Pump and dump
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02-05-2018, 05:52 PM #31
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02-05-2018, 05:58 PM #32
depending on why she did it, how she feels about her life choices, and why she told you. If she did it out of boredom and other relationship issues that she didn’t bring up, this will not work. She will always have communication issues. If she brought it up to you bc she can’t handle the guilt and need you to absolve her of her mistakes, she’s a selfish kent, also will not work.
Basically the only scenario where this relationship might even remotely last is if you neglect the crap out of her, she repeatedly tried to talk about it, then got really drunk and made the only mistake she has ever made in her life, and you have all the faith that it truly was a one off. Aka, there is no such thing.They said she's gone too far this time
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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02-05-2018, 06:00 PM #33
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02-05-2018, 06:00 PM #34
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02-05-2018, 06:04 PM #35
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02-05-2018, 06:04 PM #36
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02-05-2018, 06:11 PM #37
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02-05-2018, 06:12 PM #38
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02-05-2018, 06:15 PM #39
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Depends on if you can trust her or even want to try. Would I stay? No. Would brerak it off & never contact again. Friend of mine, however, stayed with her dude because they were just "dates" he went on behind her back & never banged this chick. Bottom line is she's shown she values the possibility of being with others than sticking it out with you. Make the call.
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02-05-2018, 06:19 PM #40
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02-05-2018, 06:20 PM #41
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02-05-2018, 06:20 PM #42
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02-05-2018, 06:22 PM #43
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02-05-2018, 06:22 PM #44
Ask her about her feelings. Clearly she has some needs that you were not fulfilling. Learn more about her dreams for the future, and ask the tough questions about her past. Clearly, she can be yours 100%, heart and soul, once you truly understand her. Apologize for being insensitive in the past. Then fist yourself.
N/C and grow a set
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02-05-2018, 06:42 PM #45
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02-05-2018, 06:59 PM #46
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02-05-2018, 07:00 PM #47
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02-05-2018, 07:02 PM #48
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02-05-2018, 07:04 PM #49
Too many comments to go through.
Sum up. I'm 20, no 48.
Whoever wanted me to imagine her being ****ed by him, already came to your PP 6 times, hot boy.
Ordered her a private jet and 6 guys to ****. (Response to the people that say buy her something).
Begging her to come back, offered an ass eating, wins em over.
People who are saying idiot for not dumping, she is dumped. Just need general advice on situation. Would struggle with NC.
For all genuine advice, appreciate it. Trolls did lighten my mood though. Maybe try push it back a peg to FWB then **** her when she gets a new BF :thinking:
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02-05-2018, 07:04 PM #50
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02-05-2018, 07:04 PM #51
I actually think the MISC is one of the best places to get advice when it comes to being cheated on. You need to realise that anyone who loves you will never cheat on you. You are in love with the idea of her, whereas who she really was is in effect someone who never truly loved you, but betrayed you. You need to get closure, tell her it's over, be clear this is not acceptable, and then go No Contact. In this period, you will have good days, and bad days, but time heals and you will get to the point where even if you think of her now and then, you won't feel anything and you will be ready for a better relationship.
Looksmax, voicemax, incomemax, and max out everything.
Good luck. Today is the start of the rest of your life.
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02-05-2018, 07:06 PM #52
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02-05-2018, 07:41 PM #60
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