I'd end up approaching 30 and in this situation.

Just try to put yourself out there some more. If you have never been on a date then it is obviously your side that's not trying, not the girls

**BlackScorpio91** · 12-09-2018, 10:54 AM

Nice trolling, that's not really you.

**MisterJustice** · 12-09-2018, 11:26 AM

Originally Posted by BlackScorpio91

Nice trolling, that's not really you.

and why would he be trolling?

**BlackScorpio91** · 12-09-2018, 11:31 AM

Originally Posted by MisterJustice

and why would he be trolling?

Do you honestly believe a guy who looks like him ain't getting attention?

**AlamedaBoy** · 12-09-2018, 11:34 AM

Haha appreciate it man. I don't get it at all. I don't even have high standards(I find the girls I fancy extremely pretty but they're kinda shy, cute types, not 'HBB's'

**BlackScorpio91** · 12-09-2018, 11:38 AM

Originally Posted by AlamedaBoy

Haha appreciate it man. I don't get it at all. I don't even have high standards(I find the girls I fancy extremely pretty but they're kinda shy, cute types, not 'HBB's'

If that's actually what you look like then you're probably coming off as socially awkward/retarded/off and scaring off potential choosers.

**eod8989** · 12-09-2018, 11:41 AM

Originally Posted by BlackScorpio91

Do you honestly believe a guy who looks like him ain't getting attention?

Dude he's a member of the OG FA crew that really is him. It's mind blowing but you can check the FA face thread there are tons of good looking dudes there that never get laid.

**latverian41** · 12-09-2018, 11:43 AM

Likely your personality. Dont feel bad mine sucks tio

**MiscInformed** · 12-09-2018, 11:50 AM

Originally Posted by AlamedaBoy

https://imgur.com/a/Q9hsdUj

Literally don't attract anybody. I don't feel that bad, but I have a bad feeling I'm decently photogenic(look better than I do in reality) I added a video but it's so hard to know. I suppose if you ain't attracting anybody you are by definition, unattractive.

If it's not your looks, it's either your personality or you're an autist.

You could also have standards too high. For example, if you will only talk to 9/10's and higher, you're eliminating most of the dating pool.

It could also be a problem where you're looking. If you're only going to clubs looking for women, you're gonna have a bad time.

**RonaldMcflurry** · 12-09-2018, 12:10 PM

Originally Posted by BlackScorpio91

Do you honestly believe a guy who looks like him ain't getting attention?

I do. If he doesn't attempt to converse with women, or is extremely socially awkward or autistic,then it doesn't really matter how he looks.

Originally Posted by eod8989

Dude he's a member of the OG FA crew that really is him. It's mind blowing but you can check the FA face thread there are tons of good looking dudes there that never get laid.

I'm not the best authority on judging how men look, but I wouldn't consider anyone in that thread "ugly". It's almost as if looks aren't the only thing that matters when it comes to getting women....

**adonio577777** · 12-09-2018, 12:22 PM

Dude, are you trolling?

Your face is 8.5/10 at least, what’s your height? 5.3'?

**BlackScorpio91** · 12-09-2018, 12:24 PM

Originally Posted by RonaldMcflurry

I do. If he doesn't attempt to converse with women, or is extremely socially awkward or autistic,then it doesn't really matter how he looks.

I'm not the best authority on judging how men look, but I wouldn't consider anyone in that thread "ugly". It's almost as if looks aren't the only thing that matters when it comes to getting women....

I'm not talking about acting on and conversing with women who show interest, I'm talking about getting attention like getting checked out or being flirted with. Apparently he's saying he's not getting ANY attention whatsoever which is weird. Sure women sometimes check out a guy when he's not looking but at least a few women should be overtly checking him out or giving him signs of interest.

**adonio577777** · 12-09-2018, 12:24 PM

Originally Posted by eod8989

Dude he's a member of the OG FA crew that really is him. It's mind blowing but you can check the FA face thread there are tons of good looking dudes there that never get laid.

Yea but he says that receives zero attention from women, which is weird.

**FU3L** · 12-09-2018, 01:19 PM

Autism is undesirable.

**CeBKa** · 12-09-2018, 01:19 PM

How many girls have you approached/chatted up this week? if answer is 0 there's your problem

**JoeWilsons** · 12-09-2018, 01:25 PM

U should be pulling mad ass.

