I only wanted to smash, but now this girl won't leave me be. Wut do?

[RainingBlood]

poundville: population me

[Brozef]

Smash her for a while, unless she's no good.

Then casually tell her you've been to prison for something awful.

[Brozef]

[img]https://i.imgur.com/8Axpn2Z.jpg[img]

See post #5

[miscbrah007]

Don't be a

b a d h o m b r e

[redmelly]

Tell her you started seeing your ex again. Don't contact her any more.

[YIAMSOMEBODY]

She's cute. Threaten to call ICE on her family.

Damn, she's pretty. How's the pussy?

[rynnp]

You did the smash, now you have to master the dash young grasshopper.

Don't answer her texts.

Hop back on tinder.

On to the next.

Sure, she will fill your inbox with needy, angry, long winded texts for a few weeks.

But those you just post to misc or share with your friends for laughs!

nah bro please don't ghost. its so cancer to the dating "game"

just be straight with her. its not like you want her to really stick around anyways so feel free to cut things off. its not like either of you are SUPER attached or anything.
"I dont think things are going to work out... I just want different things in life right now" something like that.

[tim5p]

You can see in her fingers the inevitable progression to whalehood. She looks good now though gjdm

[spazzin]

You can see in her fingers the inevitable progression to whalehood. She looks good now though gjdm

yeah right now shes prime thicc

an extra 5 pounds and shes already leaning towards heavy, 15 pounds and shes a semi-whale

[ForPeteSake]

First off, it's your fault. There's no such thing as casual sex. You gotta take responsibility for thinking you can get away with just smashing a chick. She started liking you, it happens. Tell her you messed up and that you guys shouldn't have smashed since you did not know if you wanted to be in a relationship with her or not. She'll understand that you guys were quick to it. Next you learn from your mistake and start taking responsibility for your life and stop wasting you time chasing chicks you don't like.

As for her, she'll hopefully learn to stop being a slut. ...but she doesn't look like very bright so she'll probably keep running into walls. That doesn't mean that you have to, OP.

[wincel]

Why don't you just give it a try?

weren't you FA, and now you're just a smash and dashing piece of dogchit? amazing

she's cute too, I doubt you will do better

[ZMAg]

She's cute. Threaten to call ICE on her family.

She's looking thin, flimsy.... loose

[FoulSmell]

She’s the best you’re ever going to get *******.. Marry her or admit to yourself you love the penor.

[Kllercroc]

why would u show us her pic, tho.. that's just weird and creepy


besides... men nowadays have low standards. they'd put their dick in anything that moves

[Silencespeaks]

Don't text her first (this gives her a chance to take the hint that you're not interested).

If she doesn't get the hint and texts you first asking to hangout, then say:

"hey I just want to be upfront with you that I'm not looking for a relationship. If you're ok with seeing each other casually then I'm up for that. But if you're looking for something serious then I completely understand and I don't want to waste your time."

Btw don't say "not ready" for a relationship, because if she's inexperienced in dating or naieve then she'll think you just need more time with her to be ready eventually.

[Silencespeaks]

First off, it's your fault. There's no such thing as casual sex. You gotta take responsibility for thinking you can get away with just smashing a chick. She started liking you, it happens. Tell her you messed up and that you guys shouldn't have smashed since you did not know if you wanted to be in a relationship with her or not. She'll understand that you guys were quick to it. Next you learn from your mistake and start taking responsibility for your life and stop wasting you time chasing chicks you don't like.

As for her, she'll hopefully learn to stop being a slut. ...but she doesn't look like very bright so she'll probably keep running into walls. That doesn't mean that you have to, OP.

Casual sex is equal responsibility for both sides imo. Unless the guy lies or implies there is a chance at an exclusive relationship, it's just as much the girl's responsibility if she gives it up without a relationship.

As a woman if you don't want sex outside a relationship and don't want to take the chance of it just being a hookup or fling, then don't have casual sex. You can't use sex hoping to obligate a guy into a relationship.

PS what do you mean by "she doesn't look like very bright"??

[ForPeteSake]

Casual sex is equal responsibility for both sides imo. Unless the guy lies or implies there is a chance at an exclusive relationship, it's just as much the girl's responsibility if she gives it up without a relationship.

As a woman if you don't want sex outside a relationship and don't want to take the chance of it just being a hookup or fling, then don't have casual sex. You can't use sex hoping to obligate a guy into a relationship.

PS what do you mean by "she doesn't look like very bright"??

Yeah they both responsible for it but OP should always know better. Can't blame a less conscious individual for a problem you got yourself into. Gotta take responsibility for your problems otherwise you'll keep running into them. In this case both OP and the girl seem to not reflect on their mistakes because they ran into this one. Though this could be the first time this happen to them!

and by not bright I mean she doesn't look very smart. Her features look wide, making it seem as if she thinks very impulsive, thinks short-term. She'll probably get chubby soon. Isn't capable of planning for the future. Which is kinda seen in the problem they got themselves into.

I could be wrong though! She might be really smart but I doubt it since smart/respectable girls don't go around having casual sex.

[Silencespeaks]

and by not bright I mean she doesn't look very smart. Her features look wide, making it seem as if she thinks very impulsive, thinks short-term.

