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    How did your first long term relationship fail? What would you do differently?

    As for me i would stop showering her with attention

    What did you guys learn the hard way that you wish was common knowledge?
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    I would have showed her more attention. I was in college and didn't giva damn about anything.
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    Only a couple regrets from that relationship. It was my first and during my years of 18-21. I would have been more open to hangouts that didn't involve smashing or drinking, and would have been more open about how I felt early on and not do the dumb games. However with that being said, she was a crazy sloot so I do not miss that relationship at all
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    What did you guys learn the hard way that you wish was common knowledge?
    Once it gets bad, it never gets better.
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    Its really kind of impossible in todays society to have a real meaningful relationship when you are 18-24. People change a lot in that time period. I still was in my first real relationship and honestly life pulled us in two different directions and we slowly stopped hanging out. The social pressure of wanting to hang out with different people and experience different things is too much. My biggest worry at the time was what party I was going to or where me and the boys were gonna get yucky at. Most girls at that age are the same except want to add exorbitant amounts of dik to the equation.
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    I wouldn't change a thing. If all of my previous relationship didn't end, I'd have never found the great woman I am with currently, and have been for a few years now.
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    It failed because she cheated and I was too weak to do anything about it. 18-19.
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    I wouldn't do that relationship at all.
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    I first relationships always end.
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    She moved away for college. I would NEVER to a long distance relationship again.
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    My first real one? I was needy, I think. Learned from it. Never again.
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    it ended because she wanted/had to move to california for work. she wanted to work in the movie industry. she also cheated on me right before she left. I would never have moved to california so the only things I would have done differently was bang her more and actually talked about the future sooner and not waste the last 6 months before we broke it off when it really got bad. All the time before that 6 months was actually really good and we were together for about 4 years.
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    Originally Posted by StrongRightArm View Post
    As for me i would stop showering her with attention

    What did you guys learn the hard way that you wish was common knowledge?
    It was back in 2005, I was 23. I started playing runescape 18-20 hours a day and I did it for 10 months in row. I stopped hanging out with her and she was forced to leave me after 5 years together. I in the learderboard top 10 in few swills in the game, I couldn't waste any time dating lol.

    I went NC, didn't beg or call her even. It took her 6 years to reach out to me lol
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    I was haunted for a while. First GF in HS... we would typically hang out at her house making out all the time. Started to make my moves and I remember feeling her up and moving downstairs. Sometime around when I was around her panty line opened my eyes (it was dark) and her mom was standing there in the doorway just staring at us. It felt like she stared for 30 minutes. If I could go back, I'd bang the **** out of her right there.
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    I broke up with her via text, on valentines day, while she was in the hospital begging for me to come see her.

    I went no contact after that and she texted me for months until she found a new guy. I am happy for her.

    It was back in 2005, I was 23. I started playing runescape 18-20 hours a day and I did it for 10 months in row. I stopped hanging out with her and she was forced to leave me after 5 years together.
    I went on a date with a girl who broke up with her bf in the same scenario only he was playing StarCraft II when it came out.

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    I wouldn't change a thing even tho I made tons of dumb mistakes because who wants to be with the girl from their first relationship?
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    Just got tired of her $hit so told her to fk off.... And I wouldn't change a damn thing even if I could...

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    It ended because of her emotional issues, I did nothing wrong and I wouldn't do anything differently
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    First 'proper' relationship I was 19 until I was 24. We had a break when I was 23 for 3 months. I was just getting myself together then got back with her.

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    My first "real" relationship didn't happen until I was 26. Dated her for over a year and got complacent. I should have ended things sooner but thought I was thinking too much and just go with the flow. A few months later she dumped me over text. None of my friends or family liked her anyways so overall I just learned if I'm not happy just walk away because chances are it won't get better.
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    The grass is not greener. It's brown as fu*k.

    I would have tried to work things out and put more effort into counseling.

    I settled down and married my first relationship and kept wondering what dating was like, and felt that since he was older I missed the whole going out phase of my college years. As he was older, I stayed in with him while my friends did the bar scene.

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    I broke up with her via text, on valentines day, while she was in the hospital begging for me to come see her.

    I went no contact after that and she texted me for months until she found a new guy. I am happy for her.


    What I would change? Lack of attention? And probably focus more on spending time with her. I worked like 55-65 hours a week during the beginning so I thought she'd be use to me being tired and chit and not wanting to go out.


    I went on a date with a girl who broke up with her bf in the same scenario only he was playing StarCraft II when it came out.

    Glad to see you had your priorities in order (SRS)
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    I got depressed and lost my self worth, started a new job and worked stupid hours, got lazy at home. I would have thought about the impacts of my behaviour on her and treated her how she deserved to be treated.
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    after almost 5 years I got bored of her complaints and literally closed the door in front of her
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    Don't know, don't care. I know I gave it my all so no second thoughts looking back. There were good times along side the bad so it wasn't a complete waste of time.

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    It was back in 2005, I was 23. I started playing runescape 18-20 hours a day and I did it for 10 months in row. I stopped hanging out with her and she was forced to leave me after 5 years together. I in the learderboard top 10 in few swills in the game, I couldn't waste any time dating lol.

    I went NC, didn't beg or call her even. It took her 6 years to reach out to me lol
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    The distance, mostly. We met in Germany a week after my 19th birthday. He was 21 and from the US. I was from Australia. We made it last for almost three years and would typically go 3-4 months between visits.

    I was madly in love with him. But the distance killed it after a while. And we had no concrete plans to end up in the same spot together... until he started talking about marriage... then I bailed. I felt too young for that chit.

    Broke the poor boy's heart and he didn't talk to me for years. But now we're buddies and in contact again

    Other relationships... boyfriend #2 was emotionally/physically abusive... boyfriend #3 was an immature, whiny, pathetic little boy who cheated on me... boyfriend #4 so far seems normal. Thank god. If this one doesn't work out then I'll give up on men altogether.
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    She cheated on me then dumped me for the guy she cheated with. He dumped her like 2 weeks later. In hindsight I would have:

    -Stood up for myself once in awhile
    -Learn to walk away when things are over or should be over
    -Stay away from a girl with a half dozen orbiters validating her bad behavior
    -Realize my personal happiness is better than the fleeting contentment of a woman with a litany of emotional problems.
    -With the previous point, realize not only can I not be a "savior" to a woman like that, but it's not worth it 100% of the time anyways.

    The worst part was that I was just desperate and FA at the time so I was willing to put up with a lot for the sake of finally getting a girlfriend. Those of you FAs whining about not having a girlfriend and thinking getting a girlfriend will fill some sort of void in your life and make everything all better, need to take our advice to heart or end up worse for the wear.
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    Originally Posted by 1slo5oh View Post
    ... I wouldn't change a damn thing even if i could...
    Even the horrible $hit i have been through i would do all over again to be where i am today
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    Originally Posted by nctarheels21 View Post
    She moved away for college. I would NEVER to a long distance relationship again.
    Why not?
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