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    question for you fellas

    ok I got ghosted after 3 months out of nowhere. I hated the feelings but I am now over it and am dating a muchhhh better girl. but the chick that ghosted me obviously has issues sh!tty drug infested white trash family and she is doing the best she can. I actually saw her last Friday and walked up to her make small talk all she said was I'm so trashed right now. I literally feel bad for this girl. no I dont wanna be with her but I do wanna help her as I can see shes struggling. would it be weird of i reached out to her as a friend? she is absolutly not dating material whatsoever but goddamn do I feel bad for her.

    she is so ****ing lost at life I just wanna help her get through it I dont want to be with her as she just is unstable but I really do want to help her.
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    Originally Posted by Rcross1989 View Post
    ok I got ghosted after 3 months out of nowhere. I hated the feelings but I am now over it and am dating a muchhhh better girl. but the chick that ghosted me obviously has issues sh!tty drug infested white trash family and she is doing the best she can. I actually saw her last Friday and walked up to her make small talk all she said was I'm so trashed right now. I literally feel bad for this girl. no I dont wanna be with her but I do wanna help her as I can see shes struggling. would it be weird of i reached out to her as a friend? she is absolutly not dating material whatsoever but goddamn do I feel bad for her.

    she is so ****ing lost at life I just wanna help her get through it I dont want to be with her as she just is unstable but I really do want to help her.
    I wouldn't waste your time. Sounds like she did you a favor ghosting you. You are doing better now and have moved on its not your responsibility to help her. She may not even want help and this would just give her a chance to work her way back into your life and **** up your new relationship.
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    what does that mean by her doing me a favor? I am literally 100% over her in being in a relationship but seeing her just made me feel bad for her. like idk why she is obviously going through some things.
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    Well you said she ghosted you and it made you feel bad which leads me to believe you would have stayed with her had she not left you. She sounds like bad news and now you aren't with her and your life is better = favor. Help her if you want I just don't know why you'd want to deal with that situation anymore and what does your current girlfriend think about you wanting to help her out and speaking to her again?
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    my current girlfriend thinks I should reach out because I made it perfectly clear I dont want a relationship with this chick as she has way to much baggage. but I feel like it's the right thing to do. she most likely wont answer me but I still want to make sure she is doing ok she bas had a rough life growing up. I just feel bad for her man. she is a good girl just has some serious issues. shes 30 and getting wasted drunk every weekend driving around drunk etc I just dont want her to do something stupid.

    she is horrible for a relationship but decent as a person
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    You want to be captain save a ho. You're not a therapist and even if you were you'd need her to be on board etc etc.

    Brah you can't really change people. People 'change' because they want to.

    I'd back off.
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    it would just make me feel better letting her know I'll still be her friend
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    Originally Posted by Rcross1989 View Post
    it would just make me feel better letting her know I'll still be her friend
    Lmao don’t be a cuck. But from your previous post you’re going to do what you want. She’s most likely banging all types of dudes that don’t care about here. And she ghosted you and you’re worried about her feelings? Jesus man you need to do better
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    Dont do it op. Youre gonna regret it. I remember breaking up with an ex last year and she had ptsd and was bipolar. I felt super bad and wanted to help her as a friend. Long story short she used me for a week and then left me once another guy came in the picture. Not a single thanks either she just disappeared.

    You should not care about your ex’s. Its not your job to care anymore because she left you in the first place and didnt try and make it work. Stick to your guns and let her struggle. Shes an adult and can make her own decisions now.
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    Originally Posted by Rcross1989 View Post
    my current girlfriend thinks I should reach out because I made it perfectly clear I dont want a relationship with this chick as she has way to much baggage. but I feel like it's the right thing to do. she most likely wont answer me but I still want to make sure she is doing ok she bas had a rough life growing up. I just feel bad for her man. she is a good girl just has some serious issues. shes 30 and getting wasted drunk every weekend driving around drunk etc I just dont want her to do something stupid.