Ummm are you talking about her race

[goinguido2]

...

and by not bright I mean she doesn't look very smart. Her features look wide, making it seem as if she thinks very impulsive, thinks short-term. She'll probably get chubby soon. Isn't capable of planning for the future. Which is kinda seen in the problem they got themselves into.

I could be wrong though! She might be really smart but I doubt it since smart/respectable girls don't go around having casual sex.

Lmfao, more pls

[ForPeteSake]

What is this chit? In on phrenology type bull...do more

Ummm are you talking about her race

Depends what you mean by race. Like are spanish people more impulsive? Are white people less impulsive? I dont know if they are and it doesn't matter because even if it is true you can't ever be sure until you get to know someone. Theres a bell-curve. Theres a variety of spanish, white, black, asian, etc people.

I just find that people with those features seem/tend to be more impulsive. Like when people dress sloppy, they tend to be more sloppy in every area of their life. Fat people tend to be impulsive in every area of their lives.

Its like when you know which girls you can bang with minimal effort just by looking at their face.

[Voidgaze]

Cute pupper/10



If you're going to smash randos then at least be upfront with your intentions. Don't ghost, don't play games. That is how bitter and jaded people are created.

[AquilaConfido]

Day 1

-matched with tinder sloth
-had dinner, took her back to my place, hung around the pool
-went back inside and she commenced to sucking my face no big deal
-she goes home

Day 2
-had hockey game. Girl asks if she can come and watch.. I'm like sure whatever why not
-went back to my place for 'cuddles'
-smashed

Day 3
-i don't even like this girl that much...she is actually kind of annoying and I just wanted to take her to poundville: population me. But now she thinks we are a couple....

How do I get out of this?




Godspeed misc

Text her this message (even if you're not seeing other girls):

'Look I'll be honest with you, I'm seeing other girls as well at the moment and am only looking for something casual, you up for that'?

Sorted.

[WhirlwindTobias]

funny how OP complained about his lack of successwith women, his balding etc. in older threads and now look where we are.

you already missing your fa days brah? jk, good on you. hope it works out well. poverty repped.

A guy has made it when he transitions from "Why won't girls look at me" to "Why the hell won't this girl leave me alone". Good on you CG.

[ClaudeGiroux]

funny how OP complained about his lack of successwith women, his balding etc. in older threads and now look where we are.

you already missing your fa days brah? jk, good on you. hope it works out well. poverty repped.

So true. Beggars can't be choosers.

[YIAMSOMEBODY]

So true. Beggars can't be choosers.

So what are you going to do?

[Cadet4life]

this is a fear of mine. ive flaked on girls because i know when i smash, they will wanna see me more and do gf/bf chit when all i wanted to do was smash.

[ClaudeGiroux]

why would u show us her pic, tho.. that's just weird and creepy

Is this your first time miscing, maggot? If u make a post about smashing, u post a pic. Everybody knows the rules

Damn, she's pretty. How's the pussy?

Not that I'm some pussy expert but not that good. After smashing shes like "omg I cant believe I/we did that." That was after she told me she was on the pill & has not had sex in a while.. u wot m8. She was kind of easy and it was obvious she wanted the d

Fk all of this passive aggressive slow sht. There is no need to complicate the situation. OP, just be a man, tell her the truth and be done with it.

this is probablythe best thing to do

You did the smash, now you have to master the dash young grasshopper.

Don't answer her texts.

Hop back on tinder.

On to the next.

Sure, she will fill your inbox with needy, angry, long winded texts for a few weeks.

But those you just post to misc or share with your friends for laughs!

she conveniently forgot her necklace at my place and I woke up to "good morning handsome" text..god dammit misc help me

So what are you going to do?

-be very slow to text her. Long weekend just ended. Work will start picking up.. my office is about to split in two I will be "busy" and unsure if i have time to commit to a serious relationship and then just be straight forward. Idk

[Silencespeaks]

she conveniently forgot her necklace at my place

-be very slow to text her. Long weekend just ended. Work will start picking up.. my office is about to split in two I will be "busy" and unsure if i have time to commit to a serious relationship and then just be straight forward. Idk

The necklace thing made me lol, yeah some women tell each other to do that as a strategy.

The slow fade (not texting first, texting less, being "busy" etc) will only work if she is experienced in dating or has good social skills and understands what it means. Chances are she won't take the hint though so then you'll have to be more direct.

Edit: old thread on girls leaving stuff at a guy's place.

https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showt...hp?t=140312613

[Kllercroc]

Is this your first time miscing, maggot? If u make a post about smashing, u post a pic. Everybody knows the rules



Not that I'm some pussy expert but not that good. After smashing shes like "omg I cant believe I/we did that." That was after she told me she was on the pill & has not had sex in a while.. u wot m8. She was kind of easy and it was obvious she wanted the d

this is probablythe best thing to do

she conveniently forgot her necklace at my place and I woke up to "good morning handsome" text..god dammit misc help me




-be very slow to text her. Long weekend just ended. Work will start picking up.. my office is about to split in two I will be "busy" and unsure if i have time to commit to a serious relationship and then just be straight forward. Idk

Says the dip**** who decided to post a pic of her cause smashing her wasn't enough --and now wants to leave her, cuz the sex wasn't too damn good.

lame... e.e

[CrookedDink]

The dip**** who decided to post a pic of her cause smashing her wasn't enough --and now wants to leave her, cuz the sex wasn't too damn good.

lame... e.e

negged for WKing