Genuinely wanting to be with someone vs. settling for someone

[AcetylCoA]

getting hard to tell the difference between what girls intentions are these days....

[Shortfuze]

that comes from experience brotein shake; if your girl is willing to go with you through ups and downs and still loves you regardless then you've got someone worth being with.

[DoctorKazama]

Unless you're a chad, she's settling.

[shoelaces]

Everyone settles. The hope is that over time you will grow to love the other person, instead of resenting them.

[AcetylCoA]

that comes from experience brotein shake; if your girl is willing to go with you through ups and downs and still loves you regardless then you've got someone worth being with.

that is really good advice

Everyone settles. The hope is that over time you will grow to love the other person, instead of resenting them.

and thats kinda depressing lol

[exxtracool]

getting hard to tell the difference between what girls intentions are these days....

what accomplishments have you made in life that you feel you deserve a girl that you wouldnt be "settling for".

Alpha males get the girl they really want, beta males settle for a girl they dont want. Alpha males are successful, beta males are not.

would you consider yourself a successful man? if not, you havent earned "the right" to getting the girl you really want.

[ashin1]

The same girl that gave me good succ this morning also gave me mad chit 2 seconds ago because i was laughing a video she showed me of prison inmates working at a zoo, and i was laughing at my own joke about how this inmate have intentions to rape the animals lmao

[Jasonw1178]

Maybe it's maturity and you realize that she's not perfect and neither are you, so like adults you work on it.

[shoelaces]

and thats kinda depressing lol

Well it's true. Look at all the "post hotties" threads on here. I rarely see chicks that hot in real life and even if I saw one, chicks like that wouldn't even acknowledge my existence.

Everyone wants a dime but never think about what they bring to the table themselves. I know my place in society and live my life accordingly. I've lived long enough not to have delusions.

[anonymous]

in 2018, everyone fuking legit is settling.
what a time to be alive

[RobParks2M]

Lol at copers settling. Just do whatever you want as a married person and don't be a bish srs.

[Silencespeaks]

Just discussed this extensively in a disastrous thread.

[halfbreedbrah]

Love grows unless she does.

[DaveSkylark]

can't relate

[anonymous]

[homersexual]

Just discussed this extensively in a disastrous thread.

I thought that thread was entertaining.

[AshWar]

Everyone settles. The hope is that over time you will grow to love the other person, instead of resenting them.

I kinda needed to read this, ty man :/

[GiveMeTheD]

Unless you make at least 200k per year, 6 foot 2 minimum, 8/10 facial aesthetics, perfect hairline and have an 8 inch dink she's settling.

[Silencespeaks]

I thought that thread was entertaining.

It was a disaster lol

[hoganrulz]

in after silencespeaks

[AcetylCoA]

It was a disaster lol

ok so what was the general consensus in that thread

[Silencespeaks]

ok so what was the general consensus in that thread

Older women have to settle or be alone forever.

[halfbreedbrah]

Older women have to settle or be alone forever.

..........so real life?

[Silencespeaks]

..........so real life?

Depends what you mean by settling. I think people mean different things when they say settling.

[halfbreedbrah]

Depends what you mean by settling. I think people mean different things when they say settling.

I think a nice Custodian who's 40 yrs old and about 30lb over weight that treats you like a queen is in your range?

[ketolicious]

only settled in high school. havent had a relationship since then. feels bad man.

[chrishow98]

Solid post

[Legz422]

Op when you say settling, what exactly do you mean? Looks wise? Personality wise? I think the key is figuring out what your can live with and live withouts are. No one is perfect and no one is going to be an absolutely perfect match, so you have to compromise in relationships. But you can't compromise on fundamental beliefs and think it's going to work.

[AcetylCoA]

Op when you say settling, what exactly do you mean? Looks wise? Personality wise? I think the key is figuring out what your can live with and live withouts are. No one is perfect and no one is going to be an absolutely perfect match, so you have to compromise in relationships. But you can't compromise on fundamental beliefs and think it's going to work.

what I mean is a girl seeing someone richer or better looking and trying to jump ship

[GravityLee]

Youre not that attractive.

Make yourself more attractive.