Sloth Thread Part XIII: Looks get you matches, game gets you smashes

[EXE99]

What have you guys found to be the best strategy for scheduling multiple dates with different people on the same night?

If you hit it off with the first girl and you blow off the second girl then you just lost out on the second girl.

[SaintPatrick317]

Goes to show everyone gets flaked on these apps. What is your routine for swiping? Go through a couple swipes at night, once a week, multiple times per day?

This app is full of girls linking their insta pages for followers. Those are the very attractive girls who don't use the app for anything other than follower/ego boost.

I would swipe usually close to the 100 max/day, only on profiles I like, not just random swiping.

I think you're right about a lot of that.

With that said, the ones who implied they were down to meet up just disappeared. I have countless other ones like that, but also plenty that did end up meeting up. I just want to find a way to improve the yield without social media or anything time consuming like that.

[cmmx]

can anyone recommend any apps for iphone that are explicitly only for hooking up? too many women use tinder, bumble etc for relationships now. need to cut thru the fluff. most apps that show up when u search for "hookup" look like complete scams

meanwhile, hinge fixed a visibility bug on my account so i'm receiving matches/likes again. but pretty much everyone on hinge is looking for a serious relationship as the app is designed and advertised that way :/

[Fortunamera]

can anyone recommend any apps for iphone that are explicitly only for hooking up? too many women use tinder, bumble etc for relationships now. need to cut thru the fluff. most apps that show up when u search for "hookup" look like complete scams

meanwhile, hinge fixed a visibility bug on my account so i'm receiving matches/likes again. but pretty much everyone on hinge is looking for a serious relationship as the app is designed and advertised that way :/

Just be chad. That way you can just be direct with women on any app you use and ask them for sex directly and some will accept. It won't matter whether it's hinge or tinder.

[cmmx]

Just be chad. That way you can just be direct with women on any app you use and ask them for sex directly and some will accept. It won't matter whether it's hinge or tinder.

thing is only a minority of women seek casual sex at any given time so this has been a surefire way to get reported and banned on these apps no? at the least, most will ghost/unmatch so its wasted effort and matches should i pursue something else later. its best to use an app that is explicitly casual

tried feeld and pure already… occasional success from pure but otherwise mostly scams and too few legit users in either to warrant subscribing. wondering if there are any worthwhile casual apps out there among the mass of scammy ones. prob not

edit: btw does anyone else notice their tinder matches dropping in batches? it drops by like 3-5 every few days or so, in bulk. when i reported this a few months ago they said theres a bug and gave me 2 free boosts, not that they're much use on free. i've gradually lost hundreds of matches possibly due to this glitch. wow what a ****ty app

[pondus_levo]

And here's one where the girl initiated, wanted to make plans, I give her my number, she never hits me up. Could I have done anything different here?

I just want to figure out a way to get more responses, improve my ability to continue and progress convos and deter them from not responding / flaking.

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Good lord. You are a turbo chad and literally your own worst enemy with your lack of texting skill.

1.)Lose the 2 pictures of you with women and the one with your corvette. There is a reason they are your bottom 3 if you are using smart pictures.
2.) Stop saying hood.
3.) Be more creative with your statements. They are boring as ****.

IE: Dinner girl - "Agreed. You ever been to XXX? It's amazing. We'll get a booth, so we can sit next to each other. "

IE: Tiger lady - "What's a cat like me gotta do to get a back scratch by you. ;P"

IE: Dance Girl about losing the shirt- "Too bad. You looked sexy as hell in it. The pressure is on. Don't disappoint... our future depends on it. "

I don't care what anyone says, when you are flirting, use winkie faces. Bishes love winkie faces. Just don't overdo it.

The key is, CHALLENGE her to step up.

[Fortunamera]

Good lord. You are a turbo chad and literally your own worst enemy with your lack of texting skill.

