Caught my gym crush looking at another hottie

[flatcheeks]

I am over him now.

Sorry to sound immature af but for me it's a complete turn off when I catch my crush checking out another girl.

He was consistently checking me out, but now I've come to the conclusion that guys just check out every pretty girl and will go with any one of the hotties that will accept them. Doesn't make me feel special when I get a guys attention now. I kind of have the thought in the back of my mind that they will ditch me if the hotter girl gave them a chance, which is most likely fact. I know this screams low self esteem, but regardless of my self esteem issues, I still feel that this is true.

This realization makes me want to hate men.

Moral of this rant- Make sure you don't let your gym interest catch you checking out a hottie unless you are just there for the eye candy.

[FU3L]

You're.....stupid.

[pondus_levo]

Too bad you don't realize this is a result of your own insecurity and has nothing to do with him, or any other man or woman, for that fact.

[Brandan1997]

Should have asked him to PIITB when you first saw him checking you out.

[Ozzieturk]

He can't look at other hotties if you kill them first, amirite?
























Notsrs, kinda get the vibe you're someone that'd seriously consider this.

[flatcheeks]

Too bad you don't realize this is a result of your own insecurity and has nothing to do with him, or any other man or woman, for that fact.

I can't help feeling turned off when I see my crush eyeing another girl. You would probably call your gym crush (if you had one) a sloot if she did what he did, and probably wouldn't want anything more from her but sex if she gave you the chance.

[pondus_levo]

I can't help feeling turned off when I see my crush eyeing another girl. You would probably call your gym crush (if you had one) a sloot if she did what he did, and probably wouldn't want anything more from her but sex if she gave you the chance.

Well, first, I don't crush on anyone because I am mature. Second, I am a secure man and could car less if a woman I was interested was admiring another man, or even sleeping with him, when I have zero claim to her. So no, I would not react that way. Women don't give me the chance, I give them the chance.

How can you judge someone you have never talked to in the first place? I told you this is about your insecurity, not him. All you are doing is coping for the fact that you already don't feel you are good enough for him, so you are projecting the blame on to him to make yourself feel better.

[EdwardTheGreat]

All you are doing is coping for the fact that you already don't feel you are good enough for him, so you are projecting the blame on to him to make yourself feel better.

Accuracy level 1000

[Casca]

Gym crush. Let me guess, you got on the treadmill next to him a couple times to let him know you like him.

Why would he look at another girl when you and him are practically engaged???

[greedyfly13]

do you check out other guys when he's not looking?

[BlackScorpio91]

You're retarded.


Negged.

[AndroMuscle]

Moral of this rant- Make sure you go to the gym to workout and not like a Tinder date.

[DavidL913]

lol @ your insecurities and jealousy issues.

[TheSeriousOne92]

I’m sure you check out movie star actors all the time, what’s the difference? If you are attracted to a person of your preferred sex you will be inclined to look... it’s how we are designed as humans.

[iloveus]

You could've talked to him or asked him out at anytime.

[Peppesbodega]

You balding mate?

[flatcheeks]

I’m sure you check out movie star actors all the time, what’s the difference? If you are attracted to a person of your preferred sex you will be inclined to look... it’s how we are designed as humans.

We are designed to fart as well...but I am pretty sure if a girl blew a gas bomb in your face it would surely kill the attraction. This guy might has well took a dump on my face, because he made me feel like **** thinking I was something special.

Maybe the miscers who have had their gym crushes go cold was due to their over active eyes...just sayin' maybe a possibility.

[FAPhaggot]

Too bad you don't realize this is a result of your own insecurity and has nothing to do with him, or any other man or woman, for that fact.

How can you judge someone you have never talked to in the first place? I told you this is about your insecurity, not him. All you are doing is coping for the fact that you already don't feel you are good enough for him, so you are projecting the blame on to him to make yourself feel better.

Fukkin rekt.

[flatcheeks]

You could've talked to him or asked him out at anytime.

