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    How do you cope as an ugly unappealing beta phaggot?

    This is a serious question. Aside from shooting oneself in the head or jumping off a bridge, how do you cope living life when you are the opposite of handsome sexy Chad?

    I'm almost reaching the point of despair.
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    Just gotta keep doing your thing, improving and putting in the effort and hoping.

    I'm not good looking, a tad overweight too, but I cope by
    -highlighting my skills, brain, job, chivalry
    -trying to lose weight
    -keep doing my favorite activities that keep me happy
    -continuing to put myself out there, talking to girls and hanging out
    Goals:

    -lose 10-15 more lbs...

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    Originally Posted by Ninshark View Post
    -continuing to put myself out there, talking to girls and hanging out
    If you're not a handsome Chad you're wasting your time with this.
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    the world is a big place and luckily there are still spots where girls don't only care about if you own a benz and know how to play their mind games

    visit anywhere on this list and you can have a great time

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    If you think you are ugly you have an advantage because you don’t have to worry about rejection. You are ugly, am I right? So, you have nothing to lose if you approach 5 women per day. It is a numbers game, try to improve your communication skills, hit the gym, stay fit and problem solved.
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    Originally Posted by RExpert77 View Post
    If you're not a handsome Chad you're wasting your time with this.
    All I can say is that my efforts are WAY less efficient than Chad's efforts, but it's not a complete waste of time because at the very least I do not become a FAphaggot when I try.
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    -lose 10-15 more lbs...

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    Originally Posted by RExpert77 View Post
    This is a serious question. Aside from shooting oneself in the head or jumping off a bridge, how do you cope living life when you are the opposite of handsome sexy Chad?

    I'm almost reaching the point of despair.
    I am an expert at dealing with this.

    So much to say.

    First, good job coming to misc and seeking counsel instead of doing something stupid that could hurt you physically or your reputation.

    Feel out your emotions. Don't suppress it. Feel it out and use them to act constructively.

    Secondly, sit down some where with a pen and paper, and calm down, and start to make a plan.



    1) Fix your mind
    -be positive
    -let go of hate and resentment you may have for yourself, ppl, women from your past
    -seek therapy, counselors who can help you think more positively and behave more constructively
    -maintain positive behaviors, even in face of disappointments. Don't close off to the world, get jealous, get bitter, get butthurt, get stalkerish, vengeful if things don't go as you wanted.



    2) Fix your social network
    -volunteer to boost rep and increase social network
    -join clubs (sports, comedy, theater, political, whatever motivates you)
    -in both scenarios, be the honest, good dude
    -As you meet more women, strive to form positive platonic relationships with the women first. Let them feel safe around you. These women will vouch for your reputation.
    -IMPORTANT: DON'T GIVE OFF THE VIBE YOU WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH ANY GIRL EARLY ON. IF A GIRL WANTS TO BANG, BANG HER, GAIN THE EXPERIENCE. THEN TREAT HER LIKE A FRIEND AND SEEK NO COMMITMENTS FROM HER. ALMOST IGNORE HER.
    -speed date to practice skills
    -be kind to everyone, be open to friendships to anyone.
    -as you gain more positive experiences, and your # of friends grow, your confidence will grow, your personal swag will increase and blossom.
    -Any rejections you get, you should take in stride, move on quick, on to the next.


    3) Fix your face
    -get plastic surgery. Save $$$ for it. Get the best most experienced you can find.
    -don't waste money on temporary cosmetic creams and crap.
    -DO NOT DO WHAT I DID, WHICH IS OBSESS ALL YOUR TIME AND ENERGY ON YOUR FACE AND UGLINESS. I THOUGHT AFTER MY PLASTIC SURGERY ALL MY PROBLEMS WOULD BE SOLVED. ERRRRR WRONG! EVEN WITH A SLIGHTLY BETTER, I STILL HAD NO FRIENDS, NO GF, NO FWB, BAD REPUTATION.


    Alot of what you need to do is mental. Don't do chit until your mind is right.

    Before I engaged in this plan, I coped by harboring hatred towards ppl, especially women. That anger and hate motivated me in school, work, gym, etc. However I had a sour look on my face. I was not a very friendly person. That kept me ostracized.

    So yes you can become hateful and hard, and use that to protect your sensitive ego and pride.

    Or you can
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    Originally Posted by cinemaxima View Post
    I am an expert at dealing with this.

    So much to say.

    First, good job coming to misc and seeking counsel instead of doing something stupid that could hurt you physically or your reputation.

    Feel out your emotions. Don't suppress it. Feel it out and use them to act constructively.

