Sloth Thread Part XIII: Looks get you matches, game gets you smashes

[Silencespeaks]

I made a new account after being off for five months. Don't really meet anyone irl, so online seems the only way for me to talk to new people even though I don't like it at all. Observations so far:

Lots of ads, don't remember this from last year but I had plus for a while then without ads.

More pro athletes and models on there. Many pro baseball players are on it. Last year seemed to be less, but I did talk to one pro football player for a while last year (never met up). So for average guys just looking for hookups there is high status competition.

Feeling tired of it even though I want to try again. I'm swiping right on maybe 1/50 if that and even then I feel meh about my matches. Just feel so over it.

Seems to be less active because I'm not getting as many matches for my right swipes, but that could also be because my account is still new.

A lot of the same people as before are still on there (I realize it will look bad that I'm on it again too).

It seems more people have their instagram linked.

Openers so far are generally a greeting or compliment or bio reference.

Lots of really bad first pics, so if you follow the pic advice in the op it will put you ahead of a lot of people. Many first pics are unflattering selfies or group pics where you don't know who's who etc.

[pancakemouse]

ok which miscer is dis

[RmBoyos]

ok which miscer is dis

[img]http://i.imgur.com/J5OieTH.png[/i mg]

omg hahahahaha

[nn586]

This implies that you are more than just semi-aesthetic ... at least 8/10?

50-100 matches per day, boost or no boost is actually ALOT

lol possibly idk.

i was in germany though for a couple months last year and i was still getting matches over there but from what i remember it was significantly less. i dont think tinder is as big in Germany as it is in the US

funny thing is i was using tinder until i realized that there is FKK and brothels there then i was like why am i wasting my time with this lol and went to Paradise in Stuttgart after that hahaha =p. granted time was of the essence, i was not there for very long.

jelly that you live in germany though. i loved it there

[ineed$]

source? is this confirmed?

THe first 3 makes sense and they will apply it now if they haven't already.

The others I don't think so. When you boost, you are put in front of everyone that is on at that moment, several times at that.

[Slyrz]

Any of you still use Bumble? They introduced their own version of a Super Like now

[spadelexus]

Been busy as phuck wil try to respond to miscers soon. Also got some 7+/10's pics/convos to show when I get a min. This chix not good looking enough for me to phuck with irl but wanted to post this convo to show how I dodged her two chit tests. Solid game right here boys take note at responses to her telling me "no" and asking the million dollar question "do you use this line on every girl you match?"...

[ineed$]

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good job spade, what did u search for to get cool gifs? I like the tickle one.

I will do a boost soon and will report my results also, been busy AF doing investments and winning at the stock market and futures. On track to make 6 figures+ this year. Chitttt

[Nicklol]

guys help me!
I didnt think it would actually get a response.

[fishnbrah]

id disappoint her for sure

[nyjets88]

Any of you still use Bumble? They introduced their own version of a Super Like now

How? I don't see an option, and don't have any updates available for iphone

[ND32]

Tinder is apparently testing a service called Tinder Gold which lets you see a list of people who like you.


INB4 people in here are paying $30/month just to see the 2 people that swipe right on them per month

Nooooooooooooooooooo

I've just really stopped caring. I need to get back in on this. The key for me is to get some pictures but my social network isn't big so getting new pictures isn't as easy as it seems. Time to be social

[RmBoyos]

guys help me!
I didnt think it would actually get a response.
[img]http://i.imgur.com/dseGr6f.png[/img ]

you better take our advice this time you cuck

okay here we go

use one of the following

'well i would pin you up against the wall, bite your lip and grab your ass'

'id tie you up and eat your ass'

*any 50 shades of grey quotes or gifs*

'id tie your hands behind your back, pound you doggy whilst pulling your hair'

[EatItRAW92]

In on Tinder mastermind group.

[Gameover89]

you better take our advice this time you cuck

okay here we go

use one of the following

'well i would pin you up against the wall, bite your lip and grab your ass'

'id tie you up and eat your ass'

*any 50 shades of grey quotes or gifs*

'id tie your hands behind your back, pound you doggy whilst pulling your hair'

This...

[RmBoyos]

This...

he wont listen to us

but we can only try...

[tymens]

I made a new account after being off for five months. Don't really meet anyone irl, so online seems the only way for me to talk to new people even though I don't like it at all. Observations so far:

Lots of ads, don't remember this from last year but I had plus for a while then without ads.

