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06-16-2017, 02:34 PM #121
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06-16-2017, 02:38 PM #122
Have had this happen. Approached for my white friends on many occasions and know this feeling.
Also I'd also disagree with you about liberal areas also lol. Similar behavior.
Also I'm not trying to come off as overly complaining or offer a solution...it's just something that I've encountered and many others, especially living in a mostly white area where you're a minority or being in more affluent areas.Last edited by sword_; 06-16-2017 at 02:45 PM.
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06-16-2017, 02:58 PM #123
Its all good man.
Sheeeeeet. Before I quit online dating I did spoof my GPS and the North West Pacific seemed to be the only place I could get girls that were like decent looking. Granted I didnt message most and naturally didn't live there so its all speculation about what would have happened post match.★cVc★ OEFx2
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06-16-2017, 03:45 PM #124
I live in one of the most white and liberal state in the country, I can understand where he is coming from. I myself have tried approaching guys (all different races) and they get a bit turned off. It's the same on dating apps (no black women or only white women). Not being hood and conservative is a double edge sword for minorities. I feel like people in general would not mind dating a well spoken black person, but it's their friends and family they have to deal with. I dated a white guy for awhile then when he introduced me to his friends he changed. I assumed his southern boys were not OK with my skin color. If I was white I would already be locked down by now. Yes it is 2017, but there are a lot of people that are still not OK with 2 different races dating.
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06-16-2017, 03:49 PM #125
I won't say you're incorrect, but this seems bizarre to me. A lot of black women end up impovershied because they marry a dude like you described, and then the husband ends up going in and out of jail, or lacks the means to provide for a child. What kindof media would encourage them to go after guys who won't be able to take care of them? Furthermore, why wouldn't you want a dude who has his **** together, and's rolling in green?
You say it's a cultural disconnect, and that seems right. At least in my area we were all told to:
-Go to school
-Do well
-Go to University
-Get a job.
Not doing this in my community has you seen as a loser, if you don't have some other qualification (ie plumber). What you described seems like a 180 from where I'm from, serious. As the kinda dudes who're hood/thuggish are seen are loons who must be locked up, rather than somebody to be desired.
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06-16-2017, 03:50 PM #126
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You're lumping in all white people as one category as if dating is easy across the board being white. when really you mean the good looking white people. I would put down money that most FA's are white than any other race too. (certainly more than blacks, asians maybe debatable)
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06-16-2017, 03:54 PM #127
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06-16-2017, 03:55 PM #128
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06-16-2017, 04:04 PM #129
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06-16-2017, 04:09 PM #130
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06-16-2017, 04:26 PM #131
Careful with AMD, I bought in when it was $2 dollars a share in 2013. Ive done really well but Vega needs to really be amazing. Nvidia has held the high end market for over a year now and Volta will come in 2018. Vega needs to be better than the 1080 Ti or at least close to it but cost less. With HBM 2 memory being so expensive that will be difficult.
I did some Bitcoining and did really well but its hard to get into. If you have the money get a Vega card. They will be amazing for data mining.
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06-16-2017, 04:27 PM #132
It's a notorious issue indeed, and in the white community where most get married (~70%) you'll notice that being FA's not a major issue among the pop. My estimate's that they're about the same, being the amount FA's black or white's nearly the same; when I originally said blacks had a higher chance I hadn't considered that they largely just don't get married.
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06-16-2017, 05:28 PM #133
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06-16-2017, 06:47 PM #134
Pondus is just one of many narcissists on this forum who put on this big act that they are successful with women and meanwhile he answered that he would smash that BBW woman and you said he fixed you up with a BBW. There are a lot of big talkers on here, so don't even pay attention to anything they say unless they back it up with screen shots that are specifically addressed to them.
Unfortunately America is still quite racist. I just made a comment as to how I was shocked at Rich Piana's racist tape in that thread in the main Misc, as I couldn't even listen to it as it was disgusting and vile, and I got negged by racist losers on here.
Yes Cali is more liberal. BUT I do think interracial dating has a long way to go between black men and white women.
It is different in Cali but even then I do think white women are scared of how their families and friends will react if they date a black man. I know that even in California I've heard women be told that most black men under 30 are in jail or they will get cheated on, as one of my female friends is white and she only dates black men.
She is frustrated in Cali as there aren't many black men here, so I suggested she move to Kansas City or Atlanta.
