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    Originally Posted by nice17 View Post
    Thanks man,

    Sometimes in life we tolerate things because we don’t want to be completely lonely…

    But, on the other hand right now I’m feeling that it doesn’t worth it to receive all this negative energy and disrespectful behavior from him. It is not about women it is all about him and me. He always tries to put me down in general…and I can feel his negative energy.
    You're welcome . Now you're much more lonely (and constantly upset in addition) than you think you will be after you let him go.

    You reach your limits, you become seriously fed up; this is a very good thing, because now change of your behaviour and habits can occur at any time, meaning you find courage and increasing love in / for yourself to protect yourself, your future and the posibilities and chances coming with it, you start to guard it from him (or anybody else bad in future - this / your upcoming lesson is universal and forever valid), his destructive and demeaning conduct.

    PS: Have you ever spoke to him about his abuse / foul act? If so, did he care and react then in the short-term?
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    Originally Posted by Bhruninha View Post
    I would try a little more if I were you, as women like to be chased and hold back in fear of screwing things up. My current boyfriend thought I wasn't into him on date number two and sort of gave up, wasn't going to ask me out on a third date until days later he decided to take a chance anyway and we literally texted each other at the same time. In the meantime I had no idea that I came off as uninterested to him.
    I will always follow up after a date. I don't give up THAT easily.

    Originally Posted by AlBHappy View Post
    She'll never be ready. It's the father of her kids, she looks at them every day and it's a constant reminder. Not your fault.
    Not sure why you would come that conclusion. Sounds like something someone would say that's never had kids.

    Originally Posted by Anthony21 View Post
    Seeing that i'm being thrown back into the dating world. What are your thoughts on women with kids and if you start to talk to one, then find out she has a kid?

    I have two kids on my own and i'm not interested in meeting a chick with a kid. Sorry if it's a random question.
    I would 100% prefer a woman with no kids and doesn't want kids, but that pool is extremely small. Well, at least in the attractive pool. (lulz) I've gone out with 3, two I wasn't really into and one I dated for a while, but she called it off.

    I don't think you are going to find a woman w/out kids that doesn't want kids of her own. If you are willing to have more kids your pool will grow exponentially. I don't want any more kids, so me dating younger women w/out kids is pretty pointless. It was fine when I was just dating and not looking for anything serious, but since I am now ready to get into something serious, I've found myself having more in common with women with kids. I just don't want to date a woman with kids younger than mine.

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    Good, just change it to a more neutral remark e.g. "fine, we'll pick that up next month." Don't imply that she'll need to jump through several hoops during your following dates in order to experience those extra fun stuff that you proposed and which she took interest in then.
    I don't make women work to hard as long as they are putting in the effort.

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    Originally Posted by nice17 View Post
    Personally I don’t cold approach frequently women but by accident recently I invited 2 girls to stay with us, me him and yet another guy. I brought the girls to our table but the result was a disaster for me. My friend he started to 'hit up' the girl who I was trying to warm up the situation, he even laughed many times with irony for something that I said to her. This cokcblock was astonishing, but the next day when I tried to explain to him that he acted disrespectful towards me he didn’t admit it.
    So lets get this straight. You picked up two random girls by yourself and brought them back to your table? It doesn't sound like you need him.

    I have a friend who when he gets drunk, will just randomly tell women to go talk to me. I've told him many times that it makes me look bad(weak) and I don't need his help. It's kind of frustrating because he KNOWS I don't need his help. I talk to women on my own all the time. I actually prefer to work by myself.
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    Yeah man I'm definitely not wanting to date a woman with kids personally. I have two of my own and the last thing I want is to try to be some positive influence in another kid's life that isn't mine as messed up as that sounds.

