She tried to make me go to friendzone I said NO NO NO

[BigPoppaPumpin]

In b4 too long didnt read

In b4 cringe

Met this girl earlier this year. First date we made out the whole night. Second date I spent the night at her place but nothing really happened except for cuddling/making out. When I try to set up a third date she tells me that she's still getting over her ex, she's in a bad place, and isn't ready for anything casual or serious. I message her maybe 2 months later, and we grab a drink. We're vibing, touching, and laughing. At the end of the "date," I go for the kiss. She turns her face says she won't kiss me. I tell her it's ok. That night, expecting that all hope is lost, I text her "Feel free to reach out if you ever need anything or if you want to hang again." She responds,"I'd like to hang out again sometime!"

So we finally set up another meetup. We're going to see this jazz singer Corey Henry. Right after we set the "date" up, she sends the text:



I respond:



It goes back and forth:

[BigPoppaPumpin]

This is her

[drvillain]

you expect me to read all that?

[keyrat786]

Why are you wasting time on this chick? Dafuq is up with those texts just lmao.

"I won't kiss, touch, or have sex, if that makes it more straightforward. I'm only interested in talking and hanging out"

Just L M A O bruh.

[AlwaysFocus]

NC why waste the time

[SportCoat]

[drvillain]

Ok OP i actually read it. You did too much chit chat. You should have told her no thanks and moved on

[Lawlstud]

Holy chit what a bunch of stupid bullchitting going on.

Should have immediately said, "Well then we are at a crossroads, it was very nice hanging out with you I wish you the best"


Strong wtf OP

[spazzin]

read it all.

sounds like she did friend zone you after all

and agree with this:

Ok OP i actually read it. You did too much chit chat. You should have told her no thanks and moved on

[Fuqdatass]

Cringey as fuk. You should get "Imma make a move" printed on a t shirt.

She really had to spell it out for you boyo.

[Muzzlrpress]

Conversation should have been over by her third response.

[BigNik78]

Dude...She sounds like a waste of time and it's already overcomplicated so just peace out of that whole situation.

[quadfecta]

Lol @ going through all that effort for some ihop pancakes. Move on buddy boyo

[Alvarezzz]

Sounds like you both were beating around the bush, you moreso. You wanted to come off as straightforward, but you did it in a roundabout way hoping you could convince her to fuk with you. Should have just parted ways when she told you in her own girl way that she only sees you as a friend.

[wampa]

[Cadet4life]

shouldve smashed the 2nd date. u loafed boi

edit: before denial. she wanted u to smash when u guys were cuddling. now chad is up in there doin what u shouldve done

[drvillain]

OP doesn't know when to take the L. Between this thread and the other one, it is now clear.

[zknarc]

This is teen misc stuff

[hughaware1]

lol. Her directness should have made it clear that she doesn't want to do anything remotely intimate with you.

[jazi]

OP sounds like a fuking ******* keep ur damn mouth shut you dont have to tell chicks everything thats going on in your pea sized brain leave something to the imagination and also stop trying for this chick so hard u look desperate

she just put u deeper into the friend zone btw it could very likely have been a **** test that u failed miserably. some comments they make you're just not supposed to react to and carry on doing your thing.

not trying to be mean to you but u need to learn some how

[BigPoppaPumpin]

Lol @ going through all that effort for some ihop pancakes. Move on buddy boyo

Pancakes good with some chocolate

nomsayin

[zknarc]

Pancakes good with some chocolate

nomsayin

You want to get chit on?

[dari0]

she likes blabbing, should of NC after she said she's still getting over her ex

[Upshall18]

Fuk where do I get a cat like that?

[fmylife4real]

Just from those texts, OP sounds like a potential rapist. Hopefully she goes NC.

[albeezy512]

lmao strong cringe. Woulda just said "sure thing no problem" then never responded after that

[drvillain]

OP sounds like a fuking ******* keep ur damn mouth shut you dont have to tell chicks everything thats going on in your pea sized brain leave something to the imagination and also stop trying for this chick so hard u look desperate

she just put u deeper into the friend zone btw it could very likely have been a **** test that u failed miserably. some comments they make you're just not supposed to react to and carry on doing your thing.

not trying to be mean to you but u need to learn some how

good stuff, but in this particular case she denied OP kissing her the first time, and didn't let him smash or anything after spending time with her at her house. She clearly isn't interested, and OP needs to learn when to take a hint. Now she tried to get a free concert out of him, and he was entertaining her with his bs

[SirFapsAIot]

guess what, OP?

[BigPoppaPumpin]

OP sounds like a fuking ******* keep ur damn mouth shut you dont have to tell chicks everything thats going on in your pea sized brain leave something to the imagination and also stop trying for this chick so hard u look desperate

she just put u deeper into the friend zone btw it could very likely have been a **** test that u failed miserably. some things/comments they make you're just not supposed to react to and carry on doing your thing.

not trying to be mean to you but u need to learn some how

Good ****

You might be right. Or I might have just gone out and wasted a whole night hearing her talk about her feelings, only to have her prude up.

[WestAfrica]

"Just fyi if we hang out I'm gonna try to get in your pants" lmao