90% of dudes not getting laid is due to an underdeveloped personality - NOT LOOKS

[LikeAMachine]

The reason you aren't getting laid is because you are a weird fukker who hasn't done enough socially to figure out how to flirt properly. The other 10% are autistic or deformed.



Go outside, figure out how to be social even if it means you're an awkward embarrassed loser, trial, error and self reflection are important.

Also Indians looking to bang 10/10 women need to chill.


Fite me.

[EoR]

It's easy picking up women. Just walk up to them and say hi. It works every time.

[Better Unborn]

[Brozef]

The reason you aren't getting laid is because you are a weird fukker who hasn't done enough socially to figure out how to flirt properly. The other 10% are autistic or deformed.



Go outside, figure out how to be social even if it means you're an awkward embarrassed loser, trial, error and self reflection are important.

Also Indians looking to bang 10/10 women need to chill.


Fite me.

That and going after girls out of their league and/or not willing to lower there standards to where they should be. No personality and average looks? lol @ going after hot chicks.

[skinnyfat88]

Truth but personality is even more essential to dating/attracting quality women and keeping them interested for an extended period of time.

Looks alone can probably get you laid once in a while at the bar/on tinder.

[Jimmehhh]

It seems like looks get your foot in the door. But your social skills get the job done.

brb focusing on improving social skills.

[BlackJack619]

I'm pretty weird, I think that helped me to get laid when I was single.

[GravityLee]

When you see a good looking guy with a dog food or sloppy joe its a guy that has low social skills usually. About 25% of the time hes gay and in the closet.

[Coolman468]

Totally agree. It wasn’t until I started putting myself out there, working on my social skills that I was able to get laid on a consistent basis. I’d consider myself above average in looks as I get interest from attractive women, but when I had no idea what I was doing things went nowhere really fast.

[Ratfish]

das it srs

there's no other possible explanation for why i'm not a virgin

[RedRusty]

It's easy picking up women. Just walk up to them and say hi. It works every time.

Cue EOD to say you can't approach women.

[anonkunbrah]

huge if true

[VeganBrahh]

Nothing but truth ITT

[ScramFranklin]

das it srs

there's no other possible explanation for why i'm not a virgin

Brah, make a personality maxing guide for us autists, will rep for life

[HoustonMiscer]

Also Indians looking to bang 10/10 women need to chill.

whoa man no need to bring my race into this. i know you woke up this morning feeling dangerous but this is out of line bro.

[ErnieMccracken]

das it srs

there's no other possible explanation for why i'm not a virgin

How often do you approach randoms?

[Kiop]

agree
poor outlook of himself
low confidence
0 or repetitive achievements
low risk taking
no social skills

u r right

[CaliSuperSport]

thats too much work tho

[CoffeeStout]

Even the most socially awkward introvert can get laid at a college bar at 2:00am with the right timing.

inb4metoomovement

[Destor]

Yeah but the incel thing isn't about putting work into developing your social skills to successfully flirt and woo women with personality. These guys want to be genetically-endowed Chad alpha males, forged in the womb into womanizing weapons of mass vaginal destruction, doing absolutely nothing themselves but pulling in top-tier women solely through their ideal canthal tilt and jawlines

[Basiliskboy]

This is me. I’m the most boring bland guy ever with no social experience.

How do you improve this? Just going out isn’t enough to develop a personality you have to know who you are to do that. I don’t know who i am. I don’t know if I’m the serious guy, the quirky guy, the funny guy or anything. I’ve literally sat in a room for 4 years

[hoganrulz]

Personality & social skills seems to be the big problem with people nowadays

[Rebuilt3]

Looks still has a big portion of it, I wouldn’t date a fat chick, neither would I date a single mom. Or smash

Fact is there is more to it than just looks or personality.

[Ratfish]

How often do you approach randoms?

outside of a bar or something similar, almost never. if i did, i certainly wouldn't be flirting with them. i would just say absurd things

[Silencespeaks]

When you see a good looking guy with a dog food or sloppy joe its a guy that has low social skills usually. About 25% of the time hes gay and in the closet.

Where do I find such a guy??

[PowersKenny]

OP is right, be something if value, that can take many forms, actually talk to women, I want a misc meet up with all the idiots that can't get laid...will be like thunderdome if incels

[ssilv]

> not autistically screeching in front of women to get them to reproduce with you

wtf is wrong with you guys

[WZBRAH]

Where do I find such a guy??

Gymcel with low social skills? Look no further, because that is approximately 35.0% of the misc

[Basiliskboy]

outside of a bar or something similar, almost never. if i did, i certainly wouldn't be flirting with them. i would just say absurd things

How do you know when you’re “being yourself”? I think being myself is me being quiet, but I’m actually weird af and a little mean. I enjoy making people uncomfortable just a little bit but I don’t think that’s an attractive personality.

I’m embarrassed of my personality and I don’t let it come out in small talk essentially.
Do you just build on to what people respond to the most?

[Destor]

Gymcel with low social skills? Look no further, because that is approximately 35.0% of the misc

Honestly forums and online video games are probably where they're at