I only wanted to smash, but now this girl won't leave me be. Wut do?

[devin45k]

There were losers in the 60s and there are losers now.

That's what I am getting at. It's nothing new. It's always been around, it just gets put on blast via social media now.

[bjjnovice]

That's what I am getting at. It's nothing new. It's always been around, it just gets put on blast via social media now.

Boomers destroyed the economy and mortgaged the futures of future generations. They also sparked the degenerate cancer culture that has taken over society. They're not an example to be followed.

[ChristineMN]

Day 2
-had hockey game. Girl asks if she can come and watch.. I'm like sure whatever why not
-went back to my place for 'cuddles'
-smashed

This is precisely where you messed up. In the future, how about a nope to that request?

[EnforcerOTF]

She looks like she would look terrible naked

my thoughts exactly.

[AlexTheNewbie]

That's why you should always make it clear in the very beginning. Girls will fall in love with you if you're having a good time. This is the only way to not feel any guilt when breaking it off.

[trickfinger]

Just text her "It was nice meeting ya bud"

[shootmike]

Without reading the whole thread, did anyone ask how good the sex was?

As for the breakup, just be honest. How fuking hard is it for you guys to stop gaming chicks and just be honest?

[googleccd]

She looks pretty decent, Why don't you try a relationship out and see what happens ?
She doesn't seem like a smash then dash kind of girl, shame on you for doing so man.

[Zackad]

You fuked up when you let her come to your hockey game the day after smashing.

Just tell her you're not down for a relationship/commitment right now, and next time don't go out and do chit together the day after smashing unless you want to signal that it was more than sex

do you even read amigo

sucked face day 1, hung out the next day then smashed. didn't smash then hang out the day after

@OP: just tell her you don't wanna rush things cuz that has a tendency of blowing up in your face.

Ok, now I can help.


Start by pulling back subtly. Don’t “ghost” because that’s childish bs, but start putting some distance between you two. Take a while to return calls texts, no time for plans, etc. If that doesn’t work, like Rabbit said you’ll have to talk to her. It shouldn’t be hard after you’ve put a little space between you two, but you’ll have to tell her you’re not looking for something serious and don’t have time for it right now.

lmao don't do this OP. this is literally what the game is nowadays, and you'll just make her think more about you and go crazier.

Just respond like a total weenie and within seconds of every text, with boring answers and lots of haha's

[JazB]

This is what you do

[TommyReich]

sounds like you're a ****boy, enjoy the consequences of being a ****boy, you beta bitch

[BG5150]

This is what you do

This wins! lol

[BG5150]

Trying to figure out how the other miscer in post #5 found OPs girl pic??

me, too. is that otehr miscer an alt account of the OP and he forgot to switch?

[RonaldMcflurry]

She looks like she would look terrible naked

That native barrel body. Lotta latinas are afflicted with it.

[ClaudeGiroux]

This is still going to be educational

if you aren't learning, are you even living?

[ClaudeGiroux]

That native barrel body. Lotta latinas are afflicted with it.

Fuk man. It's so true.

She looks pretty decent, Why don't you try a relationship out and see what happens ?
She doesn't seem like a smash then dash kind of girl, shame on you for doing so man.

Because she is annoying and frankly I dont really feel it at all.

Without reading the whole thread, did anyone ask how good the sex was?

As for the breakup, just be honest. How fuking hard is it for you guys to stop gaming chicks and just be honest?

It may have been the worst sober sex I ever had

Went straight to smashing. No oral or anything

Just text her "It was nice meeting ya bud"

Aware

This is precisely where you messed up. In the future, how about a nope to that request?

Agreed

She looks like she would look terrible naked

Pretty solid fun bags, but everything else was meh. Can confirm legs went all the way up. No ass

Trying to figure out how the other miscer in post #5 found OPs girl pic??

pic was linked in the OP. IDK why it did not populate in the op

[Silencespeaks]

She looks pretty decent, Why don't you try a relationship out and see what happens ?
She doesn't seem like a smash then dash kind of girl, shame on you for doing so man.