More pro athletes and models on there. Many pro baseball players are on it. Last year seemed to be less, but I did talk to one pro football player for a while last year (never met up). So for average guys just looking for hookups there is high status competition.

Feeling tired of it even though I want to try again. I'm swiping right on maybe 1/50 if that and even then I feel meh about my matches. Just feel so over it.

Seems to be less active because I'm not getting as many matches for my right swipes, but that could also be because my account is still new.

A lot of the same people as before are still on there (I realize it will look bad that I'm on it again too).

It seems more people have their instagram linked.

Openers so far are generally a greeting or compliment or bio reference.

Lots of really bad first pics, so if you follow the pic advice in the op it will put you ahead of a lot of people. Many first pics are unflattering selfies or group pics where you don't know who's who etc.

wtf do you live where you are matching with multiple "pro atheletes"?

also, have you been rated? are you 7+? if yes then you should literally be getting every match. ive seen 4/10 girls match with every one they swipe right one. literally every single right swipe is a match and that was for a 4/10

[Gameover89]

Swiped through my entire area with set to 50km, population here is like 300,000 and Getting like 1-2 matches a day now... height is no asset on tinder.

in 2 weeks total is 85 matches, only about 15 conversations. most lasted 5 msgs 1 landed me instant sex with a 6/10

is that bad, average, good for a guy? my pics do suck though lol

[FrenchDude]

Been busy as phuck wil try to respond to miscers soon. Also got some 7+/10's pics/convos to show when I get a min. This chix not good looking enough for me to phuck with irl but wanted to post this convo to show how I dodged her two chit tests. Solid game right here boys take note at responses to her telling me "no" and asking the million dollar question "do you use this line on every girl you match?"...

Coming from someone that loves you Brah, but you know we can't all use this game. It's only for 7,5/8 and more. Anyone saying this to a girl with an average face will get kick off the boat straight after that ahah.
Agressive game is like that. And I know this for having experienced it myself, and my brother too. He answered almost like that, very directive and avoiding **** test. But the girl said something like "well, and you think i'm going to go an a date when you spoke to me like this ? I'm not your dog and you're not that hot by the way". This happened a few times. The hotter the girl, the harder it was to have confident / direct game with them. The fact you're trying to avoid **** test with dominant game make them **** on you.

Looks like girls are attracted by dominant game with good looking guys, while for the average one, you have to be more clever and escalate slowly with aggressive lines. No way we can have a # or meeting in 3-4 lines like Spade do. But yeah, still respecting the game for the upper-level guys.

[Gameover89]

Looks like girls are attracted by dominant game with good looking guys, while for the average one, you have to be more clever and escalate slowly with aggressive lines. No way we can have a # or meeting in 3-4 lines like Spade do. But yeah, still respecting the game for the upper-level guys.

Agreed. I tried this and they just say 'wow your quick aren't you lol' and then don't reply when you try for the number in 3-5 msgs and be super aggressive.

Its because its not congruent with your look, they are expecting that talk from a player who looks like a player. A 'cute' looking guy or average guy just looks like a major dik and they find it weird.

[UnclRuckus]

Swiped through my entire area with set to 50km, population here is like 300,000 and Getting like 1-2 matches a day now... height is no asset on tinder.

in 2 weeks total is 85 matches, only about 15 conversations. most lasted 5 msgs 1 landed me instant sex with a 6/10

is that bad, average, good for a guy? my pics do suck though lol

Honestly I think average user gets very few matches and no dates/sex from Tinder. My average friends seriously get like no matches ever, not enough to practice game so when they do get one they blow it by being autists.

I'm probably above average in looks, tall, decent build (not by misc standards but for chicks), get checked out IRL etc and I get way less matches than you, although I'm in a pretty small city and my profile/pics suck. So I'd say you're doing decently. The dudes ITT that are slaying are the Tinder 1%, if not in looks then at least in terms of what they get out of the app.

Since you're getting matches the problem is probably your opener/text game. I get at least 50% response rate (very conservative estimate) on my openers even though I match less than you, so just try to tune your game a bit.

[Slyrz]

How? I don't see an option, and don't have any updates available for iphone

Maybe it's still coming out

http://imgur.com/rvf2Lbp

[EatItRAW92]

I just used the 'ok i want you' line and she responded 'oh wow' and 'hello haha'

Confirmed New Era cap wearing warrior skull portruding ring finger Chad

[RmBoyos]

Honestly I think average user gets very few matches and no dates/sex from Tinder. My average friends seriously get like no matches ever, not enough to practice game so when they do get one they blow it by being autists.

