Asked out my hot gym latina......

[Maylie]

No, you guys don't get it. She loves talking to me and when I make a move she then mentions a guy, wtf?

I am a girl so actually I do get it.

And one of the most annoying things in the world is when you try and be friendly and just have chill acquaintances and they always assume that you want to fukk them.

Do you also think waitresses are flirting with you OP?

[Graymare]

Yeah because people just mention their boyfriends and girlfriends out of the blue for no reason....

Is this the first girl you've ever talked to? Because it sure sounds like it.

This.

[wangjiny]

Dunno why everyone is ragging on the OP. Thought he handled it pretty well.

[fleeceitout]

Yeah, it's obvious why I was cold approaching her at the gym. This isn't a coworker or classmate that I casually talked to, this is a woman I approached and was flirting with, idiot.

No need to get upset little guy.

She was just being nice to you and then tried to let you down gently by saying she has a boyfriend instead of embarrassing you and flat out saying she's not interested, but your little ego can't handle it so you've convinced yourself she was in fact interested and here we are.

Denial is a hell of a drug.

[ironmaniac508]

Don't ignore her, but do keep it light and friendly, and move on.

I'm being honest with what I'm telling you, and that is this woman does like me but has a boyfriend. The respectable thing to do at this point is to not push her for a date when I see her again, but also to continue speaking to her when I do see her. I didn't word it the best, and I actually wanted to apologize to her about the comment I made, but I wanted to let her know that my offer would still stand and that I'll continue to talk to her when I see her. She knows at this point without a doubt that I'm not interested in being just friends with her, so she can decide how to respond to me in the future.

[SportCoat]

lmao OP getting roasted in this thread, to be fair it was never going to end well given all the pics you provided

[ironmaniac508]

I am a girl so actually I do get it.

And one of the most annoying things in the world is when you try and be friendly and just have chill acquaintances and they always assume that you want to fukk them.

Do you also think waitresses are flirting with you OP?

I cold approached this woman at my gym about a month ago, pretty obvious why I've been speaking to her.

[Clinos]

Dude, it's obvious based on the interactions that I've had with her that she does actually like me but has a boyfriend. There obviously isn't much I can do about that but I'm not going to just ignore her when I see her, unless she makes it clear that she doesn't want to continue talking to me. That's why I wanted to let her know my offer would still be on the table in the future, looking back I should have made a move the second time I spoke to her. When I was speaking to her then she said she wasn't doing anything that weekend but when I asked her about that night, a Friday, she mentioned she was going out with a guy but specifically referred to him as a friend.

So she moves from not doing anything that weekend, to suddenly busy that night, then moves from busy that night with some dude which suddenly becomes a boyfriend. And she said all of that with a disappointed tone and you don't see anything odd here at all?

[ironmaniac508]

Dunno why everyone is ragging on the OP. Thought he handled it pretty well.

It's all no avis that probably don't approach women at all, plus they weren't even there.

[Fuqdatass]

ITT OP refuses any and all feedback regarding his encounter leaving us all wondering why his ******* ass made the thread to begin with

[bottlepoppin]

I'm being honest with what I'm telling you, and that is this woman does like me but has a boyfriend. The respectable thing to do at this point is to not push her for a date when I see her again, but also to continue speaking to her when I do see her. I didn't word it the best, and I actually wanted to apologize to her about the comment I made, but I wanted to let her know that my offer would still stand and that I'll continue to talk to her when I see her. She knows at this point without a doubt that I'm not interested in being just friends with her, so she can decide how to respond to me in the future.

bro u wanna go back and apologize now?......no hope no hope, just ldar bro your done son virgin for life

[fleeceitout]

Dunno why everyone is ragging on the OP. Thought he handled it pretty well.

Do you and OP often run into each other at the autism convention?

[ironmaniac508]

So she moves from not doing anything that weekend, to suddenly busy that night, then moves from busy that night with some dude which suddenly becomes a boyfriend. And she said all of that with a disappointed tone and you don't see anything odd here at all?

No, you are mixing up a few interactions I had with her. Today I flat out asked her for her number, which was when she mention having a bf. The part where she mentions being free that weekend was from a few weeks ago, that was also the same time I asked her about that given night and she mentioned having plans with a guy "friend". I apologize, it's very confusing to those reading because of how much I abbreviate everything.

[fleeceitout]

ITT OP refuses any and all feedback regarding his encounter leaving us all wondering why his ******* ass made the thread to begin with

He was hoping everybody would tell him what he wants to hear instead of the truth.

[ironmaniac508]

ITT OP refuses any and all feedback regarding his encounter leaving us all wondering why his ******* ass made the thread to begin with

You weren't there, wtf. No input has been made on her but a bunch of no avis talking ****.

[jackdaniels6785]

No, you are mixing up a few interactions I had with her. Today I flat out asked her for her number, which was when she mention having a bf. The part where she mentions being free that weekend was from a few weeks ago, that was also the same time I asked her about that given night and she mentioned having plans with a guy "friend". I apologize, it's very confusing to those reading because of how much I abbreviate everything.

it took you weeks to ask for her number? wow she must be suuuper creeeped out by now hahaha just stop before she calls the cops on you bra

[ironmaniac508]

it took you weeks to ask for her number? wow she must be suuuper creeeped out by now hahaha just stop before she calls the cops on you bra

I hadn't seen her in a few weeks because she was gone for the summer. Christ, you guys act like this woman hates me but yet ignore the fact that I've mentioned she initiates the conversation when I approach her and engages in banter with me.

