you both did the same thing, quit being a hypocrite.
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Thread: Found my GF on Tinder - what do
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08-18-2018, 12:56 AM #91
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08-18-2018, 12:58 AM #92
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Youre 30s, shes (presumably) 30s. 2 Years in a relationship at that age without commitment for a girl is like 10-20 years. No wonder she left. So thats mostly your fault.
You cant get mad at her being on tinder , she could / probably is likely just seeing what else is out there too. Same as you.
If you actually want her back, I'd just be honest. Tell her you downloaded tinder to see what else was out there, you saw her on it - it crushed you and you realised life is too short and youre serious about her and will commit etc. and you want a real shot of making it work. Swallow your pride and say sorry for dragging you feet with the commitment, its just youre scared of XYZ.
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08-18-2018, 04:36 PM #93
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The sister thing is literally the cringiest thing you can say. There’s no reason to take shots at her, especially if they’re obvious lies. It would just make OP look like a butthurt little *******.
I say OP just goes nc on her and unhides his tinder profile. Let her see it and figure out that it’s over.And relief washes over me in an awesome wave
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08-18-2018, 04:50 PM #94
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08-18-2018, 04:52 PM #95
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08-18-2018, 04:52 PM #96
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08-18-2018, 04:54 PM #97
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08-18-2018, 05:24 PM #98
What most people ITT don't get is that OP supposely got on tinder after she left his house: there's a big possibility that she has already been on tinder for months (they have been together for 2 years as of now) and decided to leave because she already has found other options (cawks).
TLDR: Don't blame OP for being on tinder now that his relationship is ending, there's a chance she was on tinder before their relationship went to ****.I'm the thread killer.
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08-18-2018, 05:26 PM #99
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08-18-2018, 05:48 PM #100
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08-18-2018, 05:53 PM #101
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08-18-2018, 05:56 PM #102
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08-18-2018, 06:00 PM #103
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08-18-2018, 06:23 PM #104
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