A lot of you guys will know me from this thread:
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...post1464482241
And I guess this can be considered a sort of conclusion to it.
I've been a kissless virgin for nearly 21 years of my life with seemingly no prospects of every escaping FA territory. And then I got extreme oneitis feels for this girl I know (sister of friend's girlfriend). Finally decided to start really chatting her up and stop being so afraid like I have been all my life.
She's 2.5 years younger, so while she's set to graduate high school this year I'm in college states away, and in the whole period we've been talking I haven't been able to see her at all.
But then this weekend after like a month and a half of just text conversations we finally met up as we were both visiting my friend and her sister (friend's gf), along with my brother and a couple other friends who tagged along for the trip.
Come night we were all watching a movie and me and her were together on one side of the bed and little by little we went from sitting next to each other to cuddling to groping and making out (all firsts for me but it felt so natural when it happened). Throughout the weekend we were constantly doing stuff like that and we even slept together at night (as in slept in the same bed, no sex obviously especially not with the others in the same room lol).
By the end of the weekend we talked and she basically told me how much she loves me and asked how I felt about making things official and dating, which I more than happily said yes to.
Moral of the story: I thought I was fuked beyond hope and could've never imagined I'd be in the position I am now. Over the years I've suffered with my fellow FA brahs on here and it's really tragic because I feel like this place sucks you in and makes you feel as if you don't have a chance if you're lacking this or that. And it's a devestating downward spiral, but I'd hate to see anyone on here just give up. Cliche incoming, but believe in yourselves brahs.
Cliffs:
- FA Kissless Virgin for almost 21 years
- Felt hopeless, but something clicked and I began to really make an effort in bettering myself and putting forth more effort rather than being afraid of rejection. Took brief break from misc
- Start texting oneitis a lot but she currently a senior in hs so can't see her in person ever
- Finally meet up this past weekend
- No longer KV and tfw gf
Not trying to necessarily be the guy who finally gets a kiss and a girlfriend and acts like he suddenly knows everything. I just don't want to see people get stuck in the same cycle of negativity and hopelessness that I was in, because I feel like a lot of "FA" posters here underestimate themselves and make it seem like there's some rigid line between them and normal people. In reality it's a very thin one and most of the time it comes down to very simply things you can do (maybe not in all cases, but you know what I mean).
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10-24-2016, 05:06 PM #1
Well Misc I Did It. Officially No Longer FA
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better than nothing at that point i guess. i lost my v around that age though so you're not alone
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Bitches will be throwing themselves at uni now. You'll feel good, won't cheat and maybe even break up with your current gf since you're getting all kinds of new attention. You've finally made it. You dump your girlfriend and the girls can smell it. You return to forever alone.
So may I recommend avoiding that terrible fate and just cheating on her(Srs)
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proud of u bro!!!! GJDM!!!!
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10-24-2016, 05:35 PM #28
Definitely not brah. I'm almost 21. I don't see how you're in any worse of a position than I am, just because you're three years older. It's not like I used the resources I have in college to get a girl, considering she doesn't even go to my school.
Seriously do me a favor brah and don't give up. Three extra years older is absolutely nothing in the grand scheme of things and 10 years from now you'll absolutely hate yourself wishing you tried harder when you were younger. You're gonna make it.*Depressed turned positive crew*
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10-24-2016, 05:42 PM #29
You're next HM, brah. I believe in you.
Brah I literally talked to NOBODY a few months ago. But I recently started to reconnect with some friends from high school and even more recently I've actually made some friends in college. Heck, I've even gotten close to some people who work at this cafe I go to now and then.
You gotta stop letting your mind deter you from socializing with random people and making connections. Go wherever and talk to anybody. It really starts with extremely menial interactions and develops over time. Also don't be afraid to make the first move and ask people if they want to hang out because I swear most of the time they're interested but they're just as nervous to do it as you are. I can really only say so much, you have to learn and adapt through practice and trial and error, as far as coming off as friendly and sociable, but you'll get it.*Depressed turned positive crew*
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