Should I ask this girl out today or wait? (srs) (pic) (pls respond)

[second2noneBrah]

Probably should just take a chill pill homie. Regardless of all these pussy slayers on the misc say it takes awhile for some girls to warm up to u

[MantissToboggan]

update 3

Second date went really well imo. Spent more than 5 hours together and we were making out at least 50% of the time lol.

Anyways - there's one thing that's bothering me a bit. Since we work at the same place, there's a teambuilding event coming soon and she wants to go. I personally don't wanna go and told her I'm not going and suggested we go somewhere just the two of us instead. She agreed on going to places with me, but said she still wants to go on the teambuilding event (even if I don't come). I have some time and I can change my mind and go with her, but I'm not really sure if that's a good idea for two reasons (1 - I may appear weak for changing my mind, just because of her; and 2 - I think it will be awkward being around our colleagues all the time). But if she goes without me I will feel a little disrespected. Any suggestions brahs?

OH GOD

This post should be a litmus test for autism. Honestly. Could tell as soon as I finished this that things were going to end poorly. (Haven't caught up on story yet, just finished this post).

[dawktwenty]

Jesus OP, I felt for you for awhile but you keep taking 3 steps back. Be done with this girl...forever. Take the misc advice. We are actually trying to help you. You guys both are acting like you are in junior high.

[GYMPsycho]

update

So we're kind of back together now. Had a talk with her and she said she really likes me a lot and would like to have sex, but needs a little more time before she's comfortable with me because of past mistakes and bad experiences (being dumped after she had sex). Told me she never goes to bed with someone so early (u wot). Not sure I believe her tbh, but I have no options right now and decided to stick with her, but not take her too seriously and keep my eyes open for alternatives. I told her she offended me by storming off like that and explained why. I won't text her much now and will let her put in more effort and see how it goes.

Anyways - after we finished the talk I just started walking next to her and she hugged me and wanted to make out right in the middle of the mall. Then she wouldn't let go of me and squeezed me tight, made out with me a few more times (she initiated) which I think is a good sign. She said she'll text me later, but didn't do it (just saying).

I'm thinking about making another move for sex after 1 more date. Next one could be something like a walk in a park and the one after that - drinks and then my place. If she says she's still not ready I'll just dump her.

Any advice will be appreciated brahs.

[ko300zx]

Anyways - after we finished the talk I just started walking next to her and she hugged me and wanted to make out right in the middle of the mall. Then she wouldn't let go of me and squeezed me tight, made out with me a few more times (she initiated) which I think is a good sign.

You didn't try to grab her snatch again? Damn, that seemed like a perfect time for attempt number 218.

[MarinoMike]

update

So we're kind of back together now. Had a talk with her and she said she really likes me a lot and would like to have sex, but needs a little more time before she's comfortable with me because of past mistakes and bad experiences (being dumped after she had sex). Told me she never goes to bed with someone so early (u wot). Not sure I believe her tbh, but I have no options right now and decided to stick with her, but not take her too seriously and keep my eyes open for alternatives. I told her she offended me by storming off like that and explained why. I won't text her much now and will let her put in more effort and see how it goes.

Anyways - after we finished the talk I just started walking next to her and she hugged me and wanted to make out right in the middle of the mall. Then she wouldn't let go of me and squeezed me tight, made out with me a few more times (she initiated) which I think is a good sign. She said she'll text me later, but didn't do it (just saying).

I'm thinking about making another move for sex after 1 more date. Next one could be something like a walk in a park and the one after that - drinks and then my place. If she says she's still not ready I'll just dump her.

Any advice will be appreciated brahs.

Just say this "hey, ok. Cool. I'm gonna grab a sandwich and catch a movie! Have a great day!"

[headinahole]

update

so we're kind of back together now. Had a talk with her and she said she really likes me a lot and would like to have sex, but needs a little more time before she's comfortable with me because of past mistakes and bad experiences (being dumped after she had sex). Told me she never goes to bed with someone so early (u wot). Not sure i believe her tbh, but i have no options right now and decided to stick with her, but not take her too seriously and keep my eyes open for alternatives. I told her she offended me by storming off like that and explained why. I won't text her much now and will let her put in more effort and see how it goes.

Anyways - after we finished the talk i just started walking next to her and she hugged me and wanted to make out right in the middle of the mall. Then she wouldn't let go of me and squeezed me tight, made out with me a few more times (she initiated) which i think is a good sign. She said she'll text me later, but didn't do it (just saying).

I'm thinking about making another move for sex after 1 more date. Next one could be something like a walk in a park and the one after that - drinks and then my place. If she says she's still not ready i'll just dump her.

Any advice will be appreciated brahs.

rrrrrrrrrrrrreeeeeeeeeeeeeddddddddddddddd fffffffffffflllllllllaaaaaaaaaaaaaaagggggggggsss

[Noahbro]

update

So we're kind of back together now. Had a talk with her and she said she really likes me a lot and would like to have sex, but needs a little more time before she's comfortable with me because of past mistakes and bad experiences (being dumped after she had sex). Told me she never goes to bed with someone so early (u wot). Not sure I believe her tbh, but I have no options right now and decided to stick with her, but not take her too seriously and keep my eyes open for alternatives. I told her she offended me by storming off like that and explained why. I won't text her much now and will let her put in more effort and see how it goes.