    Guess i'm f'd in that regard to the number of options I have.
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    Originally Posted by DanielleGreen View Post
    I'm listening to some of the advice around here and trying. I'm not an alpha female though.. If I can take the initiative at work, then I can apply it to my "dating" life.
    I know this is an old post from you but I think you did a great job. Like I said to RauryL, it takes courage to approach/ask someone out. Maybe, just maybe I will do that once I get the courage to get out of my introverted side.
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    Originally Posted by SwimLiftRunGrl View Post
    I know this is an old post from you but I think you did a great job. Like I said to RauryL, it takes courage to approach/ask someone out. Maybe, just maybe I will do that once I get the courage to get out of my introverted side.
    Didn't you say before you ask out guys all the time? Which is rare for a female.
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    Originally Posted by Anthony21 View Post
    Yeah man I'm definitely not wanting to date a woman with kids personally. I have two of my own and the last thing I want is to try to be some positive influence in another kid's life that isn't mine as messed up as that sounds.

    Guess i'm f'd in that regard to the number of options I have.
    Yeah, it sucks. If I was willing to have another kid, my world would open way up.

    Originally Posted by BlackScorpio91 View Post
    Didn't you say before you ask out guys all the time? Which is rare for a female.
    This is what I've noticed: Better looking women are more confident and do not fear rejection as much. Most of the better looking women I've dated approached me first. I pretty much always have to initiate with average looking women.
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    Originally Posted by pondus_levo View Post
    Yeah, it sucks. If I was willing to have another kid, my world would open way up.



    This is what I've noticed: Better looking women are more confident and do not fear rejection as much. Most of the better looking women I've dated approached me first. I pretty much always have to initiate with average looking women.
    Seems to be the opposite for me, ugly and average looking women are usually the ones to approach and the hot women have guys approach them. Maybe it's the area you live in?
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    How do you accept and deal with your girls kids? I think I am doing pretty good so far having no experience with kids but girlfriend is wanting me to be more stern and tell them to stop if they are doing something wrong.

    I don't mind kids but I am not use to them. I also have a bad back so I do have physical limitations. They do not know when to stop. I have a feeling that this is the only thing that can hurt me.
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    Originally Posted by BlackScorpio91 View Post
    Didn't you say before you ask out guys all the time? Which is rare for a female.
    Haha... no I don't ask guys all the time. I get very nervous and shy in real life. I remember miscers here said what I did was not considered cold approach. I got my last ex-bf's email from my friend and then I emailed him to get his number and called him. Another time in college I tried to talk to a guy but he ignored me. I approached a guy last year at a gym to ask him how to deadlift and he just told me to use dumbells and put his earphones back on. I can approach men back it takes me a long time to get the courage to do it and say fuk it.
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    Originally Posted by BlackScorpio91 View Post
    Seems to be the opposite for me, ugly and average looking women are usually the ones to approach and the hot women have guys approach them. Maybe it's the area you live in?
    I mean, it's not like I get approached all the time, but I think I just give off an unassuming "boy next door" approachable vibe that makes women feel comfortable quickly. I'm never doing anything to "impress" women and even the pictures I use in my online profiles are pictures of me just smiling and having fun. I'm not doing anything special, but 50% of the time I get msged first.

    And just to be clear, I consider a woman that moves closer to me, but does not talk to me as an approach. If you ever watch women, ask yourself, why did she stop here or there and not over there. It's not random. For example, at the bar I play pool at, I usually play at the table between the women's bathroom and the juke box. There will be times a woman will stand closer to the table than the bathroom around the corner to wait for her friend. The women that don't want to be approached wait by the bathroom. The women that are open to approach wait around the corner closer to the pool table.

    One time I was playing and a woman was waiting for her friend in the bathroom and I just joked, "You'd rather watch me play than watch your friend, huh?" Which made her laugh and I just started talking to her from there and even after her friend came back she continued to stick around. Did she stop there specifically for me? Probably not, but I was the only one willing to talk to her.

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    How do you accept and deal with your girls kids? I think I am doing pretty good so far having no experience with kids but girlfriend is wanting me to be more stern and tell them to stop if they are doing something wrong.

    I don't mind kids but I am not use to them. I also have a bad back so I do have physical limitations. They do not know when to stop. I have a feeling that this is the only thing that can hurt me.
    I think it depends on what it is. You should NOT be the disciplinarian. If they are doing something directly to you that you want to to stop, then yea, be firm.

