Vick's Dating Log (v. 2.0) and Miscellaneous Advice

[BlackScorpio91]

No, I haven't emailed her yet. All the girls I date are hhhnnnng.

Girl 5 is 36, 5'3", Brazilian, No kids. She was the one with the dog. She's has natural beauty, that I find VERY attractive. She doesn't even wear makeup. 10/10 personality for sure. Here is a better pic:



Girl 7 replied and then I responded on Sunday evening. She's read the email, but hasn't responded. I was pretty playful and asked some deep questions. I'm wondering if she just doesn't want to put that kind of effort into responding. Like I said, I make women jump through hoops to make sure they are up to my standard. Some just aren't up for the challenge.

Girl 5 is def up for the challenge.





Game in a nutshell = Don't be a chump. If you are a chump, don't be yourself.

I should write a new lesson on passing **** tests. I think this is where most guys fail hard.

You sure do like Hispanic women do you? Was your ex-wife Hispanic?

[meenman83]

I should write a new lesson on passing **** tests. I think this is where most guys fail hard.

**** tests are always amusing. It is even more amusing when you play along then bust their bubble right when they think they've won.

[Nedo]

I should write a new lesson on passing **** tests. I think this is where most guys fail hard.

We'd rather see screen captures of your text game that seems to be getting these bishes wrapped before even meeting

We want....text game, text game!

I would contribute here but I've only been matching with hurt sacks as of late (I don't message them pointlessly Otaku style), haven't been going out and only seeing ex for now. I wash messaging with some 8 or 9 smoke show briefly and she called me out and said "are you always this cocky" and ghost, fukin kunt FUK lol

[bassinyoface]

I'm here gangsta!

[pondus_levo]

You sure do like Hispanic women do you? Was your ex-wife Hispanic?

I have an affinity for women with an exotic look and nice skin.

My ex wife is half Filipino.

We'd rather see screen captures of your text game that seems to be getting these bishes wrapped before even meeting

We want....text game, text game!

I would contribute here but I've only been matching with hurt sacks as of late (I don't message them pointlessly Otaku style), haven't been going out and only seeing ex for now. I wash messaging with some 8 or 9 smoke show briefly and she called me out and said "are you always this cocky" and ghost, fukin kunt FUK lol

Well the only person I am texting right now is girl 5. I don't want to jinx it, but I ll put our first conversation together and post it temporarily, so you can see how creative I am.

I posted this tinder convo with break down from October on kmadigan77s online dating thread.



As promised. First convo with Girl 5:

[Legend1617]

Innnn for lurking mostly

Vick, one dude I wish I would have grown up with along with HZC and a few others.

One day I will probably post my fails and hopefully wins. Until then I got to get over a old girl I failed to sleep with due to my own insecurities and manage to approach a girl or two. In 25 years I have only asked one girl to be my gf. Pretty sad

[pondus_levo]

HZC and I are cool, mostely because I have learned to accept him for who he is, a 10/10 chad, sociopath. You wouldn't learn a damn thing from him when it comes to women.

[BlackScorpio91]

HZC and I are cool, mostely because I have learned to accept him for who he is, a 10/10 chad, sociopath. You wouldn't learn a damn thing from him when it comes to women.

You talking about HayZues Christi or whatever his name is? I thought he was just a troll.

[Legend1617]

^^^^ haha I could learn the dgaf attitude from him and I would think he would be a fun guy in general to be around. + He always has the girls, him and Jamestown are always on a roll.

I use to have a friend that kind of acts like he posts but HZC is more blunt. Girls use to try to hang out with me a lot to get closer to a good friend of mine that they wanted. If I was smart and had the dgaf attitude I could have used that to benefit me.


Most of my experiences were in school and very limited. I have only had one short lived relationship when I was 20.

I would be in a hella trouble now. I could probably start a YouTube channel and make a little money from the amount of cringe moments.

[xvicknumber7x]

HZC has been here longer than me and used to drop straight knowledge in the early days.

[zebraman12]

Innnn for lurking mostly

Vick, one dude I wish I would have grown up with along with HZC and a few others.

One day I will probably post my fails and hopefully wins. Until then I got to get over a old girl I failed to sleep with due to my own insecurities and manage to approach a girl or two. In 25 years I have only asked one girl to be my gf. Pretty sad

She should ask you for a relationship. Understanding can change it all for you.