1.)Lose the 2 pictures of you with women and the one with your corvette. There is a reason they are your bottom 3 if you are using smart pictures.
2.) Stop saying hood.
3.) Be more creative with your statements. They are boring as ****.

IE: Dinner girl - "Agreed. You ever been to XXX? It's amazing. We'll get a booth, so we can sit next to each other. "

IE: Tiger lady - "What's a cat like me gotta do to get a back scratch by you. ;P"

IE: Dance Girl about losing the shirt- "Too bad. You looked sexy as hell in it. The pressure is on. Don't disappoint... our future depends on it. "

I don't care what anyone says, when you are flirting, use winkie faces. Bishes love winkie faces. Just don't overdo it.

The key is, CHALLENGE her to step up.

So much effort just to get a used up hole. Allow it.

[liftyousay]

met up with my ex last night. hadn't seen her in over 3 weeks. she just needed someone to talk to. we talked. she said how she was sad it was all over. she cried in my arms. we still managed to make out in the end, perhaps sparking something to come again.


edit: we fkd the next night. i slept over. we fckd again. she made me breakfast.

[spadelexus]

Sup players. Back in this after a climatical two month thing came to a painfully burning crash.

Lesson learned: don't fall for pretty cam whores no matter how good they are in bed.

Where's BRB at?

[Nicklol]

donno why tinder is so sht for me.
if i get a match, they NEVER talk.

I did meet some girl who just came to toronto from spain though and she was teaching me spanish and sht.
fun in bed too and I think she actually wants a relationship.
The first time a girl has seemd to push for that with me

have a decent group of girls i am focusing on now

ideally id like to just see 1..
its too much energy and not enough time

[SaintPatrick317]

Good lord. You are a turbo chad and literally your own worst enemy with your lack of texting skill.

1.)Lose the 2 pictures of you with women and the one with your corvette. There is a reason they are your bottom 3 if you are using smart pictures.
2.) Stop saying hood.
3.) Be more creative with your statements. They are boring as ****.

IE: Dinner girl - "Agreed. You ever been to XXX? It's amazing. We'll get a booth, so we can sit next to each other. "

IE: Tiger lady - "What's a cat like me gotta do to get a back scratch by you. ;P"

IE: Dance Girl about losing the shirt- "Too bad. You looked sexy as hell in it. The pressure is on. Don't disappoint... our future depends on it. "

I don't care what anyone says, when you are flirting, use winkie faces. Bishes love winkie faces. Just don't overdo it.

The key is, CHALLENGE her to step up.

Lol thanks man, I appreciate the advice. The "make her step up" makes sense and I will try that. And my smart pics remained the same as what I originally put up, so those last two pics were not put towards the end by the app.

[jesb7826]

I can’t use tinder since I’m perma banned on there a while ago, I use bumble but it’s basically been pointless. No matches at all. I can’t understand it. Even if I take a new pic and I think I look less ugly it still changes nothing. No matches. It’s been completely dead for like a few weeks now. I know I’m not good looking but it was never this bad before. Wtf is going on?

[pondus_levo]

So much effort just to get a used up hole. Allow it.

It's only high effort to those that don't know how to play the game.

If it were easy to do, everyone would be good at it. There is a reason only 1% of the population can play sports at an elite level.

[xCarnagex]

Tfw running tinder in a major city and getting matches but being unable to convert

brb DSLR quality pics
brb good job

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Being a brown male, not even once

[Aaronza]

Back in boyos, whats the consensus on paying for tinder plus these days? When it first came out it was pretty good for me in getting alot more matches than I usually would (boost was included as gold wasn't out yet), im guessing there is not much point getting boost now as only gold has the boost feature. Is the boost giving you brahs any success with increased matches?

[Fortunamera]

Tfw running tinder in a major city and getting matches but being unable to convert

brb DSLR quality pics
brb good job

Feelsbadman.jpg

Being a brown male, not even once

Boo fking hoo

[Briisk]

Back in boyos, whats the consensus on paying for tinder plus these days? When it first came out it was pretty good for me in getting alot more matches than I usually would (boost was included as gold wasn't out yet), im guessing there is not much point getting boost now as only gold has the boost feature. Is the boost giving you brahs any success with increased matches?