    Secondly, sit down some where with a pen and paper, and calm down, and start to make a plan.



    1) Fix your mind
    -be positive
    -let go of hate and resentment you may have for yourself, ppl, women from your past
    -seek therapy, counselors who can help you think more positively and behave more constructively
    -maintain positive behaviors, even in face of disappointments. Don't close off to the world, get jealous, get bitter, get butthurt, get stalkerish, vengeful if things don't go as you wanted.



    2) Fix your social network
    -volunteer to boost rep and increase social network
    -join clubs (sports, comedy, theater, political, whatever motivates you)
    -in both scenarios, be the honest, good dude
    -As you meet more women, strive to form positive platonic relationships with the women first. Let them feel safe around you. These women will vouch for your reputation.
    -IMPORTANT: DON'T GIVE OFF THE VIBE YOU WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH ANY GIRL EARLY ON. IF A GIRL WANTS TO BANG, BANG HER, GAIN THE EXPERIENCE. THEN TREAT HER LIKE A FRIEND AND SEEK NO COMMITMENTS FROM HER. ALMOST IGNORE HER.
    -speed date to practice skills
    -be kind to everyone, be open to friendships to anyone.
    -as you gain more positive experiences, and your # of friends grow, your confidence will grow, your personal swag will increase and blossom.
    -Any rejections you get, you should take in stride, move on quick, on to the next.


    3) Fix your face
    -get plastic surgery. Save $$$ for it. Get the best most experienced you can find.
    -don't waste money on temporary cosmetic creams and crap.
    -DO NOT DO WHAT I DID, WHICH IS OBSESS ALL YOUR TIME AND ENERGY ON YOUR FACE AND UGLINESS. I THOUGHT AFTER MY PLASTIC SURGERY ALL MY PROBLEMS WOULD BE SOLVED. ERRRRR WRONG! EVEN WITH A SLIGHTLY BETTER, I STILL HAD NO FRIENDS, NO GF, NO FWB, BAD REPUTATION.


    Alot of what you need to do is mental. Don't do chit until your mind is right.

    Before I engaged in this plan, I coped by harboring hatred towards ppl, especially women. That anger and hate motivated me in school, work, gym, etc. However I had a sour look on my face. I was not a very friendly person. That kept me ostracized.

    So yes you can become hateful and hard, and use that to protect your sensitive ego and pride.

    Or you can
    You actually got cosmetic surgery to improve your looks? Fukk man.
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    Originally Posted by RExpert77 View Post
    If you're not a handsome Chad you're wasting your time with this.
    It's not as black and white a situation as you perceive.

    I've struggled with women my whole life and continue to struggle to this day, and i doubt it's an area of living i'll ever turn around completely and have rampant success with.

    But... I do get the odd girl on occasion, and have come a long way since my teenage years and early 20s, so.... it's not entirely a waste of time.

    Otaku is the most famous example of this kinda predicament, which is to say he can get some success, but it's always a struggle and he rarely gets the quality he desires.
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    U know wat to do OP

    -grab your rifle
    -get in your car

    U know the rest brother, its time for retribution.
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    Originally Posted by y0jimbo View Post
    U know wat to do OP

    -grab your rifle
    -get in your car

    U know the rest brother, its time for retribution.
    I'm not a psycho like you, fortunately.
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    Aside from point #3, cinemaxima gave you good advice.

    What have you done to maximize your looks? Are you jacked and shredded? If not, start grinding the gym and diet. Regular haircuts (every 2-3 weeks) and near daily facial grooming? These things all help with your state of mind/confidence, which has been very negative/low ever since I've known you. PM me a pic, lets see what you working with.

    Have you lowered your standards or smoke shows only like everyone on here?

    What is your wardrobe like? Do you wear nice, fitted clothes? On average, I buy something for my wardrobe every month. I recently had a woman tell me I have more clothes than majority of women and she didn't even see the other rooms in my house where I have more lol. I match my clothes and put in effort even when going to the gym.

    Lastly, are you a good catch; good career, job and personal qualities?

    Achieve all of the above and you should start seeing change for the better. As I always say kids, if what you have been doing to date has not worked, change until there is success.
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    Originally Posted by RExpert77 View Post
    This is a serious question. Aside from shooting oneself in the head or jumping off a bridge, how do you cope living life when you are the opposite of handsome sexy Chad?

    I'm almost reaching the point of despair.
    Beyond fitness & cosmetic surgery (which you have to be v careful with, as some people manage to look worse after it) you can't change ugly.

    You can however change unappealing and beta.