She's my age and she was living with a 29 year old black man, but he cheated on her repeatedly and took a lot of her money. He even picked up on another woman when we were all out celebrating his birthday, to the point where this chick started following him to HER place, I took her aside and said "that's my friend's boyfriend, will you please leave" and the girl told me No, that she wanted to have sex with him!!! Young Asian girl. I was so shocked I could even stand up straight. This woman wanted to hookup with a drunk man walking to his girlfriend's house. I told her to kick him out and let them go find a place to have sex. Not sure what she did as I went home.
So of course her experience with him will bring the women around us to say "see I told you so". When in fact that dude played at our college football and was bipolar and had a lot of other issues. Most likely he was hit in the head too many times. Amazing to see women throw themselves at this guy when I didn't consider him that good looking. He did have a guy from the Patriots out and of course the women were flocking to that dude even more.
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06-17-2017, 09:20 AM #135
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I've lived in every type of culture around. ****, I lived in Africa for a little while. I know how interracial dating goes and I know white people have it the easiest (guys at least) in terms of being the most accepted in the dating realm. I also lived in the south and I know how it goes down there. The pool is much, much smaller if you're a put together black dude. I've been the guy telling you to move longer than anyone else here. You know this.
Also, fails in the dating game and FA's in general are (my guess) a majority white people. Skin color has nothing to do with success as a blanket statement, it just makes the pool bigger or smaller.
As far as Pondus goes, lmao. The dude lives in the bay area, it's like a mecca of professional women who are lonely because the men weigh less than they do, have negative testosterone and couldn't change a car tire to save their life. It's the definition of beta males everywhere. If you're a guy who has any confidence whatsoever or is a 5/10 or higher, you can get laid or meet women there. It's not hard. When I had online dating and would stay a day or two there, I'd get the hottest matches and have the most luck in getting numbers in the bay area. I have family there too and their friends (women) would all tell my family how hot I was and want me to ask them out, etc. It's as close to life on easy mode as you can get (not counting traveling to other countries). The only other place I had that much luck was Phoenix. This is online dating though so who gives a ****, it's not real life.
In terms of real life dating, the best and most luck I've had always has to do with activity. Rock climbing, yoga, indoor soccer, etc. I ALWAYS get the standard initial thinking where they think I'm a douchebag (muscles, 5'11, resting bitch face, etc) but then after time they always end up liking me. That's why I'm always ragging on you about going to try this sort of **** too. You're going to get the same treatment up front, especially being black, but then when they realize you're a normal dude who's interested in normal thing (minus the anime, wtf bro, jk) they'll warm up to you. It's like a 1/4 date in the sense you talk to them and hang out but it's an activity so they're disarmed and not on the defensive.
Anyway, it's a bit off subject. I get what you're saying with the racial ****. It happens. One of the coolest chicks I ever dated (recently moved across country) dated a black guy before me. It's normal here. It's not so much where you are. Just deal with the smaller dating pool and find the ones who do the cool **** in different venues (yoga, soccer, rock climbing, etc)
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06-17-2017, 06:09 PM #136
Ranger I appreciate your positivity but going rock climbing, kayaking, or etc with almost entirely white women (I've looked at the meet up groups and etc). It won't magically yield women. I may go do these things because they are fun , but I Im not expecting to meet anyone. I'll enjoy myself, and be social. Maybe by the will of Zeus there will be some black girls there or some girls that arent hung up on race or general attractiveness
EDIT: How can you say skin color doesnt effect anything, and then you immediately say it shrinks the dating pool? That GREATLY effects the chances of meeting women that may be into you.Last edited by otakutrevan; 06-17-2017 at 07:03 PM.
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06-18-2017, 07:36 AM #137
Let's see,
Yesterday it hit 94 deg's.
Was about 70 last week.
Drank coffee on the deck in the morning.
I gave the hot tub the once over and balanced the chemicals.
adjusted the sun sail over the hot tub i hung for privacy and to catch pine needles that fall on it.
I dumped bleach in the wading pool to kill the skeeters so i can drain and clean it.
I aerated the hard lemonade i have brewing in my basement.
Cleaned off my deck and grilled lunch for me and my boys.
going to a lake house with my friends for a week next month and decided to bring a few kegs with me so i cleaned out a 55 gal square garbage can so i can turn it into a giant keg cooler.
once it got super hot out i just sat on the deck with the kids under the shade umbrella and drank beer from the taps I got on the back porch my deck is attached to.
