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    How should I have handled this better misc (srs)

    Gf jokes about ex flirting with her via text (says he was dreaming about her and she left her jacket and it was warm). This isn't the first time she let's dudes esp exes continue to flirt with her

    I get mad and tell her I don't tolerate that sht and to tell them not to pull that.

    She gets mad and says she doesn't flirt back I'm being jealous etc and they're being friendly and she doesn't want to seem like a bitch. Wtf misc. I'm thinking I should've just played it off like "hah what a loser. too bad for him imma feel your warmth at night baby"
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    she's showing you no respect for how what she is doing is making you feel


    dump her
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    Originally Posted by salamisalem View Post
    Gf jokes about ex flirting with her via text (says he was dreaming about her and she left her jacket and it was warm). This isn't the first time she let's dudes esp exes continue to flirt with her

    I get mad and tell her I don't tolerate that sht and to tell them not to pull that.

    She gets mad and says she doesn't flirt back I'm being jealous etc and they're being friendly and she doesn't want to seem like a bitch. Wtf misc. I'm thinking I should've just played it off like "hah what a loser. too bad for him imma feel your warmth at night baby"
    Start joking with her about your ex's flirting with you and see how she responds.

    Her behavior is immature/childish.
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    You got a gf?
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    Originally Posted by wasp9166 View Post
    she's showing you no respect for how what she is doing is making you feel


    dump her
    that's what I told her. she says I'm overreacting lmao. I don't want to end it bc she only does this every now and then, I think it's a test lol. usually what he have is great. she wrote "bitches love me" when she sent that as tho I'd laugh at it wtf. raged at her so hard.

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    Hey Rabbit, long time no see! hah yeah I did, been 3 months now. not too bad other than this sht
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    I'd tell her to stop because it's childish and disrespectful to you that she continue letting these ex's contact her and then tell you what they're saying in an attempt to make you jealous or get a rise out of you. If she thinks that behavior is ok then it's time for her to go because she will only get worse.
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    Originally Posted by kimm4 View Post
    Start joking with her about your ex's flirting with you and see how she responds.

    Her behavior is immature/childish.
    I thought about that. she gets super jealous just when I mention other girls. but honestly I'm no immature hoe and I'm not gonna do that to another person, bc I have too much dignity. and respect for her.
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    Originally Posted by fmylife4real View Post
    I'd tell her to stop because it's childish and disrespectful to you that she continue letting these ex's contact her and then tell you what they're saying in an attempt to make you jealous or get a rise out of you. If she thinks that behavior is ok then it's time for her to go because she will only get worse.
    said that word for word and she just didn't get it. kept saying she didn't agree and that I get jealous of her male friends. I'm like bish only when they flirt with you. I feel there was just a better way to handle this. prob what I wrote in the OP, to play it off and be cocky and make him sound like a pu$$y.
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    Originally Posted by MirinCanadian99 View Post
    Perfectly normal response. A girl that keeps in contact with an ex is a huge red flag. Orbiters also. Tell her either she matures up or you will leave her and mean it.
    yeah she does both of those things. but I mean she doesn't flirt back and everything else in our relationship is amazing. you really think it's a make or break?
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    I don't think you did too bad. But if you wanted to be nicer about it you could just say you don't think it is appropriate for her to be in contact with exes or flirting with dudes in general while you are together, and that she needs to block his ass.

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    Originally Posted by salamisalem View Post
    I thought about that. she gets super jealous just when I mention other girls. but honestly I'm no immature hoe and I'm not gonna do that to another person, bc I have too much dignity. and respect for her.
    Why am I not surprised. You're a good man and I'm sure there are plenty of women out there who would respect your more.

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    Originally Posted by salamisalem View Post
    I thought about that. she gets super jealous just when I mention other girls. but honestly I'm no immature hoe and I'm not gonna do that to another person, bc I have too much dignity. and respect for her.
    yet she has none for you, if she did , you wouldn't have to tell her to shut it down , these witches think they can do whatever they want whenever they want , that's fine, be single, ciao
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    Good for you kiddo

    You know how my man deals with me when I cross the line? He raises an eyebrow and says nothing ...ayyy lmao
    thx (I think hah). wait what really? so what do you do when he just doesn't react? do you continue to cross the line lmao?
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    yet she has none for you, if she did , you wouldn't have to tell her to shut it down , these witches think they can do whatever they want whenever they want , that's fine, be single, ciao
    ugh. fuk man. she's really hot. and loves me a lot. this is the one red flag. you really think that's true?
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    Raising an eyebrow is a reaction

