[SRS] Depression Discussion and Support Thread Part III

[SuperChieftain]

I'm not targeting you two. I talking in general. I know that there are miscers here that suffer from real depression, what pisses me off are the people that are not. The ones are just unhappy with their situation and do nothing about.

Take ^MortalShare6(eod) as a good example.

I know first hand the difference between situational depression and real depression.

You can’t target my anyway lol. I don’t come here complaining about my day, I come in here to offer advice. Like I said, I’m not in that boat anymore.

[pondus_levo]

You can’t target my anyway lol. I don’t come here complaining about my day, I come in here to offer advice. Like I said, I’m not in that boat anymore.

That's great. I'm glad you got the help that you needed and it is working.

[imbored21]

being quiet/having social anxiety as a male is a sexual death sentence. GIrls want to be entertained by an extroverted normie. You have nothing to offer a woman if you are boring and quiet.

[MortalShare6]

being quiet/having social anxiety as a male is a sexual death sentence. GIrls want to be entertained by an extroverted normie. You have nothing to offer a woman if you are boring and quiet.

It used to be possible to meet people if you were quiet before social media but now everyone who is quiet stays to themselves/on their phone/has ear buds in and people/girls only want to talk to social normies. Being quiet is considered weird now. People feel uncomfortable around quiet people.

[MortalShare6]

You can't display any redpill irl either. If people pick up on this they look at you weird or don't want to hang around you. You have to be delusional happy about everything.

[imbored21]

the other day i overhear 2 coworkers talking enthusiastically about the dryer they're going to buy at Sears. This conversation went on for 10 minutes. I don't understand how people could get so energized talking about something so boring. ANd I don't get how people can even have opinions on these things. It's a dryer. It's dries clothes. What else is there to it?? I just don't understand normies at all.

[MortalShare6]

Worst thing about all of this is that irl people never agree with each other just like on forums and normies try to get everyone to be just like them or reject anything outside of their little bubble

It really is a lose lose situation no matter what you do

[HoustonMiscer]

i have not posted in here in a very long time. my brother had his engagement party this weekend. the realization set in that if i was not there i would not be missed at all by any of my family members. i have had almost a full 24 hours to reflect on it and i can say that i really am truly alone. thank god for the misc or else i would have really killed myself. no where to go from here but up. gonna put all this and my past relationships with "family" in the rearview and start anew. decided i don't need toxic and negative people in my life anymore. got rid of a few habits in the last 4 months, maybe i need to get rid of some people in my life too. thanks and hope you all have a good day.

[SuperChieftain]

i have not posted in here in a very long time. my brother had his engagement party this weekend. the realization set in that if i was not there i would not be missed at all by any of my family members. i have had almost a full 24 hours to reflect on it and i can say that i really am truly alone. thank god for the misc or else i would have really killed myself. no where to go from here but up. gonna put all this and my past relationships with "family" in the rearview and start anew. decided i don't need toxic and negative people in my life anymore. got rid of a few habits in the last 4 months, maybe i need to get rid of some people in my life too. thanks and hope you all have a good day.

Damn man, that is some deep chit. Family can really suck sometimes, but I hope you’re able to move past it. You’re right though, no where to go but up.

[imbored21]

all i look forward too is fapping

[HoustonMiscer]

all i look forward too is fapping

that ain't good for you man. go outside

[MortalShare6]

Have been standing here for an hour listening to normies talk about a farm animals

I just dont get it

[BustaCapp]

Let me put things into perspective. My daughter is 22 years old and just tried to commit suicide for the 3rd time in her life, yet she is smart, beautiful, has a boyfriend who is amazing, a great family/friend support system, and a great job.

You now what she complains about? Not being able to stop being depressed no matter how hard she tries, how much help she gets help, how much medication she takes, and how successful she is.

I'm not minimizing people that actually do suffer from real depression, but situation depression is just that. Situational. Not so bad that you actually want to kill yourself because you feel it's your only way to make your situation better.

This.

Clinical depression is not the same thing as situational depression. Situational depression has the potential to be fixed.

Clinical depression is a disorder of the brain.

[mrjolly2323]

I have a full blown drinking problem and I don’t even care. It’s the only thing that brings any amount of happiness in my life srs.

[MortalShare6]

I have a full blown drinking problem and I don’t even care. It’s the only thing that brings any amount of happiness in my life srs.

Dude drinking is the only way i could be happy or make friends. Since i stopped i've met nobody and feel very depressed. It was something to look forward to and helped me open up.

[mrjolly2323]

Dude drinking is the only way i could be happy or make friends. Since i stopped i've met nobody and feel very depressed. It was something to look forward to and helped me open up.

I hear you. I quit for 6 months but went back. I went on a date with a girl sober and it was a train wreck. Convinced her to go on another date and got drunk beforehand and it went so much better. Not trying to advocate drinking or anything but I don’t know it seems to help in some ways.