I'm probably above average in looks, tall, decent build (not by misc standards but for chicks), get checked out IRL etc and I get way less matches than you, although I'm in a pretty small city and my profile/pics suck. So I'd say you're doing decently. The dudes ITT that are slaying are the Tinder 1%, if not in looks then at least in terms of what they get out of the app.

Since you're getting matches the problem is probably your opener/text game. I get at least 50% response rate (very conservative estimate) on my openers even though I match less than you, so just try to tune your game a bit.

this

im not the best, but when i was on it, i looksmaxed, picked best photos, used my best game, and got out of it more than i ever had

i may only had gotten 4-5 matches a week, but i smashed at least 50%...

[Bangemall]

I made a new account after being off for five months. Don't really meet anyone irl, so online seems the only way for me to talk to new people even though I don't like it at all. Observations so far:

Lots of ads, don't remember this from last year but I had plus for a while then without ads.

More pro athletes and models on there. Many pro baseball players are on it. Last year seemed to be less, but I did talk to one pro football player for a while last year (never met up). So for average guys just looking for hookups there is high status competition.

Feeling tired of it even though I want to try again. I'm swiping right on maybe 1/50 if that and even then I feel meh about my matches. Just feel so over it.

Seems to be less active because I'm not getting as many matches for my right swipes, but that could also be because my account is still new.

A lot of the same people as before are still on there (I realize it will look bad that I'm on it again too).

It seems more people have their instagram linked.

Openers so far are generally a greeting or compliment or bio reference.

Lots of really bad first pics, so if you follow the pic advice in the op it will put you ahead of a lot of people. Many first pics are unflattering selfies or group pics where you don't know who's who etc.

I don't mean to hate at all. Really I don't its nice to get some insight from a woman every now and then but how would you rate your own looks/value? Seems to me like you are aiming very very high in the looks department when swiping.

Also, why do you feel meh with your matches then? Is it because of their openers?

lol possibly idk.

i was in germany though for a couple months last year and i was still getting matches over there but from what i remember it was significantly less. i dont think tinder is as big in Germany as it is in the US

funny thing is i was using tinder until i realized that there is FKK and brothels there then i was like why am i wasting my time with this lol and went to Paradise in Stuttgart after that hahaha =p. granted time was of the essence, i was not there for very long.

jelly that you live in germany though. i loved it there

Alot of people are using it in Germany actually. But most just in order to promote their instagram and snapchat. There are 18 year old girls with like 30 uploads on instagram but 9 thousand followers

Honestly man ... social media is really ****ing up mankind boys


...are you for real? I am from Stuttgart dude!!!!!!!! xD .... And I am absolutely failing with matches here. I manage to get 3-4 a week at most.

[Bangemall]

this

im not the best, but when i was on it, i looksmaxed, picked best photos, used my best game, and got out of it more than i ever had

i may only had gotten 4-5 matches a week, but i smashed at least 50%...

Logistics is an issue for me. Don't have my own place atm and most chicks I match and "could" potentially smash also live with family #feelshorribleman

[RmBoyos]

Logistics is an issue for me. Don't have my own place atm and most chicks I match and "could" potentially smash also live with family #feelshorribleman

this is what stopped me from getting past dat 50% hehe

nah i was fortunate in that i live near (30 min max) about 10-11 universities, and most of matches were uni sloots!

[spadelexus]

@backlash - that wasnt a pitty post. That post and the following one was more an awakening how tinder, and women/sex in general, can be addicting so anybody getting into this should proceed with caution. And anybody that doesnt do well on tinder should take it as a blessing in dusguise and use their energy on mastering a trade, a musical instrument, building the next ******** etc...far better use of the little time we have on earth than to be chasing pussy on a chitty app.

@tymens- shes a strong 6/10. Only because of her age. For women in her age group shed be at least a 7/10. Most guys itt would jump at the opportunity to have a night with silence. Including myself. Body is bangin.

Also match rate depends on market (among other factors). I dont swipe on less than 5.5-6/10. Ive dated 7/10's that insta matched 7 out of the first 10 cards in their decks. I highly doubt 4/10's in prime markets are matching >50%.

@ silence- if youre ever in nyc lets meet for a drink. Will be interesting to see how our misc personas translate irl. Could be a sloth thread dating study/expirement.