That was yesterday.
today is father's day.
breakfast is done.
drinking coffee on the deck.
not as hot as yesterday.
going to my dad's with the kids later and bringing them to their this evening.
if it isn't raining i'll take a bike ride. then later towards sunset take the dog for a walk.
if it is i'll clean inside.
I might brush down my wicker furniture and spray paint it out on the lawn it'll dry fast on a day like today.
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06-18-2017, 09:31 AM #138
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I said skin color has nothing to do with FA status. Most of the failures in the dating game here are from white people. As a blanket statement, you don't make or break based on the fact you have dark skin. I said it just shrinks the possible candidates (location dependent).
You shouldn't go rock climbing, kayaking, etc to meet women. You should go for the exact reason you said you would....to enjoy it. That's why I do it and it's those times when I actually meet cool people (men and women). Hell, I actually met a rock climbing instructor recently as I was practicing tying a stupid knot and I wasn't getting it right for some reason. She helped me out, just went on a trail run with her the other day now too. Really cool chick. I wasn't there to meet her, had zero intention of meeting anyone actually, just sort of happened and it happened while I was looking like a dumb ass not able to tie a knot (strong ranger skills, fuuuuark) Anyway, at the very least, learning a new skill or developing a new hobby is worth it. I'm not sure how the meet up groups (assuming that site online) are where you live. Where I am, it's all old people. I went down to the aquatic center on my own and just started randomly meeting there as they were kayaking, stand up paddle boarding and sailing. Way better than forced meeting groups. I'm starting to seriously think the online thing doesn't attract normal people in general.
Anyway, give it a shot and update the thread.
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06-18-2017, 12:00 PM #139
That's the thing. When I say black girls like hood guys I'm not saying every girl is looking for Kodak Black, but if you don't have ANY of those qualities then you're pool is very limited, that's the point we're trying to make. You see it all the time in black movies, even the professional career black men have some element of being hood added to the character.
I know a guy like us who moved to Seattle and he's living it up out there. Not saying he's slaying left and right, but from what it looks like he's hanging out with hot girls who accept him for his non stereotypical ways
Although you still have to worry about meeting the family, white guys actually LOOK for well-spoken black women. There are some white women out there who prefer abercrombie model type black guys, but generally the more hood/"black" you are the better you'll do with white girls. Not to mention I've never heard of black girls getting rejected by other black guys for acting too white, especially if they're 6+.
Not true. There area lot of issues that get swept under the rug in the black community like depression, sexual abuse, and until recently homosexuality. Being FA is no different, so much so that dudes lie on their dick all the time. Having sex with tons of women is glorified like crazy. I worked in a ratchet call center and upon telling everyone I lost my virginity at 21 everyone was shocked. They didn't get on me for it, but some of the dudes were bragging about how they were having sex in middle school, some of the girls did too. I mean white people do it too, but it's a lot worse to be FA as a black guy, so most don't admit it. There's a lot of fat, ugly, short etc black people out there do you really think all of them are getting pussy?
I also feel like people are less likely to assume that we don't do well with women. Thanks to guys like sword and flchamp (jk guys) people assume that we all have hoes. As otaku has said plenty of times his friends look to him for approaching advice, and I had a white friend call me smooth operator just because of how often he's seen me approach but they don't see all of the rejections, flakes, etc. I'd be rich if got a dime for the amount of times I've heard "You're black bro its so easy for you".Last edited by iamdetermined; 06-18-2017 at 12:14 PM.
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06-18-2017, 02:02 PM #140
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Literally none of this is skin color dependent. Who gives a fck if people think you do well or don't? That doesn't make you FA or not. Your luck/game/relationships with women determine that. If you want to talk about stereotypes, the stereotypical virgin neckbeard is a fat white guy with acne. Your dark skin has no effect on that, it only matters when it comes to whether people view you as a dating option or not. For every chick I know (California so obvious biased results) that wouldn't date a black guy, I know one that is far more likely to date a black guy than a white guy.
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06-18-2017, 02:12 PM #141
Eh I get what you're saying, but yeah I think the audience we are talking about is the non-mainstream black dude.
I get it from friends do that I can run game and talk to women. The more I think about it is that this typically happens in clubs/bars. Clubs especially are ****ing casinos for pussy. You're not there to win. It's mostly for people to act out, show a little personality, get attention and validation and that's it.
So many times I've talked to girls and gotten nothing. Ran game, etc. It is exhausting playing the entertainer.