[rawdawgg]

Jamestown.. I miss that mofo

[awilll]

I'd meet up to be honest. Why not? It can only be good for you as long as you stay in control of your emotions. Do not try to transfer old emotions onto her upon hanging. I am confident that if you go out with the sincere purpose of having a great time, then things with you will be fine.

There's no certain amount of time in which it takes to get over a relationship. My last relationship took me a weekend to get over. My first one took me an entire summer. It's all mind power, man. Just treat her like an individual, focus on having fun, and play it very cool. Stop worrying about other people and go get what you want, man. This isn't a life or death situation, it's just meeting up.

Thanks man. I think you're right. Worst that can happen is it doesn't work out. Set up a date for tomorrow at a local brewery. Just gonna focus on having fun and learning more about her.

As promised. First convo with Girl 5:

You already know this but you are very good at texting. Now that I'm back on the market I need to get better at it. You definitely passed a chit test when she said "bye felicia". Most guys would've responed "haha jk" or something but you just kept up with the charade. You do kind of break the "rules" about not saying lol or using too many emojis but it seems to work for you.

I usually go for some dumb jokes, the convo usually ends up with what interests we share, try to be somewhat witty, and then bring up meeting for drinks or whatever somewhat quickly. Nothing super memorable but has worked for me so far. Don't think I've ever had a convo that long before meeting up. I guess my theory at least with online stuff is that if she finds you attractive then she's most likely already decided if she'd meet you, barring you don't come across as autistic in the convo. And the longer the convo the more likely you are to either mess it up or for one of you to get bored.

[MuckSnapper]

Jamestown.. I miss that mofo

Oh chit I do remember that guy.


Where is he?

[otakutrevan]

I'm really glad for you guys. One day...I'll make a log thread.

[pondus_levo]

You already know this but you are very good at texting. Now that I'm back on the market I need to get better at it. You definitely passed a chit test when she said "bye felicia". Most guys would've responed "haha jk" or something but you just kept up with the charade. You do kind of break the "rules" about not saying lol or using too many emojis but it seems to work for you.

I usually go for some dumb jokes, the convo usually ends up with what interests we share, try to be somewhat witty, and then bring up meeting for drinks or whatever somewhat quickly. Nothing super memorable but has worked for me so far. Don't think I've ever had a convo that long before meeting up. I guess my theory at least with online stuff is that if she finds you attractive then she's most likely already decided if she'd meet you, barring you don't come across as autistic in the convo. And the longer the convo the more likely you are to either mess it up or for one of you to get bored.

I am very sarcastic and make a lot of jokes, so if i don't use LOL or emojies it will just look like I am an *******.

But yeah, when she said "Bye felicia" I was like "awe fuk, bye." And whenever you are thinking "awe fuk, bye", your resolve is being tested.

She does that a lot to me, actually. I just roll with it.

I text for days or even weeks before meeting because I am so good at using as a tool to create attraction, by the time we meet, we can just be ourselves and have fun.

In addition to that, if the conversation gets boring, that means she's not worth my time. Since I'm not looking to just get laid, this is an effective filter for me.

[Nedo]

Thanks for sharing Pondus. We have similar styles. I like how you balance lightly attacking her with also showing her your intellectual side. I just bust theirs balls with smart @ss remarks at any opportunity and only the smoke show got defensive about it, although she wasn't overly engaged to begin with as she was hitting me with short replies and asking nothing in return. Think I might send her one last message saying "not much of a sense of humour, huh" to make her feel like an idiot lol. Fully agree that emoji's and lol's are required so she knows you messing around, especially until she gets to know your sarcastic ways. Lets be real, most *******s don't hit her with this kind of chit as they too busy telling her she is beautiful. I think this is very good chit to post as it allows everyone to learn from each other, especially the struggling guys. Following these principles when talking to women goes a long way guys, take notes.

When they don't engage you back after a few messages, do you just next her or keep on as long as she is answering? Thinking back, any of the women I actually met IRL somewhat engaged me. I have always been persistent provided they are answering me. Might reconsider not wasting time on the non engaging ones.

[jotenko]

I'm really glad for you guys. One day...I'll make a log thread.