[jackdaniels6785]

I hadn't seen her in a few weeks because she was gone for the summer. Christ, you guys act like this woman hates me but yet ignore the fact that I've mentioned she initiates the conversation when I approach her and engages in banter with me.

everyone here is laughing at your desperation brah, she engages cause she sees you as a friend lmao, women are waaaay to afraid to approach guys they actually like lol, so that fact makes it more obvious shes not into you romantically

[BericDondarrion]

Aspiest thing I've read today.

[ironmaniac508]

everyone here is laughing at your desperation brah, she engages cause she sees you as a friend lmao, women are waaaay to afraid to approach guys they actually like lol, so that fact makes it more obvious shes not into you romantically

I'm done explaining this to a bunch of no avis, you guys don't even know what's going on lol.

Anyway, I'm actually heading out in a bit for a night out, I actually regret creating this thread now.

[nn586]

ITT OP refuses any and all feedback regarding his encounter leaving us all wondering why his ******* ass made the thread to begin with

[jackdaniels6785]

I'm done explaining this to a bunch of no avis, you guys don't even know what's going on lol.

Anyway, I'm actually heading out in a bit for a night out, I actually regret creating this thread now.

why make a thread and not listen to what everyone else sees but you? you were hoping someone was in as much denial as you and claim she just said she had a bf cause she wants to phuk you? in what world does that make sense to anyone

[Clinos]

No, you are mixing up a few interactions I had with her. Today I flat out asked her for her number, which was when she mention having a bf. The part where she mentions being free that weekend was from a few weeks ago, that was also the same time I asked her about that given night and she mentioned having plans with a guy "friend". I apologize, it's very confusing to those reading because of how much I abbreviate everything.

I cant even man. I just cant.

repping you for the thread

[Caeculus]

Like talking to a brick wall. Next week it's gonna be "fuk caught a harassment charge but found her on instagram, should I message her?"

[cardioman_23]

Like talking to a brick wall. Next week it's gonna be "fuk caught a harassment charge but found her on instagram, should I message her?"

lmfao prophet? repped

[Alvarezzz]

I'm being honest with what I'm telling you, and that is this woman does like me but has a boyfriend. The respectable thing to do at this point is to not push her for a date when I see her again, but also to continue speaking to her when I do see her. I didn't word it the best, and I actually wanted to apologize to her about the comment I made, but I wanted to let her know that my offer would still stand and that I'll continue to talk to her when I see her. She knows at this point without a doubt that I'm not interested in being just friends with her, so she can decide how to respond to me in the future.

I know you're being honest bro. I don't doubt that this is what you perceive, but I'm 99% sure that she isn't interested especially after that "how serious are you guys" comment. If you can keep it casual and just look at her as any other person in the gym, something might happen. But right now you've done a little too much. I'd suggest you just keep doing what you were doing before and approach women and practice conversation. Forget about this gym latina romantically right now especially if you're looking for a relationship. She might cuss you out if you push for a date, ask me how I know.

[VTheKing]

the cold approach didn't sound too bad tbh. asking her out or trying to get a number after some chats is completely normal. but you closed out very poorly by essentially telling her you're thirsty and you will be waiting for her to quench it for you (you only get to do this to an ex who misses your dick). just because a woman is nice to you doesn't mean she is obliged to give you a "chance", you know.

for the next while you might want to keep your interactions gym-related to let the awkwardness dissipate, work the relation up to normality, then drop a line to indicate that you'd like to meet her outside of the gym but not to **** her on the same night - something like "I'm usually by X coffee shop, hmu if you wanna grab a drink after working out". up to you since no one here other than you knows the gal, but don't assume being nice = wants sum ****, and tell your dick to be patient. /e she would've let you know already if all she wanted was something to ride on, so make yourself a little more desirable outside of lifting and having a penis.

[Snine]

ITT OP refuses any and all feedback regarding his encounter leaving us all wondering why his ******* ass made the thread to begin with

Strong this. I don't even think OP fuked up that bad, but jesus christ why did you even make the thread if you're literally just going to argue and whine in response to everything people tell you lol

[TommyRO]

Guess Tyrone swooped in after waiting 4 weeks huh OP

Also lol @ forcing the issue after she said she had a BF...

Thats when you back off not press with creepy chit like you'll be there when they break up. Makes you a creep and makes you seem like you have no options but to wait for her like a beta cuck lmao.

[OliverTwisterJr]

You goofed before you even stepped to her because you were trying to chip away at the bitch with all these fake-ass conversations like all other betas in the gym before asking her out and getting friend-zoned. And I know you'll say the conversations were meaningful but thats exactly why she put you in the same category as her girlfriends.

Next time go bold on these bitches 2 times MAX before you ask for their number, the gym is a damn Animal Shelter and they're all in heat they know you are just trying to hit on them, you gonna be the Pitbull or the Pussycat?