    What is important to keep in mind is that;

    a. many conventionally unattractive people do get partners; I know some. I've met guys who took a bit of getting used to looking at; and they ended up married. (Notably they have great personalities; positive, outgoing, pleasant, interesting, smart, easy to talk to etc.)

    and

    b. even in the absolute 'worst' case scenario you didn't get one .. life is not only about partnering up, there are a dozen ways to enjoy your life. Plenty of people have been long-term single, sometimes through choice i.e. monks & nuns, people who naturally gravitate towards being bachelors/spinsters etc. and they hugely enjoy their lives. Coupling up is just one aspect of life, and one that causes as much chit as it does happiness.
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    Do what every other unaesthetic beta does, grind on school/work.

    As far as attracting girls, you're more or less are stuck with the hand you're dealt. Improving aesthetics takes a lot of work to achieve pretty marginal results, and the entire reason the misc exists because lifting doesn't translate to getting women. "Be more confident", etc is basically asking you to un-**** a lifetime of mental programming, external and internal, that make you who you are. It's far more difficult than just reciting a pithy slogan.

    Chasing money, OTOH, gets you a lot more results for your effort. I'm not going to regurgitate the right wing company line that "poor people don't work hard enough", that's bull****, but there is a pretty positive correlation between work input and dollars output. And the interpersonal dynamics are way easier to manage as well. You can get ahead in school without anyone else's approval, and employers couldn't care less if you're fun, witty, whatever. 98% of the time they just want a reliable bitch. Be that guy and there are results to be had. I'm just sayin'
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    the few girls ive dated all say I am "very attractive" or "handsome" and "nice" or "sweet"

    yet they don't want to be in a relationship with me.. just lmfao @ those lies.

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    Haha you made me laugh bro, you can’t be average or ugly with this body of Adonis, obviously you're kidding.
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    Originally Posted by RExpert77 View Post
    You actually got cosmetic surgery to improve your looks? Fukk man.
    ^yes I did. Basically, I had features at age 16 that made me look tired and old. I lost too much fat on my face during puberty, likely due to my family problems induced by loneliness, depression, poor diet, no exercise, little to smile about in youth. So my face was sunken-in. Also I had hefty bags under my eyes that made me look tired ALL THE TIME and OLD. No girl wants a sunken faced under eye bags skinny fat nerdy niccah. Also had the dreaded burnt lip.

    So I enhanced my face. But that crap cost money. Took me 8 years since age 16 to save enough and do it. During that time, especially after age 20-21, I had an attitude of "well I'm still ugly, why even bother asking this girl out she'd just reject me like the rest, why even bother trying to hang with the cool brahs, they'd just tease me like in High School, why go to this event, they'd just take my picture of my ugly ass and put it on social media".

    Please, please, socialize even if you feel ugly, even if no sex comes from it. Build your reputation with ppl guys and girls. If not you will eventually end up good looking, have money, a house or apartment, a career, but still be FA, no memories, like I was until age 27.

    Originally Posted by Nedo View Post
    Aside from point #3, cinemaxima gave you good advice.

    What have you done to maximize your looks? Are you jacked and shredded? If not, start grinding the gym and diet. Regular haircuts (every 2-3 weeks) and near daily facial grooming? These things all help with your state of mind/confidence, which has been very negative/low ever since I've known you. PM me a pic, lets see what you working with.

    Have you lowered your standards or smoke shows only like everyone on here?

    What is your wardrobe like? Do you wear nice, fitted clothes? On average, I buy something for my wardrobe every month. I recently had a woman tell me I have more clothes than majority of women and she didn't even see the other rooms in my house where I have more lol. I match my clothes and put in effort even when going to the gym.

    Lastly, are you a good catch; good career, job and personal qualities?

    Achieve all of the above and you should start seeing change for the better. As I always say kids, if what you have been doing to date has not worked, change until there is success.
    Yes for #3 I must emphasize that if you have a physical feature on your face that makes you look old or tired or sickly, I say change it. If not, leave it alone, it builds character. Don't pull a michael jackson or kylie jenner. Don't get rid of your hook nose, or your big ears, or your crooked nose. Those are all character traits. But if you have sunken face that makes you look old and sick, gotta enhance that through surgery and diet and exercise too. Women like the energetic look.
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    Originally Posted by FAPhaggot View Post
    Do what every other unaesthetic beta does, grind on school/work.

    As far as attracting girls, you're more or less are stuck with the hand you're dealt. Improving aesthetics takes a lot of work to achieve pretty marginal results, and the entire reason the misc exists because lifting doesn't translate to getting women. "Be more confident", etc is basically asking you to un-**** a lifetime of mental programming, external and internal, that make you who you are. It's far more difficult than just reciting a pithy slogan.