This makes no sense. Why would he start a relationship with someone he doesn't even like?

[milmik88]

that´s your punishment for "just wanting to smash" lol

[MattyMiscer]

sounds like you're a ****boy, enjoy the consequences of being a ****boy, you beta bitch

Lolwut? What consequences, getting laid?



OP, continue to see her infrequently but put no effort into it. Don’t talk about relationships at all unless she brings it up and at that point tell her you’re not looking for one.

[ClaudeGiroux]

I think there is the -possibility- that this girl might want to be just fwb but, I might need to be pulling teeth to get her to admit it.

[devin45k]

I think there is the -possibility- that this girl might want to be just fwb but, I might need to be pulling teeth to get her to admit it.

That's a tricky area. A lot of broad's will say this as a way to fool themselves that they dont want to date. They will do the FWB thing but then when they suspect you of starting to have something good going on with another broad, then they will magically appear and fukk up whatever good thing you have going with the new broad.

[northernlights7]

You went to dinner with her and then hung out to watch sports with her. She probably viewed those as legitimate "dates". You should have been more upfront with her that all you wanted was sex instead of giving her even the slightest reason to believe you might have been interested in more.

I'd say just text her that you "had a good time with her an appreciated her company, but just didn't feel any chemistry between you so you aren't interested. Thanks and good luck". Save all the texts for awhile in case she takes a turn to crazyville over it. She should have realized there was a huge possibility you were only in it for the sex if she put out on the first day or two of knowing you IRL, same with what you could have expected on her end.

[second2noneBrah]

Do you want to smash again?

Also just because the first time wasn't amazing doesn't mean it won't get better. Regardless of what the misc says some chicks need to warm up. They don't start rimming u day 1

[BG5150]

Do you want to smash again?

Also just because the first time wasn't amazing doesn't mean it won't get better. Regardless of what the misc says some chicks need to warm up. They don't start rimming u day 1

tru dat, bro

[ClaudeGiroux]

Do you want to smash again?

Hmm..maybe. probably..

[leafs43]

Just be a regular miscer i.e. be awkward as fuk and clingy as chit.

She'll do a 360 and walk away.

[ClaudeGiroux]

I'm the biggest retard for telling her she left her necklace at my place. Now she asked if she can come pick it up tomorrow...

I could have just never texted her again. Fk

[nofear24pr]

I'm the biggest retard for telling her she left her necklace at my place. Now she asked if she can come pick it up tomorrow...

I could have just never texted her again. Fk

Logged in for the 1st time in years just to share my thoughts.

First of all, she might have left that necklace there on purpose.

Second, I always think: treat others the way you want to be treated.
I don't know about you but I appreciate honesty and think people who ghost are as valuable to humanity as bird poop.

Just take this opportunity to talk to her face to face and tell her: You seem like a really nice girl and I don't want to give you any false hope. Unfortunately, I am not looking for a relationship at this moment. Sorry for the inconvenience.

[Masry3]

It's very clear to me that OP doesn't view this is as a problem at all. He likes the attention that this broad is giving him as well as the attention from the Misc. He knows that it's never really that difficult to cut a girl off if you're a man about it, and especially if you've only seen each other three times.

[adxr]

Day 1

-matched with tinder sloth
-had dinner, took her back to my place, hung around the pool
-went back inside and she commenced to sucking my face no big deal
-she goes home

Day 2
-had hockey game. Girl asks if she can come and watch.. I'm like sure whatever why not
-went back to my place for 'cuddles'
-smashed

Day 3
-i don't even like this girl that much...she is actually kind of annoying and I just wanted to take her to poundville: population me. But now she thinks we are a couple....

How do I get out of this?

Godspeed misc

Propose to her OP, you found her on a dating app called "Tinder", i'm sure she isn't a sloot and is wife material. Be sure to report back brah