I am glad I didn't because he appears to be "that guy". Only difference is the fact that he isn't verbal and is just eye fucin at the moment.

[flatcheeks]

Second, I am a secure man and could car less if a woman I was interested was admiring another man, or even sleeping with him, when I have zero claim to her.

Alright, but would you continue to be interested in the said woman who checks out all the guys at the gym? The girl who tries to make eye contact will all the cute guys... Would you still think she was interested in you?

We all have insecurities. Regardless of mine, it doesn't change the fact that he eye fuks all the girls and I find this unattractive. I will admit the girl who he was checking out was hotter than me and I don't hate her at all because it's not her fault. There will always be someone hotter, I am ok with this. I am just saying that it sucks that I caught a guy I was interested in being interested in someone else

Can't get the mental image of him drooling over another girl (who I see every day at the gym) out of my head now.

[FU3L]

I bet you close your eyes every time an attractive guy walks by, right OP?

[flatcheeks]

You're retarded.


Negged.

Grow up dude. I don't give a fck if you neg me, my life doesn't revolve around reps like yours does.

You're the **** that counts his likes on ********.

[flatcheeks]

I bet you close your eyes every time an attractive guy walks by, right OP?

Yes I look. But there is a difference between eye fukin and glancing. I have been taught that staring is rude so I don't stare.

If I did look at guys I did it while thinking that my crush was cuter and despite how hot the guy was I still felt that my crush's manniersms were cute and that made him stood out for me.

[DolphinPilot]

Moral of this rant- Make sure you don't let your gym interest catch you checking out a hottie unless you are just there for the eye candy.

No I feel like there is a much better moral to this story and it involves you growing up and getting over yourself

[Brandan1997]

Yes I look. But there is a difference between eye fukin and glancing. I have been taught that staring is rude so I don't stare.

If I did look at guys I did it while thinking that my crush was cuter and despite how hot the guy was I still felt that my crush's manniersms were cute and that made him stood out for me.

okay so why didnt you make a move on him if you were so into him? Serious question

[flatcheeks]

okay so why didnt you make a move on him if you were so into him? Serious question

Because I am shy. I am an introvert not by nature but by circumstances (I was ugly in HS). I also didn't make a move because of the negative stigma associated with girls making the first move (she must be a ho , etc..). Also, maybe he was just looking at me to stroke his ego? I have had guys in HS pretend to ask me out

[BlackScorpio91]

Grow up dude. I don't give a fck if you neg me, my life doesn't revolve around reps like yours does.

You're the **** that counts his likes on ********.

News flash you clown, I don't have FB. You're the one getting mad at a guy for being a guy. You're the one that needs to grow up but then again you're just a troll (most likely a guy pretending to be a woman) or just a retarded woman in general. Keep crying.

[flatcheeks]

News flash you clown, I don't have FB. You're the one getting mad at a guy for being a guy. You're the one that needs to grow up but then again you're just a troll (most likely a guy pretending to be a woman) or just a retarded woman in general. Keep crying.

I can see how it looks like I am mad, but I'm more dissappointed/feel rejected by his actions and I can't help but feel this way. Why bother catching more feels for him when I know that he is interested in another chick?

I don't know why some of you guys don't seem to understand this, instead you insult me. I am not trying to take your right to check out girls away, I am just saying that if you send consistent signals to a girl (a girl who might be working up the nerve to talk to you), it's gonna turn her off if she catches you sending another girl those same signals.

[FAPhaggot]

I can see how it looks like I am mad, but I'm more dissappointed/feel rejected by his actions and I can't help but feel this way.

And that's his fault why? Get over yourself.

[flatcheeks]

And that's his fault why? Get over yourself.

Well I don't know if fault is the right word. But I do feel that he took part in leading me on to thinking that he was interested in me, but it appears he is interested in others as well. I guess I am at fault in assuming that he was interested in me/or just me. I don't hate him, just not crushing him anymore.