Cheating coworkers, do you mind your own business?

[P51]

Just got back from hanging out with some coworkers at a golf outing and afterwards we continued drinking at a bar and man did some truths come out.


I knew before this coworker has cheated on her husband once a year when she goes on a "girl trip" with other female coworkers. Over the years its grown to 2 guys she rotates through on this trip. Fuked up.


Well today she told me (and 2 others) that she met a different (3rd guy) the last time on this trip and he has been flying up to our city for a week at a time once per month for the past 10 months. That she is considering having a kid with this guy. The kicker is her husband wanted kids but she was 100% against it, so hearing this is pretty crazy.


I just sat there with a bert stare the whole time. I felt gross and half of me says somehow alert this husband, the other half says mind my own business.


Fuk misc. Oh and she is on the 3rd guy because the husband got close to catching her with guys 1 & 2 (in her mind, who knows how close he actually came), so she got this new guy.

[LateShow]

Pretty sure the right thing to do is become guy #4

[drvillain]

mind your own business

[P51]

Pretty sure the right thing to do is become guy #4

She is a solid 8/10, but is getting old at 32. Already got the fake tits for future proof.

[Winky69]

sloots gon sloot

[medianjoe]

if you were the husband...would you want to know?

if the answer is yes, do the right thing

[heyitmekrokodil]

gonna need pics to provide advice

[Silencespeaks]

Yes a few years ago I discovered that several acquaintances were cheating on their wives. Thought about it carefully and in the end decided not to say anything.

[dcycles]

Everyone always says mind your own business and I used to agree but if you were that guy would you want to be waisting your time with that sloot? I would want you to say something but it might make work weird if he brakes bro code

[mythos34]

Man I hate when I hear chit like this. Can’t stand liars and cheaters. But from what I’ve learned over the years, the best thing to do is stay out of it. Getting involved will not end well.

Quick story about cheating coworkers;
A few years back I worked in a bank branch.
GM was banging an assistant after hours.
Word got around and they get busted.
GM is fired.
Not long after, assistant(she was hot af btw) gets promoted..
That’s how it goes.

[RoxyFoxy22]

Everyone always says mind your own business and I used to agree but if you were that guy would you want to be waisting your time with that sloot? I would want you to say something but it might make work weird if he brakes bro code

Yes, but what if he is the beta that's always so blind in a relationship because he is a beta and forgives her like nothing happens, while you become the chitty coworker ? Not only that she's gonna know, but everybody will. Even if the other coworkers have great morals, they will always think '' that snitch may tell something about me, he can't be my confident''.

What you says sounds ethic, but not realistic. The husband probably knows, he's just too beta, Op shouldn't interfere, it's not his battle.

[1QWIK7]

I help friends and co-workers cheat all the time. They're guys but it's not a big deal. If guys cheat without thinking twice, what difference if it's a woman? As long as it's not YOUR woman, let them be human beings. Maybe that husband isn't fulfilling what the other guy is doing to that woman.

Women have needs. Just like us guys. Let her get her walls get punished by a horny miscer.

[lildave]

If you work with her just mind your own business. Far too easy for her to ruin your life if you ruin hers.

[Tanerian]

No. I let people live their own damn life.
I worry about my own.

[P51]

Yes, but what if he is the beta that's always so blind in a relationship because he is a beta and forgives her like nothing happens, while you become the chitty coworker ? Not only that she's gonna know, but everybody will. Even if the other coworkers have great morals, they will always think '' that snitch may tell something about me, he can't be my confident''.

What you says sounds ethic, but not realistic. The husband probably knows, he's just too beta, Op shouldn't interfere, it's not his battle.

Yea that’s what I figured. I don’t really know the guy besides meeting him at company events. I don’t think he is beta. He really doesn’t know and the reason why this all got brought up was because he doesn’t know but she is having a moral dilemma about having kids with this new guy but doesn’t want to hurt her husband.....


That’s ****ed up anyway you look at it. There is no way this ends up good. Also the ****ed up thing is im close with another female coworker who is there and she kept saying how it’s ****ed up and the cheaters response was “wait till you get older you will understand why you need to do things like this.”

[NeedToBang]

Married, cheating constantly and considering having kids with another guy?

how are people like this not just shot dead lmfao.

if everyone was minding their own business then everyone could get away with everything.

[P51]

Married, cheating constantly and considering having kids with another guy?

how are people like this not just shot dead lmfao.

Well I really think he doesn’t know. He is in the same line of work as us (they use to work together lmao) and both make well into the 6 figures and travel a lot for work. So she has money, time, and opportunities.

[AlwaysFocus]

Yea that’s what I figured. I don’t really know the guy besides meeting him at company events. I don’t think he is beta. He really doesn’t know and the reason why this all got brought up was because he doesn’t know but she is having a moral dilemma about having kids with this new guy but doesn’t want to hurt her husband.....


That’s ****ed up anyway you look at it. There is no way this ends up good. Also the ****ed up thing is im close with another female coworker who is there and she kept saying how it’s ****ed up and the cheaters response was “wait till you get older you will understand why you need to do things like this.”