Anyways - after we finished the talk I just started walking next to her and she hugged me and wanted to make out right in the middle of the mall. Then she wouldn't let go of me and squeezed me tight, made out with me a few more times (she initiated) which I think is a good sign. She said she'll text me later, but didn't do it (just saying).

I'm thinking about making another move for sex after 1 more date. Next one could be something like a walk in a park and the one after that - drinks and then my place. If she says she's still not ready I'll just dump her.

Any advice will be appreciated brahs.

Its pretty obvious she likes you, seems like she's just a girl thats very hesitant to whom she allows access to her puzzy. She reminds me of an ex that would only have sex if she knew we were exclusive (BF GF).

If i remember correctly you mentioned she just got out of a relationship not to long ago, usually SOME girls don't jump to another serious relationship just like that IMO. Hopefully thats not the case. IMO She probably likes you alot and sees potential in you but she is probably scared of being dumped again. That's why you got to get to know her, you gotta ask the right questions sometimes brah. Hopefully with your next hangout you will find a better picture on why she's playing hard to get.

Anyways

If you don't mind her becoming your girlfriend READ THIS. Just ask her sincerely if she's that type that would only sleep with someone if they're dating exclusively. Mind you if you ask her this and she says yes then that's your CUE. Tell her "how would you feel if i'll ask you out now". then rico suave your way into her lol.

[shmobin]

update

So we're kind of back together now. Had a talk with her and she said she really likes me a lot and would like to have sex, but needs a little more time before she's comfortable with me because of past mistakes and bad experiences (being dumped after she had sex). Told me she never goes to bed with someone so early (u wot). Not sure I believe her tbh, but I have no options right now and decided to stick with her, but not take her too seriously and keep my eyes open for alternatives. I told her she offended me by storming off like that and explained why. I won't text her much now and will let her put in more effort and see how it goes.

Anyways - after we finished the talk I just started walking next to her and she hugged me and wanted to make out right in the middle of the mall. Then she wouldn't let go of me and squeezed me tight, made out with me a few more times (she initiated) which I think is a good sign. She said she'll text me later, but didn't do it (just saying).

I'm thinking about making another move for sex after 1 more date. Next one could be something like a walk in a park and the one after that - drinks and then my place. If she says she's still not ready I'll just dump her.

Any advice will be appreciated brahs.

She is just trying to make sure you won't pump and dump. She has MASSIVE insecurity issues.

[headinahole]

She is just trying to make sure you won't pump and dump. She has MASSIVE insecurity issues.

and is projecting them at every turn.


OP gonna end up with a sexual assault case on his hands real quick if he fuks up again


Chick is bat****.


and he's too aspy to even realize it

[GYMPsycho]

mini-update

So she texted me last night, she texted me again today. She invited me to go get dinner with her somewhere and I agreed, but made her change the time.

Should I make a move tonight or keep things quiet and do it the next time we go out, so it doesn't seem like I don't wanna wait again?

p.s. No - I'm not going to pay for it. We either split the bill or I'll let her pay (since I did last time).

[TheSkins]

Stop thinking about "making a move" you f*cking aspie! She clearly knows exactly what you want and you've firmly put it in her hands when that's gonna happen... If you go pawing at her vagina like a thirsty teenager again then you're gonna end up on rape charges.

It looks like you're both just as f*cking useless as each-other. Your whole relationship will be a complete train wreck but that's probably as good as you can hope for.

Good luck.

[second2noneBrah]

Stop thinking about "making a move" you f*cking aspie! She clearly knows exactly what you want and you've firmly put it in her hands when that's gonna happen... If you go pawing at her vagina like a thirsty teenager again then you're gonna end up on rape charges.

It looks like you're both just as f*cking useless as each-other. Your whole relationship will be a complete train wreck but that's probably as good as you can hope for.

Good luck.

These 2 losers are made for each other

[solidus2k3]

typical miscer... hope you make it brah!

[HangingChad]

I understand the thrill of the chase, but I don't see what this chick has to make it worth putting up with the bullchit.

[PineappleMuffin]

Women who are broken like her tend to try to restore harmony by breaking everything around them too. Please stay safe.

[dsmninja]

OP - the only reason this isnt going as smoothly as you hoped, is because shes been with guys before who acted just as you are. Think about that.

[hockeyman1]

I think he did good either intentionally or not. He had to play the nice guy, if he still wanted to continue to work there if this went bad.

[Malversation]

She said yes.

edit: Fuaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaark

[scooterbrah]

mini-update

So she texted me last night, she texted me again today. She invited me to go get dinner with her somewhere and I agreed, but made her change the time.

