It's war now -- sorry ladies she fired the first shot

[Crazy_Desi]

I think its necessary to let her know that you showed up or are there just to eliminate the chance that she forgot or got lost. "Hey I got us a table by the window". Thats it.

LOL. not sure if serious, but if so, god damn, it's because of beta advice like this that men get cucked so easily. no game at all

[2Chad4You]

lmao, this is why i misc




betas gonna beta

[BallGameFan]

who nose what's going on in this thread?

[J1992]

Bruh if you had a regular stream of puzzy you wouldn't even let it get it this far. You're obviously salty as sht.

You're fool for letting her waste your time TWICE. When the bish flaked the first time you should have immediately went nc and moved on to the next OR act extremely uninterested.

If she was really interested in you then she would have done all the leg work to make sure the meet happened the second time around.

Either way you exposed yourself as a needy *******. Chicks hate desperate looking dudes. Lesson learned, have a plan A B C. She stood you up prolly got railed by some other dude laughing at your beta 'threat' text while you went home wirh you dick in your hands. Just lol, fix up boyo.

[aGameWins]

I think its necessary to let her know that you showed up or are there just to eliminate the chance that she forgot or got lost. "Hey I got us a table by the window". Thats it.

Why would you want to do this. If she's interested she won't forget. She'd run through fire and even ask you for confirmation.

[Legz422]

How do you accidentally delete a conversation?

Ain't there like several steps to deleting a conversation?

That's like me accidentally putting together a jigsaw puzzle.

It's actually not that hard to do on an iPhone.

[nordiclifter]

jesus christ OP, even I aint that much of a *******, and I have even sucked two shemales.

just accept some ppl are low, just move on and focus on something worthwile

[AWillis]

Eta?

[AWillis]

Thought about calling her, but people don't "accidentally delete" texts and then just don't show up. This means that she plotted this, which is why I can't just let it go.

It's not about being butthurt, it's the principle.

she didn't plot chit. she may have been into you for a brief moment - that was that.

but a better offer came along so you got put back in the queue.. you should have just left her alone.

she got bored of you and deleted the convo. your mistake was replying to her after she told you that. it is unreal you actually sent her a copy of it.. instead of deleting her then and there. or at least you could have just overlooked it and made a joke about it. make her laugh and get her into you again. but instead you just reminded her, and reconfirmed why she did delete you.

and why didn't you call her after 5mins? fk waiting 30mins and WASTING your time.

like others have said. you have to stop caring so much. you gave her too many chances - she disrepected you. your texts are long as fk also. chicks are not into that chit, especially attention whores. you just look needy

stop trying so hard. make them work for it for a change

[Crazy_Desi]

jesus christ OP, even I aint that much of a *******, and I have even sucked two shemales

Lold

[Frank Drebin]

LOL. not sure if serious, but if so, god damn, it's because of beta advice like this that men get cucked so easily. no game at all

Its beta to go home saying nothing without letting her know she stood you up.

[Luc1fer]

If you were a Chad, this wouldn't have happened. Time to LDAR

PS, she's hot. PM me her number i have a much better chance than you

Jesus christ you have low standards. She's a 6/6.5 at best. 100% left swipe.

[Frank Drebin]

Why would you want to do this. If she's interested she won't forget. She'd run through fire and even ask you for confirmation.

Well the trick is to not get in this situation in the first place, but if it does happen its not beta to let her know you know you showed up and she didnt. Jesus christ.

[flat6pilot]

She didn't go the extra mile dummy. She literally doesn't remember **** about you. She's texting 20 different guys, do you think she honestly remembered you? She probably deleted your conversation so she wouldn't have to scroll as far to talk to the other guys on her phone. This is what modern (online) dating is. Don't believe me? Go ask any chick who's a 5/10 or above to show you their text messages. It's non-stop.