Well thats enough triggering for me today, time to log off.

Hope that bish gets painful cervical cancer

[iloveus]

I help friends and co-workers cheat all the time. They're guys but it's not a big deal. If guys cheat without thinking twice, what difference if it's a woman? As long as it's not YOUR woman, let them be human beings. Maybe that husband isn't fulfilling what the other guy is doing to that woman.

Women have needs. Just like us guys. Let her get her walls get punished by a horny miscer.

Women have needs? Those are wants not needs.

[drvillain]

Married, cheating constantly and considering having kids with another guy?

how are people like this not just shot dead lmfao.

if everyone was minding their own business then everyone could get away with everything.

nah, people aren't really that good at lying. We just tend to turn a blind eye because the truth hurts.

[Snake955i]

As a matter of principle i'd tell the husband. It's better he finds out now than raising Tyrone Jr thinking his son has re-vitiligo, thats the oppposite of what Michael Jackson got...








No relation.

[PeaceWithin]

Best of both worlds... find a way to aware him anonymously.

Your conscience is clean and you don't get dragged into the muck or your coworkers find out that you told him.

son, bros before hos, even if he isn't your bro

You must tell him, and do it anonymously with an anonymous email or letter. It is your duty son. Put the ball in his court, and walk away.

Smack it

LMAO, the feeling when you get wizarded by the Smack multi. Love it.

[Silencespeaks]

Well I really think he doesn’t know. He is in the same line of work as us (they use to work together lmao) and both make well into the 6 figures and travel a lot for work. So she has money, time, and opportunities.

Yeah I think career people traveling for work is a huge opportunity for cheating if they are so inclined. The spouse will likely never find out.

So much so that whenever I hear about a financially successful husband traveling for work, my immediate thought is "he's cheating."

[drvillain]

As a matter of principle i'd tell the husband. It's better he finds out now than raising Tyrone Jr thinking his son has re-vitiligo, thats the oppposite of what Michael Jackson got...








No relation.

lmao son. aware

[Jasonw1178]

Yeah, go ahead and get involved in someone else's marriage. I guess you'll have to learn by personal experience. Mind your own business and let her get caught on her own. You're a high rep fellow Miscer so I'll go further because I don't want to see you get negged IRL. Do you really want to get in the middle of this?

First of all, when someone tells you something in confidence you should keep your mouth shut unless it's something very extreme where someone is in danger or some great crime has been committed. Also, She has friends as fellow accomplices that will back her up and you'll be the target. You better have Donald J Trump levels of turning this around in your favor or you're going to be screwed. Do you think the bro gods will smile down on you, or you are doing the some kind of justice? Righting the wrongs of the world? No, you will be viewed as a vindictive gossip, and a snitch. Nobody will trust you, and next time someone gets told on they will know who to blame. She can go to HR and say that you went out of your way to tell her make up this story as payback because she wouldn't sleep with you and anyone in management will say that makes sense. Most of all, her husband will want to believe it because it's easier, so he will side with her, not you. If she's this sloppy that she's telling everyone, it will come around to him and he will find out on his own, unless he's just in denial, and then there is no hope for him, he's cucked for life.

[SoutheastBeast1]

Mind your own business

[peterplsss]

Have a baby with her husband

[drvillain]

Yeah, go ahead and get involved in someone else's marriage. I guess you'll have to learn by personal experience. Mind your own business and let her get caught on her own. You're a high rep fellow Miscer so I'll go further because I don't want to see you get negged IRL. Do you really want to get in the middle of this?

First of all, when someone tells you something in confidence you should keep your mouth shut unless it's something very extreme where someone is in danger or some great crime has been committed. Also, She has friends as fellow accomplices that will back her up and you'll be the target. You better have Donald J Trump levels of turning this around in your favor or you're going to be screwed. Do you think the bro gods will smile down on you, or you are doing the some kind of justice? Righting the wrongs of the world? No, you will be viewed as a vindictive gossip, and a snitch. Nobody will trust you, and next time someone gets told on they will know who to blame. She can go to HR and say that you went out of your way to tell her make up this story as payback because she wouldn't sleep with you and anyone in management will say that makes sense. Most of all, her husband will want to believe it because it's easier, so he will side with her, not you. If she's this sloppy that she's telling everyone, it will come around to him and he will find out on his own, unless he's just in denial, and then there is no hope for him, he's cucked for life.

bold is so true

[DolphinPilot]

son, bros before hos, even if he isn't your bro

You must tell him, and do it anonymously with an anonymous email or letter. It is your duty son. Put the ball in his court, and walk away.

Smack it

I would do something like this in your situation OP. Take an informative approach and simply let him know the wife is cheating so he can figure out how he feels about it. He might be an actual cuck and be OK with it.

Then again I can't imagine him not being aware of at least suspicious of it. Either way the world needs more slut shamers so you do what you gotta do, OP.

[Seeker47]

Obviously its really messed up what she's doing. But you should just mind your own business. Especially because its your coworker and now you'd be stuck working with someone who's marriage you just ruined. That would be a really stupid position to put yourself in.