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    Tinder girl... I'm 41, she's 23?

    So I log on Tinder and a 23 yo chick liked me. Lots of pics and cute as anything. So I made the match an let it chill a day or so. Then I sent here a generic funny line I use that has about an 80% reply rate. She responds and we chat. I ask her flat out "did you read my age correctly? I'm 41". She says yes and it doesn't matter to her (side note, she lives over an hours drive from me).

    She's super chatty, we talk about trips, careers, fitness, etc. I was thinking this is one of those girls that wants a sugar daddy. I took what I knew of her at this point and did some google searching. Was able to find her on Linkedin...... And she's legit. Looks like a very driven 23 year old, university educated and networking like crazy.

    OK, so.... I look younger than my age. I'm very lean and built and I can carry a decent convo with 20 somethings. But my adult brain is having a hard time wrapping my head around this one. The other brain downstairs is in all systems go (those two argue all the time, I'm used to it).

    So.... Wtf is the motive here??? Is she just DTF or am I dealing with one of these young chicks that wants to jump the cue to adult success mode without having to build a life with someone her own age and stature?
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    Originally Posted by Jellotree View Post
    So I log on Tinder and a 23 yo chick liked me. Lots of pics and cute AF. So I made the match an let it chill a day or so. Then I sent here a generic funny line I use that has about an 80% reply rate. She responds and we chat. I ask her flat out "did you read my age correctly? I'm 41". She says yes and it doesn't matter to her (side note, she lives over an hours drive from me).

    She's super chatty, we talk about trips, careers, fitness, etc. I was thinking this is one of those girls that wants a sugar daddy. I took what I knew of her at this point and did some google searching. Was able to find her on Linkedin...... And she's legit. Looks like a very driven 23 year old, university educated and networking like crazy.

    OK, so.... I look younger than my age. I'm very lean and built and I can carry a decent convo with 20 somethings. But my adult brain is having a hard time wrapping my head around this one. The other brain downstairs is in all systems go (those two argue all the time, I'm used to it).

    So.... Wtf is the motive here??? Is she just DTF or am I dealing with one of these young chicks that wants to jump the cue to adult success mode without having to build a life with someone her own age and stature?

    You won't know unless you give it a chance. Within time you'll be able to see what her intentions are. She may very well just see you're older and see's that as a chance to be with someone that's already got their **** together, unlike most 20 some year olds, or you could be right and she may be looking for a meal ticket. You have to decide if taking the time out of your life to find out which it is, is worth while.
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    Originally Posted by Jellotree View Post
    So I log on Tinder and a 23 yo chick liked me. Lots of pics and cute AF. So I made the match an let it chill a day or so. Then I sent here a generic funny line I use that has about an 80% reply rate. She responds and we chat. I ask her flat out "did you read my age correctly? I'm 41". She says yes and it doesn't matter to her (side note, she lives over an hours drive from me).

    She's super chatty, we talk about trips, careers, fitness, etc. I was thinking this is one of those girls that wants a sugar daddy. I took what I knew of her at this point and did some google searching. Was able to find her on Linkedin...... And she's legit. Looks like a very driven 23 year old, university educated and networking like crazy.

    OK, so.... I look younger than my age. I'm very lean and built and I can carry a decent convo with 20 somethings. But my autist brain is having a hard time wrapping my head around this one. The other brain downstairs is in all systems go (those two argue all the time, I'm used to it).

    So.... Wtf is the motive here??? Is she just DTF or am I dealing with one of these young chicks that wants to jump the cue to adult success mode without having to build a life with someone her own age and stature?
    FTFY.

    BTW, tinder isn't an app for finding soulmates. She's either on there looking for attention or looking for dick... and I don't mean dick van dyke.
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    Originally Posted by Jellotree View Post
    .. wants to jump the cue to adult success mode without having to build a life with someone her own age and stature?
    Age: 41.
    Simple minds need simple answers.
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    Originally Posted by MiscInformed View Post
    FTFY.

    BTW, tinder isn't an app for finding soulmates. She's either on there looking for attention or looking for dick... and I don't mean dick van dyke.
    That's beginning to change. So many woman "not looking for hookups". Although, I'm not familiar with all the lingo, so who knows. I didn't know what "Netflix and chill" meant..... I honestly thought these were boring woman who just wanted to sit around and watch TV.
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    Originally Posted by Jellotree View Post
    That's beginning to change. So many woman "not looking for hookups". Although, I'm not familiar with all the lingo, so who knows. I didn't know what "Netflix and chill" meant..... I honestly thought these were boring woman who just wanted to sit around and watch TV.
    "not looking for hookups" means "open to hookups, but don't want to be pumped & dumped again by Chad and don't want you to think i'm a sloot".
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    Originally Posted by Jellotree View Post
    That's beginning to change. So many woman "not looking for hookups". Although, I'm not familiar with all the lingo, so who knows. I didn't know what "Netflix and chill" meant..... I honestly thought these were boring woman who just wanted to sit around and watch TV.
    The number of women who had "not looking for hookups" in their profile that I banged first date......

    Who cares if she is looking for a sugar daddy.
    just bang the hot young tight body until you reach your spending limit then set her free.
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    Originally Posted by Maatkarah View Post
    Age: 41.
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    Originally Posted by Titansfan08 View Post
    Tinder? Bro she just wants some dik
    This, probably wants to piss off daddy by dating someone his age. Maybe she wants to try a guy with experience, maybe she just actually likes older guys....who knows. Shes DTF so let her.

    Just keep all texts in case she goes nutty on you.
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    Odd, the pics that you are talking about aren't showing up in this thread.. Surely OP didn't forget to post them.
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    Originally Posted by Jellotree View Post
    &#*@, the grammar police got me
    Lol not even grammar, spelling.

    On topic, she may be a little bit on that sugar baby time, or maybe not (depends if your profile suggests wealth - a real sugar baby won't waste time on you if there's no indication of wealth).

    Maybe just wants the sexy, experienced older man experience.
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    Who cares why she did it. Show her a good time. Keep conversations to minimum because you probably have little in common, and the more young all, the older you will feel because she is into stuff you aren’t familiar with. LOL
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    Lots of women are attracted to older men as long as they look ok.

    This is a common and known thing.

    If you still look good and you are 35-50 you can slay as long as you still look 35-40 and have some money.

    To a young girl older men have more money, skills in bed and are less insecure. generally.
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    Originally Posted by Jellotree View Post
    So I log on Tinder and a 23 yo chick liked me. Lots of pics and cute as anything. So I made the match an let it chill a day or so. Then I sent here a generic funny line I use that has about an 80% reply rate. She responds and we chat. I ask her flat out "did you read my age correctly? I'm 41". She says yes and it doesn't matter to her (side note, she lives over an hours drive from me).

    She's super chatty, we talk about trips, careers, fitness, etc. I was thinking this is one of those girls that wants a sugar daddy. I took what I knew of her at this point and did some google searching. Was able to find her on Linkedin...... And she's legit. Looks like a very driven 23 year old, university educated and networking like crazy.

    OK, so.... I look younger than my age. I'm very lean and built and I can carry a decent convo with 20 somethings. But my adult brain is having a hard time wrapping my head around this one. The other brain downstairs is in all systems go (those two argue all the time, I'm used to it).

    So.... Wtf is the motive here??? Is she just DTF or am I dealing with one of these young chicks that wants to jump the cue to adult success mode without having to build a life with someone her own age and stature?
    She wants to do because she has daddy problems. Just make it a fling.
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