@nicklol - send the gif of the girl blindfolded and hands tied with red rope. Search bdsm. Then follow with "Im into pushing limits. Whats yo # ill txt you my address then push yours."

@frenchdude - ive gotten the same reply as your bro. A girl once told me "im not hot enough" to use aggressive lines. I only listen to myself. Aggressive game and picking up girls in general is a #'s game. More shots you take better your chances of making a basket. Id say lot of it has to do with vibe. Tall bearded tattood guys with lean cut physiques is a type that makes some girls wet. Gotta be bold and surprise girls with your game, one way or another - you need to stand out. More than just facial aesthetics is my point.

@slyrz - shes 32. Body is bangin. Prolly 6.5-7/10 all around. She claims to have been on bumble only two weeks, and Im the 2nd date and first guy she phucked on a dating app. She claims to have only downloaded bumble since her friends told her there's better guys on bumble and tinder is garbage. She claims after 2 days on bumble she had >500 potential matches in her queue. Anyways Im putting her on weekly until I get bored.

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General elo observation. I reset with new fb for the first time two weeks ago. All other previous resets have just been delete/log in with same everything. This might be common knowledge for some brahs but you definitely get shown more when you open a new account with new fb. Within the first two days I had 70+ matches. Couple days later, i boosted and got 10-15 boost matches. Matching 5-10/day and daily declining- have over 200 matches in two weeks. Tinder is definitely judging my habits and placing me in girls stacks accordingly. No other possible way to get 70 matches in two days without boost, then a few days later 25 matches in two days with boost. Im not in a small market.

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This one went nc after I gave her my ig. Feelsbatman. Buttphuckit.



These two from my unicorn account, too far to set something up, plus one is 19 and my girl only wants 21+, butt nonetheless thought they were post worthy.





Funny story. My girl actually wants me to delete the unicorn account. When we made it she didnt want to use her name or show her face in any of the pics. So came up with an alias on fb, lets say it was "sue smith" and used only body pics and one of the pics I put as her profile pic on fb.

Anyways her dad asked her if she knows a "Sue Smith". Because she logged into that fb account with the same device she logs into her real fb account, fb must have suggested sue smith as a friend to her dad because fb recognized her and "Sue" share devices/are in the same location. Lol.

[nyjets88]

Looks like girls are attracted by dominant game with good looking guys, while for the average one, you have to be more clever and escalate slowly with aggressive lines. No way we can have a # or meeting in 3-4 lines like Spade do. But yeah, still respecting the game for the upper-level guys.

Agreed with the first paragraph, not this though. You do have to be more clever, but if you are you can get numbers and meetings after just a few messages. You don't need to escalate on tinder, you escalate when you meet them

[Silencespeaks]

wtf do you live where you are matching with multiple "pro atheletes"?

also, have you been rated? are you 7+? if yes then you should literally be getting every match. ive seen 4/10 girls match with every one they swipe right one. literally every single right swipe is a match and that was for a 4/10

Don't want to post my location but it's US and pro athletes from teams around here are on tinder. I've matched some and talked to a couple on snapchat so I know they were real. Never met up because I'm sure they're just only looking for a quick hookup from me. They can date young model level girls if they want so I'm sure they wouldn't have anything more to offer me than a ONS.

From what I understand most guys just swipe right on everybody. So for girls it's easy to get matches and it doesn't mean anything to get a match because guys swipe right indiscriminately.

By irl standards I'm decently attractive and by misc standards probably average, maybe 6/10 misc standards. I'm older though, in my forties, so that is my main problem in dating. Attractive guys my age are married or if they are divorced/single they want to date younger.

I don't mean to hate at all. Really I don't its nice to get some insight from a woman every now and then but how would you rate your own looks/value? Seems to me like you are aiming very very high in the looks department when swiping.

Also, why do you feel meh with your matches then? Is it because of their openers?.

Yes my standards are too high. I was married to someone attractive and successful, and when I started trying to date after divorce I just assumed that I would easily find someone similar. Seems obvious now that I wouldn't but I was very naieve.

Feeling meh about online dating in general because I'm just over it and really didn't want to go back. But I haven't talked to anyone new in five months and it's a very real possibility that I'll just end up single forever (standards too high) so I decided to try again.

@silence- if youre ever in nyc lets meet for a drink. Will be interesting to see how our misc personas translate irl. Could be a sloth thread dating study/expirement.

No way I'm scared ahah, your seduction skills are too good.