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    Why does society hate introverted guys?

    This is something I’ve noticed in both neighborhoods I lived in the US and my motherland. I get weird vibes from people when they see me hanging out alone. I like hanging out with friends but a lot of times I like just being alone, but a lot of people try to give me chit and I’ve even heard girls making fun of me that I have no friends.
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    Because being social is normal
    The loner anti hero portrayed in movies and tv shows aren't.
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    Only if you are aesthetic. Ugly introverts are basically invisible to society.

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    Because being social is normal
    The loner anti hero portrayed in movies and tv shows aren't.
    So true. These phags dont exist in real life
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    This thread is so new and exciting.

    Youre basically me before lifting and listening to self help books. Ive realized none of you will do either of those things so why write a novel to try to help a lazy person. The best advice I can give you is your life sucks and its 100% your fault. Do something, dont do something, whatever. Stop making these threads.
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    I do chit alone all the time. Occasionally a hostess seems confused when I show up to a restaurant and get a solo table, though I have no idea how it's supposed to be shocking that you go to a restaurant to eat alone. Sometimes I just don't feel like cooking and want to get some Mexican after a blunt. Guess it depends on what you're doing alone. Even if I go out to a bar or club solo I've never gotten more than a "where are your friends?" and I just say I came out alone for a drink and they don't care. I also solo travel. My brother came with me for two weeks when I went to Thailand then I spent the rest of the time alone, going out and meeting people and exploring. People say "wow, I couldn't do that" for some reason but that's about it.

    Maybe people think it's weird when you do it because you come across as weird, idk.
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    the biggest joke is if a deformed guy tries to be social
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    Originally Posted by Kabamaro View Post
    This is something I’ve noticed in both neighborhoods I lived in the US and my motherland. I get weird vibes from people when they see me hanging out alone. I like hanging out with friends but a lot of times I like just being alone, but a lot of people try to give me chit and I’ve even heard girls making fun of me that I have no friends.
    I don't know.

    Almost no adult in the US has "friends" once they get a job and get married. In addition, Americans hate smart people, especially young Americans, so doing important things, thinking, reading, etc are seen as very negative behaviors.

    I also believe that especially females, have a horror against family and relationships and so they love stupid mindless activities and embrace activities that don't support much of a future.

    So, I think we have a cultural problem, I think based on capitalism which stresses that everyone either has total control or doesn't. That mixed with the popularization of ghetto culture have really harmed how people treat each other.
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    I've wondered this my whole life. Men always try to bring me down and women always pick me apart for being quiet. I can tell people are thrown off when they talk to me too because i use quick responses and i'm not Mr social. As soon as they realize i'm quiet they lose all interest.
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    Originally Posted by GravityLee View Post
    This thread is so new and exciting.

    Youre basically me before lifting and listening to self help books. Ive realized none of you will do either of those things so why write a novel to try to help a lazy person. The best advice I can give you is your life sucks and its 100% your fault. Do something, dont do something, whatever. Stop making these threads.
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    Originally Posted by Autumnal View Post
    I do chit alone all the time. Occasionally a hostess seems confused when I show up to a restaurant and get a solo table, though I have no idea how it's supposed to be shocking that you go to a restaurant to eat alone. Sometimes I just don't feel like cooking and want to get some Mexican after a blunt. Guess it depends on what you're doing alone. Even if I go out to a bar or club solo I've never gotten more than a "where are your friends?" and I just say I came out alone for a drink and they don't care.
    I used to do that a lot and it would disturb people.

    I used to even read books at the table.

    I found it relaxing even if I was in a relationship. Going to the movies alone was big treat too.
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    Originally Posted by Autumnal View Post
    I do chit alone all the time. Occasionally a hostess seems confused when I show up to a restaurant and get a solo table, though I have no idea how it's supposed to be shocking that you go to a restaurant to eat alone. Sometimes I just don't feel like cooking and want to get some Mexican after a blunt. Guess it depends on what you're doing alone. Even if I go out to a bar or club solo I've never gotten more than a "where are your friends?" and I just say I came out alone for a drink and they don't care. I also solo travel. My brother came with me for two weeks when I went to Thailand then I spent the rest of the time alone, going out and meeting people and exploring. People say "wow, I couldn't do that" for some reason but that's about it.

    Maybe people think it's weird when you do it because you come across as weird, idk.
    Lol I relate to that.

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    I’m trying to navigate this chit myself.

    I had a life changing experience recently where a shy girl was into me - a shy guy - but the people around us treated her like she was normal and punished me for not being to jokey flirty bbc they’re used to. They eventually even had her resenting me.

    She was leagues more shy than me but that didn’t matter.

    It’s like God set this situation up himself to show me the double standard and that I have to change to get what I want.


    You just have to power through and stop being afraid of interaction. You’ll never not be an introvert but you’ll learn to be social. Have standard and don’t seek validation from people. You’ll never please everyone, and not everyone should be able to please you so have standards and let people know when they do something you don’t agree with just like how women do to you
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    I'm 'introverted' unless I'm with people with similar humor and personality type that I can talk easily to. Most people you come across are pretty chitty tho.
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    Originally Posted by malakas1 View Post
    the biggest joke is if a deformed guy tries to be social
    When I lived in Philly there was a little guy with deformed legs and he needed arm canes to walk. He also talked unusually, but he was intelligent.