**messiftw** · 12-09-2018, 01:31 PM

No offense, but I think that changing your clothing style to something more classy could benefit you a lot.

**shador1** · 12-09-2018, 01:59 PM

Originally Posted by AlamedaBoy

https://imgur.com/a/Q9hsdUj

Literally don't attract anybody. I don't feel that bad, but I have a bad feeling I'm decently photogenic(look better than I do in reality) I added a video but it's so hard to know. I suppose if you ain't attracting anybody you are by definition, unattractive.

Ok, so I think you are decent looking, I actually look similar, maybe less ripped more bulky type but similar face. Do something more interesting to your hair maybe? In terms of physical attraction, girls find hair surprisingly important to match your face etc. As mentioned, clothing works (depending on your body).
I live in central europe mind you, girls seem to be a little different down here. I personally have had a LTR with a 10/10 girl, for 6 years... One problem could be the girls feeling intimidated (I also like the normal cute type girls and they dont appreciate good looking guys here because they feel he would leave them soon and some times there is no space to show them you are a good person). The place where you are trying to meet girls could be a problem. Maybe your personality is somehow putting them off but not sure how often you try to talk to them.

How did you find out about this? Do you get rejected or do girls just not look at you in public?

**DIREALBOSS** · 12-09-2018, 02:04 PM

It’s not you,it’s the females who are all ****ed in the head these days.

Keep in mind our society makes it incredibly hard for good hearted males to find a partner these days, whether you’re good looking or ugly. The more degenerate and trash you’re, the more good you’ll do with modern women.

**LetsAvIt** · 12-09-2018, 02:10 PM

Good looking mate srs, I’d rate you in the 7/10. You could pull mad poon. Fix ya style up a bit tho

**AlamedaBoy** · 12-09-2018, 02:11 PM

How would ya fix my style up brahs?

**LetsAvIt** · 12-09-2018, 02:18 PM

- stop drinking with a straw like a 14 year old girl
- fix that hairstyle. Get a fade. Also maybe rock a tiny amount of stubble

youtu.be/hCQPSh_Ld4g <<<< CLICK LINK FOR HAIR

Make sure you have some nice clothes too, leather jacket, desert/Chelsea boots, fitted jeans, muscle fit top etc. And you’re set srs

**AlamedaBoy** · 12-09-2018, 02:37 PM

Appreciate the feedback. It's true, I didn't really advance my style, I was stylish a few years ago in a swag****/hipster hybrid sort of way(not too tryhard hypbeast sort of way) but became a bit 'basic' with my style over last white. Too many hoodies which imo only some guys pull off from a style/looking good way

**guetal22** · 12-09-2018, 02:40 PM

Originally Posted by AlamedaBoy

Literally don't attract anybody. I don't feel that bad, but I have a bad feeling I'm decently photogenic(look better than I do in reality) I added a video but it's so hard to know. I suppose if you ain't attracting anybody you are by definition, unattractive.

Opie i am in the same situation as you, people tell me im attractive but i attracted nobody lol 24y/o kissless virgin never been in a date

P.S. Im the one on the right

**LetsAvIt** · 12-09-2018, 02:44 PM

Hoodies can be alright but just switch it up a little sometimes and make an effort, never know when you might come across an attractive girl who will give you the eye

**AlamedaBoy** · 12-09-2018, 02:45 PM

Aw man, it blows. I ain't kissless but I was in your shoes up until I was 21. I've kissed a few girls but last girl I kissed was September 2017 lol. A huge wedge of time to be fair. What do you think is holding you back? I think with me is that I am very particular, not high standards, I prefer a cute girl over a hot one honestly. A girl with a cute face, kind heart and a nice smile who likes me both for my looks and my personality.

**LetsAvIt** · 12-09-2018, 02:46 PM

Originally Posted by guetal22

Opie i am in the same situation as you, people tell me im attractive but i attracted nobody lol 24y/o kissless virgin never been in a date

P.S. Im the one on the right

you look like a freshy, lol

good clothes but plz change that hairstyle. Hair is everything mane. You shouldn’t be a 24 yo virgin, no idea how you allowed that to hapoen

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