    I had no experience with kids when I met my ex wife. It was a huge learning experience for me, but at the same time, I knew what kind of parent I wanted to be. Make sure that your parenting belief system aligns.

    What worries my most with guys with very little experience, is that they settle for the first women that gives them attention even if it feels wrong at times because they have nothing to compare it to. You still need to make sure that you are a right match. Whatever you do, don't get her pregnant before you figure it out.
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    Originally Posted by SwimLiftRunGrl View Post
    Haha... no I don't ask guys all the time. I get very nervous and shy in real life. I remember miscers here said what I did was not considered cold approach. I got my last ex-bf's email from my friend and then I emailed him to get his number and called him. Another time in college I tried to talk to a guy but he ignored me. I approached a guy last year at a gym to ask him how to deadlift and he just told me to use dumbells and put his earphones back on. I can approach men back it takes me a long time to get the courage to do it and say fuk it.
    Now you know how us guys feel lol. I think it's cool if a woman makes the first move, whether direct or indirectly as long as she's attractive and unless the guy is completely autistic, he shouldn't be able to fuk it up. They recommend a guy approaches at least 5-20 women a day. Now can you imagine a woman going around cold approaching 5-20 men a day?
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    Originally Posted by pondus_levo View Post
    I mean, it's not like I get approached all the time, but I think I just give off an unassuming "boy next door" approachable vibe that makes women feel comfortable quickly. I'm never doing anything to "impress" women and even the pictures I use in my online profiles are pictures of me just smiling and having fun. I'm not doing anything special, but 50% of the time I get msged first.

    And just to be clear, I consider a woman that moves closer to me, but does not talk to me as an approach. If you ever watch women, ask yourself, why did she stop here or there and not over there. It's not random. For example, at the bar I play pool at, I usually play at the table between the women's bathroom and the juke box. There will be times a woman will stand closer to the table than the bathroom around the corner to wait for her friend. The women that don't want to be approached wait by the bathroom. The women that are open to approach wait around the corner closer to the pool table.

    One time I was playing and a woman was waiting for her friend in the bathroom and I just joked, "You'd rather watch me play than watch your friend, huh?" Which made her laugh and I just started talking to her from there and even after her friend came back she continued to stick around. Did she stop there specifically for me? Probably not, but I was the only one willing to talk to her.

    1. If you get messaged online 50% of the time its your looks. There is no boy next vibe you are projecting over TCP/IP cuz.
    2.I completely agree. Flirting and approaching for women is mild and almost invisible. If a girl talks to me for no reason, moves near me, or ask some question anyone else should know? I try to make it happen (see pondus. Look. Im agreeing with you. Call the NY times)
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    Originally Posted by otakutrevan View Post
    1. If you get messaged online 50% of the time its your looks. There is no boy next vibe you are projecting over TCP/IP cuz.
    I think he's referring to his pics; smiling, friendly etc.
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    Originally Posted by Luc1fer View Post
    I think he's referring to his pics; smiling, friendly etc.
    Thats online dating 1 o' 1. Smile. pictures with friends, and etc. Its just more of his humble bragging and attempting to take control of something that he has no control over (IE: his face). That nots some "boy next door" method he has found. Thats my problem with pondus. It could rain or not rain on him and he'd say how he made it happen.
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    Originally Posted by otakutrevan View Post
    1. If you get messaged online 50% of the time its your looks. There is no boy next vibe you are projecting over TCP/IP cuz.
    2.I completely agree. Flirting and approaching for women is mild and almost invisible. If a girl talks to me for no reason, moves near me, or ask some question anyone else should know? I try to make it happen (see pondus. Look. Im agreeing with you. Call the NY times)
    Yeah, of course it's my mostly my looks that gets me the match, but I don't think it's my looks alone that prompts the women to msg me first because there is no way I am the best looking of their matches. I think different people give off different vibes from their pictures and what they say in their bio. I swipe left on a lot of women where I get a vibe we would not match well, based on their pictures and what they say about themselves. Same thing for the women I do match with and then look at their profiles closer. If I don't get a good vibe, I don't msg them.