    Anyway, he would go out to the local bars, nice ones, and try to talk to people. Most would be nice but never get into it with him. Meanwhile, I started my career teaching mentally retarded people and later all kinds of mental cases, so I'm used to all kinds of stuff and don't care. This guy was smart but he just had a messed up body. So, I'd talk to him on occasion and get into good convos.

    To be honest, I think he thought I was weird for doing it and other would look at me like, really?!

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    Originally Posted by hoganrulz View Post
    Because being social is normal
    The loner anti hero portrayed in movies and tv shows aren't.
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    There's probably a reason you're a loner - and the reasons aren't very attractive to girls.
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    As an introvert, I have no fukking clue what you're talking about.
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    Because society values strong men who are leaders. Well, they DID at least...

    I also think people equate introversion with being shy/quiet/awkward. While that's often true with introverts, it's not always that way. I'm sure there's plenty of "introverts" on here that kill it in life.
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    shouldn't matter to an introvert because they wouldn't give a chit
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    Seems like the opposite IMO. Society is slanted towards hyper individualism which favors introverts
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    Because being social is normal
    The loner anti hero portrayed in movies and tv shows aren't.
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    Being social is the norm. Most people like being with other people and dislike being alone and even fear being alone.

    So at a minimum they will think a loner is weird, and they can also feel unsafe if he looks off in some other way.

    I’m extremely introverted too and do everything alone. Go to restaurants alone daily etc. And yeah I am sure many people think that is weird.
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    Originally Posted by Silencespeaks View Post
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    Being social is the norm. Most people like being with other people and dislike being alone and even fear being alone.

    So at a minimum they will think a loner is weird, and they can also feel unsafe if he looks off in some other way.

    I’m extremely introverted too and do everything alone. Go to restaurants alone daily etc. And yeah I am sure many people think that is weird.
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    Originally Posted by Basiliskboy View Post
    I’m trying to navigate this chit myself.

    I had a life changing experience recently where a shy girl was into me - a shy guy - but the people around us treated her like she was normal and punished me for not being to jokey flirty bbc they’re used to. They eventually even had her resenting me.

    She was leagues more shy than me but that didn’t matter.

    It’s like God set this situation up himself to show me the double standard and that I have to change to get what I want.


    You just have to power through and stop being afraid of interaction. You’ll never not be an introvert but you’ll learn to be social. Have standard and don’t seek validation from people. You’ll never please everyone, and not everyone should be able to please you so have standards and let people know when they do something you don’t agree with just like how women do to you
    You cannot be with a girl who talks about your relationship with others and takes their advice seriously. That's like dating all of them with them never really interacting with you.

    The only time it's okay to be discussing your relationship is if the girl thinks something dangerous is happened, and she wants feedback, or if she's bragging about it.

    If you like this girl, you have to tell her these things. It's not fair to have to please all of her friends. Of course, you can't be a weirdo and sit there and not treat them as friends. That's a way to respect your girl. If you don't, then you're likely selfish, not shy, and a bad person.
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    Originally Posted by Silencespeaks View Post
    This

    Being social is the norm. Most people like being with other people and dislike being alone and even fear being alone.

    So at a minimum they will think a loner is weird, and they can also feel unsafe if he looks off in some other way.

    I’m extremely introverted too and do everything alone. Go to restaurants alone daily etc. And yeah I am sure many people think that is weird.
    I'm more surprised at how social people are and the things they talk about on a daily basis honestly

    It's more weird when people come into the office every day and talk for hours about their cats or how to do a 5 minute project. That is weird to me.
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    You just have to accept you will never be the bubbly monkey like extrovert. But you have to do the minimum to not give off bad impressions or get what you want like girls etc.
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    Originally Posted by Silencespeaks View Post
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    Being social is the norm. Most people like being with other people and dislike being alone and even fear being alone.

    So at a minimum they will think a loner is weird, and they can also feel unsafe if he looks off in some other way.

    I’m extremely introverted too and do everything alone. Go to restaurants alone daily etc. And yeah I am sure many people think that is weird.
    I'm a very sociable person and witty. I can easy talk to large numbers of people and keep positive things going. I doubt many people who know me have much to say that's negative.

    With that being said, I don't have much in common with people. Also, all I do all day, because of my career, is keep my patients happy and engaged, and staff too. I think it's very important to keep morale up at work as we have a hard job. So, in my private life I need to be around people like me, rare, or people who are very calm, cool, collected, or funny. If I can't have that, I like being alone.

    You seem pretty smart to me and it could be that you just don't have people like you around.
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    Originally Posted by TheAdlerian View Post
    I'm a very sociable person and witty. I can easy talk to large numbers of people and keep positive things going. I doubt many people who know me have much to say that's negative.

    With that being said, I don't have much in common with people. Also, all I do all day, because of my career, is keep my patients happy and engaged, and staff too. I think it's very important to keep morale up at work as we have a hard job. So, in my private life I need to be around people like me, rare, or people who are very calm, cool, collected, or funny. If I can't have that, I like being alone.

    You seem pretty smart to me and it could be that you just don't have people like you around.
    You and I sound very much alike. While I have my own unique interests, I can connect with literally anyone about just about anything. I could probably get Mr. Autism eod8989 to open up too.
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    lol i went on a date and the girl was like why am i so quiet and why i dont have much social media..didnt care..i just cant deal with all this small talk bs...most people my age or younger are selfish and arrogant anyways.

    the only people i can get along with are older people 30+ who actually have a personality...its weird but being a loner is so stress free lol
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