Tinder is a scam, someone should take these fckers to court.

Bought the prime boost for $40 this past Friday. Ran it from 730-1030, the night before Halloween. Yielded 3 potential matches, and no matches because the 3 were bots/fat. Requested a refund, and they are refunding me atm. Did a regular boost yesterday, yielded 7 matches. Coincidence? Shet is a timely scam that tries to lure customers. FYI I do have success off tinder, but this just goes to show you how bullshet it is.

[cmmx]

great sex last night with a girl i met off hinge. way better than my estranged wife. she's successful too. hinge even gave me a few extra months free premium after i reported a bug. this app aint too shabby

[Fortunamera]

Tinder is a scam, someone should take these fckers to court.

Bought the prime boost for $40 this past Friday. Ran it from 730-1030, the night before Halloween. Yielded 3 potential matches, and no matches because the 3 were bots/fat. Requested a refund, and they are refunding me atm. Did a regular boost yesterday, yielded 7 matches. Coincidence? Shet is a timely scam that tries to lure customers. FYI I do have success off tinder, but this just goes to show you how bullshet it is.

Wait so they gave you a refund because you didn't get any matches? Lmao. I might apply for a refund then.

[cmmx]

any tips on working around bumble's nudity filter for photos? it seems possible. one seminude (waist up) is always accepted but another seminude is always automatically rejected. i want to use the latter. tried inserting text on it already

[cmmx]

double chin standards: https://imgur.com/gallery/GAWISId

[Kiny0]

https://ibb.co/gZ28N0B

Follow up?
She probably wants to know what else I’m good at nonsexually, so maybe I should say something along of perfect cuddler cause I have a dog pic, exquisite chef that can make pizzas and ice creams, etc?

[Kiny0]

Damn, I thought I’d get a solid answer ASAP but didn’t know the thread is slow or just dying. Any help?

[cmmx]

Damn, I thought I’d get a solid answer ASAP but didn’t know the thread is slow or just dying. Any help?

the answer is to get her off tinder asap and communicate externally. stop using tinder as ur main dating app, and definitely stop paying for it. a plethora of significant issues and customer support is made up of monkeys. the app is complete junk, virtually a scam, and does not deserve our money. im seeing signs of desperation from tinder now (recent 50% off sale on tinder gold - multiple push notifications in caps) so hoping that the app is dying so the company will actually try to improve their ****ty app. meanwhile, bumble and hinge are way better so i recommend using those

[cmmx]

heres my theory about old matches and convos disappearing in bulk on tinder. i recently noticed a mass disappearance of Likes You users, disappearing in batches per day over the last few days, approximately 5 months after they liked me. my guess is they clear out old matches, convos, users who like u, hell even many other things, to conserve space. cuz lets face it, all of that data compiled from millions of users would take mountains to store. the issue is tinder doesnt provide any warning that this will happen, simply hoping the user wont notice, so the user is ill prepared to resuscitate old matches/convos should they wish to

so i think i have a pretty good guestimate for whats happening there… as for many other bugs and issues, still not sure

[BradShapo]

tinder and bumble sucks

[jd29]

Ummmmm

[SUPERDUKE1290]

i just noticed my (superlike, boost & rewind) buttons have moved to the side despite not having auto-update. is that possible??

[brightbrah]

i just noticed my (superlike, boost & rewind) buttons have moved to the side despite not having auto-update. is that possible??

same happened to me
i'm not a tech guy but they must have some way to force-change things without you updating the app

[cmmx]

same happened to me
i'm not a tech guy but they must have some way to force-change things without you updating the app

that sounds about right. if u imagine the app itself as a browser and app content as the site the browser loads, they can update the site on their end without updating the browser (app). some parts of the interface like these buttons may be built into the site rather than the app