Title. Ask me anything. Still lurk, but never posted much. Here to help younger boyos.
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- Join Date: Jan 2011
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- Join Date: Mar 2013
- Location: Hilliard, Ohio, United States
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Not sure why tbh. She has a ****ty job and has become a miserable person. She has now begun to blame me for everything pointing towards arguments from 6yrs ago etc. Both families are shell shocked, and when I confront her about the issues she says things like “I don’t know why” “I’m not sure you are the problem” “I don’t want to talk about it”
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05-20-2018, 12:15 PM #13
- Join Date: Mar 2013
- Location: Hilliard, Ohio, United States
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Probably not man. I loved her and trusted her and wanted to build a life together forever. I have much more than her (money and possessions) and to see someone able to walk away with all your stuff is almost unbearable. I have worked my ass off my whole life and have provided her a great life
Last edited by juice323232; 05-20-2018 at 12:15 PM. Reason: To Wincel, my bad
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05-20-2018, 12:26 PM #27
marriage was something rich people did back in the day as a status symbol and to unite families - it was never about love.
wedding planners and whoever else in the industry started understanding that it was a gold mine and crafted it to make it seem more and more amazing so they could profit even more.
educate yourselves
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05-20-2018, 12:27 PM #28
"You don't divorce the woman you married." is how that saying goes. Typically, they end up kind of BPD, which could be either borderline or bi-polar personality disorder, and it's likely nothing you did.
I do know that in some cases, however, there are typical Venus/Mars miscommunication issues to where the husband isn't emotionally supportive in the right way, and it wears her out over the years. People who are kind of purple pill will recommend learning the Venus/Mars stuff along with PUA stuff and "Way of the superior Man" etc.
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05-20-2018, 12:28 PM #29
Welp, at least it was just three years so she won't (shouldn't) be walking away with TOO much. Per Ohio laws, all assets accumulated during the marriage, by either spouse’s efforts, are considered to be marital, and are to be divided “equitably” between the parties. So really she's only entitled to half of what you both acquired during those 3 years. Hoping you two don't have kids
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05-20-2018, 12:28 PM #30
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