    she is horrible for a relationship but decent as a person
    Please tell me what you're going to do to fix her bad upbringing, reverse the associated social conditioning, and wipe the slate clean? Please, go on. How are you going to fix a broken person? Fact of the matter is you can't. Some people are too far gone, and if you can't build somebody up, don't let them tear you down. She is not your responsibility. She's a grown-ass woman who can take care of herself. If she overdoses, that's not your problem. That may sound harsh, but that's just how it is. You can't save everybody, and even if you could, they will likely wind up right where you left them. You sound incredibly naive, and I just hope for your sake that this doesn't blow up in you face.
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    She's an adult. If she wanted to fix her life she would. How are you going to fix her if she doesn't want to fix herself?
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    Originally Posted by Rcross1989 View Post
    it would just make me feel better letting her know I'll still be her friend
    cot dayum youre a cuck
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    What exactly do you think you can do for her without overstepping the boundaries of a friendship your current gf would be comfortable with?

    You can't (& shouldn't) be everything to everyone. Save your time and energy for those who would do the same for you.
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    DON'T. If the shoe was on the other foot she would be cold as **** and drop you. I know life isn't about keeping score but you shouldn't use your emotional bandwidth to help someone like that. You are NOT her therapist / psychiatrist / friend.
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    Are you really being serious? Why do you think some girl you dated for three months wants your help? Because she disappeared on you?

    Do you see where I'm going with this?

    Edit: Just read the rest of this thread. You can't help someone like that. Do you honestly believe she got where she is, being 30 years old, and all of a sudden you'll reach out to help her and she'll change? I get where you're coming from, but you must have one hell of an ego if you think you can turn that ship around.

    One more thing, it's nice that your GF is saying you should reach out, but if you want to have a serious relationship with this girl DON'T DO IT. It will 100% end it.
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    I never reached out you guys are right she is not my problem now whatsoever. just feels bad man. I want to let her know I'm here for her but j guess even that would be a waste of time? I dont want her romantically whatsoever. to that has wayyyyyyy to much baggage. abusive ex bf drug infested family etc. but I wanna ket her know I am here but that is probably a waste
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    Originally Posted by Rcross1989 View Post
    I actually saw her last Friday and walked up to her make small talk all she said was I'm so trashed right now. I literally feel bad for this girl.
    this means im out partying with friends. please dont talk to me
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    yeah but she was trashed so I took it as face value lol
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    Originally Posted by Rcross1989 View Post
    I never reached out you guys are right she is not my problem now whatsoever. just feels bad man. I want to let her know I'm here for her but j guess even that would be a waste of time? I dont want her romantically whatsoever. to that has wayyyyyyy to much baggage. abusive ex bf drug infested family etc. but I wanna ket her know I am here but that is probably a waste
    Ok and what if she then reaches out to you and wants you to be the one to save her?

    It would be extremely stressful, time consuming, and would likely destroy your current relationship to get involved with her on a friendly level and help her.

    Doesn't sound like her problems are solvable by a quick chat over a cup of coffee.
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    I get what you guys are saying but I cant help but to feel for her. i have family who come from bad families and I've seen what it can do to somebody. suicide/cutting etc just talking to someone could make or break there day.

    she most likely will not answer she has basically shut me out of her life for no reason other then I got in to close with her. but even if it sounds selfish it would make me feel better if I reach out and just let her know i can still be a friend
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    Originally Posted by Rcross1989 View Post
    but even if it sounds selfish it would make me feel better if I reach out and just let her know i can still be a friend
    Sometimes the thought of being capable and willing to help someone when others can't be is extremely gratifying but as we've already established, this isn't the time and place for you to do so.
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    cot dayum youre a cuck
    You still have feeling for her too
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    Originally Posted by Rcross1989 View Post
    I get what you guys are saying but I cant help but to feel for her. i have family who come from bad families and I've seen what it can do to somebody. suicide/cutting etc just talking to someone could make or break there day.

    she most likely will not answer she has basically shut me out of her life for no reason other then I got in to close with her. but even if it sounds selfish it would make me feel better if I reach out and just let her know i can still be a friend
    You may be completely over-analyzing this situation. You said you saw her once and she was trashed... but unless you've been stalking her (which doesn't sound out of the realm of possibility, given how "concerned" you are), how do you know that is representative of how she's been living the last couple months?
    Last edited by zeronotyethero; 06-28-2018 at 02:30 AM.
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