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    fuk you're so right. dammit. I should mention it's long distance right now bc I had to go finish school so it's harder. usually in person I just shut her down anytime she says anything stupid just with my presence or my confidence or whatever. much harder over the fukking phone
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    fuk you're so right. dammit. I should mention it's long distance right now bc I had to go finish school so it's harder. usually in person I just shut her down anytime she says anything stupid just with my presence or my confidence or whatever. much harder over the fukking phone
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    Originally Posted by salamisalem View Post
    ugh. fuk man. she's really hot. and loves me a lot. this is the one red flag. you really think that's true?

    women don't know what love is ..............you know what it is? not saying you're over reacting when she should be saying, you're right honey, i'll make it stop
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    its just childish ****. She’s trying to make you jealous. I doubt she likes her exes or else she wouldn’t be telling you about the texts. Figure out what you want to tolerate in a relationship and stand firm, you don’t have to put up with ****.
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    fuk you're so right. dammit. I should mention it's long distance right now bc I had to go finish school so it's harder.

    well i guess its not you feeling her warmth at night lol...
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    Seems like she’s just trying to get a reaction out of you op, don’t play along n move on
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    honestly op i've been there before and the best advice i can give is this:

    it's probably nothing. she might be trying to make you jealous because she feels like you guys havent connected in a while. brush it off this time and be sweet to her. maybe try to get some sexy time in as she's holding her phone and responding to her ex. if she does it again, calmly tell her that it sorta bothers you and makes you a little jealous and that you wish she wouldn't and that you wish she'd just shut it down with here ex and not respond or to be more forceful in her response. if she keeps doing it after you've told her that, it might be a problem.
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    Originally Posted by cookiefiend View Post
    I don't think you did too bad. But if you wanted to be nicer about it you could just say you don't think it is appropriate for her to be in contact with exes or flirting with dudes in general while you are together, and that she needs to block his ass.

    If she declines then you have to decide where to go from there really
    you're right. thx. I'm still figuring out what to do next.

    Originally Posted by kimm4 View Post
    Why am I not surprised. You're a good man and I'm sure there are plenty of women out there who would respect your more.

    Good luck.
    Thank you Kim, that means a lot.

    Originally Posted by MichelleLnne View Post
    its just childish ****. She’s trying to make you jealous. I doubt she likes her exes or else she wouldn’t be telling you about the texts. Figure out what you want to tolerate in a relationship and stand firm, you don’t have to put up with ****.
    that's a good point. Thanks Michelle. Good to see you again btw

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    Seems like she’s just trying to get a reaction out of you op, don’t play along n move on
    you're def right, I'll do some damage control and handle it more calmly next time
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    Brushing it under the rug this time is ok, but I'd make it clear to her you're not ok with it. If she continues doing it, it shows she doesn't respect you or your feelings and you should peace out.
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    these types of chicks want to find a cuck to support them while they are sloots. she's feeling you out. unless you wanna be a cuck, you have to end it or you WILL discover she was unfaithful
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    Tell her "I know we've talked about this before, and you didn't see where I was coming from. How would you feel if I told you chicks were flirting with me? The issue is I told you I'm not comfortable with it, and you didn't respect that. I'm not a jealous guy - talking about your ex flirting with you is just disrespectful, let alone allowing it in the first place. Honestly, if you don't want to understand where I'm coming from, I think this kinda thing is going to be a big problem, which is really disappointing considering how great everything else has been with us"

    Remember man, you gotta set the rules. It's always easier to just let things slide and say fuk it, can't be fukt arguing about it, no big deal, but these things escalate. Doesn't matter if she's hot and you have good sex and have fun together, if she doesn't respect you and try to understand you, you're not going to be happy with her.
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    Originally Posted by Brozart View Post
    Tell her "I know we've talked about this before, and you didn't see where I was coming from. How would you feel if I told you chicks were flirting with me? The issue is I told you I'm not comfortable with it, and you didn't respect that. I'm not a jealous guy - talking about your ex flirting with you is just disrespectful, let alone allowing it in the first place. Honestly, if you don't want to understand where I'm coming from, I think this kinda thing is going to be a big problem, which is really disappointing considering how great everything else has been with us"

    Remember man, you gotta set the rules. It's always easier to just let things slide and say fuk it, can't be fukt arguing about it, no big deal, but these things escalate. Doesn't matter if she's hot and you have good sex and have fun together, if she doesn't respect you and try to understand you, you're not going to be happy with her.
    Hey brozart long time no see brah! dude honestly I really appreciate the advice. However I said all that. and she insisted I just didn't trust her and that I was being jealous. I even said the "how would you feel if chicks were flirting with me" thing and she's like "id laugh it off". which is total BS. so she's in complete defensive mode.

    So yeah I'm not sure. Just going to see if she repeats this in the future, bc it's starting to get out of hand.
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