    What's interesting is, the women that do MSG me first, I totally would have msged them myself eventually. The women I don't want to msg, don't msg me either. It's 100% a pre-judgement and their is no way I could know that we would not get along, but i'd rather msg the women I get a good vibe from first and I think women have the same approach.

    We agree on a lot of things. I don't know why you are always so surprised when it happens.
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    ^^^^ thanks for the advice Pondus, so far everything is good and both kids seem to like me. They are rough though and I have to tell them to stop more often. I usually try to deal with the pain. I do not plan on trying to discipline them. I honestly don't know if I ever will because even though I am growing to care about them they are not my kids.

    She has her tubes clamped so there is only like a 10% chance of her getting preggo. She's the first girl I have seen in a while and tbh I do not want to compare or judge this girl. She is one of those girls that I would try almost anything to make it work.
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    reposting here from the mgtow

    i was messing around with this girl ive been seeing today. Banged her a few times and anyway shes busy tonight but i jokingly kept trying to change her mind, and anyway she hit me with a "needy eh "

    it was 100% her joking back with me, but the problem is that it really bothered me because the last girl i seriously dated used to say i "smothered her" and was "too needy" for her. knowing what i know now, i wasnt even being needy with the old chick, she legit was pushing me away to go bang another dude without me knowing (who wants to even talk to the girl you just had a fight with, therefore she could have a disruption free evening) and idk something about that joking "needy eh" text just got to me enough to have to come here and post about it

    it made me completely want to stop talking to this new chick, but its obviously not her fault at all and id rather not be the guy she has to filter herself around because of my past shtty girls
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    Originally Posted by HockeyBacon18 View Post
    reposting here from the mgtow

    i was messing around with this girl ive been seeing today. Banged her a few times and anyway shes busy tonight but i jokingly kept trying to change her mind, and anyway she hit me with a "needy eh "

    it was 100% her joking back with me, but the problem is that it really bothered me because the last girl i seriously dated used to say i "smothered her" and was "too needy" for her. knowing what i know now, i wasnt even being needy with the old chick, she legit was pushing me away to go bang another dude without me knowing (who wants to even talk to the girl you just had a fight with, therefore she could have a disruption free evening) and idk something about that joking "needy eh" text just got to me enough to have to come here and post about it

    it made me completely want to stop talking to this new chick, but its obviously not her fault at all and id rather not be the guy she has to filter herself around because of my past shtty girls
    Lessons learned, you shouldn't have jokingly try to change her mind at all TBH. Carry on and don't repeat it/show signs of needy.
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    Originally Posted by otakutrevan View Post
    Thats online dating 1 o' 1. Smile. pictures with friends, and etc. Its just more of his humble bragging and attempting to take control of something that he has no control over (IE: his face). That nots some "boy next door" method he has found. Thats my problem with pondus. It could rain or not rain on him and he'd say how he made it happen.
    I do have control over my face. I can easily look like a bum if I don't put in the effort (as I am posting this I have not shaved for over a week and look like ****). I think I look way better in person in natural light. I am not photogenic at all. Out of 1000 pictures of me, I may look decent in 5. I could put up some pretty ****ing ****ty pictures of myself. It actually amazes me how many guys(and women) put up unaesthetic pictures. You are only as good looking as your worst picture.

    My AVI is 1 of 50 snaps I took on my webcam. It was the ONLY one that actually reflected how I see myself.

    I swear that I could improve ANYONE's profile with selecting the right pictures and making a creative profile. There is always room for improvement. If it wasn't possible then paid services for that kind of thing would not exist. Some people just understand better what is actually appealing to the opposite sex.

    Nothing I say on this forum is to brag. When you brag about something it's to put other's down because you want them to feel like that can't compare. I am not special. I do not think I am better than anyone. I am transparent because I DO think others can have the same success. If someone looks at my posts and thinks that I am bragging, they are just putting themselves down because THEY don't think they can compare.

