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    First post ever, need help

    I am 22 and I met this 20 yr old girl in a group tinder back in December. We talked a while before ever hanging out. We are pretty good friends and go out once a week on average now but recently she said she doesn't want a relationship and likes the lifestyle she lives (Which is going out late and drinking on most weekends). The problem is l like her alot at this point. It seems like my choices are to be cool, and take it slow, and keep being a friend. My other choice is to cut her off so I don't risk getting hurt later.
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    You're not going to get anywhere with her chief. You've been friendzoned the whole time while she gets dicked on the weekends by other guys, not to mention she just straight up told you that's what she intends to keep doing.
    The trouble with being punctual is that nobody's there to appreciate it.
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    Originally Posted by FU3L View Post
    You're not going to get anywhere with her chief. You've been friendzoned the whole time while she gets dicked on the weekends by other guys, not to mention she just straight up told you that's what she intends to keep doing.
    yup.
    offer FWB's so you can see the look of shock and horror on her face before she ghosts you because i doubt you lack the will power to delete her yourself and go find a woman that is actually attracted to you.
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    "doesn't want a relationship" means she doesn't want a relationship with just you. She's looking for something better. That doesn't mean you aren't a good guy or a good catch, just not what she is looking for.
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    Originally Posted by NitrogenWidget View Post
    yup.
    offer FWB's so you can see the look of shock and horror on her face before she ghosts you because i doubt you lack the will power to delete her yourself and go find a woman that is actually attracted to you.
    I am usually with her on weekends. We just spent 13 hours together outside at Firefly Festival. It seems best to go back to original friendship or to cut off. As soon as "I love you" or "relationship" got thrown in all hell broke out.
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    Originally Posted by ggries12 View Post
    I am usually with her on weekends. We just spent 13 hours together outside at Firefly Festival. It seems best to go back to original friendship or to cut off. As soon as "I love you" or "relationship" got thrown in all hell broke out.
    You're hopeless.
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    Originally Posted by ggries12 View Post
    I am usually with her on weekends. We just spent 13 hours together outside at Firefly Festival. It seems best to go back to original friendship or to cut off. As soon as "I love you" or "relationship" got thrown in all hell broke out.
    Chick friend i banged a few times but never dated said "we should go back to being friends" ok.
    We hung out one more time and she got drunk, came onto me, let me get her naked and knuckle deep in her till she came then said "we can't, we are just friends".
    When i pulled my dik out.

    I wiped my finger's on her comforter and told her good night.

    Now, we are still friends.
    but i only see her in a group setting now and don't initiate.

    She still texts me trying to flirt and i'll have none of it and change the subject back to making group plans.
    Hell she actually told me today i was welcome to come drink by the pool any time. she has a BF.

    told her to let me know when she throws a party.
    Got better things to do.

    Literally.
    build a fence, cut lawn, work on deck, walk dog, ride bike, sit in my hot tub/2ft wading pool with a chick who will zuck my dic.

    opie
    you will not get what you want from her so do what YOU want to do.
    If you want to waste your time trying to bang a chick who is already banging someone else go ahead.
    but you were warned.
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    OP you have no game. You made no moves on this girl, you are friend zoned so hard. Move on to another girl.
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