[HoustonMiscer]

I have a full blown drinking problem and I don’t even care. It’s the only thing that brings any amount of happiness in my life srs.

i know that feel. i am 6 months sober in like a week and I can feel myself getting angry about really small things and becoming very irritable. what i would do to give in like a bitch and have a drink right now but i cannot

[SuperChieftain]

i know that feel. i am 6 months sober in like a week and I can feel myself getting angry about really small things and becoming very irritable. what i would do to give in like a bitch and have a drink right now but i cannot

Keep at it man. It’s tough but you’ll get through it.

[MortalShare6]

Everyone is just out for themselves and how they feel at the moment. That's the sad reality of life.

[sandman2019]

anyone else feel mentally destroyed?
years of negative thinking, lonilness, failures. I just keep thinking where did it go wrong? WHat has happened to me? Feel like my brain is broken.
literally so used to feeling sad and miserable i don't know any other way to feel or live

[MortalShare6]

anyone else feel mentally destroyed?
years of negative thinking, lonilness, failures. I just keep thinking where did it go wrong? WHat has happened to me? Feel like my brain is broken.
literally so used to feeling sad and miserable i don't know any other way to feel or live

Yeah i just feel a void. Like something is missing. And i've developed mental issues working in an office. I'm just tired man. Despite my depression i still give it 110% every day at work and the gym but nothing helps. I feel good when i get a pump or right after and then i go right back into depression. I am depressed all day at work. Even got invited somewhere by coworkers but i don't like them enough to hang out outside of work. They are decent people but they aren't the people i would hang with.

[MortalShare6]

Man i just called into work and they like guilt tripped me because i was missing their thanksgiving dinner and pictures. I'm an introvert and just like to stay to myself for the most part at work but i can tell they don't think i like them or something. When in reality i just want to go to work and leave. I don't mind most of my coworkers but i don't want to do all of that stuff. I'm not that close with them.

I bet they talked about me a lot because i said i don't know if i'm going to join them but whatever.

[MalachiB1]

guys and gals, keep your head up. i was on a 10 year down turn, 4 years later i can actually feel a difference. there is light at the end of the tunnel. dont give up.

[jiujitsubro]

Tapering off alcohol right now. At 6 12oz beers and a tall boy. Will try just 6 12oz beers.

[SuperChieftain]

guys and gals, keep your head up. i was on a 10 year down turn, 4 years later i can actually feel a difference. there is light at the end of the tunnel. dont give up.

Das it mane. I'm in the same boat. Keep up the good work.

Tapering off alcohol right now. At 6 12oz beers and a tall boy. Will try just 6 12oz beers.

You can do it man. I went from drinking an 18 pack a day for years, now i just have a couple tall boys on the weekend.

[BigTimePlayer]

When I think about it I feel like I don’t leave a lasting impression on anyone enough for them to ever want to stay in touch or anything. I’m too quiet of a guy for anyone to want to hang out with or anything. At the same time sometimes I’d rather actually just be alone but than on the other side of it gets mad boring never having anywhere to go. People don’t seem to be interested in the things I am outside of maybe watching Basketball. I don’t even know why I’m posting this **** but I guess I just want someone to listen. Also, my work hours are going to be horrible the next 2 weeks again. It’s going to be another never ending grind getting through the work weeks. I just wish I could be good at something so I can have a job I enjoy.

[MortalShare6]

When I think about it I feel like I don’t leave a lasting impression on anyone enough for them to ever want to stay in touch or anything. I’m too quiet of a guy for anyone to want to hang out with or anything. At the same time sometimes I’d rather actually just be alone but than on the other side of it gets mad boring never having anywhere to go. People don’t seem to be interested in the things I am outside of maybe watching Basketball. I don’t even know why I’m posting this **** but I guess I just want someone to listen. Also, my work hours are going to be horrible the next 2 weeks again. It’s going to be another never ending grind getting through the work weeks. I just wish I could be good at something so I can have a job I enjoy.

Yeah i'm too quiet. Even if i could connect with people more, i still can't keep up with how much they like to socialize. Let's face it, the vast majority of people talk non stop and don't like to do introverted things. They get their happiness through other people. That's why i just avoid social people, but i can't make friends with other loners either. Just nothing happens man.

[eod8989]

Feels bad being a quiet male. I feel alone everywhere. Like other people have so much to say and i have nothing.

[microsuede]

anyone else feel mentally destroyed?
years of negative thinking, lonilness, failures. I just keep thinking where did it go wrong? WHat has happened to me? Feel like my brain is broken.
literally so used to feeling sad and miserable i don't know any other way to feel or live

Absolutely. Trying to push through but it's tough, feel like a failure.

[BigTimePlayer]

Absolutely. Trying to push through but it's tough, feel like a failure.

Yeah man. I can’t remember the last time I was genuinely truly happy. It’s like I have moments of being happy but it never lasts long. I feel like I’m just going through the motions most of the time.