    Originally Posted by Legend1617 View Post
    ^^^^ thanks for the advice Pondus, so far everything is good and both kids seem to like me. They are rough though and I have to tell them to stop more often. I usually try to deal with the pain. I do not plan on trying to discipline them. I honestly don't know if I ever will because even though I am growing to care about them they are not my kids.

    She has her tubes clamped so there is only like a 10% chance of her getting preggo. She's the first girl I have seen in a while and tbh I do not want to compare or judge this girl. She is one of those girls that I would try almost anything to make it work.
    All you have to do is judge her against your own personal belief system.

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    reposting here from the mgtow

    i was messing around with this girl ive been seeing today. Banged her a few times and anyway shes busy tonight but i jokingly kept trying to change her mind, and anyway she hit me with a "needy eh "

    it was 100% her joking back with me, but the problem is that it really bothered me because the last girl i seriously dated used to say i "smothered her" and was "too needy" for her. knowing what i know now, i wasnt even being needy with the old chick, she legit was pushing me away to go bang another dude without me knowing (who wants to even talk to the girl you just had a fight with, therefore she could have a disruption free evening) and idk something about that joking "needy eh" text just got to me enough to have to come here and post about it

    it made me completely want to stop talking to this new chick, but its obviously not her fault at all and id rather not be the guy she has to filter herself around because of my past shtty girls
    You have three options in that scenario.

    1.) Ignore and move on like it never happened and up your game in the short term.

    2.) Keep playing the game. "Just checking to see if I have you wrapped around my little finger yet. "

    3.) Be honest. "Hey I was just messing around, and I'm sure you were, too, but calling me needy triggered me because of my last LTR. She was constantly lying, cheating on me, and emotionally manipulating me and calling me needy to push me away when I know I wasn't being needy. I'm telling you this because I just don't want to put you in the same group as her, because you are so much better than her." If she actually likes you, she will respect your honestly, ability to communicate, and bring you closer together. If she's immature, she may just think you actually are needy and push yo away.
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    Originally Posted by Nedo View Post
    Lessons learned, you shouldn't have jokingly try to change her mind at all TBH. Carry on and don't repeat it/show signs of needy.
    as i said. just getting called needy kinda made me go cold so ive unintentionally became 1000000x less "needy"

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    You have three options in that scenario.

    1.) Ignore and move on like it never happened and up your game in the short term.

    2.) Keep playing the game. "Just checking to see if I have you wrapped around my little finger yet. "

    3.) Be honest. "Hey I was just messing around, and I'm sure you were, too, but calling me needy triggered me because of my last LTR. She was constantly lying, cheating on me, and emotionally manipulating me and calling me needy to push me away when I know I wasn't being needy. I'm telling you this because I just don't want to put you in the same group as her, because you are so much better than her." If she actually likes you, she will respect your honestly, ability to communicate, and bring you closer together. If she's immature, she may just think you actually are needy and push yo away.
    most likely going to go with #2, i refuse to use the word triggering as it encompases everything i hate about my generation

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    Originally Posted by HockeyBacon18 View Post
    reposting here from the mgtow

    i was messing around with this girl ive been seeing today. Banged her a few times and anyway shes busy tonight but i jokingly kept trying to change her mind, and anyway she hit me with a "needy eh "

    it was 100% her joking back with me, but the problem is that it really bothered me because the last girl i seriously dated used to say i "smothered her" and was "too needy" for her. knowing what i know now, i wasnt even being needy with the old chick, she legit was pushing me away to go bang another dude without me knowing (who wants to even talk to the girl you just had a fight with, therefore she could have a disruption free evening) and idk something about that joking "needy eh" text just got to me enough to have to come here and post about it

    it made me completely want to stop talking to this new chick, but its obviously not her fault at all and id rather not be the guy she has to filter herself around because of my past shtty girls
    Don't ever tell her that pressed your buttons. Don't ever act like that pressed your buttons. Go ahead and fade a bit from her if it makes it easier to get over your anger. If a girl sees you get upset over something she thinks is trivial, she'll internalize that by re-evaluating you. They're constantly testing the men they're seeing and failing any of these tests drops your value. It's not rational. It's not even necessarily a conscious thing. They'll just feel less attraction to you as a result. Act like the comment didn't mean anything and you've already forgotten it.