    Chasing money, OTOH, gets you a lot more results for your effort. I'm not going to regurgitate the right wing company line that "poor people don't work hard enough", that's bull****, but there is a pretty positive correlation between work input and dollars output. And the interpersonal dynamics are way easier to manage as well. You can get ahead in school without anyone else's approval, and employers couldn't care less if you're fun, witty, whatever. 98% of the time they just want a reliable bitch. Be that guy and there are results to be had. I'm just sayin'
    Women can work. They don't need your bucks anymore.

    Lifting does not translate to getting women, yes. The moody personality developed over
    time through being bullied, ignored and mocked is almost impossible to get rid of. I would call
    it heartbroken beyond repair.

    Chasing money gives you something to do but at the same time, when you reach the money
    to maybe get plastic surgery, you will be around 30 and it is too late. Catch 22.
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    Originally Posted by RExpert77 View Post
    This is a serious question. Aside from shooting oneself in the head or jumping off a bridge, how do you cope living life when you are the opposite of handsome sexy Chad?

    I'm almost reaching the point of despair.
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    Video games and pron. Obviously.
    I guess you hit both joysticks to cope, right?
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    Originally Posted by RExpert77 View Post
    I guess you hit both joysticks to cope, right?
    PC Master Race. WASD son.
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    if plastic surgery will make you look for normal, attractive, without making wholesale changes to your face, do it. If you can look younger, more energetic, more happy, go for it. Pay for it via loans or credit cards. The earlier the better (skin heals faster when young). Treat it as an investment in yourself.

    One thing I would change is I should have took a year off between high school of college, and worked on my self. Saved money. Get more athletic, buff. Learn a martial art or sport well. Maybe even get a credit card to get the surgery I needed. Then I would have started freshman year alittle wiser, handsomer, smarter than my peers.

    So if you need to take time off, do that.



    And yes the constant mocking, bullying, ignoring makes a persons personality moody, depressed. But more recent memories of success will offset it. You have to be hopeful and push on. If you give up, its FA until you die alone. You'll be that weird uncle who never got married, that strange old man who lives by himself and left all his money to his dog.


    You must FORCE YOURSELF to socialize, and make friends. So that when you eventually become good looking and wealthy, you have ppl around who actually care about you.

    If an opportunity to have fun for a year comes in your lap, take it, you cannot get those years and opportunities back.

    If you are a ugly FA virgin, and a chick with BPD or histrionic pd wants to fuk you, go ahead, yes go ahead. What do you have to lose? Go on trips with the ****. Take her out. Post pics of her on fb. Boost your social network through her. Even if she causes drama and chit and leaves, atleast you got memories, wild sex, some new friends, war stories to tell ppl. Chit you might even get a kid out of it, which may sound crappy now when you are 20 or 30 something, but when you are 50 or 60 something and you watch them during graduation, and you watch his or her first football game, and you walk that girl down the aisle, and you play with your grandkids. The FA doesn't get that.


    Again the worst thing you can do is become a hermit, cyberstalk, get jealous and angry. Bunch of fugly girls out there who will see you as a blank slate. Take advantage.


    Volunteer, join a sports team, join a fitness class, rock climb, hike, paint, drink and draw, go to a concert, etc.

    I kick myself for letting my ugliness keep me from forming memories and I am EXTREMELY thankful of the few friends I had in my 20s who pulled and dragged me to events to have fun. I will die for those ppl (srs).
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    Originally Posted by BrahWhoLifts View Post
    Women can work. They don't need your bucks anymore.

    Lifting does not translate to getting women, yes. The moody personality developed over
    time through being bullied, ignored and mocked is almost impossible to get rid of. I would call
    it heartbroken beyond repair.

    Chasing money gives you something to do but at the same time, when you reach the money
    to maybe get plastic surgery, you will be around 30 and it is too late. Catch 22.
    Nah, I wouldn't recommend it to get women, it's a cope. As one FA brah said "being alone sucks, but being alone and poor sucks more."

    Video games and pron. Obviously.
    ^And that's how you manage free time.
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    U know wat to do OP

    -grab your rifle
    -get in your car

    U know the rest brother, its time for retribution.
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    You seriously have way too much time on your hands bro. lul wtf

    Don't you phaggots have any friends that can wing man for you? Or friends with gf's that can set you up on a double date? Get some better friends.
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    You seriously have way too much time on your hands bro. lul wtf

    Don't you phaggots have any friends that can wing man for you? Or friends with gf's that can set you up on a double date? Get some better friends.
    I don't have any friends. Surely you didn't expect some other response...
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