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[Nedo]

This is my message history with the smoke show I was talking about (yours truly in blue). After further analysis, I think I made her feel stupid for not knowing how to cook so she got defensive, meh lmao. I just messaged her now again asking how her week went. Decided not to make her feel like a bigger idiot with the "not much of a sense of humour" comment I mentioned earlier lol. Although this was a fail, I would not change my style whatsoever. The purpose of posting this is for the principles brahs (and so we can laugh ) so pay close attention to the principles.

Vick: let me know if you don't want this kind of chit in here bud.

[Luc1fer]

This is my message history with the smoke show I was talking about (yours truly in blue). After further analysis, I think I made her feel stupid for not knowing how to cook so she got defensive, meh lmao. I just messaged her now again asking how her week went. Decided not to make her feel like a bigger idiot with the "not much of a sense of humour" comment I mentioned earlier lol. Although this was a fail, I would not change my style whatsoever. The purpose of posting this is for the principles brahs (and so we can laugh ) so pay close attention to the principles.

Vick: let me know if you don't want this kind of chit in here bud.

Really bad start - she's already being dishonest.

[Nedo]

Really bad start - she's already being dishonest.

Wutt?? Elaborate.

[MuckSnapper]

Wutt?? Elaborate.

Idk but are you always so excited when you talk to chicks? lol

[Nedo]

Idk but are you always so excited when you talk to chicks? lol

The way you say chit in text matters as well. You want to seem vibrant, energetic, fun and positive.

[MuckSnapper]

The way you say chit in text matters as well. You want to seem vibrant, fun and positive.

Not even hatin bro whatever works for you.

I used to be like that and it always seemed they lost interest quick.

Now I just keep it genuine for the most part. Whether I'm disinterested, busy, excited, super into it, etc..

[Nedo]

Not even hatin bro whatever works for you.

I used to be like that and it always seemed they lost interest quick.

Now I just keep it genuine for the most part. Whether I'm disinterested, busy, excited, super into it, etc..

You sure you ain't talking about boring chit?

[MuckSnapper]

You sure you ain't talking about boring chit?

No my text convos are very fun with girls I'm interested in. (and they return it)

I'm just saying I don't act excited as some sort of method. I just act however I'm feeling, specifically to the girl I'm talking to.

Not saying you don't or anything lol

[Nedo]

I just act however I'm feeling, specifically to the girl I'm talking to.

Not me. Always stay fun. The only time she should be able to sense if you feeling off is in person and even then try not to show it if you having a bad day, especially until you guys get comfortable and certainly don't take it out on her.

[MuckSnapper]

Not me. Always stay fun. The only time she should be able to sense if you feeling off is in person and even then try not to show it if you having a bad day, especially until you guys get comfortable and certainly don't take it out on her.

Right on man. Whatever works for you brother.


I've had better success keeping things genuine personally

[xvicknumber7x]

I don't mind what goes on in this thread tbh, it's a good general strategy resource.

I will text that way with girls I meet online, via app, etc. (I don't use those tools anymore tbh, and likely will not again.) For girls I just met in person I don't text that way at all. I just keep it brief and text plans geenrally, that is unless she really finds a way to intrigue me. Then I'll get more talkative. I would personally feel exhausted after text conversations like Nedo's and pondus', especially if they weren't giving much back.

I have gone on text sprees with girls in the past who have provoked my interest and it generally has evolved into long paragraphs and lots of back and forth / instant response, etc. But that's after you know the fish is on the hook.

[Nedo]

I don't mind what goes on in this thread tbh, it's a good general strategy resource.

I will text that way with girls I meet online, via app, etc. (I don't use those tools anymore tbh, and likely will not again.) For girls I just met in person I don't text that way at all. I just keep it brief and text plans geenrally, that is unless she really finds a way to intrigue me. Then I'll get more talkative. I would personally feel exhausted after text conversations like Nedo's and pondus', especially if they weren't giving much back.

I have gone on text sprees with girls in the past who have provoked my interest and it generally has evolved into long paragraphs and lots of back and forth / instant response, etc. But that's after you know the fish is on the hook.

For me, if she is a texter, I will go with it and I don't mind. I will only initiate her at a 1:3 or 1:4 ratio though (me:her). If you don't go with it, you are suggesting that you ain't interested IMO.

Yeah when they send me paragraphs it is annoying because I like to address everything she mentioned so it takes much longer to respond.