    If she brings it up again down the road, then it's a red flag. She's looking for things that press your buttons and you don't need anyone in your life like that.
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    Yeah, of course it's my mostly my looks that gets me the match, but I don't think it's my looks alone that prompts the women to msg me first because there is no way I am the best looking of their matches. I think different people give off different vibes from their pictures and what they say in their bio. I swipe left on a lot of women where I get a vibe we would not match well, based on their pictures and what they say about themselves. Same thing for the women I do match with and then look at their profiles closer. If I don't get a good vibe, I don't msg them.

    What's interesting is, the women that do MSG me first, I totally would have msged them myself eventually. The women I don't want to msg, don't msg me either. It's 100% a pre-judgement and their is no way I could know that we would not get along, but i'd rather msg the women I get a good vibe from first and I think women have the same approach.

    We agree on a lot of things. I don't know why you are always so surprised when it happens.
    Im not a fan of getting a "vibe". That sounds like some astrology type ****. If the woman is doing activities or dressing in a way that lets you know you probably won't "connect" then that makes sense, but lets not use the word vibe.

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    Originally Posted by HockeyBacon18 View Post
    as i said. just getting called needy kinda made me go cold so ive unintentionally became 1000000x less "needy"



    most likely going to go with #2, i refuse to use the word triggering as it encompases everything i hate about my generation

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    Well, your generation uses the term wrong.

    A trigger is something that sets off a memory tape or flashback transporting the person back to the event of her/his original trauma. Triggers are very personal;

    The trigger has nothing to do with the person that triggered you, and everything to do with you. It's not the other persons fault if you get triggered, but if they care about you, they will understand and do their best to not trigger you.

    It's a very mature concept, which is why I said, if she is immature, it will have the opposite affect.

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    Im not a fan of getting a "vibe". That sounds like some astrology type ****. If the woman is doing activities or dressing in a way that lets you know you probably won't "connect" then that makes sense, but lets not use the word vibe.

    lol
    Brb yeah my looks are why they message me
    Brb well actually maybe its my vibe.
    Okay, well, that is exactly what I mean by vibe, so it really doesn't matter to me if you don't like that term if it means something different to you.

    brb it's a combination of numerous factors
    brb I wish you could wrap your head around that
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    Don't ever tell her that pressed your buttons. Don't ever act like that pressed your buttons. Go ahead and fade a bit from her if it makes it easier to get over your anger. If a girl sees you get upset over something she thinks is trivial, she'll internalize that by re-evaluating you. They're constantly testing the men they're seeing and failing any of these tests drops your value. It's not rational. It's not even necessarily a conscious thing. They'll just feel less attraction to you as a result. Act like the comment didn't mean anything and you've already forgotten it.

    If she brings it up again down the road, then it's a red flag. She's looking for things that press your buttons and you don't need anyone in your life like that.
    my thoughts exactly, laugh it off, distance myself and re-evaluate if after 4 fuking years i can finally experience normal dating for people my age without everything making me flashback to that one chick
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    Now you know how us guys feel lol. I think it's cool if a woman makes the first move, whether direct or indirectly as long as she's attractive and unless the guy is completely autistic, he shouldn't be able to fuk it up. They recommend a guy approaches at least 5-20 women a day. Now can you imagine a woman going around cold approaching 5-20 men a day?
    I semi-know how you guys feel. That is why I said that it takes courage for anyone to approach or ask someone out. From your post, what about unattractive women? They are not qualified to approach men? Also, when you guys approach 5-20 women a day, are you looking to just get laid because that seems to be a lot per day? I can only approach one guy at a time with a big time gap in between. I am not looking for ONS, FWB or whatever that is out there that is not long term relationship.
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    Banned once again
    WTF, how is he getting banned
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