Also to iamdetermined, otakurevan, etc. it's probably harder as a black man because not necessarily race as US_Ranger mentioned, but more of a social circle thing especially if you're not in that group or fit in.A hit was sent, from the President, to raid your residence /
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06-18-2017, 03:13 PM #142
I've kind of wondered if there's a racial part of FA - not as in attraction/racism, but more as in cultural norms and expectations that could get you going down that road.
I.e., I've been around a ton of (south Asian) Indians and pry half of them are socially nonfunctional, even if they were born in the States and completely Americanized. On the flip side, like Otaku said, some people don't think black FAs can even exist. It's kind of interesting to think about.FA Crew
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06-18-2017, 04:19 PM #143
Its all good guys. Side note weight loss process is going good. Put on some chinos for work and when I got there I realized I needed a belt. Definitely feels good. Pretty sure Im going to join the Guard and end up being support to Special Forces. Will update on that progress as well. Should be getting a Net + and Sec + cert before the fall as well.Also the girl mentioned in the 1st post? Said she wanted to be friends. I quite literally have zero options and I'm not going out of my way to change that. It'll be interesting how this turns out.
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06-18-2017, 05:24 PM #144Originally Posted by iamdetermined
I lost my virginity at age 18. Who the **** am I trying to impress by ****ing everything that walks while still being a kid? If someone brags about that it is because they have done **** all with their lives. And most people having sex at that point haven't.
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06-18-2017, 06:32 PM #145
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06-19-2017, 09:36 PM #146
You live in a white and liberal state, yet Southern boys?? Those two should be mutually exclusive.
I agree that a female would have to not give a crap what her family thinks to be in a mixed race relationships.
I have a family member who has since passed, who heard that I dated a Mexican man (who had his own business and was quite successful) and a Columbian man years ago, and I can't even tell you the nasty comments I received.Last edited by deadliftbrah19; 06-20-2017 at 04:41 AM.
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06-19-2017, 09:51 PM #147
You think your recent weight gain would have made you more sympathetic towards one's battle with weight. Food addiction gets worse when one adds in carbs. I started cooking gourmet meals and even gluten-free pasta dishes are addictive.
I lowered my standards significantly back in the short relapse when I was dating, as who was I to judge these men? Many I met in real life and they had extra pudge or were skinny. Honestly they were more down to earth than the mass monster CHADs I saw 3-5 years ago.
Like you I've been dropping the KGs but if I was dating I would be open to more physiques. Hell Im lucky to be alive and would look more for someone to grow old with than CHAD.
The way you write, you would think that a chubby woman is worse than a woman who is a drug addict. What about other qualities of a woman? Make a list of what you are looking for in a woman outside of size.
- Kindness
- Compassion
- Empathy
- Would she make a good mother?
- Is she responsible with money?
- Are her parents still married?
- Do you agree on religion?
- Do you agree on politics?
- Does she have multiple baby daddys?
- Does she have any addictions?
- Does she suffer from depression and/or anxiety?
- Does she have a brother named Rexpert? lol
Etc.
Money, politics and religion can cause huge problems in relationships.
Size can change. You and I go up and down 20 KG in a year. I am working with a professional to hit my set point and stay there instead of yo-yoing up and now 40 lbs in a year.
The way you write, you would think that a chubby woman is worse than a woman who is a drug addict or with multiple baby daddys.
In addition, I have noticed that many men who don't have success with women lack empathy towards a woman. You don't talk to me in a charming way, unlike other men on this forum and in real life.Last edited by deadliftbrah19; 06-20-2017 at 04:57 AM.
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06-20-2017, 04:45 PM #148
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06-20-2017, 08:03 PM #149
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06-20-2017, 08:57 PM #150
You're preaching to the choir brah. I didn't give a damn about what they had to say or brag about, most of them blew their first paycheck before we got our second one. Don't mean to judge but I definitely knew that I wasn't talking to the brightest group except the other college kids and some older people. Aware though, had a guy who's from here tell me that if a girl says she's a local he assumes they're a sloot....as in they've actually proved it. Probably over exaggerating but I see what he's talking about.
You typically don't learn these women are **** until you actually date them and then watch those facades drop as they become more relaxed, natural and show you how they really are. Y'all don't hear us though. We fail way more than we succeed, and when it comes to women, don't let your eyes fool you. You might see me with a fly girl and think I'm winning when in reality I may be losing.Do not think that what is hard for you to master is humanly impossible; and if it is humanly possible, consider it to be within your reach.
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