Should I make a move tonight or keep things quiet and do it the next time we go out, so it doesn't seem like I don't wanna wait again?

p.s. No - I'm not going to pay for it. We either split the bill or I'll let her pay (since I did last time).

youre putting way too much thought into this. go out to eat, drink booze, have fun, then creampie her

[RJcee]

Bro if you like her go ask her. But do NOT text... go ask her in person... be an alpha

[badbl00d]

update

So we're kind of back together now. Had a talk with her and she said she really likes me a lot and would like to have sex, but needs a little more time before she's comfortable with me because of past mistakes and bad experiences (being dumped after she had sex). Told me she never goes to bed with someone so early (u wot). Not sure I believe her tbh, but I have no options right now and decided to stick with her, but not take her too seriously and keep my eyes open for alternatives. I told her she offended me by storming off like that and explained why. I won't text her much now and will let her put in more effort and see how it goes.

Anyways - after we finished the talk I just started walking next to her and she hugged me and wanted to make out right in the middle of the mall. Then she wouldn't let go of me and squeezed me tight, made out with me a few more times (she initiated) which I think is a good sign. She said she'll text me later, but didn't do it (just saying).

I'm thinking about making another move for sex after 1 more date. Next one could be something like a walk in a park and the one after that - drinks and then my place. If she says she's still not ready I'll just dump her.

Any advice will be appreciated brahs.

You still haven't picked up that this is your issue?

[SUPERDUKE1290]

OP, you should definitely make your move. No guts, no glory bro.

[GYMPsycho]

update

Sent her a text a few hours before we were about to meet telling her I'll give her a call when I'm ready. She responded with:

Oh I don't think we'll have time for dinner tonight
I have to finish my (work related project thing)
:/

I just saw it and didn't respond cause I was fuming tbh. A few min later she hits me up with:

We can do it together if u want, but I know ur not enthusiastic about it (mean smiley face)
I made an awesome optimization
Btw...

Think I just got myself a one way ticket to North Carolina. What is this girl doing tho? Is she mad? Why would she invite me for dinner and flake, lmfao. This is beyond ridiculous.

[ChristianMR]

update

Sent her a text a few hours before we were about to meet telling her I'll give her a call when I'm ready. She responded with:

Oh I don't think we'll have time for dinner tonight
I have to finish my (work related project thing)
:/

I just saw it and didn't respond cause I was fuming tbh. A few min later she hits me up with:

We can do it together if u want, but I know ur not enthusiastic about it (mean smiley face)
I made an awesome optimization
Btw...

Think I just got myself a one way ticket to North Carolina. What is this girl doing tho? Is she mad? Why would she invite me for dinner and flake, lmfao. This is beyond ridiculous.

She wants you to show interest in something other than sex, you retard. You're right that she's playing games though. She's easily a 7 on the 1-10 autism scale. But you're a 14.

[shmobin]

update

Sent her a text a few hours before we were about to meet telling her I'll give her a call when I'm ready. She responded with:

Oh I don't think we'll have time for dinner tonight
I have to finish my (work related project thing)
:/

I just saw it and didn't respond cause I was fuming tbh. A few min later she hits me up with:

We can do it together if u want, but I know ur not enthusiastic about it (mean smiley face)
I made an awesome optimization
Btw...

Think I just got myself a one way ticket to North Carolina. What is this girl doing tho? Is she mad? Why would she invite me for dinner and flake, lmfao. This is beyond ridiculous.

Stop thinking. If your end game is this girl, go spend the time with her without trying to get into her pants. This one is damaged in the not-good way. It's going to take time.

[ko300zx]

update

Sent her a text a few hours before we were about to meet telling her I'll give her a call when I'm ready. She responded with:

Oh I don't think we'll have time for dinner tonight
I have to finish my (work related project thing)
:/

I just saw it and didn't respond cause I was fuming tbh. A few min later she hits me up with:

We can do it together if u want, but I know ur not enthusiastic about it (mean smiley face)
I made an awesome optimization
Btw...

Think I just got myself a one way ticket to North Carolina. What is this girl doing tho? Is she mad? Why would she invite me for dinner and flake, lmfao. This is beyond ridiculous.

You need a 1 way ticket to a therapist.

[GYMPsycho]

She wants you to show interest in something other than sex, you retard. You're right that she's playing games though. She's easily a 7 on the 1-10 autism scale. But you're a 14.

Dude, she is out of her mind. Who would do something like that? Brb everything's back to normal, brb lets have dinner tonite, brb sorry cant do it cause I gotta do something else. Brb no response from me - brb we can do it together, but I know you don't want to

What the hell man, seriously. This is madness.

[DarthInvadeHer]

Dude, she is out of her mind. Who would do something like that? Brb everything's back to normal, brb lets have dinner tonite, brb sorry cant do it cause I gotta do something else. Brb no response from me - brb we can do it together, but I know you don't want to

What the hell man, seriously. This is madness.

Logged in to say you are literally retarded. Holy ****.

[GYMPsycho]

You need a 1 way ticket to a therapist.

How do I need a therapist? Seriously? When you say something like that at least explain yourself.