I dated a chick who was a model for a very short while. She had to put her phone on silent when we were hanging out because it was "BZZZZ" "BZZZZ" "BZZZZ" every 3 seconds non-stop all day and all night. This chick you're talking to is using an ONLINE DATING APP. She's getting her phone blown up 24/7 by guys and she doesn't give a fck about you or any of the other ones either. You can't, even for a second, pretend it's any other way with chicks from online dating sites. Get with the times bro.

This X10000

It's easy to think you're toward the top of her interest hierarchy when you get a number, schedule a date, build a little rapport.. but she's doing the same thing with 20 other guys. We forget how much easier women pull and falsely equate our success ratio with theirs, i.e. "wow I finally got a match and scheduled a date with someone decent, she must be as excited as me". But for the average female that's every swipe. Can't take anything personally online. I got stood up once years ago. She apologized profusely and was honest that she had so many dates planned off POF she just couldn't keep track. Asked if I wanted to reschedule. Nope.

[Luc1fer]

I would have been pissed, not sure how I would have reacted. I've had girls ghost me via text on the day of a date, which is w/e who cares, but to say "Yeah see you there" and then not show up would take a real kunt to pull off.

Ye, it's seriously low.

[jackflag]

OP, the only way you can get back at her now is to make a fake chad account, match her with it, set up a date, confirm to her that the date is on when she asks the day of (she’ll be asking to confirm since you’re a chad account), when she texts you “where are you? I’m here”, just hold back and wait for when she realizes you’re not going to show and rage texts you. Go NC and let her quadruple text.

Op if you are reading, this is the only way to both feel better and entertain the misc. two birds with one stone.

Do it.

[Thirdworldchild]

Take note *******s

when you send a confirmation text for a date you have set up you are literally telling the girl

"I get stood up a lot so can you please easy my worried feminine side that you will show up because I cant handle uncertainty and possible rejection"

Order of operations
1. Match
2. Chat a little create attraction/find out if YOU think she is worth meeting
3. get her number
4. Message her asking what day she is free to get together (always make her suggest a day, so you dont have "Oh im not free saturdays" and they you have to reveal you are free everyday)
5. She says "Im free sunday evening" You say "great, Ill meet you at "blahblah" at 7pm, sound good?" she says "sounds good" then you say "cool, if anything comes up and I cant make it ill let you know, and the same with you, other than that Ill see you at "blahblah" at 7 on sunday, have a good week"
6. Dont send another god damn message.
7.You go to where the date is and if she doesnt show up, she wasnt worth your time.

In the words of Adam Corolla "If she likes you, she will make it easy for you and open the front door. You just have to walk in, but if she doesnt open the front door, you simply walk away"

You dont send butthurt messages, that just makes you look like a weak little boy and confirms she made the right choice by not showing up.

you can text saying "Hey I am at "blahblah" I grabbed us a table" and see what her response is. if she texts back "You never texted to confirm we were still on" you just respond "When I make plans I stick too them, if you werent sure you could have messaged me. I value my time and you not showing up was pretty disrespectful."

Then if she does want to hang out you make sure she makes it up too you, tell her to come over to your place and bring some wine.

OP you should be talking to atleast 3 girls at once, so if one bails out then you dont look like a pussy responding like you did LOL

Sensing Corey Wayne pupil...Will rep on recharge

[DesiredUserphag]

Beta AF

[digitalchi]

cringed really hard at this.

[miscdontlift]

you realize that you called her immature but then you talk about how you're going to tell all your friends about it and post it on the internet. lol

shes ugly anyway, her nose is huge and her entire face is droopy like its about to melt off

[knightofday]

I feel bad for you man, she was def on some bs. But that last message, that last message...You sound like a child bro. I understand how frustrated you were but damn, tell all your friends huh?

[JamesA1990]

Jesus christ you have low standards. She's a 6/6.5 at best. 100% left swipe.

I sentence you to a lifetime of LTC.

[devin45k]

I dunno why but she looks like she would be horrible in bed.

Also looks like the type that would surround herself with a bunch of ugly broads to make herself look better than she actually looks in a public setting.