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    Cold Approaching (srs)

    Getting dates was pretty straightforward in college, but I'm finding it a lot harder to meet people post-grad. Any of you phags had success cold approaching during the day? Trying to meet more non-slooty girls but haven't had much success so far
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    Yeah, i did do it a fair bit, friendly disarming ,no pressure, natural environment etc but nearly always got the wall. Prob because of social media, guarded, doesnt happen much these days etc. Or me not being what they want, phucknose
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    I tried and prob cold approached 6x this year...0 results. 4 had "bfs", 1 "was seeing someone", and 1 shook her head in disgust (6/10 basic white chick whose legs drew me in...face was definitely off though).

    But my approaches were way too cold, literally just asking them out for lunch/coffee. Instead I'm going to try now to just talk about whatever to them in a friendly manner or a funny comment, and break the ice etc. If they talk back, then a convo can happen, and if I feel good connection, will ask to have lunch but in a social way, not in a "are you available?" way which will just set up their automatic rejection response.

    Now that I think about it, I did do a conversation opener with a girl on the train, and it was going not too bad in a social sense(she had a bf) but an old man chimed in and started telling "back in my day" stories which ruined it all.
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    Originally Posted by inb4everything View Post

    But my approaches were way too cold, literally just asking them out for lunch/coffee.
    That's insanity, but I'm glad you did something rather than nothing. Next time though, just make a comment, compliment her, or ask her a question about something that's going on at the moment. Just make sure it's something that you can work with and go further. A few weeks ago, I saw this girl from my class eating lunch in the dining hall so I just sat by her, just as she was about to leave, some other girl came to sit on the adjacent table where my skateboard was leaning up against and she just asked if it were mine so that she wasn't getting in the way. I replied, but also noticed an interesting birthmark on her face. I complimented her birthmark and just went along with that. The girl from my class left and I just stayed and chatted with the other girl that came by. Opportunities do present themselves, just gotta take them. If you're really hard-pressed for something to say, you could even just say "Hi, what's your name?"
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    women dont like ugly creepy men approaching them, so if youre not good looking dont bother
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    Originally Posted by Griffindinho View Post
    women dont like ugly creepy men approaching them, so if youre not good looking dont bother
    This. Even if you are good looking they likely will reject because women like men they are familiar with.
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    And if she is familiar with me, she knows I am beta. So either way, I lose.
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    Never cold approached I genuinely think its a PUA scam with an incredibly low success rate for even great looking guys. Social proofing is just hardwired into our nature, we are all wary of strangers at first. Ive slept with like 30 girls and am pretty socially confident I think... but the "forced" nature of cold approaching isnt for me.
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    Originally Posted by devopsengineer View Post
    And if she is familiar with me, she knows I am beta. So either way, I lose.
    Originally Posted by eod8989 View Post
    This. Even if you are good looking they likely will reject because women like men they are familiar with.
    These two are the most annoying trolls in relationship help. Either that or the autism is irredeemable. At least deveopsengineer makes me lol.
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