Girlfriend travelling with other guy
Cliffs:
- After 4 months relationship gf tells me she is going overseas to visit guy friend who recently got dumpes
- Invites me but was still not sure about her and cut that she mostly wanted to visit dude
- She now is overseas, says they are just friends but he puts lovehearts on her insta
- They have done heaps of couply **** together that I find it hard to see
- OP is feeling somewhat heartbroken but knows he is to blame too for not going
Im her first bf, I have no reason to suspect her cheating as she's been trustworthy so far. I just feel my boundaries have been crossed and she doesn't care much about me?
Do I just breakup with her? Or slowly detach while still hitting the puss (its quite good)
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10-14-2018, 03:22 AM #1I don't even lift
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Girlfriend travelling with other guy
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10-14-2018, 03:25 AM #2My eyes are up here.
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Yes, you just break up with her. No boundaries. No respect. No way she isn't cheating. The act in and of itself of going is pretty much cheating, rather it manifests itself physically or not.
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10-14-2018, 03:29 AM #3common slav in tracksuit
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now I ain't no female, but she did ask you to go with her. but truth be told, if she wanted to ride his joystick, you being there with her wouldn't stop her. cheating or not, I'd dump her solely on the fact that my gut feeling would tell me she'll eventually walk over me cuz I let a thing like this slide.
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10-14-2018, 03:30 AM #4I don't even lift
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Thanks my man. I feel somewhat like it hurts more than cheating (and ive been cheated on before), she is having all these amazing experiences with another guy. Feels bad man.Originally Posted by hendrixfreak70
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10-14-2018, 03:35 AM #5High Test Miscer
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Why is it always women doing this chit lol ... You never hear of a guy with a gf who talks about "travelling" with another female.
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10-14-2018, 03:39 AM #6I don't even lift
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Women are more self centered I guessOriginally Posted by bongowongo
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10-14-2018, 03:41 AM #7common slav in tracksuit
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because if I wanted to "travel" with another female, I'd do it in secret. no way I'd come up with some plausible mental gymnastics of it. I mean, what woman would actually believe you? most of them sniff it out due to that intuition thing and chit. guys would be "okay, I trust you" cuz at the end of the day we're the gullible ones.Originally Posted by bongowongo
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10-14-2018, 03:43 AM #8I don't even lift
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Ok next question. She is away 1 more week. Is it ok to break up by text or do I wait til she's back. I think my decision was made its just been reaffirmed.
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10-14-2018, 04:28 AM #9( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
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How do they even know each other?
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10-14-2018, 04:32 AM #10I don't even lift
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I believe uniOriginally Posted by AdikinBawls
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10-14-2018, 04:50 AM #11
How is this a real question. You know what to do OP wtf man
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10-14-2018, 05:04 AM #12Registered User
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Lol . I need a pic
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10-14-2018, 05:08 AM #13( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
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Lol wut, she hasn't even given you the full breakdown on this guy to even TRY to make you comfortable?Originally Posted by darwinia
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10-14-2018, 05:10 AM #14common slav in tracksuit
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this. for all we know, she might've met him on a porn set and they did a dozen gigs together and stayed in touch afterwards.Originally Posted by AdikinBawls
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10-14-2018, 05:14 AM #15Never accept defeat!
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Dude even if you went with her, she would've fukked this guy whenever you aren't looking / asleep etc etc.
Your relationship is over. Start going NC and work on yourself.
Don't even tell her anything. Just go NC. Bitch doesn't deserve your time.Originally Posted by darwinia
She'll get the hint after you stop replying to her. And if you do see her, just say it's over.
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10-14-2018, 05:51 AM #16Bodybalder
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women have no ****n respect/loyalty.. jesus christ.
I couldnt even see a guy ever doing something like that.
just right in ops face
girl I was dating would do the same thing..
Oh, I dont think I can come over tonight,
ends up texting me at 3am "was drinkin with co workers"
yeah.. thats normal.
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10-14-2018, 05:57 AM #17Hunter/Fisherbreh
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This your gf rn opie.
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10-14-2018, 06:02 AM #18Registered User
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Don't break up with her over text. Wait untill she comes back and straight up tell her it's over and nothing more. Don't try to give her a reason or anything like that. Then go NC.
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10-14-2018, 06:08 AM #19Registered User
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yes, she was cheating on you.
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10-14-2018, 06:11 AM #20Registered User
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That doesen't even matter. Even if she isn't cheating if you are in a relationship with someone you don't just go overseas to visit another guy.Originally Posted by johnnydeep1
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10-14-2018, 07:00 AM #21Nah mean, jelly bean?
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You don't travel overseas to see some random guy you knew in uni.........unless you're looking to get pounded by his 10" dick.
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10-14-2018, 07:41 AM #22I don't even lift
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Thanks all for reafirrming my decision
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10-14-2018, 08:02 AM #23brb bulk-utting!
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So this dude recently gets dumped..... and it's some gal-pal from overseas that's going to come to cheer him up? Like he doesn't any guy friends in his city that he could hang with? As if she couldn't cheer him up via text/email?
Just lol.
Sorry OP but she was interested in this guy before you ever came along. Cut your losses and find a girl who respects you and knows how to act in a relationship.
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10-14-2018, 08:37 AM #24Titanium Account
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end it when she gets back, thats messed up.
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10-14-2018, 08:43 AM #25Registered User
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Oh yea I would’ve told her I’m not stopping her from going nor will I try to, but her actions have consequences. And kept it at that. At that point if she’s smart she’ll know what I mean and either not go and never try something like that again or she’ll go and I’ll dump her.
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10-14-2018, 08:44 AM #26Registered User
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It's called emotional cheating and it's still cheating.Originally Posted by darwinia
Whether he's smashed or not, you can be 100% certain he's trying to. She knows it too. Sloots lie and pretend they don't know when a guy is trying to get in their pants, but they know. The little hearts on social media is him testing/crossing the line. She should have called him out on that and made sure you saw it."Buy a man eat fish, the day, teach man, to lifetime." - Joe Biden
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10-14-2018, 08:48 AM #27Registered User
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He just got dumped?
YOUR girlfriend is going overseas to cheer him up?
I guess that makes sense.
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10-14-2018, 08:53 AM #28Registered User
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Get the strap opie
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10-14-2018, 09:03 AM #29Banned
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It's game over boyo.
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10-14-2018, 09:10 AM #30
wow......brutal
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